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Love at first sight.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never believed in this rubbish, but wow! Wow and wow! Met a guy just over a week ago, instant attraction and chemistry. Seen him 3 times since then, and I've turned into the woman I said I would never be. Ffs, help me before its too late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Never believed in this rubbish, but wow! Wow and wow! Met a guy just over a week ago, instant attraction and chemistry. Seen him 3 times since then, and I've turned into the woman I said I would never be. Ffs, help me before its too late. "

Is it what you wanted ? - is he free and single ?? how as he reacted to your meets??

If the answer is positive to those, then fill your boots, what you got to lose, unless he curbs your activity

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Never believed in this rubbish, but wow! Wow and wow! Met a guy just over a week ago, instant attraction and chemistry. Seen him 3 times since then, and I've turned into the woman I said I would never be. Ffs, help me before its too late.

Is it what you wanted ? - is he free and single ?? how as he reacted to your meets??

If the answer is positive to those, then fill your boots, what you got to lose, unless he curbs your activity "

He's a swinger, he tells me the same, not had these feelings for anyone in 2 years of swinging. Just a bit scared to give myself to someone again.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It isn't love. You like him an awful lot and you fancy each other like mad but it's not love. It might turn in to love though and if that's what you both want I hope it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It isn't love. You like him an awful lot and you fancy each other like mad but it's not love. It might turn in to love though and if that's what you both want I hope it does "

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

At the moment I'd say it's more lust than love......hopefully it will turn out that way for you both. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea I need to take a chill pill, and see how it pans out. It's just so strange after 2 years to hit like this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Be*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on a dating site and it was certainly love at first sight for us. From the moment ours eyes met we have never spent a day apart and it's been nearly three years since that time. When you know! You know you know!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a woman on here recently and I've had similar feelings. She's my last thought of a night and the first thought of a morning. I'd not go as bold as to say love just yet (never say never after all) but she's certainly made me reevaluate myself.

We've seen each other three times and we are doing so again on Friday! I can't wait!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We met on a dating site and it was certainly love at first sight for us. From the moment ours eyes met we have never spent a day apart and it's been nearly three years since that time. When you know! You know you know!! "

This, this and this, seeing him again tomorrow, we can't stop texting and phoning each other. Wonderful but scary journey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've met a woman on here recently and I've had similar feelings. She's my last thought of a night and the first thought of a morning. I'd not go as bold as to say love just yet (never say never after all) but she's certainly made me reevaluate myself.

We've seen each other three times and we are doing so again on Friday! I can't wait! "

I totally get the reevaluate thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did with us

Married last month

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did with us

Married last month "

Congratulations, that's lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Never believed in this rubbish, but wow! Wow and wow! Met a guy just over a week ago, instant attraction and chemistry. Seen him 3 times since then, and I've turned into the woman I said I would never be. Ffs, help me before its too late. "

Why do you want help? Just enjoy the moment. Go with the flow. Let it develop into whatever it's going to be. I think it's fantastic that you've found someone who feels the same way. So I say to you again. Enjoy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Never believed in this rubbish, but wow! Wow and wow! Met a guy just over a week ago, instant attraction and chemistry. Seen him 3 times since then, and I've turned into the woman I said I would never be. Ffs, help me before its too late.

Why do you want help? Just enjoy the moment. Go with the flow. Let it develop into whatever it's going to be. I think it's fantastic that you've found someone who feels the same way. So I say to you again. Enjoy!!! "

Thanks, it's just scary to fall for someone. Nsa sex is what I'm used to, this emotionally charged sex is wonderful, but worrying.

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Don't confuse love with lust. You're having fun. Go and enjoy yaself x

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I fell in lust and I'm still in lust but I know those feelings are changing and getting deeper...

I maybe heading for a fall but I'm gonna take that chance...

You don't get them everyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fell in lust and I'm still in lust but I know those feelings are changing and getting deeper...

I maybe heading for a fall but I'm gonna take that chance...

You don't get them everyday."

Bless you x

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By *ymruambythCouple
over a year ago

grantham

IMO love at first sight really always means 'lust' at first sight.

Problem with that is that lust coupled with insecurities we all have, makes us psychologically believe life is suddenly all rainbows and unicorns. We can't get enough, don't want to be apart, think about them all the time....

All completely irrational stuff which usually comes collapsing down when washing his underwear whilst he is snoring on the sofa in front of match of the day and letting off wet farts...

Enjoy the ride though, as it's pretty exhilarating and who knows...maybe it will turn into real 'love'

Just don't go leaping off to Gretna Green!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fall in love every time i look at my hotlist but the heartbreak of having to log off is just too much of a burden to bear

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I fall in love every time i look at my hotlist but the heartbreak of having to log off is just too much of a burden to bear "

We're so similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a lovely post

I know you've been hurt in the past but just remember that he's not the person who hurt you and your not the same person either..

Now putting that aside, enjoy the butterflies you get when you see his name come up on the phone, the endless flirty messages, the love that's In the air.. It's so special when two people feel the same, like an electric current

Have fun

CC xx

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Aw nice thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh it's an amazing feeling when you really click with someone!

Don't think too much, just enjoy it and see what happens

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na ive had love at first message... Well abit exaggerated after 2 then U think I'm kidding! ha

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

{R (male) comments} Not thought about this before, but, logically - in any place where you meet lots of different folk - with work, travelling - and swinging(!) - there is a chance you will meet someone where you just feel that mysterious force.

My thought is - tread carefully and test-out whether this is for real... Maybe "vanilla" meets and see whether you both still feel "lit up"? Then it probably is real...

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

I went to a party with a lady I was on here with and walked in seen a lady with her fella and thought fk me I want her she thought the same we left party next day and I was with her 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it hunni, what do you have to loose after all we are all looking for that one special person, it's bound to happen to all of us one day.

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By *argon15Man
over a year ago

Preston

Just go with the flo what will be will be enjoy yourself x he might just be the one especially if you both have the same feelings about sex etc...

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

We have been so conditioned how to think, that we have forgotten how to ignore the rules.

We are constantly bombarded with someone else's ideas of love and worse still "soul mates!".

Just go with the flow of the universe and see where it takes you... Don't fight it man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Update: after a couple more meets, I've gone meeeehhhh. Oh well was good while it lasted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oops last message was supposed to be from this profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Never believed in this rubbish, but wow! Wow and wow! Met a guy just over a week ago, instant attraction and chemistry. Seen him 3 times since then, and I've turned into the woman I said I would never be. Ffs, help me before its too late. "

Ok.

Walk away.

...but you won't...we never do xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Update: after a couple more meets, I've gone meeeehhhh. Oh well was good while it lasted. "

Always the way , shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Never believed in this rubbish, but wow! Wow and wow! Met a guy just over a week ago, instant attraction and chemistry. Seen him 3 times since then, and I've turned into the woman I said I would never be. Ffs, help me before its too late. "

Go for it ! It's great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Never believed in this rubbish, but wow! Wow and wow! Met a guy just over a week ago, instant attraction and chemistry. Seen him 3 times since then, and I've turned into the woman I said I would never be. Ffs, help me before its too late. "

Go with the flow, I did we were together 17 years, sadly my true love passed away. I still love her always will

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Interesting thread as we met on here, and the attraction was instant too. We had messaged a few weeks before and had so much in common, and our first two meets we just chatted and chatted. I too was on here to avoid any relationship because I had enough going on in my life. Now, a couple of days short of a year later, we are living together and he puts up with me watching match of the day, I put up with his snoring, and both of us love each other's wet farts .... no, its not putting up with, it's just loving everything about the person who makes you feel so comfortable and so excited at the same time. We do spend every moment together because we want to and totally enjoy each other's company and are there to support each other as well as have fun. I have never laughed so much or felt so at ease with someone. Of course, as a result of that, the sex is awesome. I never thought I needed something like this and was not looking for it, but when it came along, I just knew ...

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