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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, same goes for women lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men "

Bad meet.....? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, same goes for women lol."

Did you not see my grinning last sentence Shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, same goes for women lol.

Did you not see my grinning last sentence Shag? "
lol and yes I did as well, good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men "

just like your recent pictures form mid 2014

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men "

Says the woman with pictures from December 2013

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Oooh there's a story here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all fairness her hand won't have altered greatly since 2013

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

just like your recent pictures form mid 2014"

The pics I send (did you note that in the OP, SEND), are this year... I'll even check the months if you like.

Sorry if you wanted to catch me out as a hypocrite - it ain't happening sunshine!

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By *ralextacyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

95% recent here and true age... my mum told me so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men "

Let's face it most people wouldn't put a 'bad' picture of themselves on a site that's predominantly based around animalistic visually simulating meets for casual sex! So I think a certain amount of pragmatism is needed from both sides. I've put face pictures on here that are honest and I'd say average. That's probably silly as I get turned down for meets regularly, but when I do meet people they're not shocked as I've posted pics of me as I am today (I usually get told I look better in the flesh,big ego boost that one)

The people I've met (and I've met a seriously stunning woman recent who I am hoping to see lots more of) have met an honest guy with honest pics. If more people tried this the world would be a better place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In all fairness her hand won't have altered greatly since 2013"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's recent though? I've got photos from the last 4/5 months on here, I've also got a couple that are older. Up until 3 months ago I was pregnant - so a more 'recent' picture could be a lot more misleading than an old one for me.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

Let's face it most people wouldn't put a 'bad' picture of themselves on a site that's predominantly based around animalistic visually simulating meets for casual sex! So I think a certain amount of pragmatism is needed from both sides. I've put face pictures on here that are honest and I'd say average. That's probably silly as I get turned down for meets regularly, but when I do meet people they're not shocked as I've posted pics of me as I am today (I usually get told I look better in the flesh,big ego boost that one)

The people I've met (and I've met a seriously stunning woman recent who I am hoping to see lots more of) have met an honest guy with honest pics. If more people tried this the world would be a better place. "

I do....every picture of me is bad

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

just like your recent pictures form mid 2014

The pics I send (did you note that in the OP, SEND), are this year... I'll even check the months if you like.

Sorry if you wanted to catch me out as a hypocrite - it ain't happening sunshine!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

Let's face it most people wouldn't put a 'bad' picture of themselves on a site that's predominantly based around animalistic visually simulating meets for casual sex! So I think a certain amount of pragmatism is needed from both sides. I've put face pictures on here that are honest and I'd say average. That's probably silly as I get turned down for meets regularly, but when I do meet people they're not shocked as I've posted pics of me as I am today (I usually get told I look better in the flesh,big ego boost that one)

The people I've met (and I've met a seriously stunning woman recent who I am hoping to see lots more of) have met an honest guy with honest pics. If more people tried this the world would be a better place. "

I've had that too (looking better in the flesh and yet true to my photo ).

Honesty, why is it so big a deal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

Let's face it most people wouldn't put a 'bad' picture of themselves on a site that's predominantly based around animalistic visually simulating meets for casual sex! So I think a certain amount of pragmatism is needed from both sides. I've put face pictures on here that are honest and I'd say average. That's probably silly as I get turned down for meets regularly, but when I do meet people they're not shocked as I've posted pics of me as I am today (I usually get told I look better in the flesh,big ego boost that one)

The people I've met (and I've met a seriously stunning woman recent who I am hoping to see lots more of) have met an honest guy with honest pics. If more people tried this the world would be a better place.

I do....every picture of me is bad "

As if I've got eyes u know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

just like your recent pictures form mid 2014

The pics I send (did you note that in the OP, SEND), are this year... I'll even check the months if you like.

Sorry if you wanted to catch me out as a hypocrite - it ain't happening sunshine!"

but public pictures are equally important. since posting them the body can change a lot. you could go from chubby to huge in a year. or from chubby to skinny in the same time.

not saying your chubby though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My most recent pic for you OP and I am indeed 42 as I claim to be!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's recent though? I've got photos from the last 4/5 months on here, I've also got a couple that are older. Up until 3 months ago I was pregnant - so a more 'recent' picture could be a lot more misleading than an old one for me."

Recent isn't 3, 4, 5+ years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

just like your recent pictures form mid 2014

The pics I send (did you note that in the OP, SEND), are this year... I'll even check the months if you like.

Sorry if you wanted to catch me out as a hypocrite - it ain't happening sunshine!

but public pictures are equally important. since posting them the body can change a lot. you could go from chubby to huge in a year. or from chubby to skinny in the same time.

not saying your chubby though."

You have no idea what is in my friends and private pics. I am the same dress size now as I was then, and I was chubby lol, then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's recent though? I've got photos from the last 4/5 months on here, I've also got a couple that are older. Up until 3 months ago I was pregnant - so a more 'recent' picture could be a lot more misleading than an old one for me.

Recent isn't 3, 4, 5+ years ago."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My most recent pic for you OP and I am indeed 42 as I claim to be! "

I've fabbed a few. Not helping my unquenched libido

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree OP, previous pic was from Nov 2014, so updated in Oct 2015 as was getting to its anniversary.

I'm not one for taking selfies (not very photogenic at all far too fugly) so I expect my next one will be Oct 2016! I'm not in the mood for updating every other week though I don't change *that* much!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree OP, previous pic was from Nov 2014, so updated in Oct 2015 as was getting to its anniversary.

I'm not one for taking selfies (not very photogenic at all far too fugly) so I expect my next one will be Oct 2016! I'm not in the mood for updating every other week though I don't change *that* much!"

I'm surprised more people don't agree, unless they're working

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a couple of more recent pics for my friends. Yes more recent than Oct this year .

So come on guys (and gals), buck up and get those honest pics posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

just like your recent pictures form mid 2014

The pics I send (did you note that in the OP, SEND), are this year... I'll even check the months if you like.

Sorry if you wanted to catch me out as a hypocrite - it ain't happening sunshine!"

Oooo I do enjoy these (pulls up chair and gets coffee n bikkies at the ready)

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

will a photoshopped one do? It'll make me look less wrinkly and give me a real shower fresh look..

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men "

Indeed it does apply to women - I have met some women and couples off here who think that it is automatically assumed that everyone will deduct at least 5 years from their real age.... ...almost as if it were so kind of unwritten rule applied by all old school swingers...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"will a photoshopped one do? It'll make me look less wrinkly and give me a real shower fresh look.. "

Was it your cock you photoshopped?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

Indeed it does apply to women - I have met some women and couples off here who think that it is automatically assumed that everyone will deduct at least 5 years from their real age.... ...almost as if it were so kind of unwritten rule applied by all old school swingers..."

Well I'm 42 then... Suits me (if EVERYONE did it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, I'm much better looking in real life - you could only be pleasantly surprised (even with my tongue planted firmly in my cheek)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

Indeed it does apply to women - I have met some women and couples off here who think that it is automatically assumed that everyone will deduct at least 5 years from their real age.... ...almost as if it were so kind of unwritten rule applied by all old school swingers..."

Oh and I met someone a while back who took 10 years off (no you cannot find out from my veris ).

It was obvious on meeting him .

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

Indeed it does apply to women - I have met some women and couples off here who think that it is automatically assumed that everyone will deduct at least 5 years from their real age.... ...almost as if it were so kind of unwritten rule applied by all old school swingers...

Oh and I met someone a while back who took 10 years off (no you cannot find out from my veris ).

It was obvious on meeting him ."

I did meet a couple where she was at least 5 years older than claimed on their profile and he was 62 instead of 52!

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

Indeed it does apply to women - I have met some women and couples off here who think that it is automatically assumed that everyone will deduct at least 5 years from their real age.... ...almost as if it were so kind of unwritten rule applied by all old school swingers...

Oh and I met someone a while back who took 10 years off (no you cannot find out from my veris ).

It was obvious on meeting him .

I did meet a couple where she was at least 5 years older than claimed on their profile and he was 62 instead of 52! "

As for their pics - well I don't know how long ago they must have been taken but then they had been swingers for pretty much all their married life...I would guess around the mid 1990's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happen last week, end of meet

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Happen last week, end of meet "

Well good on you for not going through with it - such a disappointment and waste of time - why oh why do some people persist in doing it????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

Indeed it does apply to women - I have met some women and couples off here who think that it is automatically assumed that everyone will deduct at least 5 years from their real age.... ...almost as if it were so kind of unwritten rule applied by all old school swingers...

Oh and I met someone a while back who took 10 years off (no you cannot find out from my veris ).

It was obvious on meeting him .

I did meet a couple where she was at least 5 years older than claimed on their profile and he was 62 instead of 52!

As for their pics - well I don't know how long ago they must have been taken but then they had been swingers for pretty much all their married life...I would guess around the mid 1990's "

They get found out ! So why lie grrrr. I understand trying to get around age filters but they could be honest in their profile.

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By *ickomxxxMan
over a year ago

Cornwall

Simple solution i use--ask to cam with them before the meet--the timewasters ALWAYS have a reason why they cannot do that, its broken, blah blah

A pre-meet telecon helps too and always have a face fit meet to check the chemistry

Met a couple a while back who looked nothing like their pics--waste of time on that occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men "

we get this often and its not on also just looking at some profile pics you can see some guys are like 10 to 15 years older than they say ..we really dont understand why people do this ..and bet its not just some men some women are doing the same

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"will a photoshopped one do? It'll make me look less wrinkly and give me a real shower fresh look..

Was it your cock you photoshopped? "

If I load a photoshopped pic up I'll let you know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"will a photoshopped one do? It'll make me look less wrinkly and give me a real shower fresh look..

Was it your cock you photoshopped?

If I load a photoshopped pic up I'll let you know "

Shall I expect an anaconda?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

just like your recent pictures form mid 2014"

glad you pointed that out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please, please, please give a very recent pic of yourselves, and your real age to potential meets.

It might just save embarrassment for one or both parties.

This may apply to women, but I meet men

just like your recent pictures form mid 2014

glad you pointed that out "

Another one with assumptions?

Bless

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