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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

if you had the choice of one, would you choose the swingers lifestyle or, the kink lifestyle?

As a swinger, do you get enough kink from those you meet?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd rather be a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you had the choice of one, would you choose the swingers lifestyle or, the kink lifestyle?

As a swinger, do you get enough kink from those you meet?"

Kink

I got told I'm not a swinger cause I don't want another guys dick in my face hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys are just what I'm looking for. I love the kinky side of things. But often with swingers it's just quite simple sex. But have met 1 or 2 guys from here with that bit of extra kink..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm slowly wondering into both. Would like to meet a kinky partner who enjoys both aspects to learn and experience with.

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"if you had the choice of one, would you choose the swingers lifestyle or, the kink lifestyle?

As a swinger, do you get enough kink from those you meet?

Kink

I got told I'm not a swinger cause I don't want another guys dick in my face hahaha "

do you get enough kink from those on here?

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I do enjoy my kinks and I'm very lucky to have a partner who loves them just as much as I do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys are just what I'm looking for. I love the kinky side of things. But often with swingers it's just quite simple sex. But have met 1 or 2 guys from here with that bit of extra kink.. "

Hello x

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Kink. Every time

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Some guys are just what I'm looking for. I love the kinky side of things. But often with swingers it's just quite simple sex. But have met 1 or 2 guys from here with that bit of extra kink.. "

i find that its just vanilla sex..no one wants, so far, to actually develop something to experience the range of kink..they seem to want variety in partnerships rather than explore things deeper.. and depends what you call 'extra' kink'..exploring boundaries and working towards deeper and more trusting stuff take some form of commitment with someone...most here seem to be commitment phobic...or am i wrong and just no one talks about it, and what they want, enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys are just what I'm looking for. I love the kinky side of things. But often with swingers it's just quite simple sex. But have met 1 or 2 guys from here with that bit of extra kink..

i find that its just vanilla sex..no one wants, so far, to actually develop something to experience the range of kink..they seem to want variety in partnerships rather than explore things deeper.. and depends what you call 'extra' kink'..exploring boundaries and working towards deeper and more trusting stuff take some form of commitment with someone...most here seem to be commitment phobic...or am i wrong and just no one talks about it, and what they want, enough?"

I get exactly where you are coming from! And I find the same,some men here like the idea of kink, but are not willing to put in any effort! I have found myself spending much more time on a well Known Fetish site recently as it seems to cater more to my needs..! For my kink to come out, I want a man who is patient and prepared to take the time to earn my trust to unleash my full potential..!

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Some guys are just what I'm looking for. I love the kinky side of things. But often with swingers it's just quite simple sex. But have met 1 or 2 guys from here with that bit of extra kink..

i find that its just vanilla sex..no one wants, so far, to actually develop something to experience the range of kink..they seem to want variety in partnerships rather than explore things deeper.. and depends what you call 'extra' kink'..exploring boundaries and working towards deeper and more trusting stuff take some form of commitment with someone...most here seem to be commitment phobic...or am i wrong and just no one talks about it, and what they want, enough?

I get exactly where you are coming from! And I find the same,some men here like the idea of kink, but are not willing to put in any effort! I have found myself spending much more time on a well Known Fetish site recently as it seems to cater more to my needs..! For my kink to come out, I want a man who is patient and prepared to take the time to earn my trust to unleash my full potential..! "

glad i'm not the only one...thankyou for your response xx

just posted this post and two stories under sirs kitty stories in the story forum..

i'm just really interested in the responses on here..it just seems not to be that talked about, for some reason...

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By *rijj73Man
over a year ago

croydon

Kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I must be a kinky swinger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kink for me as well. I'm now more confident about doing it with people i don't know that well.

Have found plenty of guys who think being dominated means they can just lie back and let me do all the work. So first meets, unless we've talked a lot about what we want from each other, is sex only. And anyone who just lies there coz they're inexperienced doesn't get anything but used by me as a dildo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you had the choice of one, would you choose the swingers lifestyle or, the kink lifestyle?

As a swinger, do you get enough kink from those you meet?"

Good question - and we would have to say no - far too many vanilla types for us on here now - just an honest opinion

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By *aughty cpl for funCouple
over a year ago

chester

Both. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kink for me too I think. I enjoy vanilla meets but I really get off on the trust and connection that the kinkier stuff requires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kink for me too I think. I enjoy vanilla meets but I really get off on the trust and connection that the kinkier stuff requires. "

Grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kink absolutely xx

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By *usting LaRueCouple
over a year ago

Saticoy

Kinky meets are so amazing..

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Kink for me too I think. I enjoy vanilla meets but I really get off on the trust and connection that the kinkier stuff requires. "
xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i am heartened by the responses to this thread...thank you so much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still lost on the subject of what qualifies you/me as a swinger.

What are the rules and regulations

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I'm still lost on the subject of what qualifies you/me as a swinger.

What are the rules and regulations "

we aren't apparently, as we are single we are only allowed to be 'casual sex seekers/ accessories' to the real swingers...so i hear...

we should really not forget our place...

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

My moderate kinks seem more than happily fulfilled on Fab. The more effort involved, the greater the mutual reward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 % kinkster

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"My moderate kinks seem more than happily fulfilled on Fab. The more effort involved, the greater the mutual reward "

im genuinely happy for you...xx

and at least you acknowledge effort has to be made...

mine aren't...

i realize i have to rewrite my profile, which is why its hidden..

before you tell me to go elsewhere..i already am x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more into the kink side, I make my own kinky gear to try out on lady delorean

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