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"Just curious as to what others like. I am really social once I meet people but can easily be put off if people are to chatty leading up to a meet. I do enjoy it when its spur of the moment as that for me saves me over thinking it and losing my interest. Worst thing in the world for me is if the chat gets flirty and naughty... ( I know some enjoy this) I have actually been known to cancel because the chat has put me off. So what do you prefer... Do you like to have lots of chat on the lead up to a meet or once your sure that there is something are you happy to leave it till the meet." Well said - so where are we meeting then lol hehehhe !!!!! | |||
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"I like to talk. I couldn't meet anyone and not be able to chill n chat. But..... I don't like people asking to many questions and wanting to know stuff about my personal life away from this site. " Without contradicting myself, I agree with what your saying - "tease my mind as well as my body" is what I say, and i'm sure we all agree that there as to be a connection and personality with the other person/people - however there comes a time in endless messaging that you know where its going | |||
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"I like to chat for quite a while. Establish that we're into the same things, that we are compatible socially (because I don't enjoy seeing people just the once). I don't do sex chat though. Ever." Same here. And I do tend to plan things quite far in advance, so I like to keep chatting up to that point rather than just "see you there at 7pm in 3 weeks time". It doesn't have to be incessant messaging, just keeping in regular contact so we both know we're still interested. | |||
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"I like to chat for quite a while. Establish that we're into the same things, that we are compatible socially (because I don't enjoy seeing people just the once). I don't do sex chat though. Ever." We will chat about sexual things but not in a "we'll do this to you or, do that to me". Just to gauge interests/boundaries etc. Our personal opinion is, if you can't put the effort in before what's to say you would in person? Also helps out those who will vanish from the site. | |||
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"I don't like loads of chat beforehand, I find the more I chat and get to know the person the more I seem to realise that I don't really like them, that the thing that interested me in the first place is all there is to them. Either that or I get bored of them. That is why clubs work for me, a quick chat, spark of interest then off to find a room." This sounds very much like me x | |||
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