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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it that some guys think that if they arrange a meet as a couple (whether they actually are or not is debatable) they can then message on the day of the meet saying "oh she couldn't make it so it will just be me" and expect that the meet will go ahead?

If we wanted to meet a single guy then that is easy (ish) to sort out and secondly as a matter of principle we would only ever play with both halves of the couple as we do not condone cheating or potential cheating. Does anyone else have this happen to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I've had it the other way round though, arranged to meet a single guy then they ask if I want a 3sum with their fuck buddie

If I wanted to meet a couples I'd have arranged with a couple

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

but but but she might have a really bad cold!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Why is it that some guys think that if they arrange a meet as a couple (whether they actually are or not is debatable) they can then message on the day of the meet saying "oh she couldn't make it so it will just be me" and expect that the meet will go ahead?

If we wanted to meet a single guy then that is easy (ish) to sort out and secondly as a matter of principle we would only ever play with both halves of the couple as we do not condone cheating or potential cheating. Does anyone else have this happen to them?"

It's happened to us a couple of times, and they get told quite clearly that when we want single guys we will look for them, not someone pretending to be a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hasn't happened to us.

-Courtney

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

We've had this once - the 'bullshit meter' went off the chart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads just asking me to meet with the male half as if the female half doesn't exist in the first place...amazingly I'm not looking for men in the first place.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

They do it because a sizable minority will feel it's rude to say no once a meet has been arranged, be afraid to say no in case of "repercussions" or will believe it.

It's never happened to us but we have had a few men wanting to chat while their wife is in the shower, shopping or busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that some guys think that if they arrange a meet as a couple (whether they actually are or not is debatable) they can then message on the day of the meet saying "oh she couldn't make it so it will just be me" and expect that the meet will go ahead?

If we wanted to meet a single guy then that is easy (ish) to sort out and secondly as a matter of principle we would only ever play with both halves of the couple as we do not condone cheating or potential cheating. Does anyone else have this happen to them?"

Agreed 100% and have turned down many "couples" because only the guy wanted to come. One even created a single profile when we said no to him as half a couple.

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area

It's happened to me. He opens the door, wearing a dressing gown, and say: " she's running late, but we can start without her".

It says on my profile I'm s8... and it said on theirs he was s8..

He wasn't happy when I said no, and wanted to phone her to find out how long she would be. One advantage of being 6'5" is that he decided to, er, wait for another time.

Duly reported.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent thread ......

Firstly EVERYBODY should be straight about their circumstances in first place - married men/women turning up at meet pretending to be single, yet with obvious signs of marriage/relations are most peoples frustration

Secondly previously I was on here with my first wife then after my divorce a dear lovely female FB - we had a couples profile and the OP's problem was a very regular occurrence, so we drew a line under it by saying social meet first as couple then arrange follow up meet afterwards - it sorted the odd balls out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most replies we have had seem to have this happen. They think my husband should just pimp me out, and prefer if he stayed home. One jerk even wanted my husband to drive me then pick me up later!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is so frustrating. I honestly don't understand how they think that this will work.

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By *ymruambythCouple
over a year ago

grantham

I had an interesting situation a few years ago. I arranged - as a single guy - to meet a (bi) couple at their place, but when I turned up the female half made her excuses and left to go upstairs. She said she would be returning and how we should 'not wait for her to start'. I did play, but felt a little concerned that it was all a ruse to get a guy in for hubby to fuck without any intention to play herself.

Anyway, she didn't return, so after I left I felt a bit cheated and they texted numerous times to suggest a second meet where they would both play. Naturally I was a tad suspicious.

To cut a long story short, I was at a loose end one evening and relented to their request for a second meet but had it in my head that if the wife disappeared this time, so would I.... Arrived, and the wife WAS there and DID stay and it turned out to be the single most erotic play I have EVER had...by some distance. Mind blowing stuff.... They seemed to enjoy it also, but I was busy with work for a few months and when I tried to get back in touch it seemed they disappeared into the ether as many couples often do.

Moral of the story - Sometimes things work out when you don't expect them to!

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

My response was 'thanks for letting me know you've had to cancel, It is okay I'll meet with a single bloke I know that is honest & reliable.

Hope you can still enjoy your evening '

Never heard from him again

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By *astard and goodgirlCouple
over a year ago

Near Exeter

Not just that... Who's seen the statuses

'looking for a fit female to make my man happy whilst I at work '

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not just that... Who's seen the statuses

'looking for a fit female to make my man happy whilst I at work '

"

yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres a 'couple' i hotlisted just to see 'their' increasingly funny statuses..i think he's a bit desperate now as she's away on business...the slightly dodgy pic of her, she looks about 19!

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By *astard and goodgirlCouple
over a year ago

Near Exeter

Good girl is 20.... And well verified!!

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Why is it that some guys think that if they arrange a meet as a couple (whether they actually are or not is debatable) they can then message on the day of the meet saying "oh she couldn't make it so it will just be me" and expect that the meet will go ahead?

If we wanted to meet a single guy then that is easy (ish) to sort out and secondly as a matter of principle we would only ever play with both halves of the couple as we do not condone cheating or potential cheating. Does anyone else have this happen to them?"

Strip the bloke naked.

Superglue his bollocks to a lamp post. And say sorry the emergency services can't make it today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never as far as arranging a meeting and going to be just him - have had chats where its turned out just a male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a supposedly bi female approach us wanting to meet a couple with bi curious female, said she had permission to play alone from her partner.

Things went fine with messages etc, then the messages then turn to fantasy, her fantasy was for her husband to sleep with another couple then come home and tell her all about it.

we asked about her bisexuality and wanting to meet bi curious, she was adamant that she just wanted hubby to sleep with someone.

Some are so calculated, oh and desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's happened to me. He opens the door, wearing a dressing gown, and say: " she's running late, but we can start without her".

It says on my profile I'm s8... and it said on theirs he was s8..

He wasn't happy when I said no, and wanted to phone her to find out how long she would be. One advantage of being 6'5" is that he decided to, er, wait for another time.

Duly reported."
Impressive! And good on you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple contact us today which we never even spoken or met before. They were verify and all. It was the male half asked would meet him for a coffee. I declined saying sorry as he was a couple we would meet only both of them together. All the verification was only for the fella and not one for a female mentioned in any of them. The summery was on and the verification was their to read. I found that it strange as he'll.

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