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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

An old FWB (friend with benifit) wants to join up on here. I'm not sure if this is a good thing or bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's an adult she can make her own mind up about joining and staying. Don't tell her anything about the site,let her final out for herself and decide if she likes it. If she needs babysitting it's probably not the site for her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If she's an adult she can make her own mind up about joining and staying. Don't tell her anything about the site,let her final out for herself and decide if she likes it. If she needs babysitting it's probably not the site for her. "

Yer she's a grown adult she more than capable of being on here.

My concern is I no what coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block her page if it bothers you that she's gonna fuck other people.

What's your actual concerns?

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

If she's hot and lives near Swindon, then definately a good thing... for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just block so you can't see pics or local udates or verifications.i block who annoys me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she's an adult she can make her own mind up about joining and staying. Don't tell her anything about the site,let her final out for herself and decide if she likes it. If she needs babysitting it's probably not the site for her.

Yer she's a grown adult she more than capable of being on here.

My concern is I no what coming "

You're concerned that she will find men she likes and will have sex with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If shes an adult who knows what she's doing I don't really see why it is a bad thing her being on here. Why do you think its a bad thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An old FWB (friend with benifit) wants to join up on here. I'm not sure if this is a good thing or bad thing "

Well if se is your type and its something you both want, go for it - however unless your thinking of re joining as a "couple" please don't get all jealous on her if she starts to enjoy herself more than you and meets other men

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"An old FWB (friend with benifit) wants to join up on here. I'm not sure if this is a good thing or bad thing "

Why would it be a bad thing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If she's an adult she can make her own mind up about joining and staying. Don't tell her anything about the site,let her final out for herself and decide if she likes it. If she needs babysitting it's probably not the site for her.

Yer she's a grown adult she more than capable of being on here.

My concern is I no what coming

You're concerned that she will find men she likes and will have sex with them?"

No..... that what i want her to do find some people she can get on with. She's a top women very funny cute and rampant in bed it took a lot to leave her. My concern is she's going to get me involved in aspect i don't want to no about (does that make sense )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"An old FWB (friend with benifit) wants to join up on here. I'm not sure if this is a good thing or bad thing

Well if se is your type and its something you both want, go for it - however unless your thinking of re joining as a "couple" please don't get all jealous on her if she starts to enjoy herself more than you and meets other men "

I'm not the jealous type but i no she will do better than me on here and that bugs me cause she will be telling me. Think I'm just being a sore loser cause I no she will do well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to examine your true feelings for this woman and why her being on here having fun is such an issue to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you need to examine your true feelings for this woman and why her being on here having fun is such an issue to you?"

No mate let's not go deep.

I told her about coming on here

Not cause I love her, just no she's a great girl and will really enjoy the whole fab thing

I think my issue is she will do better than me on it but I'm hopeful she can open some options too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An old FWB (friend with benifit) wants to join up on here. I'm not sure if this is a good thing or bad thing

Well if se is your type and its something you both want, go for it - however unless your thinking of re joining as a "couple" please don't get all jealous on her if she starts to enjoy herself more than you and meets other men

I'm not the jealous type but i no she will do better than me on here and that bugs me cause she will be telling me. Think I'm just being a sore loser cause I no she will do well "

You might not be you being a sore loser, sometimes people enjoy manipulating others into feel lesser than them.

Just wish her luck with it, also tell her you're not interested and block the profile and don't be unblocking it to have a nosey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shes playing games with you ...its obvious that your the one who ended the arrangement ye had as fbs and now she wants to see your reaction to what she is gonna get up to ...without you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"shes playing games with you ...its obvious that your the one who ended the arrangement ye had as fbs and now she wants to see your reaction to what she is gonna get up to ...without you "

How did u no

She's actually upped her game aswel putting allsort of offers on table !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your not interested in her just make it clear to her , she obviously thinks there is more between ye . This wont end well .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"shes playing games with you ...its obvious that your the one who ended the arrangement ye had as fbs and now she wants to see your reaction to what she is gonna get up to ...without you

How did u no

She's actually upped her game aswel putting allsort of offers on table !! "

Upped her game

Earlier you said you were apprehensive about what she might get you involved in. You can refuse to join in.

I'm not sure what your point is in this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's an old friend with benefits, I can't see what your issue is or what your problem with her being on here is?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"shes playing games with you ...its obvious that your the one who ended the arrangement ye had as fbs and now she wants to see your reaction to what she is gonna get up to ...without you

How did u no

She's actually upped her game aswel putting allsort of offers on table !!

Upped her game

Earlier you said you were apprehensive about what she might get you involved in. You can refuse to join in.

I'm not sure what your point is in this thread."

Yes in last few days she's being more provocative since we talked about this site

We finished months ago but talk still cause she cool like

The point was I was worried about her outdoing me but turns out that my issue

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"shes playing games with you ...its obvious that your the one who ended the arrangement ye had as fbs and now she wants to see your reaction to what she is gonna get up to ...without you

How did u no

She's actually upped her game aswel putting allsort of offers on table !!

Upped her game

Earlier you said you were apprehensive about what she might get you involved in. You can refuse to join in.

I'm not sure what your point is in this thread.

Yes in last few days she's being more provocative since we talked about this site

We finished months ago but talk still cause she cool like

The point was I was worried about her outdoing me but turns out that my issue "

I see. Well I hope you both enjoy your time here.

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