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"Its the life of Fab really - its more common than you think - we must get a dozen such threads each week in here or advice blog " I know it is common...but this particular time I am very baffled by it.... | |||
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"Was she verified? " I think so, but I can't remember to be honest... | |||
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"Another poor woman who'll never get to know the full, raw, powerful animal magnetism you display. Her loss. Probably. " Thank you - btw, did you workout who are friend in common is?? | |||
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"Another poor woman who'll never get to know the full, raw, powerful animal magnetism you display. Her loss. Probably. Thank you - btw, did you workout who are friend in common is??" ...our... | |||
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"It's a classic case of she blocked you because she didn't like what she saw. " ...well, given that we exchanged a good few messages after she had seen all that there is of me to see, and all of them were very positive on both sides, that seems unlikely.... | |||
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"like someone said its her loss " How is it her loss? She has blocked someone she doesn't want to meet. The OP is moaning that he has been blocked by someone he does want to meet. Surely that is very much his loss? | |||
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"I received a very nice message and face pic from a fabulous looking woman yesterday evening - we then had a bbit of a chat and she become a 'friend' on here...I had to go out and her final message was something along the lines of 'catch you again very soon'...logged on this morning and I can no longer able to view her profile as it says either I am blocked or her profile has been suspended by admin....is there anyway of knowing which of these has occurred? I am baffled by this particular situation and frustrated that I cannot contact her to find out what is going on...we only chatted briefly but were getting on very well indeed " I had a woman message me last week. We were just generally chit chatting. I then paid her a compliment about how she looked in her avatar pic (in which she looked very nice). She then blocked me! Totally baffling Her loss I guess | |||
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"Does it really matter? I've never understood why people take such exception to being blocked or feel the need to analyse it o much" Only because of the bizarre circumstances in this particular instance...and your interpretation that it is 'because she doesn't want to meet me', is only one of several possible explanations.... | |||
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"Does it really matter? I've never understood why people take such exception to being blocked or feel the need to analyse it o much" havent you heard about the freedom of speech then? its a forum free to post what you want | |||
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"I received a very nice message and face pic from a fabulous looking woman yesterday evening - we then had a bbit of a chat and she become a 'friend' on here...I had to go out and her final message was something along the lines of 'catch you again very soon'...logged on this morning and I can no longer able to view her profile as it says either I am blocked or her profile has been suspended by admin....is there anyway of knowing which of these has occurred? I am baffled by this particular situation and frustrated that I cannot contact her to find out what is going on...we only chatted briefly but were getting on very well indeed I had a woman message me last week. We were just generally chit chatting. I then paid her a compliment about how she looked in her avatar pic (in which she looked very nice). She then blocked me! Totally baffling Her loss I guess " 'her loss'...indeed, I agree and we need to just roll our eyes and move on when this occurs, but it is baffling and frustrating all the same... | |||
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"I have just had the same sort of thing. I have been swapping messages with a couple for a while, and earlier this week we agreed to meet next week. I contacted them today to arrange for Wednesday & they blocked me. What a waste of time. Do I report them?" I don't think their behaviour is very commendable, however, I do not think it warrants reporting them....don't think any such report would be taken seriously anyway in that situation... | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. " Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks... | |||
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"I have just had the same sort of thing. I have been swapping messages with a couple for a while, and earlier this week we agreed to meet next week. I contacted them today to arrange for Wednesday & they blocked me. What a waste of time. Do I report them?" For what ? | |||
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"Does it really matter? I've never understood why people take such exception to being blocked or feel the need to analyse it o much Only because of the bizarre circumstances in this particular instance...and your interpretation that it is 'because she doesn't want to meet me', is only one of several possible explanations...." But arguably the ,most likely. Albeit the one you (and anyone else who it happens to including myself) find the most difficult to accept | |||
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"I received a very nice message and face pic from a fabulous looking woman yesterday evening - we then had a bbit of a chat and she become a 'friend' on here...I had to go out and her final message was something along the lines of 'catch you again very soon'...logged on this morning and I can no longer able to view her profile as it says either I am blocked or her profile has been suspended by admin....is there anyway of knowing which of these has occurred? I am baffled by this particular situation and frustrated that I cannot contact her to find out what is going on...we only chatted briefly but were getting on very well indeed I had a woman message me last week. We were just generally chit chatting. I then paid her a compliment about how she looked in her avatar pic (in which she looked very nice). She then blocked me! Totally baffling Her loss I guess 'her loss'...indeed, I agree and we need to just roll our eyes and move on when this occurs, but it is baffling and frustrating all the same... " Baffling is the only word to describe it really. Just odd. A bit like if you were talking to someone face to face and they just walked off mid-sentence. Confusing. But this place baffle's quite often so we just move on. Plenty more fish in the sea... | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks..." Seriously? You are going to get round a block by getting someone else to message them? | |||
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"Sounds like she was a fake account that got suspended by admin, doesn't it?" Nope, she is still here, someone has proved this (and that she is not suspended) by viewing her profile to check... | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks..." Bordering on creepy behaviour | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks... Seriously? You are going to get round a block by getting someone else to message them? " Only to find out whether it was perhaps a block in error....that's all.... | |||
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"Does it really matter? I've never understood why people take such exception to being blocked or feel the need to analyse it o much havent you heard about the freedom of speech then? its a forum free to post what you want" I'm not sure where freedom of speech comes in to this or When I said people couldn't post? I was merely commenting that I don;t see why it causes so much angst? | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks... Bordering on creepy behaviour" I don't see why, given the particular circumstances... | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks... Bordering on creepy behaviour" I don't think it's bordering on it. | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks... Bordering on creepy behaviour I don't see why, given the particular circumstances..." You don't see that getting someone else to message someone who has blocked you as a creepy thing to do? | |||
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"Does it really matter? I've never understood why people take such exception to being blocked or feel the need to analyse it o much havent you heard about the freedom of speech then? its a forum free to post what you want I'm not sure where freedom of speech comes in to this or When I said people couldn't post? I was merely commenting that I don;t see why it causes so much angst?" i do apologise i miss read your comment | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks... Bordering on creepy behaviour I don't think it's bordering on it. " I was giving the benefit of the doubt | |||
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"Maybe she started reading the forum op?" What the hell is that supposed to mean - or is it just an unnecessary dig? Anyhow she hasn't been online since shortly after we chatted and I haven't been on the forum until logging on this morning - not in a while anyway... | |||
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"It's a classic case of she blocked you because she didn't like what she saw. ...well, given that we exchanged a good few messages after she had seen all that there is of me to see, and all of them were very positive on both sides, that seems unlikely...." You sure you understand how picky people can be? Being 1 of hundreds dulls the mind. Hell, I got blocked by a woman after exchanging messages because I mentioned light choking. And she had rough play down. Some think they're special and use the block button to escape any supposed wrath. Which can be understandable as lots of people don't like being turned down. It's like unmatching a tinder match. Just have summat else | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks... Bordering on creepy behaviour I don't see why, given the particular circumstances... You don't see that getting someone else to message someone who has blocked you as a creepy thing to do? " Not in this situation - not given that this third party proposed doing so in the first place, and not given that the only message is to ask whether it was in error.... | |||
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"Maybe she started reading the forum op? What the hell is that supposed to mean - or is it just an unnecessary dig? Anyhow she hasn't been online since shortly after we chatted and I haven't been on the forum until logging on this morning - not in a while anyway..." Just that. I often read things and get put off people by the things they say. | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks... Bordering on creepy behaviour" You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy. Such a whiteknight word | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks... Bordering on creepy behaviour You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy. Such a whiteknight word" | |||
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"Maybe she started reading the forum op? What the hell is that supposed to mean - or is it just an unnecessary dig? Anyhow she hasn't been online since shortly after we chatted and I haven't been on the forum until logging on this morning - not in a while anyway... Just that. I often read things and get put off people by the things they say." I understand that and indeed I am sure it has put some people off me in the past - but it cannot account for this current situation being discussed.. | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks... Bordering on creepy behaviour You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy. Such a whiteknight word" I don't see how that equates to me living a sheltered life. If i block someone it's because i want no further contact. I don't then want their acquaintances messaging me to ask me why. I would find it odd at the very least. How does that mean I've lead a sheltered life? | |||
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"Maybe she started reading the forum op? What the hell is that supposed to mean - or is it just an unnecessary dig? Anyhow she hasn't been online since shortly after we chatted and I haven't been on the forum until logging on this morning - not in a while anyway... Just that. I often read things and get put off people by the things they say. I understand that and indeed I am sure it has put some people off me in the past - but it cannot account for this current situation being discussed.." The more you post the more obsessive you sound. Still I'm sure plenty of other women find an inability to deal with possible rejection extremely attractive | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks... Bordering on creepy behaviour You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy. Such a whiteknight word I don't see how that equates to me living a sheltered life. If i block someone it's because i want no further contact. I don't then want their acquaintances messaging me to ask me why. I would find it odd at the very least. How does that mean I've lead a sheltered life?" I don't need to know why...just if it was in error...if it was, she may not realize she has blocked me....tis all | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks... Bordering on creepy behaviour You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy. Such a whiteknight word I don't see how that equates to me living a sheltered life. If i block someone it's because i want no further contact. I don't then want their acquaintances messaging me to ask me why. I would find it odd at the very least. How does that mean I've lead a sheltered life? I don't need to know why...just if it was in error...if it was, she may not realize she has blocked me....tis all" Surely she will realise that she has blocked you in error when she next tries to view you or message you? | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks... Bordering on creepy behaviour You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy. Such a whiteknight word I don't see how that equates to me living a sheltered life. If i block someone it's because i want no further contact. I don't then want their acquaintances messaging me to ask me why. I would find it odd at the very least. How does that mean I've lead a sheltered life? I don't need to know why...just if it was in error...if it was, she may not realize she has blocked me....tis all Surely she will realise that she has blocked you in error when she next tries to view you or message you?" Or think it is I that has blocked her...doesn't the same screen pop up in that situation? It would then mean that she would have to check her own block list to se the error...if indeed it is one... | |||
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"Anyone fancy a pint?" Please - I'll have a San Miguel if you are offering... | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks... Bordering on creepy behaviour You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy. Such a whiteknight word I don't see how that equates to me living a sheltered life. If i block someone it's because i want no further contact. I don't then want their acquaintances messaging me to ask me why. I would find it odd at the very least. How does that mean I've lead a sheltered life? I don't need to know why...just if it was in error...if it was, she may not realize she has blocked me....tis all Surely she will realise that she has blocked you in error when she next tries to view you or message you? Or think it is I that has blocked her...doesn't the same screen pop up in that situation? It would then mean that she would have to check her own block list to se the error...if indeed it is one..." No, if you have blocked someone it tells you on the screen that you blocked them, and also how long ago. If they blocked you, there is no message, just the standard account suspended/they blocked you blurb. | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks... Bordering on creepy behaviour You've lived a sheltered life if you think that classifies as creepy. Such a whiteknight word I don't see how that equates to me living a sheltered life. If i block someone it's because i want no further contact. I don't then want their acquaintances messaging me to ask me why. I would find it odd at the very least. How does that mean I've lead a sheltered life? I don't need to know why...just if it was in error...if it was, she may not realize she has blocked me....tis all Surely she will realise that she has blocked you in error when she next tries to view you or message you? Or think it is I that has blocked her...doesn't the same screen pop up in that situation? It would then mean that she would have to check her own block list to se the error...if indeed it is one... No, if you have blocked someone it tells you on the screen that you blocked them, and also how long ago. If they blocked you, there is no message, just the standard account suspended/they blocked you blurb." I see...thanks for sorting that out...in that case, if it was in error she will see and simply contact me back at some point...no probs...I shall now put that to one side (hoping she does, obviously) and move right on... | |||
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"I was just going to say maybe she changed her mind. We all do it, even guys. I'm sure you have plenty of other women waiting in the wings PF!!!! " One or two...in fact the wings are getting rather crowded | |||
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"Anyone fancy a pint? Thought you'd never ask " Is a pint of wine too much? | |||
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"Could be an accidental block I've managed that with my touch screen phone.. You could create another profile, then if that's not blocked message her from that one, or ...err..Well that's it really.. Its cool...someone else is going to message and enquire on my behalf - thanks..." Using the forums to get round a ban is against the rules. If someone has decided to drop contact, the best thing to do is accept it and move on. | |||
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