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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol."

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol."

Wrong postcode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of men, 99% I'd say I play with are married. 95% of them play behind the wifes back. I love the thrill of that too. And like when a bitch gets road rage, I just think quietly to myself that I'm either just going to, or coming back from fucking her husbands brains out while shes doing chores!

This dose not make me an adultress, as I have NO RELATIONSHIP, with these men, and dont wish too. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. OP, Your looking for a cuckold.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site."

Are fantasies not allowed on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

Wrong postcode "

Knew it lol! Any post codes you can recommend

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

Are fantasies not allowed on here?"

Yes, there's a stories and fantasies section.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The majority of men, 99% I'd say I play with are married. 95% of them play behind the wifes back. I love the thrill of that too. And like when a bitch gets road rage, I just think quietly to myself that I'm either just going to, or coming back from fucking her husbands brains out while shes doing chores!

This dose not make me an adultress, as I have NO RELATIONSHIP, with these men, and dont wish too. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. OP, Your looking for a cuckold. "

Thanks, will keep on the lookout for a cuckold. Nice to hear you women enjoy it the other way round tho

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Fantasies are appropriate in the stories and fantasies.

cheating is not swinging. And someone always gets hurt, even if it's the unsuspecting partner wondering why the wife/husband is having to work more evenings or why they are furtively texting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

Are fantasies not allowed on here?"

Apparently anything for no reason can provoke a bad response if posted by a man

But if you were a woman that would've been welcomed with open arms and you would have been inundated with good idea and offers of meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

Are fantasies not allowed on here?"

No only certain fantasies are permitted. Good luck with this one. Adulterers are regularly rounded up for stoning.

As to the actual answer yes there are married women on here. However, personally I don't like people fetishising adultery (i.e. wanting to fuck me just because I'm married or finding being married a turn on) and think there are probably others who feel the same. I prefer to meet people who want to meet me, and where my marital status is irrelevant to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol."

I know for a fact there are several married women based near you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never intended to cause offence to anyone and sorry if I have. Obviously I don't just want to meet because they are married it's just something I've always found intriguing. The most important thing in a meet is attraction and chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

I know for a fact there are several married women based near you! "

Do tell me more feel free to pm me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

Are fantasies not allowed on here?

No only certain fantasies are permitted. Good luck with this one. Adulterers are regularly rounded up for stoning.

As to the actual answer yes there are married women on here. However, personally I don't like people fetishising adultery (i.e. wanting to fuck me just because I'm married or finding being married a turn on) and think there are probably others who feel the same. I prefer to meet people who want to meet me, and where my marital status is irrelevant to them. "

Nail on head

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"I never intended to cause offence to anyone and sorry if I have. Obviously I don't just want to meet because they are married it's just something I've always found intriguing. The most important thing in a meet is attraction and chemistry."

I promise you it's not intriguing when you are the innocent person in the couple and you find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

Are fantasies not allowed on here?

Apparently anything for no reason can provoke a bad response if posted by a man

But if you were a woman that would've been welcomed with open arms and you would have been inundated with good idea and offers of meets "

And just think to yourself exactly why that is!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never intended to cause offence to anyone and sorry if I have. Obviously I don't just want to meet because they are married it's just something I've always found intriguing. The most important thing in a meet is attraction and chemistry.

I promise you it's not intriguing when you are the innocent person in the couple and you find out. "

Point taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

Are fantasies not allowed on here?

Apparently anything for no reason can provoke a bad response if posted by a man

But if you were a woman that would've been welcomed with open arms and you would have been inundated with good idea and offers of meets

And just think to yourself exactly why that is!"

I first thought it was the women's fault for being arses

then after a while I realised it was mummy's boys who do and say anything trying their best not to upset the women just in case they are allowed to have sex With them

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I never intended to cause offence to anyone and sorry if I have. Obviously I don't just want to meet because they are married it's just something I've always found intriguing. The most important thing in a meet is attraction and chemistry.

I promise you it's not intriguing when you are the innocent person in the couple and you find out. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

Are fantasies not allowed on here?

Apparently anything for no reason can provoke a bad response if posted by a man

But if you were a woman that would've been welcomed with open arms and you would have been inundated with good idea and offers of meets

And just think to yourself exactly why that is!

I first thought it was the women's fault for being arses

then after a while I realised it was mummy's boys who do and say anything trying their best not to upset the women just in case they are allowed to have sex With them "

If you thought a bit deeper you may just discover it's one of two things - (i) there are more men here than women and they don't want morals to get in the way of a potential shag (ii) men have less morals than women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" (ii) men have less morals than women."

I think you are doing 'men' a disservice by writing them off as having lower morals just because of their perceived genital configuration.

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site."

I think you are too righteous.. find a good christian swinging site for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

I think you are too righteous.. find a good christian swinging site for yourself."

Not righteous. .... just Right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" (ii) men have less morals than women.

I think you are doing 'men' a disservice by writing them off as having lower morals just because of their perceived genital configuration."

I should have put some, but I didn't put all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of men, 99% I'd say I play with are married. 95% of them play behind the wifes back. I love the thrill of that too. And like when a bitch gets road rage, I just think quietly to myself that I'm either just going to, or coming back from fucking her husbands brains out while shes doing chores!

This dose not make me an adultress, as I have NO RELATIONSHIP, with these men, and dont wish too. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. OP, Your looking for a cuckold. "

Fuck that's hot lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

Are fantasies not allowed on here?

No only certain fantasies are permitted. Good luck with this one. Adulterers are regularly rounded up for stoning.

As to the actual answer yes there are married women on here. However, personally I don't like people fetishising adultery (i.e. wanting to fuck me just because I'm married or finding being married a turn on) and think there are probably others who feel the same. I prefer to meet people who want to meet me, and where my marital status is irrelevant to them. "

WSS - exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is fantasy la la land. I firmly believe that the vast majority of married women are reasonably happy with their lot and are not interested in shagging any other man let alone hanging around on some dodgy website to meet some guy they dont know from adam. Think about it. It just does not stand up to even the most cursory examination. One does have to be careful about what you post on here because there is a little bit of this forum that isnt really about swinging or sex. Its about psychological browbeating, a battle of intellect, power and bullying.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

Are fantasies not allowed on here?

Apparently anything for no reason can provoke a bad response if posted by a man

But if you were a woman that would've been welcomed with open arms and you would have been inundated with good idea and offers of meets

And just think to yourself exactly why that is!"

Exactly! Led by the nose many of them...well led by something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol."

I met one and I regret it 100%. She was a terrible person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to fuck a sailors wife whilst he was away at sea..she was a sexual freak!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

Are fantasies not allowed on here?"

Yes, as are adults who decide who they want to play with.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I expect there are loads of married women on here behind their husbands back but the consensus is that they don't advertise it. That's probably because they don't need to being in the minority.

I find it distasteful that anybody would get their kicks from helping somebody be deceived but I've been watching I'm a Celebrity so I'm in no position to judge.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Married women are the best , they dont scream they dont tell and there as grateful as hell .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's white knight day again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married women are the best , they dont scream they dont tell and there as grateful as hell . "

Charming

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I never intended to cause offence to anyone and sorry if I have. Obviously I don't just want to meet because they are married it's just something I've always found intriguing. The most important thing in a meet is attraction and chemistry.

I promise you it's not intriguing when you are the innocent person in the couple and you find out. "

Nope and the consequences for that innocent person are there forever if you have children as well in one way or another. It may seem an exciting fantasy,the outcome can be devastating though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married women are the best , they dont scream they dont tell and there as grateful as hell . "

What a horrid post.

Besides I bet some wives scream .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More fun meeting both a married man and woman together or just the woman with hubby's approval and sending him pictures of the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married women are the best , they dont scream they dont tell and there as grateful as hell . "

lmao...comical post

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


"

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site."

This x 1million

~(Blocked him for good measure too. Men like this sicken me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No daubt the replies would be different if a woman would of said it lol.

Here are loads of married women on the site that does the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never intended to cause offence to anyone and sorry if I have. Obviously I don't just want to meet because they are married it's just something I've always found intriguing. The most important thing in a meet is attraction and chemistry."

not all swingers are looking for attraction or chemistry some just want to fuck and nothing else...please dont think all swingers are the same cos the are not

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

And it is posts like this that confirm that this site is getting more like Ashley Madison every day and heading away from being a swingers site! It seems now to be the accepted norm that cheaters are OK. Well, not in our playtime they are not!

Swinging should be about consensual sex between all those involved in the relationship. Now it seems that one of the most important people is being left out. The one who will get the hurt..

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"

Swinging should be about consensual sex between all those involved in the relationship. Now it seems that one of the most important people is being left out. The one who will get the hurt.. "

Ditto

There is another thread about how and if the scene has changed down the years. In 12 years around swinging the biggest difference I see is the increase in cheating and those who somehow think cheating is ok.

it is not and someone is always hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never intended to cause offence to anyone and sorry if I have. Obviously I don't just want to meet because they are married it's just something I've always found intriguing. The most important thing in a meet is attraction and chemistry.

not all swingers are looking for attraction or chemistry some just want to fuck and nothing else...please dont think all swingers are the same cos the are not "

Any hole's a goal!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Married women are the best , they dont scream they dont tell and there as grateful as hell .

lmao...comical post"

it was ment to be comical. Some people just dont have a sence of humour,

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Married women are the best , they dont scream they dont tell and there as grateful as hell .

lmao...comical post

it was ment to be comical. Some people just dont have a sence of humour, "

There's no humour in cheating.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

well im one that would not play behind some ones back why would you need to do it when you can have her any time you want

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site."

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

Are fantasies not allowed on here?

Apparently anything for no reason can provoke a bad response if posted by a man

But if you were a woman that would've been welcomed with open arms and you would have been inundated with good idea and offers of meets "

Not from us, we would feel the same regardless of the OP's gender.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


" (ii) men have less morals than women.

I think you are doing 'men' a disservice by writing them off as having lower morals just because of their perceived genital configuration."

This!

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I'm intrigued as to why so many people are so intolerant of another persons fantasies just because they don't appeal to them. The same can be said for any preference from blow jobs to bondage.

Some women are turned on by rape/non consensual fantasies. A few of these indulge in light bondage with a trusted partner so they can feel that they are not in control in a safe environment.

There are many acts that I enjoy that others don't and just as many that I find distasteful but I wouldn't dream of telling another individual to leave this site because I don't feel aroused by their sexual preferences of fantasies. If you don't like something fine that is your choice but remember this... If we all shared exactly the same tastes we would be living in a very boring world.

C...

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I used the non consent purely as an example, I could quite easily have used skat or sploshing

C...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

There is people with no morals who cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a real hot potato. An adult (any one of sound mind) in any combo, one on one or more some who consent to have sex do so of there own free will. Why if its the woman, would we check that A, the man is married and B, thats if they are their partner is consenting? Should this be any different if its a man asking if the woman is married ect?

I am a single fem, and have decided to stay single for reasons that my life partners (2 of) have dealt me an unfair hand in life.

I look for married men as they know that I'm not looking for complications of a relationship. On the other hand I know that I'm not gonna get in involved in the "affair". I am a swinger through and through. Old school, unplanned sexual encounters with no attachments. I have NO emotional attachment to any of my swinging partners of which I have 3 long term (over 7 years) fuck buddies. Its just pure and unadulterated sex. Nothing more. If they choose not to tell their wife, its not my problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

Are fantasies not allowed on here?

Apparently anything for no reason can provoke a bad response if posted by a man

But if you were a woman that would've been welcomed with open arms and you would have been inundated with good idea and offers of meets "

Not true trust me.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


" Thanks, will keep on the lookout for a cuckold. Nice to hear you women enjoy it the other way round tho "

Try to remember that each of us speaks for ourselves on here. I personally do not like cheats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married women are the best , they dont scream they dont tell and there as grateful as hell . "

I scream! And I'm not grateful in the way you suggest!

There are married women who are open on here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And it is posts like this that confirm that this site is getting more like Ashley Madison every day and heading away from being a swingers site! It seems now to be the accepted norm that cheaters are OK. Well, not in our playtime they are not!

Swinging should be about consensual sex between all those involved in the relationship. Now it seems that one of the most important people is being left out. The one who will get the hurt.. "

The definition of a swinger is slang for someone who lives an uninhibited lifestyle.

A person who engages in experimental sexual behavior is an example of a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are countless thousands of sexless marriages out there. If the spouse who is denied sex seeks it elsewhere does that make them an amoral cheating scumbag? Should swinging be closed to certain demographics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no excuse for cheating but there are reasons sometimes try not to judge too harshly

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol."

It's good. But better when you watch them having sex whilst she is telling him all about what went on.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"

The definition of a swinger is slang for someone who lives an uninhibited lifestyle.

A person who engages in experimental sexual behavior is an example of a swinger.

"

may I respectfully suggest that you invest in a dictionary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And it is posts like this that confirm that this site is getting more like Ashley Madison every day and heading away from being a swingers site! It seems now to be the accepted norm that cheaters are OK. Well, not in our playtime they are not!

Swinging should be about consensual sex between all those involved in the relationship. Now it seems that one of the most important people is being left out. The one who will get the hurt..

The definition of a swinger is slang for someone who lives an uninhibited lifestyle.

A person who engages in experimental sexual behavior is an example of a swinger.

"

It's not really 'experimental' to shag other peoples monogamous partners though, is it? In fact I'd say that's pretty old fashioned.

(Also, I think that most swingers would disagree with you on that definition).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ask a woman her relationship status. The less I know the better.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Not my fantasy, I believe in the more, the merrier.

But I can understand that the thrill is heightened by breaking the rules, e.g. of having sex with another man's wife, without his knowledge.

Would you get the same thrill, if a single lady role-played being a cheating wife?

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"There is no excuse for cheating but there are reasons sometimes try not to judge too harshly "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not my fantasy, I believe in the more, the merrier.

But I can understand that the thrill is heightened by breaking the rules, e.g. of having sex with another man's wife, without his knowledge.

Would you get the same thrill, if a single lady role-played being a cheating wife?

"

I often wonder if these people would get the same thrill if they discovered their partner had been shagging around behind their back.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

There can sometimes be reasons. Some months ago a member PM'd me after reading my posts about cheating. Their partner became disabled and unable to have sex but wouldn't "allow" themto seek it eelsewhere. I can see how such a situation is very frustrating.

But the OP was talking about deliberately searching for wives who cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There can sometimes be reasons. Some months ago a member PM'd me after reading my posts about cheating. Their partner became disabled and unable to have sex but wouldn't "allow" themto seek it eelsewhere. I can see how such a situation is very frustrating.

But the OP was talking about deliberately searching for wives who cheat. "

Maybe people should consider editing 'in sickness and in health' out of their wedding vows?

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By *argon15Man
over a year ago

Preston


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

Are fantasies not allowed on here?

No only certain fantasies are permitted. Good luck with this one. Adulterers are regularly rounded up for stoning.

As to the actual answer yes there are married women on here. However, personally I don't like people fetishising adultery (i.e. wanting to fuck me just because I'm married or finding being married a turn on) and think there are probably others who feel the same. I prefer to meet people who want to meet me, and where my marital status is irrelevant to them. "

I get the op has fantasy and rightly so! For me though he is on a swinging site and that should be for people who are open about their relationship. How many times now have I seen in life and in short time on here couples who now single profiles because they've split. Start swinging find someone or something better because well it just was to them and good luck to them. I for one have experience from side of cheating it destroys a family! It happened to me lies about what there doing etc then making up excuses to be away. Making you feel your in the wrong your the reason your marriage fell apart when really it wasn't! It was all down to their selfish behaviour. You may ask so why you on this site well I enjoy sex love it and now I'm single I guess I'm looking for just nsa as I've now 2 kids to take care off! Cheats destroy you so remember that. However this is my experience from it I take my hat off to all the couple's on here who can swing have open and honest relationships. I also get all the women who need more in their lives and have permission to play from partners alone. However what anyone chooses to do is there business but should also remember people can get hurt. I can imagine the chase and excitement that comes from having that fling. But that it is only like when you were young and experimenting and that's what most people are chasing is their youth. I just feel people should realize love hurts sex shouldn't (well unless your into that!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be totally honest with you, im married and my wife doesn't know im on here. I have my reasons, which are complicated and are no one else's business.

Im not interested in other peoples situations either, we are all consenting adults and know what we are doing and any risks involved.

Don't judge me, you know absolutely nothing about my reasons for being here. Thank you

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"

Maybe people should consider editing 'in sickness and in health' out of their wedding vows?"

My personal feelings are that were I in that situation I would not cheat. But I can understand the frustration.

I won't play with someone if I have any cause to think they are cheating. I find it hotter when their partner knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Don't judge me, you know absolutely nothing about my reasons for being here. Thank you "

You ask people not to judge... and yet on the first thread I clicked on in your posting history you judged America as a nation...

"He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fantasies are appropriate in the stories and fantasies.

cheating is not swinging. And someone always gets hurt, even if it's the unsuspecting partner wondering why the wife/husband is having to work more evenings or why they are furtively texting."

well said. our swinging is supportive towards relationships, long term partners and friends are very special m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

Are fantasies not allowed on here?

Apparently anything for no reason can provoke a bad response if posted by a man

But if you were a woman that would've been welcomed with open arms and you would have been inundated with good idea and offers of meets "

Very true that pal

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over a year ago

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol."

Bloody hell, plenty of them - I have met a fair few recently - not a particular kink if mine in any way, just that I do not judge them..nobody know their individual circumstances and I am just happy if they want to have fun with me..and a good number do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Don't judge me, you know absolutely nothing about my reasons for being here. Thank you

You ask people not to judge... and yet on the first thread I clicked on in your posting history you judged America as a nation...

"He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.""

So I can't give my opinion on a nation? Surely, even you can understand the difference between an opinion about Black Friday type imports from the USA and the personal reasons why some people have a particular lifestyle?

If that's all you've got on me by raking through my posting history, good luck to you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not my fantasy, I believe in the more, the merrier.

But I can understand that the thrill is heightened by breaking the rules, e.g. of having sex with another man's wife, without his knowledge.

Would you get the same thrill, if a single lady role-played being a cheating wife?

I often wonder if these people would get the same thrill if they discovered their partner had been shagging around behind their back."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married women are the best , they dont scream they dont tell and there as grateful as hell . "
Grateful to you! Your delusional.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"The definition of a swinger is slang for someone who lives an uninhibited lifestyle.

A person who engages in experimental sexual behavior is an example of a swinger.

"

Wrong! It has never been "slang" for someone who lives an uninhibited lifestyle! It is for want of a better phrase, partner swapping and no matter how you singles choose to justify it for your own ends, that is what it is! Or are you saying that anyone who goes down the pub and pulls is a swinger? That is uninhibited sex!!!

Rediculous!

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"Has always been a fantasy of mine to play with a married women! Ideally behind her hubbies back-him not knowing makes it hotter! Do you women exist and I'm just living in the wrong postcode to you lol.

This a a site for swingers. What you suggest is not swinging - it's devious cheating adultery. Suggest you find another site.

Are fantasies not allowed on here?

No only certain fantasies are permitted. Good luck with this one. Adulterers are regularly rounded up for stoning.

As to the actual answer yes there are married women on here. However, personally I don't like people fetishising adultery (i.e. wanting to fuck me just because I'm married or finding being married a turn on) and think there are probably others who feel the same. I prefer to meet people who want to meet me, and where my marital status is irrelevant to them.

WSS - exactly this "

But what's sweetcorn?

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