FabSwingers.com forum: Hidden Agenda

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are we all a little guilty of having some form of "hidden agenda"

As an example the "kiss -snog -fuck - avoid" or the "fabbing" threads that appear; are they sometimes when the OP throws it out there to go "fishing"

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ps; yes I do read profiles when nice things said

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

What's your hidden agenda OP?!

A bit of traffic past your profile?! A bit of attention?! Let's face it, a lot of people here fully admit to loving the attention!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes and some agendas aren't very well concealed. It makes me smile to myself.

My not hidden agenda is being nosey and dishing out my opinion

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have a hidden agenda. If I ever find it, I'll be able to chair my meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh OP, I've uncovered a fair few!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm just aiming for world domination. It even says so on my calling card. My agenda isn't hidden, although the secret volcano base is. Although I can only test fire rockets after dark due to a letter from the pesky council.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I unashamably "perv" at peoples profiles all the time - do I do that if its someone responding in a thread here - I might, but its NOT why I post a thread in first place

For those that don't know me (and that's a lot), I am a Gobby Chatterbox and will try to stir imagination in the posts I place here

But would agree with some comments here, your right to be cynical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To some extents the forum is a shop window and what you post and your profile (on click through) is your window dressing.

Some peoples agendas are very clear (there's someone posting a few new threads today for example which are clearly very thinly veiled 'aren't I great ladies' posts) others are more subtle.

But I'm quite sure most people's agendas on the site will have a similar core theme : to be noticed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I join in the fabbing threads when i'm bored, gotta say i enjoyed finding some 3 sum pics and that today so i might play them more often.

Otherwise i don't need an agenda, get plenty of interest and have even stopped anyone new from messaging me today, quite liking that but will probably take it off tomorrow coz i had something planned that needs my filters open.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

My agenda is to have a laugh and maybe get some great sex along the way.

Some agendas are not so hidden either. Those "look at me" people aren't always as hidden with their agendas though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To some extents the forum is a shop window and what you post and your profile (on click through) is your window dressing.

Some peoples agendas are very clear (there's someone posting a few new threads today for example which are clearly very thinly veiled 'aren't I great ladies' posts) others are more subtle.

But I'm quite sure most people's agendas on the site will have a similar core theme : to be noticed! "

People can usually see through that shit though. If they can't, they are an ideal match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the ones where guys ask if you're into something, then use that as an excuse to pm you for dirty chat...fallen for that a few times personally.

the cliquey topics are the only ones i'll definitely i give a miss and bnot even open them, not much point posting in them and they're usually boring.

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By *lay1098sMan
over a year ago

LEICESTER

think were probably all guilty of looking for hidden agendas in what people say, albeit sometimes hiding our own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes post on those threads to see who will ignore me for someone higher up. Earlier someone hit a new record of choosing someone who had posted 11 hours earlier on a "poster above" type thread. I laughed for a while over that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all a bit of a game at times ~ hidden agendas are usually easily spotted & people aren't always what they seem to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people get accused of having a hidden agenda when in fact they're just answering a question or expressing an opinion honestly. Other times the not-so-hidden agenda is incredibly obvious to everyone except the poster.

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By *roffGentlemanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Nothing wrong with putting your profile out there by responding to said posts. We are all on a swinging website.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we all a little guilty of having some form of "hidden agenda""
I admit that I do.

My hidden agenda is to see if there might be any young, suitable, and local people to bump in to at any of my next club visits.

But then eventually I just get dragged in to all sorts of threads once I'm logged in.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

The concept of the "hidden agenda" round here differs from mine....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm just here for the shagging.

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

dunno.....suppose my hidden agenda sometimes is trying to get tips in what to do and what not to do in a meet etc be it social or otherwise?

that and sometimes like a horny little chimp I can be I tend to perv and fab a few pictures I Like...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just here for the shagging."

Yeah I didn't realise we had to hide this fact.

So in light of tthis I should say I am totally not here for free ice cream absolutely no sir

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