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By *abby69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

newport

We have only been swinging for about six weeks and have only had limited experience at it but on the last two occasions i have got carried away and have been orally bi.I have not got a problem with it as i enjoyed it,my wife found it interesting and is very happy with it as we both shared the same cock.The dilemma is do we change our profile to bi-curious or bisexual or stay as we are because it was only a one off (or two)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on whether you want to try it again. If you do change your profile, make sure you put that you are only orally bi otherwise people may think you are happy to go all the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey you are not alone i too played with a guy when playing with a couple it was good at the time and his wife loved it but that was a one off so i left my profile as straight.

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By *abby69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

newport

Willing to try it again but not looking for it.Just a spur of the moment thing.Anal is a total no no,but it just seemed to be the right thing at the time as we were swinging as a couple,and not something i would want to do on my own.Thanks for the advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your in denial lol joking i know where u coming from,done the same meself,bloody good fun! as for the bum fun go on stick a finger in and let us know how it goes lol

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

Well...you can keep it straight or put bi-curious...though if you meet straight couples you would have to ask beforehand about possibility of making any advancement...:D

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By *abby69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

newport

I will wait for someone else to do that,but will keep tissues handy to wipe tears from my eyes, or something else!LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your in denial lol joking i know where u coming from,done the same meself,bloody good fun! as for the bum fun go on stick a finger in and let us know how it goes lol"

Dont you start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had similar experience myself recently. What annoyed me though was that the fella stated 'bi-curious' when in fact he was WAaay past the curious stage. Thought that was bang out of order

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling

as a female, i have had girlie fun, enjoyed and have done it again, that said would never play with a fem on my own and never played with a fem until got in2 swinging with my hubby, i consider myself bi-playful!!! x

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

@gabby

shame they didn't put an option of 'straightish'

xxxx

j&r

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@gabby

shame they didn't put an option of 'straightish'

xxxx

j&r"

Or perhaps just slightly crooked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's worth bearing in mind that there are people on here who just don't want to meet bi-guys,no matter how curious or whatever.

So keeping that in mind,in their books, you've probably already been catagorised as bi anyway.

So better to be up front at the outset,swingers prefer honesty.

XXXX

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By *abby69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

newport

Thank you all,I will chew on that for a while.lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not sure chewing is such a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you sucked someones cock i think we can say you're bi now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think people need to know the truth,if you enjoyed it and would like to try again then you have to put bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm curiouser and curiouser!!!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"If you sucked someones cock i think we can say you're bi now"

point of order m'lud........

"only if its attached to the body"

pd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

List your self as whatever feels right to you. I would maybe put slightly bi curious.

Or just keep it as straight and look at bi curious men or couples for partners, You would be suprised how many "Straight" Single men and "Straight" men from couples message Bi guys. I was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another point of view.....we only meet guys who are honest on their profile. We've had hundreds of single guys contact us saying 'I know my profile says I'm straight but I am willing to do oral', to us if you can't be honest about your sexuality what are the chances of you being honest about the stuff that really matters.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Just another point of view.....we only meet guys who are honest on their profile. We've had hundreds of single guys contact us saying 'I know my profile says I'm straight but I am willing to do oral', to us if you can't be honest about your sexuality what are the chances of you being honest about the stuff that really matters."

Well said!

Well said!

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree well put!,Anyway I'd say it depends wheather or not that you intend upon undertaking what you already done again in order to say wheather your bi or mearly curious as theres single guys I've noticed that claim to be curious then when you meet there right into it .I often wandered same question myself at looking at profiles as couples or singles when they decide what there sexuality really is as theres users here curious that have been here long time .On other hand theres users that say there straight and quite clearly in to bi play once they've contacted you.they just turn around and say it's because I've only been to a few meets so far LOL .

Anyway your curious if your just trying few times your bi if it's your sexuality and regular do njoy yourselves best wishes happy swinging !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just another point of view.....we only meet guys who are honest on their profile. We've had hundreds of single guys contact us saying 'I know my profile says I'm straight but I am willing to do oral', to us if you can't be honest about your sexuality what are the chances of you being honest about the stuff that really matters."

True I can see your point. Maybe leave your entry as straight but mention in your profile that you "might be interested in exploring your bi side with the right guy/couple". Then you can tell when someone has actually read the profile and not just skipped to the pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If everyone put 'straight' then no one would have a clue who is bi and who isnt??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If everyone put 'straight' then no one would have a clue who is bi and who isnt?? "

True, True, point taken. I would like to disassociate myself from my previous comment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think honesty is the best policy..and be honest to your self...lol..surely if you sucked a guys cock and enjoyed it then your bi?...or am i missing something?i,m bi and state it on my profile therefore no embarrising surprises.chris.

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By *srsozeMan
over a year ago

Romford

Ive listed myself as bicurious. I have played with a bloke before and it was fun and I would do it again. But I don't want anal. And I'd prefer to do any bi stuff with the girl joining in.

I chose not to say bisexual because I don't want it everytime. Just as an optional extra.

I know it's all labels but maybe there needs to be an extra sexuality option of "open". I dunno. Good debate topic tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

upon the other hand we could all three get together then you'd definatly have to put up bi lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive listed myself as bicurious. I have played with a bloke before and it was fun and I would do it again. But I don't want anal. And I'd prefer to do any bi stuff with the girl joining in.

I chose not to say bisexual because I don't want it everytime. Just as an optional extra.

I know it's all labels but maybe there needs to be an extra sexuality option of "open". I dunno. Good debate topic tho. "

Good answer m8, i too over the years have had some bi experiences & 1 fairly recent from this site. Yes ive enjoyed them at the time but in no way whatsoever do i find men attractive or would i kiss a man, & certainly wouldnt have any anal, yes i have straight on my profile as thats what i consider myself, with me its a once in a blue moon thing & defo not something im overly keen on, im just very horny sometimes . its just one of those things that can be debated all night. Ive talked about this subject a couple of times & its always a mixed response, me personally would prefer an "open minded" option & then it can be discussed between the parties concerned whats a go & whats a no go. I however DO love the ladies, do find them attractive & love to kiss them. so what do you guys think, worth putting the idea of another option forward???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry ive just read that back & it doesnt sound right at all, what im meaning is, god this is hard to explain without offending anyone, i do enjoy it but not in the same way i enjoy something with a girl. oh i dont know im going to have to come back to this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think honesty is the best policy..and be honest to your self...lol..surely if you sucked a guys cock and enjoyed it then your bi?...or am i missing something?i,m bi and state it on my profile therefore no embarrising surprises.chris."

With you on this if you've had a cock in your gob, you are bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think honesty is the best policy..and be honest to your self...lol..surely if you sucked a guys cock and enjoyed it then your bi?...or am i missing something?i,m bi and state it on my profile therefore no embarrising surprises.chris.

With you on this if you've had a cock in your gob, you are bi."

well i suppose ur right but im still not putting it on my profile as im defo more straight than bi lol if they do another option of openminded il change to that & until then im staying how i am, if this offends anyone then apologies but thats not my intention, each to their own is what i say & some people like a bit of discretion, more so than others, but whats wrong with that i ask??? If i get chatting with someone & they ask me if ive ever been with a guy i will say yes & the conversation will go on from there, its not being dishonest i dont think, just some people dont like to lay their whole private life on the line for all to see, me personally prefer to be discreet & have only just today though, bugger it im putting up a pic, each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

& the reason its not on my profile is because its not something im looking for like i said, once in a blue moon kinda thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"& the reason its not on my profile is because its not something im looking for like i said, once in a blue moon kinda thing "

Yeah.. can see that. You like playing with cock but don't feel its something that needs to be shared with anyone till they ask.. After all if it was a straight male couple and he wasn't, why mention it.. kinda makes your chances higher eh...

Nothing deceitful in that at all.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"& the reason its not on my profile is because its not something im looking for like i said, once in a blue moon kinda thing

Yeah.. can see that. You like playing with cock but don't feel its something that needs to be shared with anyone till they ask.. After all if it was a straight male couple and he wasn't, why mention it.. kinda makes your chances higher eh...

Nothing deceitful in that at all.....

"

decceitful????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you know what ur laetting your self in for you should be fine there a loads of st8s on here who are bi or curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you know what ur laetting your self in for you should be fine there a loads of st8s on here who are bi or curious"

Or to be more precise,there are loads of bi's on here who say they're straight!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even more trace n ric anyway if you guys feel that you like it your more than prob bi curious if your just once off .If your going to do all time then I'd say that you are bi however your choice to place upon profile admire your honesty tgc guys xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i didnt explain myself very well last night, dont really think i can explain it either, i know what i like & thats women but if the light was off & a guy started wanking my cock i wouldnt even know right? whats the difference with that & its not been easy even saying ive done things with a guy before, first time ive told anyone, but i defo know 100% i dont find guys sexy or any of that shit, thats just not me. some may see me as deceitful but im trying to be honest here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even more trace n ric anyway if you guys feel that you like it your more than prob bi curious if your just once off .If your going to do all time then I'd say that you are bi however your choice to place upon profile admire your honesty tgc guys xxxxx"

Well we're exactly as it says on the tin: straight as a straight thing,all the time,noooooo exceptions and bi as bi can be!

It just annoys us when people are so dishonest,just to get a shag!

XXXX

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling

och each to their own i say!!!! as long as all parties involved are happy and having fun then boabs yer auntie!!!!!!!

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By *abby69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

newport

But if she had a dick she would be your uncle.Thanks to everyone for their comments,as you may see our profile is still straight as we have had meets since and they have been totally heterosexual.Not ruling out future "open minded" meets but still straight adventurous couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the best Gabby 69 tgc guys

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