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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or are there other people on here who are regularly asked to meet so called 'straight guys'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or are there other people on here who are regularly asked to meet so called 'straight guys'. "

Yeah, they're not straight - they're just liars.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes, most of the guys who contact me are "straight".

It's because some women are put off by bisexual guys, so some of these guys will lie about their sexuality so they don't put women off.

I just ignore what they have put as their sexuality as most of the time it's not true.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I'm bi-curious but only interested in TVs, rather than men.

I do get winks and messages from 'straight' guys, who aren't what I'm looking for (normally) and not what they say they are looking for.

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By *onnybag69Man
over a year ago

Manchester

i fort tvs are men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i fort tvs are men "

You would be incorrect.

Some TV's are men. Some are women. TV does not mean 'man'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i fort tvs are men

You would be incorrect.

Some TV's are men. Some are women. TV does not mean 'man'."

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By *onnybag69Man
over a year ago

Manchester

sorry i fort men who dressedup as women do it for sexual pleasure and a transsexual or transgender post op is a woman

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

All the frickin' time.

Am I bovver'd?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or are there other people on here who are regularly asked to meet so called 'straight guys'.

Yeah, they're not straight - they're just liars."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or are there other people on here who are regularly asked to meet so called 'straight guys'.

Yeah, they're not straight - they're just liars."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apart from the obviously ignorant poster it's clear that I'm not alone. I agree that some women can be put off by bisexual guys but in my experience it's usually seen as a bonus! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry i fort men who dressedup as women do it for sexual pleasure and a transsexual or transgender post op is a woman"

They are crossdressers.

Unfortunately fab lumps transmen, transwomen, male crossdressers and female crossdressers into the same category and refuses to split them out.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"i fort tvs are men "

I mean that I meet men dressed as women, but not men dressed as men. It's the femininity that turns me on.

So when straight guys message me, neither of us are looking for each other.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Apart from the obviously ignorant poster it's clear that I'm not alone. I agree that some women can be put off by bisexual guys but in my experience it's usually seen as a bonus! Lol. "

Some are put off, some prefer it.

Better to be honest and only meet people who want you as you are.

If people lie about their orientation, what else are they lying about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a similar threat.

I don't message I'd it says straight but have met guts who's profile says.

Each to their own I say it's all meant to be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from the obviously ignorant poster it's clear that I'm not alone. I agree that some women can be put off by bisexual guys but in my experience it's usually seen as a bonus! Lol.

Some are put off, some prefer it.

Better to be honest and only meet people who want you as you are.

If people lie about their orientation, what else are they lying about?"

I don't lie about anything else,just that I'm not entirely straight. It's different for women,if I had bi on my profile it wouldn't deter men from messaging me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Although fab is about sex I've always found that honesty means better sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lied,I don't give my exact location either. Ball park area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although fab is about sex I've always found that honesty means better sex! "

So many women give the best oral you'll ever have,someone is lying.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"i fort tvs are men "

TV is basically a term which covers men who dress has women and women who dress has men.

It does annoy me when men put straight on there profile yet state they are looking for TV's .....Who are they trying to kid

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By *onnybag69Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"sorry i fort men who dressedup as women do it for sexual pleasure and a transsexual or transgender post op is a woman

They are crossdressers.

Unfortunately fab lumps transmen, transwomen, male crossdressers and female crossdressers into the same category and refuses to split them out."

so the goal posts keep getting moved but i would think most suffer from a paraphilic disorder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so the goal posts keep getting moved but i would think most suffer from a paraphilic disorder"

You are incorrect.

Experiencing gender dysphoria is not the same as having a fetish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my time on fab I've probably had more 'straight guys' contact me than ladies ..

I think it happens to most of us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't want to start a deep examination of the psychology of sexuality! Just wanted to make a point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i fort tvs are men "

I was just wondering that myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If anyone wants to talk to me in private please message me. I'm open to all. X

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

It is a bit strange when a straight guy asks you to put two fingers up your bum.

Nothing wrong with being curious I hope, you don't know until you try.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just to confirm what I've been saying, a straight guy has just messaged me for the fourth day in a row, asking me to fuck him!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"i fort tvs are men "

mine is mostly silicon and plastic

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Nothing wrong with curiosity.

So if a straight guy contacts another man, to try something new, that's fine. But if he is doing it all the time, and had veris from previous meets, he should admit he is no longer defined as straight, and should update his profile, so you show upon the searches.

You can expand what you are looking for, within the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was straight before I was bi!

I think ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi and love it. Simple

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Just to confirm what I've been saying, a straight guy has just messaged me for the fourth day in a row, asking me to fuck him!"

Well the fact that you didn't block him after the first message might have given him some hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, most of the guys who contact me are "straight".

It's because some women are put off by bisexual guys, so some of these guys will lie about their sexuality so they don't put women off.

I just ignore what they have put as their sexuality as most of the time it's not true."

Agree totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its impossible to get a verification off a straight guy because of his wish not to adverse his bisexuality

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

But you can still give him a verification, and even if he doesn't display it, it will show as varied by you as a TV.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Is it just me or are there other people on here who are regularly asked to meet so called 'straight guys'. "

Yes, on occasion. When asked about their 'sexuality' they say they won't get as many meets being bisexual to which I can wittily and amusingly reply 'and you ain't getting one from me neither'.

I might also add 'your lack of self confidence has failed you yet again' just because.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with curiosity.

So if a straight guy contacts another man, to try something new, that's fine. "

Wouldnt that make him bi curious still not straight?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Nothing wrong with curiosity.

So if a straight guy contacts another man, to try something new, that's fine.

Wouldnt that make him bi curious still not straight?"

It will, in the very least, make him gay and at worst it will make him whatever comes after gay; supergay

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Nothing wrong with curiosity.

So if a straight guy contacts another man, to try something new, that's fine.

Wouldnt that make him bi curious still not straight?"

Yes, but I don't think you have to rush to rewrite your profile before you try something new. But if you do it repeatedly, be honest and help people find you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with curiosity.

So if a straight guy contacts another man, to try something new, that's fine.

Wouldnt that make him bi curious still not straight?

It will, in the very least, make him gay and at worst it will make him whatever comes after gay; supergay "

Oh noes! Not the supergays!

(Seriously, dip me in glitter and send me in their direction...)

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Nothing wrong with curiosity.

So if a straight guy contacts another man, to try something new, that's fine.

Wouldnt that make him bi curious still not straight?

It will, in the very least, make him gay and at worst it will make him whatever comes after gay; supergay

Oh noes! Not the supergays!

(Seriously, dip me in glitter and send me in their direction...)"

Step aside; me first; xxx

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

It's a shame that Fab doesn't have more gender and orientation options. In particular while most people identity as either male or female, gender is a spectrum. Kinsey identified orientation as such decades ago.

I would put money on a lot of guys not admitting to themselves that they have some attraction to men.

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's not simple. I consider myself mainly straight, but with some bi tendencies. These tendencies have been getting stronger over the last few months - so much so I've experimented meeting with men alone. And enjoyed it.

Sexuality is not black and white for a lot of people!

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"

I would put money on a lot of guys not admitting to themselves that they have some attraction to men. "

I have zero attraction to men - but do enjoy playing with other men's cocks and having them play with mine. Go figure

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By *reakish DesireCouple
over a year ago

Bisexuals


"Is it just me or are there other people on here who are regularly asked to meet so called 'straight guys'. "

On the old profile, but a few seem to appear in the Bi chat room, a few have even fabbed my bum

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Im very very confused now .... .com

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

One of the best descriptions was given to me by a trans friend......"girls are too pretty and cocks are too much fun"

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"Is it just me or are there other people on here who are regularly asked to meet so called 'straight guys'.

Yeah, they're not straight - they're just liars."

And if they are lying about that - what else will they lie about??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought EVERYONE on here was bi

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By *d871Man
over a year ago

nowhere


"Sexuality is not black and white for a lot of people!"

I would suggest that sexuality is not black and white for most people ( if not all people)

Unfortunately people in general like labels and labels need to have definitions. I've labeled myself as bi for what that is worth as it indicates that I enjoy sex with both males and females which is true. Unfortunately some see that as a cover for gay whilst others who do have sex with male and female are frightened that they may be labelled as gay. If only we could get rid of the labels and just all be ourselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexuality is not black and white for a lot of people!

I would suggest that sexuality is not black and white for most people ( if not all people)

Unfortunately people in general like labels and labels need to have definitions. I've labeled myself as bi for what that is worth as it indicates that I enjoy sex with both males and females which is true. Unfortunately some see that as a cover for gay whilst others who do have sex with male and female are frightened that they may be labelled as gay. If only we could get rid of the labels and just all be ourselves! "

nah labels are fine,its lingo innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm interested in getting with a trans female but I would still consider myself as straight. I think it's more to do with it being taboo.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

All the frickin' time!

It's hilarious! Straight, bi, in the closet, trying to escape, whatever.

They rarely verify tho'

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By *d871Man
over a year ago

nowhere


"They rarely verify tho'"

Never in my experience!

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"I'm interested in getting with a trans female but I would still consider myself as straight. I think it's more to do with it being taboo.

"

You might consider yourself straight but when people look at your profile and see you are looking to meet TV's then they will go along the assumption you are hiding your sexuality by putting straight

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

I'm totally straight and get fed up of bi men and other "straight" men contacting me - I don't want you to suck my cock or turn me - ok - just saying like... It seems everything is not always as it seems on fab and people sometimes lie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello thailor!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit "

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth


"lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit "

Nothing about being evil just gets on my tits the amount of misinformation and distrust on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit

Nothing about being evil just gets on my tits the amount of misinformation and distrust on here "

no yer wrong I am indeed evil to the core

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit

Nothing about being evil just gets on my tits the amount of misinformation and distrust on here "

I agree...there are so many distrusting married guy's playing behind there partners back its terrible

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth


"lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit

Nothing about being evil just gets on my tits the amount of misinformation and distrust on here

no yer wrong I am indeed evil to the core "

Ok in your case I'll make an exception

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit

Nothing about being evil just gets on my tits the amount of misinformation and distrust on here

no yer wrong I am indeed evil to the core

Ok in your case I'll make an exception "

See another one converted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit

Nothing about being evil just gets on my tits the amount of misinformation and distrust on here "

ooooh so you have tits,,hormones?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I just laugh and think 'bless their wee cotton socks'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just laugh and think 'bless their wee cotton socks'

"

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth


"lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit

Nothing about being evil just gets on my tits the amount of misinformation and distrust on here

no yer wrong I am indeed evil to the core

Ok in your case I'll make an exception

See another one converted "

Only in respect of Mikki being evil

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

As by way of proof how many fabs of my photos from men in the last half hour lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a gay man who fancies trying a bit of fanny. Just to see what it feels like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As by way of proof how many fabs of my photos from men in the last half hour lol "

you fool,,their not really men ,their really sexeeeeeeeeeeeee ladys using fake pics n kiddin on their guys.

your a babe magnet

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth


"As by way of proof how many fabs of my photos from men in the last half hour lol

you fool,,their not really men ,their really sexeeeeeeeeeeeee ladys using fake pics n kiddin on their guys.

your a babe magnet"

WHAT???? All this time I've thought.... Noooooooo I can't cope with that....

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.


"Just to confirm what I've been saying, a straight guy has just messaged me for the fourth day in a row, asking me to fuck him!"

Are you suggesting receptive anal sex is exclusively for gay/bi men and women only??

sexual identidy is hugely different from sexual behaviour...(ask straight men in prison)

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I'm totally straight and get fed up of bi men and other "straight" men contacting me - I don't want you to suck my cock or turn me - ok - just saying like... It seems everything is not always as it seems on fab and people sometimes lie... "

The problem is not the bi men, it's the "straight" men who want to have their cake and eat it.

(so tempted to replace certain words in that)

Can you block messages from single guys? That would stop these messages.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"lol,,us evil tv/ts ,,turning poor innocent straight guys gay,,shocking innit

Nothing about being evil just gets on my tits the amount of misinformation and distrust on here "

moobs?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"What about a gay man who fancies trying a bit of fanny. Just to see what it feels like? "

You said it as a joke [ I think ] but I actually know someone like that at work. I told him that he is a closet straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the straight guys are bi

A lot of the bi guys are gay

Who cares ?

Let them eat cock

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"A lot of the straight guys are bi

A lot of the bi guys are gay

Who cares ?

Let them eat cock "

I think you misspelt cake

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"A lot of the straight guys are bi

A lot of the bi guys are gay

Who cares ?

Let them eat cock "

Hi,

I'm DiamondJoe and I endorse this post

[APPROVED]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about a gay man who fancies trying a bit of fanny. Just to see what it feels like?

You said it as a joke [ I think ] but I actually know someone like that at work. I told him that he is a closet straight "

Not a joke. A gay man a friend of mine knows wanted to see what a woman was like. I wondered if he was straight curious of bi-ish but maybe not

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"What about a gay man who fancies trying a bit of fanny. Just to see what it feels like?

You said it as a joke [ I think ] but I actually know someone like that at work. I told him that he is a closet straight

Not a joke. A gay man a friend of mine knows wanted to see what a woman was like. I wondered if he was straight curious of bi-ish but maybe not "

Gay-curious?

Eh?

Wotevs, as my mum would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about a gay man who fancies trying a bit of fanny. Just to see what it feels like?

You said it as a joke [ I think ] but I actually know someone like that at work. I told him that he is a closet straight

Not a joke. A gay man a friend of mine knows wanted to see what a woman was like. I wondered if he was straight curious of bi-ish but maybe not "

I've always been surprised just how many of my gay friends find it disgusting that I sleep with women (or did until recently at least and it's only the nature of the relationship I find myself in that dictates that).

I've had more ewwww's from them about straight sex than I have from straights about my cock trysts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys should just have 2 profiles 1 straight other bi / gay

Never the two shall meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys should just have 2 profiles 1 straight other bi / gay

Never the two shall meet lol "

It'd be a pretty surreal get together if they ever did?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Guys should just have 2 profiles 1 straight other bi / gay

Never the two shall meet lol

It'd be a pretty surreal get together if they ever did?"

The first will feel superior for being straight

The second will accuse the first for being a closet bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love this. when im on cam showing so many come to me and say nice cock and i ask why it states on there profile there straight and they all say they put straight so women meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the best descriptions was given to me by a trans friend......"girls are too pretty and cocks are too much fun""

V xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are just curious and want to experiment. I see no harm in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, the 'straight' guys are lying, but I have some sympathy. Even as a relatively young 'un on here, there was a huge stigma about being attracted to other men when I was growing up, and after seeing the shit a lot of the more overtly gay guys got growing up in school, it's still something I feel quite intimidated about opening up about and am selective with who I tell.

Given how much worse the generation before me had it, I'm not surprised a lot of older guys struggle to admit it and feel some sort of weird internalised guilt on the subject. Especially when so many people seem borderline proud of their prejudices on their profile.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"What about a gay man who fancies trying a bit of fanny. Just to see what it feels like? "

They contact me In all seriousness though, I have been quite a few gay guys first "fanny experience"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or are there other people on here who are regularly asked to meet so called 'straight guys'.

Yeah, they're not straight - they're just liars."

Has nobody considered the (obvious to me) option that they might simply want to be discreet about it?

Not every Bi-Curious guy wants everyone he knows to find out about it.

There's so little empathy on this site it's unbelievable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, the 'straight' guys are lying, but I have some sympathy. Even as a relatively young 'un on here, there was a huge stigma about being attracted to other men when I was growing up, and after seeing the shit a lot of the more overtly gay guys got growing up in school, it's still something I feel quite intimidated about opening up about and am selective with who I tell.

Given how much worse the generation before me had it, I'm not surprised a lot of older guys struggle to admit it and feel some sort of weird internalised guilt on the subject. Especially when so many people seem borderline proud of their prejudices on their profile. "

Thank you for a sensible answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys should just have 2 profiles 1 straight other bi / gay

Never the two shall meet lol

It'd be a pretty surreal get together if they ever did?"

Schrodinger's man ... simultaneously gay and straight until the box is opened

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Who gives a shit?

I'm quids in either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get guys all the time!!! Asking to meet,or messages saying lovely cock ect!!! Amazzis me sometimes!!! After a message or two,thay still say there straight!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I welcome anyone who says hello to me and I am bisexual - gone past the Bi cur stage lol - but can understand some men not wishing to expose their sexuality in case it cramps their style - well it might just do that, but honesty is bar best policy/........

jon steps off his soap box and bows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing number of men contact Steve and have straight on their profile. When this is pointed out a lot of them say they made a mistake when completing their profile.

So I guess Steve does them a favour in pointing this out to them.

;)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Amazing number of men contact Steve and have straight on their profile. When this is pointed out a lot of them say they made a mistake when completing their profile.

So I guess Steve does them a favour in pointing this out to them.

;)"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking to someone recently who admitted that he thoroughly enjoyed getting oral from other guys but absolutely insisted that since he didn't return the favour he was 100% straight!

My interpretation was he was not only bi but also selfish.

The real world interpretation of bi/straight/gay is totally distorted and disputed on Fab. The description "straight" is virtually useless.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Amazing number of men contact Steve and have straight on their profile. When this is pointed out a lot of them say they made a mistake when completing their profile.

So I guess Steve does them a favour in pointing this out to them.

;)"

Thank you Steve

And whilst you are at it, can also please ask them to correct their height on thie profile. The 4" FabS extension may look good on paper but looses its charm when meeting in the big wide world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get it regularly always makes me laugh straight but want to get it on

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