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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya guys, I seem to be having some sort of block and I can't have an orgasm. Does anyone have any tips that may help me get over that final hurdle. Xx

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"Hiya guys, I seem to be having some sort of block and I can't have an orgasm. Does anyone have any tips that may help me get over that final hurdle. Xx "

You're invited to a day's course next week for all those who can't orgasm.

Let us know if you can't come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you stressed out hun? Stress can effect you libido and ability to reach orgasm,

Had something like this a while back and I found taking time to really pamper myself with a bubble bath soft lighting and music then slow sensual exploration of my body really helped

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Relax and don't rush......

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am ill so that may not help. I am turned on and get do far just can't complete and it's fustrating

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hiya guys, I seem to be having some sort of block and I can't have an orgasm. Does anyone have any tips that may help me get over that final hurdle. Xx "

Yes, don't try and get over it, the harder you try the more difficult it will become. Concentrate on the rest of the sexual experience, enjoy all the sensations and expect nothing, then if it does happen it's a bonus.

Have you never had an orgasm or is this a new thing and are you under pressure from anyone who wants you to have one?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's when I am on my own. I like to have a play before I go to sleep and it helps me sleep better but for the past 3 nights I get so far but then I hit a wall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it both with a partner and playing yourself if you don't mind my asking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than stating the obvious regarding technique and how your being treated sexually, I guess some of this might be to with underlying health reasons and just plain ran down- I know from or chats in the past, that you are passionate women , so just give your "mojo" will return -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it both with a partner and playing yourself if you don't mind my asking? "

Just on my own. I have a great imagination (you've been in my head a few times) I just get to the last point before orgasm and then that's it. It's like someone has pulled the power lead out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Other than stating the obvious regarding technique and how your being treated sexually, I guess some of this might be to with underlying health reasons and just plain ran down- I know from or chats in the past, that you are passionate women , so just give your "mojo" will return - "

I hope so cos it helps me sleep better.

Orgasm, turn over fart and sleep! Should have been a man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watch some porn while you play ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's when I am on my own. I like to have a play before I go to sleep and it helps me sleep better but for the past 3 nights I get so far but then I hit a wall. "

3 nights is nothing in the grand scheme of things, I would suggest just enjoying a few nights of different sensations with no pressure and see how you get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be any number of things. But I wouldn't worry too much about it though because the more you worry about it the less likely it is to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it both with a partner and playing yourself if you don't mind my asking?

Just on my own. I have a great imagination (you've been in my head a few times) I just get to the last point before orgasm and then that's it. It's like someone has pulled the power lead out "

I was like that for months. I knew it was a psychological block on my part. I'd suggest stopping playing altogether. Let your emagination run wild, get yourself going but don't touch yourself. The build up over a week may just push you over the edge.

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