FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Trust

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Given that in the main 99.99% of people on here are looking for same thing .....................................................a new recipe for a Christmas pudding lol

Ok....... Sexual liaisons with likeminded people......if you had some sexual things you'd still like to try out - Bondage/Role Play/Toys/Nipple Play/ and alike;

Would you trust a stranger/sex partner you met off here to let them experiment on you ?

Happy Fabbing

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes and no. "

Does that fence have splinters lol hehhe

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Depends

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I would not let a stranger experiment on me. I would let a friend help me explore and push my boundaries.If I didn't trust them I would not be meeting. Getting to know someone and being able to communicate your wants and needs make a better meet and for me allows me to explore.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends"

In what whay ie; what are you limits or do you have things to tick off your list (if you have one that is)

For instance - I have three things I want to try out for first time or expand upon more;

1. Watersports - Fem to Man Vs Versa

2. Mild bondage - I wan see whats its like tied up

3. Strap on sex - Fem to man - do it but need more

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would not let a stranger experiment on me. I would let a friend help me explore and push my boundaries.If I didn't trust them I would not be meeting. Getting to know someone and being able to communicate your wants and needs make a better meet and for me allows me to explore."

Brill response -

I suppose what I am trying to say is someone other than your husband/wife/partner

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and no.

Does that fence have splinters lol hehhe "

Possibly.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, absolutely not.

Though I tend to build a connection with potential meets by talking for quite a fair while before we meet, so possibly. But not someone who I've only talked to for a few days.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, maybe if we got to know them a bit

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people on here don't give you any reason to trust them, so no.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given that in the main 99.99% of people on here are looking for same thing .....................................................a new recipe for a Christmas pudding lol

Ok....... Sexual liaisons with likeminded people......if you had some sexual things you'd still like to try out - Bondage/Role Play/Toys/Nipple Play/ and alike;

Would you trust a stranger/sex partner you met off here to let them experiment on you ?

Happy Fabbing "

I meet people I get to know, who I trust. So, yes.

I wouldn't just rock up to an absolute stranger and fuck them even in a vanilla way.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

good responses - including "splinter man" lol - keep them coming please

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most people on here don't give you any reason to trust them, so no."

Not sure i'd totally agree with that as I have some genuine real friends I have made and met on here - and just as mates nothing sexual - but I don't understand your view point, just not quite as harsh lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given that in the main 99.99% of people on here are looking for same thing .....................................................a new recipe for a Christmas pudding lol

Ok....... Sexual liaisons with likeminded people......if you had some sexual things you'd still like to try out - Bondage/Role Play/Toys/Nipple Play/ and alike;

Would you trust a stranger/sex partner you met off here to let them experiment on you ?

Happy Fabbing

I meet people I get to know, who I trust. So, yes.

I wouldn't just rock up to an absolute stranger and fuck them even in a vanilla way. "

But then on your question you've lumped "stranger" and "people you know on Fab" into the same pot. Which in my case is way off the mark.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Two Thing ....But then on your question you've lumped "stranger" and "people you know on Fab" into the same pot. Which in my case is way off the mark.

Reply....

Not sure what that meant, but if your eluding to the more wider point of "can we make friends via a sex dating site" then your absolutely right you can - my OP was more leaning to first meet/initial meets, would you have then built up enough Trust to allow the other person to deliver some of the sexual things you wanted to still try out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people on here don't give you any reason to trust them, so no.

Not sure i'd totally agree with that as I have some genuine real friends I have made and met on here - and just as mates nothing sexual - but I don't understand your view point, just not quite as harsh lol "

most people tend to want to rush into that sort of play, i personally not sure if they're just unaware of the dangers or they just don't care.

plus even i've had vanilla play where people don't respect my boundaries, that's traumatising enough, hate to think what would happen in more vulnerable situations. this has rarely happened but it shouldn't even happen once coz if i say i don't like something they should stop straight away.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I'm nobody's guinea pig.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top