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The male EGO!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a man and I have an ego, Yep I said it and yes I do have to constantly massage it to make me feel better about me, But I know that some men have a far larger ego than I have and i'm fine with that i think!! But what I want to understand is how much of a man's ego can cloud a view point on themselves, Like when they are so in love one's self that they can't quite deal with rejection!! So instead of accepting it they get aggressive and verbally attack the person for not seeing what they see in themselves. Just wondered if anyone has fist hand experience with the male ego??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We have only had a couple of men react badly to rejection but I have noticed examples in the forum of male ego influencing responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a man and I have an ego, Yep I said it and yes I do have to constantly massage it to make me feel better about me, But I know that some men have a far larger ego than I have and i'm fine with that i think!! But what I want to understand is how much of a man's ego can cloud a view point on themselves, Like when they are so in love one's self that they can't quite deal with rejection!! So instead of accepting it they get aggressive and verbally attack the person for not seeing what they see in themselves. Just wondered if anyone has fist hand experience with the male ego??"

Yes and I quit Facebook because I was so bored of seeing womens selfies so I don't think men have a monopoly on egos

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have an ego but my id keeps it in check, ergo it doesn't appear much.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It doesn't matter what type of guy I'm with, they take it personally if I don't like the same music as them. I'm usually told my music taste is crap, and am then subjected to hours of tedious description of bands I have never heard of, and never want to.

I think men don't like it when women don't agree with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ego is pretty big to as I go to the gym

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"So instead of accepting it they get aggressive and verbally attack the person for not seeing what they see in themselves. Just wondered if anyone has fist hand experience with the male ego??"

Yes, I don't think it's that they love themselves so much though. I think they don't

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It doesn't matter what type of guy I'm with, they take it personally if I don't like the same music as them. I'm usually told my music taste is crap, and am then subjected to hours of tedious description of bands I have never heard of, and never want to.

I think men don't like it when women don't agree with them."

I would say that's true in some not all cases. I also find lots of men struggle if a woman is funny or holds a different opinion. It's the ones who don't that attract me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a man and I have an ego, Yep I said it and yes I do have to constantly massage it to make me feel better about me, But I know that some men have a far larger ego than I have and i'm fine with that i think!! But what I want to understand is how much of a man's ego can cloud a view point on themselves, Like when they are so in love one's self that they can't quite deal with rejection!! So instead of accepting it they get aggressive and verbally attack the person for not seeing what they see in themselves. Just wondered if anyone has fist hand experience with the male ego??"

Yes I get mountains of abuse because I don't find every message I get to be my type, I can not judge a man by his cock picture and his message of " fancy sucking or sitting on this love/slut" I prefer to just delete and spend my precious time on those that can hold a conversation and be polite. It's not rocket science.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm down with the Id

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an ego but my id keeps it in check, ergo it doesn't appear much. "

Smooth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't matter what type of guy I'm with, they take it personally if I don't like the same music as them. I'm usually told my music taste is crap, and am then subjected to hours of tedious description of bands I have never heard of, and never want to.

I think men don't like it when women don't agree with them."

That all depends on what type of music you like lol!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have an ego but my id keeps it in check, ergo it doesn't appear much.

Smooth "

I'm here all week *doffs hat*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I act and speak my mind..as I do away from Fab..some take that as having an ego on here ..I just know what I want and like

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