FabSwingers.com forum: Does the description "straight" have any meaning on fab?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a question because I don't believe it does.

Gay guys looking for straight, straight guys looking for meets with TV's, straight guys offering blow jobs, etc.

The description appears to be totally without value.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Hete

exible.

I am not attracted to masculine attributes, but a feminine TV can be a delightful companion for some fun.

I'm aware I'm not technically straight but if I walk like a duck, and talk like a duck...

But I am aware of the paradox of males wanting straight men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been messaged and met quite a few guys on here who say they are straight. Doesn't matter to me but I never message guys first if it says straight do perhaps they're missing out, perhaps not, I'm

Not that special lol.

I think it's all a fluid line these days it's just sex and if it feels nice who cares who's sucking of licking it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I slide up and down the sexual continuum depending on how I feel and the gender of the person I'm interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing means anything on Fab lol

There are more liars on Fab than there are in the houses of Parliament

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight still means very much straight to some of us. But we take it with a pinch of salt on most profiles. Weve had a few couples with straight females wanting to play with my wife so its not just men who feel the need to lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind they have straight on their profile. We look at it as a way of screening. As we only play with people that are Bi. If their profile says straight, they don't match what we're looking for. If they send us a message saying their bi, well there is some dishonesty somewhere. If your planning on having sex with someone, there has to be a little trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The straight single male experience:

Week 1: Only looking for single females who can accommodate.

No success.

Week 2: Looking for women and couples, but absolutely no male on male play.

No success.

Week 3: Looking for women and couples, will play bi but oral only

No success.

Week 4: Open to all, including TVs and CDs and happy to take it up the sphincter

Success!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

W is straight - totally -

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The straight single male experience:

Week 1: Only looking for single females who can accommodate.

No success.

Week 2: Looking for women and couples, but absolutely no male on male play.

No success.

Week 3: Looking for women and couples, will play bi but oral only

No success.

Week 4: Open to all, including TVs and CDs and happy to take it up the sphincter

Success! "

Hilarious. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's the liberation some get from the meeting and playing .

From the early days in clubs where there were bodies everywhere , to the openness of admitting that certain attractions grew over time , I guess the shackles come off .

I guess as I find convincing t girls attractive I may be bi curious . Happily accepting oral , but not to give back . Bi selfish perhaps ?

Sabrina had never played with a woman before we began swinging , and now she loves it .

I guess it's just letting go for us , not allowing previous conditioning to stop our sexual awakening .

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Think I would rather buy a dog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were both straight as m wouldn't want to play with male f wouldn't want to play with female can't find one couple to meet maby we should lie and change to both bi would that be acceptable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually comes down to a few pints and nobody finding out! It's funny how intrigued straight guys are about sex with men ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure about other men but I don't find men attractive in the least.

Have no desire to suck a dick or take one up the ass either.

But don't worry I'm sure I am a raging gay guy by some form of logic.

By the metric going on here most females are raging lesbians too and don't like men because they fancy a bit of female tush

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I have no interest in men, regardless of what form they are in, bi, TV, gay etc. I will play with couples but there would be no male.male contact, it simply doesn't interest me.

So for some of us, it still does have a meaning on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I'm not straight is when I take it up the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And he has a veri from a ts! Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And he has a veri from a ts! Ha ha "

If its aimed at me please by all means call me gay, it'll make me laugh.

I disregard anything bi guys say due to their outright thirstyness. Had to block men because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And he has a veri from a ts! Ha ha

If its aimed at me please by all means call me gay, it'll make me laugh.

I disregard anything bi guys say due to their outright thirstyness. Had to block men because of it.

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just made me laugh, not calling anybody anything. See earlier post from

Me, I never message guys who say they are straight but have had and do get messages from them.

It's all just meant to be fun and enjoyment without judgement as far as I'm concerned but forgive me for finding it funny , but it really is when I read ' I have no interest in men' with a veri from a man who dresses in women's clothes!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

My post from another thread......

What is it that gay or bi men do then?

I mean, you aren't bi if you suck a guy's cock or let him shove a dildo up there.

Do you have to add kissing to the whole thing or is that allowed as long as you don't "fancy men"?

Are you bi/gay if you enjoy the feeling of taking a cock in your ass but wish it was something else ?

Or doesn't it count if your wife is cheering along...or making tea?

OP...liking ass play doesn't make you bi. Just whether you enjoy sex with men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab I'm not sure anything has much meaning. There are too many interests at work.

We put Marc as straight because he doesn't want a guy to play with him and he doesn't want to play with a guy. But we have had mfm and mfmf play, which a lot of people not on fab would find questionable as well.

I don't really care, to be honest. We use it as a signal to others that we aren't interested in m on m play. I just wish people could be honest because I won't play with people who I know are lying about something so unimportant from the outset.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And he has a veri from a ts! Ha ha

If its aimed at me please by all means call me gay, it'll make me laugh.

I disregard anything bi guys say due to their outright thirstyness. Had to block men because of it.

just made me laugh, not calling anybody anything. See earlier post from

Me, I never message guys who say they are straight but have had and do get messages from them.

I'm not hiding anything and you can see who I have met. However please message them with that last paragraph and any other transexual and you probably won't like the results.

If I fancied men as a default sexuality for myself I would of had a hundred verifications listed. But I don't and never will.

The only dick I like is my own, think I'll make a top hat for him.

And as for straight guys messaging you I can't comment. It's up to them but why does it matter if its just a label to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am completely straight! But i am comfortable in the company of other men (if there's women around too) i have straight, gay and TV looking and winking my profile but i just ignore it.

At the end of the day there are alot of fakes on here, you just have to sift through them to find the real/decent members

"Just a question because I don't believe it does.

Gay guys looking for straight, straight guys looking for meets with TV's, straight guys offering blow jobs, etc.

The description appears to be totally without value."

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

No idea.

I generally don;t ask straight men about how they view or are in the process of re-evaluating their sexuality after such encounters.

None of my bee's wax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And he has a veri from a ts! Ha ha "

and that means ????

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"Nothing means anything on Fab lol

There are more liars on Fab than there are in the houses of Parliament

That !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question because I don't believe it does.

Gay guys looking for straight, straight guys looking for meets with TV's, straight guys offering blow jobs, etc.

The description appears to be totally without value."

I think hose who profess to be str8 start with good intentions but then after a few months they see how pointless it is chasing mythical meets and well,they get so frustrated that some of them go over to the other side out of desperation. I guess its a bit like being in an all male prison. You go stir crazy after a while and really, does it matter who is fellating you as long as they are willing and do a good job?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And he has a veri from a ts! Ha ha

If its aimed at me please by all means call me gay, it'll make me laugh.

I disregard anything bi guys say due to their outright thirstyness. Had to block men because of it.

just made me laugh, not calling anybody anything. See earlier post from

Me, I never message guys who say they are straight but have had and do get messages from them.

I'm not hiding anything and you can see who I have met. However please message them with that last paragraph and any other transexual and you probably won't like the results.

If I fancied men as a default sexuality for myself I would of had a hundred verifications listed. But I don't and never will.

The only dick I like is my own, think I'll make a top hat for him.

And as for straight guys messaging you I can't comment. It's up to them but why does it matter if its just a label to you?"

Sorry that was regarding tv as states tv/ts and I fully accept a ts is not a man in women's clothes, as apised to a tv who likes to dress. Apology if offended not my intention.

Really not looking to get into anything I find stuff funny and am clearly bored hence posting on here. Be happy, enjoy and most if all be safe and happy swinging x

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"And he has a veri from a ts! Ha ha "

But does it say that they played?

We have a veri from a "MM couple" but it's actually the City Slickers organiser because we went to a City Slickers party. It doesn't mean we played with them, just met them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmmmmmm !!!!!!!

You are either

1. Straight, usually means MF/F sex only

2. Bi cur, ie; sitting on the fence

between sexes lol

3. Bisexual, enjoy sexual company of

both sexes - that be me then lol

4. Gay/Lesbian, same sex relationships

only

Simples xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this should say

'You should either be:'..........

Anyone that says they are one thing but regularly does another is lying to themselves and others and shouldn't/can't be trusted! In my opinion said people should be named. Its the same with going BB too many profiles and i include couples, females and males in this that state 'clean' or 'safe' etc and play bare or ask if you're happy to play bare! NOPE where's that block button again?

"Mmmmmmmmmm !!!!!!!

You are either

1. Straight, usually means MF/F sex only

2. Bi cur, ie; sitting on the fence

between sexes lol

3. Bisexual, enjoy sexual company of

both sexes - that be me then lol

4. Gay/Lesbian, same sex relationships

only

Simples xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think this should say

'You should either be:'..........

Mmmmmmmmmm !!!!!!!

You are either

1. Straight, usually means MF/F sex only

2. Bi cur, ie; sitting on the fence

between sexes lol

3. Bisexual, enjoy sexual company of

both sexes - that be me then lol

4. Gay/Lesbian, same sex relationships

only

Simples xx

thanks for correcting my grammatical error - I am bisexual

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

does to us, you have no idea how many we say no to simply because their profile says bi or bi curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question because I don't believe it does.

Gay guys looking for straight, straight guys looking for meets with TV's, straight guys offering blow jobs, etc.

The description appears to be totally without value."
of course it does straight as a dye ,straight as an arrow ,straight to the pub or club ,straight up the jacksie all common practices on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question because I don't believe it does.

Gay guys looking for straight, straight guys looking for meets with TV's, straight guys offering blow jobs, etc.

The description appears to be totally without value."

Well i am straight. Very very straight, i have no interest in playing with other fems at all and only look for bi guys, so it has meaning for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It gets confusing coz I personally consider myself straight but I do occasionally play bi.. Like twice in my life.. there was a man present on both occasions but I wouldn't say that was enough to call myself bi at this point..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasnt your grammar i was correcting mate, it was just the should be. It was all meant in humour

"I think this should say

'You should either be:'..........

Mmmmmmmmmm !!!!!!!

You are either

1. Straight, usually means MF/F sex only

2. Bi cur, ie; sitting on the fence

between sexes lol

3. Bisexual, enjoy sexual company of

both sexes - that be me then lol

4. Gay/Lesbian, same sex relationships

only

Simples xx

thanks for correcting my grammatical error - I am bisexual "

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By *mandaboundTV/TS
over a year ago

Newton Le Willows

If it's clarified in the rest of the profile I.E. Tempted, experimenting then it still means something as a headline. If someone uses it as a shield to hide behind then it's not exactly being open and that to me makes it more of an issue. However that's just my view from my particular circumstances

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Not really

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

......."I'm not hiding anything and you can see who I have met....."

This isn't strictly accurate because the veri from the TS is hidden.

Labels are an indicator of what's inside. Doesn't say anything about the flavour.

Fab members should be able to meet who they like, for what they like and have a veri on show or not with no fear of anyone commenting negatively.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I can quite firmly say for myself that straight does most definitely mean straight, I have no interest in having any sexual contact with any man or anyone who used to be a man but now identifies differently.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've zero interest in firm masculine bodies or cocks.

I like feminine faces and bodies.

I don't see any bi tendency in me at all.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"Nothing means anything on Fab lol

There are more liars on Fab than there are in the houses of Parliament

Now that is slightly exaggerated

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"I've zero interest in firm masculine bodies or cocks.

I like feminine faces and bodies.

I don't see any bi tendency in me at all. "

Then you had better stop "sharing photos of my shiny white arse"

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By *ames GentlyMan
over a year ago

cannock

"Just a question because I don't believe it does.

Gay guys looking for straight, straight guys looking for meets with TV's, straight guys offering blow jobs, etc.

The description appears to be totally without value."

It means nothing and annoys me!

I get straight couples asking for bi play.

Its all because of people prejudice about bi men. Or curious bi men.

I don't fancy men

But in a room with people playing you get into a daisy chain and you may be getting oral from a lady and you are giving oral to her husband

It doesn't mean anything to me other than we all enjoy a good time

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Just a question because I don't believe it does.

Gay guys looking for straight, straight guys looking for meets with TV's, straight guys offering blow jobs, etc.

The description appears to be totally without value."

You think that is bad

Wait until you meet a guy who is 6'2" and looses 4" overnight before meeting. I guess he must have measured himself with his c**k on his head. Gives a whole new meaning to d**khead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, OP, I think it does. It means I don't shag men or engage in any gay or bisexual activity with them. Can't really see the ambiguity of that or are you suggesting there's no such thing as a straight man on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight by definition means erect ,yes so as most men ( not all I know a couple who persevered) get erect then my answer is yes

hugs

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

" I have no interest in men, regardless of what form they are in, bi, TV, gay etc. I will play with couples but there would be no male.male contact, it simply doesn't interest me.

So for some of us, it still does have a meaning on here. "

I have no desire to have any sexual contact with another woman: period. If someone wants to bamboozle me with sliding scales of sexuality to somehow make it easier to accept their own "confusion" good luck with that.

Some of us really are straight: and happy in our own skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget, Bisocial and Bifriendly.

You are ok for some contact in a couple or mmf play. Rather than scream, thinking you have caught the Bi.

Women are more bisocial/friendly towards another woman, if 'her' man is playing with another, could be just checking he is not enjoying himself too much lol.

Men helping get the other man's cock in or in a DP, change the condom for him as he is busy with her, the contact to get into positions for mmf fun.

Maybe biboth should be introduced. Happy to have sex with both in a mmf or ffm. Bisexual seems to mean has sex with man or woman alone.

Who would overthink such things lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I have no interest in men, regardless of what form they are in, bi, TV, gay etc. I will play with couples but there would be no male.male contact, it simply doesn't interest me.

So for some of us, it still does have a meaning on here.

Some of us really are straight: and happy in our own skin. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spaghetti lesbians are the same, straight until wet. Personally, I can't think of anything worse than a vagina near me, so it holds true here definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"......."I'm not hiding anything and you can see who I have met....."

This isn't strictly accurate because the veri from the TS is hidden.

Labels are an indicator of what's inside. Doesn't say anything about the flavour.

Fab members should be able to meet who they like, for what they like and have a veri on show or not with no fear of anyone commenting negatively. "

Shit. Thought it was displayed

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

" I have no interest in men, regardless of what form they are in, bi, TV, gay etc. I will play with couples but there would be no male.male contact, it simply doesn't interest me.

So for some of us, it still does have a meaning on here.

Some of us really are straight: and happy in our own skin. "

It's not just us then.....and no, we aren't missing out on anything...we are straight are perfectly happy with that

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

" I have no interest in men, regardless of what form they are in, bi, TV, gay etc. I will play with couples but there would be no male.male contact, it simply doesn't interest me.

So for some of us, it still does have a meaning on here.

Some of us really are straight: and happy in our own skin.

It's not just us then.....and no, we aren't missing out on anything...we are straight are perfectly happy with that

"
Couldn't agree more, Flik and Paul!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

supa-straights vs supa-gays

0 - 6

Supa-gays; more fun; i think i will meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a person can be straight but enjoy sex with other genders. If the topic was sexuality and somebody said they were straight I believe that is emotional. I have looked at many females and thought they were totally hit and gave a slight stirring in the pants area but I think that is more attraction. I have recently joined this scene and have had physical encounters with 2 women, both experiences totally different but neither made me question my sexuality. Our profile says straight which we are but what's the harm in experimenting.

Answering your question, I think people disregard what is written on profiles or just can't be arsed to read them judging by some of the asks we have had xx

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

The difference between Straight and B I is 5 pints of larger

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"The difference between Straight and B I is 5 pints of larger "

No, it is a bottle of Champagne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I slide up and down the sexual continuum depending on how I feel and the gender of the person I'm interested in. "

I've heard you slide up and down more than that

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

" I have no interest in men, regardless of what form they are in, bi, TV, gay etc. I will play with couples but there would be no male.male contact, it simply doesn't interest me.

So for some of us, it still does have a meaning on here.

Some of us really are straight: and happy in our own skin. "

Me too

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm not bi...my boyfriend is though....

Means something to them... Might not be your definition it's there definition though. I've no interest in meeting guys so my definition is such.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

" I have no interest in men, regardless of what form they are in, bi, TV, gay etc. I will play with couples but there would be no male.male contact, it simply doesn't interest me.

So for some of us, it still does have a meaning on here.

Some of us really are straight: and happy in our own skin.

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before joining fab I thought that bi guys were an uncommon thing, but if the forums are anything to go by it seems pretty prevalent.

It's been a bit of a revelation tbh.

Do the forums reflect the population of fab or is it that bi guys are a little more vocal on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question because I don't believe it does.

Gay guys looking for straight, straight guys looking for meets with TV's, straight guys offering blow jobs, etc.

The description appears to be totally without value.

You think that is bad

Wait until you meet a guy who is 6'2" and looses 4" overnight before meeting. I guess he must have measured himself with his c**k on his head. Gives a whole new meaning to d**khead"

You do make me -

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I can quite firmly say for myself that straight does most definitely mean straight, I have no interest in having any sexual contact with any man or anyone who used to be a man but now identifies differently.

Cal"

thank feck, thought we were all alone lol

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