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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

When you approach a single straight guy with the above offer, and assuming he agrees to fuck your wife, does that mean:

1. You are allowed to video the action?

2. You can take pictures?

3. You alone can select a venue?

4. You have 'director' rights as well?

5. The poor desperate single guy cannot ask questions?

6. The lonely single guy cannot speak with the 'wife'?

7. The single guy should ' just fuck and go"?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Copy and paste this as a reply for the next time you're approached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very disrespectful approach, when we're looking for a single guy, it's to invite him to join in our fun, not be the object of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get in there and bang the fucking hell out of her

By the time hubby has said "hello" I'm wiping my nob on the curtains and making for the door

Don't need to ask me twice

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"I just get in there and bang the fucking hell out of her

By the time hubby has said "hello" I'm wiping my nob on the curtains and making for the door

Don't need to ask me twice "

I have walked away from such situations so many times I am beginning to doubt whether I am doing the right thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was this one couple on a holiday island. I declined because I had other things going on but they were nice enough.

In those situations most of the time the guy just wants to watch or make sure his wife is having fun.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Its a negotiation, for all encounters, not just couple/single guy encounters.

We were trying to arrange a meet with another couple recently, we suggested meeting in a local pub for a quick drink and then back to ours for some fun if everyone was happy. They said that they weren't interested in meeting us before playing and so cancelled. Obviously we were looking for different things, so no meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look a gift horse in the mouth and once ive checked that it isnt a fake invite, as so many are,or that im happy its not dodgy, i just get down to business,strip and fuck her..simples..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you approach a single straight guy with the above offer, and assuming he agrees to fuck your wife, does that mean:

1. You are allowed to video the action?

2. You can take pictures?

3. You alone can select a venue?

4. You have 'director' rights as well?

5. The poor desperate single guy cannot ask questions?

6. The lonely single guy cannot speak with the 'wife'?

7. The single guy should ' just fuck and go"?"

Some even ask you to bring a gift for the wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just ask them ??? Find out there preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you approach a single straight guy with the above offer, and assuming he agrees to fuck your wife, does that mean:

1. You are allowed to video the action?

2. You can take pictures?

3. You alone can select a venue?

4. You have 'director' rights as well?

5. The poor desperate single guy cannot ask questions?

6. The lonely single guy cannot speak with the 'wife'?

7. The single guy should ' just fuck and go"?"

It's their fantasy your the guest If you don't like it move on

Some people have specific recquirements

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Why not just ask them ??? Find out there preferences "

Now why didn't I think of that!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Its a negotiation, for all encounters, not just couple/single guy encounters.

We were trying to arrange a meet with another couple recently, we suggested meeting in a local pub for a quick drink and then back to ours for some fun if everyone was happy. They said that they weren't interested in meeting us before playing and so cancelled. Obviously we were looking for different things, so no meet. "

They must be crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All seems to contrived and managed

The OP might be over calculating his options here, I say;

1. Don't reject any offers of good sex

2. Take it for what it is - they like

look of you etc

3. Plenty of time once met to see

what "ticks the boxes" for you/them

Happy Fabbing

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"All seems to contrived and managed

The OP might be over calculating his options here, I say;

1. Don't reject any offers of good sex

2. Take it for what it is - they like

look of you etc

3. Plenty of time once met to see

what "ticks the boxes" for you/them

Happy Fabbing "

May be I should be asking cpls if this is their ideal single guy meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May be I should be asking cpls if this is their ideal single guy meet.

yes and no -just be yourself and let things take its own course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we have a guy over its on the understanding I will be filming and it will be at our home. Dont like it dont come simples. Its not unfair on the guy its simply the only way we are happy to play. The guy can ask questions, I dont direct, hes welcome to have a coffee and chat before and after. But my wife prefers they communicate through me to avoid the guys who try, and fail, to cut me out of the mix! Its nothing to do with disrespect and we're not using the guy as a toy but we are not going to be told how we should conduct our meets etc either so its a simple case of finding guys who are happy with our set up and wishing the ones who are not good luck in their search

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Life is interesting. If a couple blocks you merely because of your contributions on this thread, my God, need I say more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life is interesting. If a couple blocks you merely because of your contributions on this thread, my God, need I say more! "

It's narcissistic personality disorder better to find out now than later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life is interesting. If a couple blocks you merely because of your contributions on this thread, my God, need I say more!

It's narcissistic personality disorder better to find out now than later

"

In fact I was blocked once because I would not give a discount on 4 new sockets in a living room for a bj

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Life is interesting. If a couple blocks you merely because of your contributions on this thread, my God, need I say more!

It's narcissistic personality disorder better to find out now than later

In fact I was blocked once because I would not give a discount on 4 new sockets in a living room for a bj

"

Did you get the bj though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life is interesting. If a couple blocks you merely because of your contributions on this thread, my God, need I say more!

It's narcissistic personality disorder better to find out now than later

In fact I was blocked once because I would not give a discount on 4 new sockets in a living room for a bj

Did you get the bj though? "

Of course I didn't I actually was pretty pissed as putting 4 sockets in and electriak check for £80 was good anyway

I was just insulted as I did say it would be one price no negotiations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just ask them ??? Find out there preferences

Now why didn't I think of that! "

Just thought it may be better to ask them rather than the people your NOT meeting

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

We spend a couple of weeks chatting and getting to know someone and find out what they like as well as talk about what we hope for at a meet. It seems to work for us.

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