FabSwingers.com forum: do us singles stand a chance

By *elloyea OP Man
over a year ago

southend

is it me or do us single males never get much luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

from what I read in the forums single men have very little luck on here. I know that only a fraction of site members use the forums so it might not be representative.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"from what I read in the forums single men have very little luck on here. I know that only a fraction of site members use the forums so it might not be representative."

Well some of us do surprisingly well

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Effort in = reward out

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"from what I read in the forums single men have very little luck on here. I know that only a fraction of site members use the forums so it might not be representative.

Well some of us do surprisingly well

Yes that does seem to be the case but you/they do appear to be in the minority

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck"

Sometimes we get lucky....usually we get rewarded...x

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"from what I read in the forums single men have very little luck on here. I know that only a fraction of site members use the forums so it might not be representative.

Well some of us do surprisingly well

Yes that does seem to be the case but you/they do appear to be in the minority

True...its an unfair fab world for single fellas...seems to work to my advantage though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys struggle, some are very popular. Depends on the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck"

you make of it what you make of it....

you get out what you put in.. so are you taking advantage of all of the avenues open to you...

I am.... i am having a blast!

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Some guys struggle, some are very popular. Depends on the guy.

Pretty much like being single out in the real world I find....

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By *elloyea OP Man
over a year ago

southend

"from what I read in the forums single men have very little luck on here. I know that only a fraction of site members use the forums so it might not be representative.

Well some of us do surprisingly well

no offence i mean us normal looking guys lol.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck

you make of it what you make of it....

you get out what you put in.. so are you taking advantage of all of the avenues open to you...

I am.... i am having a blast!"

^^^ Good man - so am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In reality no we dont, but it depends also where you live as some spots are hotter and colder thru out the UK lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck"

I keep buying a lottery ticket, so far no luck.

On a serious note, some do, some don't, but I wouldn't put it down to luck.

Good, detailed profile and good photos is a good start.

Don't expect to be up to your chin in foof inside the hour.

Get to know people, let them see your personality and don't whinge.

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck

you make of it what you make of it....

you get out what you put in.. so are you taking advantage of all of the avenues open to you...

I am.... i am having a blast!"
well said if you go about it the right way it's real easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Statistically speaking, I do wonder how many different men each single woman and couple looking for single men would have to shag in order for each single guy to get just one meet. Never mind one a month...or one every two months.

Sometimes I feel bad offering single guys profile/message advice because, contrary to popular belief, it isn't all about effort. The numbers are stacked against them.

-Courtney

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"from what I read in the forums single men have very little luck on here. I know that only a fraction of site members use the forums so it might not be representative.

Well some of us do surprisingly well

no offence i mean us normal looking guys lol.

I do think any of us single blokes on here have to work twice as hard to try and stand out from the crowd - not all about looks though - many of the women and couple swill tell you that....

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck"
. There is a lot of competition so in order to compete your profile has to be well written and stand out from the crowd .

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I avoid using "luck" as a strategy.

It is needed but you should minimise its importance.

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By *elloyea OP Man
over a year ago

southend

thanks for the advice guys i ll keep going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Singles on here we know do great and fuck greater.

It's in yours hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck"
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Patience is the key - i do alright considering i am no oil painting and "comfy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Statistically speaking, I do wonder how many different men each single woman and couple looking for single men would have to shag in order for each single guy to get just one meet. Never mind one a month...or one every two months.

Sometimes I feel bad offering single guys profile/message advice because, contrary to popular belief, it isn't all about effort. The numbers are stacked against them.

-Courtney"

In my local area, there's maybe two single ladies - including me - six couples & 30+ men. So, in theory I could have a different man every day for a month.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

As an indication I have been on hear since bringing my profile back to life in April of this year and have had 26 meets off fab (not to mention a good few return meets not included in that figure) - all quality meets too, I would hasten to add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have also noticed on previous threads its been said that those who spend to much time in the gym wont be as popular as someone with a normal build. As they think they just wanna flex their muscles loll.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"from what I read in the forums single men have very little luck on here. I know that only a fraction of site members use the forums so it might not be representative.

Well some of us do surprisingly well

Yes. Some do surprisingly well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I feel bad offering single guys profile/message advice because, contrary to popular belief, it isn't all about effort. The numbers are stacked against them.

-Courtney

In my local area, there's maybe two single ladies - including me - six couples & 30+ men. So, in theory I could have a different man every day for a month.

Exactly. Best get started, then

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I feel bad offering single guys profile/message advice because, contrary to popular belief, it isn't all about effort. The numbers are stacked against them.

-Courtney"

this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luck only plays a little part, attraction is key!!

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Luck only plays a little part, attraction is key!!

And coming from an extreme climate helps...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Luck only plays a little part, attraction is key!!

And coming from an extreme climate helps...

Aye, we all need a usp!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I feel bad offering single guys profile/message advice because, contrary to popular belief, it isn't all about effort. The numbers are stacked against them.

-Courtney

In my local area, there's maybe two single ladies - including me - six couples & 30+ men. So, in theory I could have a different man every day for a month.

Exactly. Best get started, then

-Courtney"

Well, come to Scarborough, warm me up with that lovely purple strap on & I'll consider taking a few for the team

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Like everyone said, it's about effort not luck

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Agreed put the effort in and you will get something out of it

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I,m old and ugly and I do ok you must be doing something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said if u put effort in you get rewarded if u think u can just come on here write a few posts and get laid it doesn't quite work like that.

I like to think I'm average looking but I'm not unlucky in here.

Get yourself to some socials have a laugh you'll get more attention! (Both in the swinging world and in the "vanilla"

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"Like everyone said, it's about effort not luck

Hit the nail on the head.

Be polite, have empathy with others and bloomingwell work at it. It works, I'm living (only just.lol) proof.

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By *elloyea OP Man
over a year ago

southend

"Like everyone said, it's about effort not luck

Hit the nail on the head.

Be polite, have empathy with others and bloomingwell work at it. It works, I'm living (only just.lol) proof.

well looks like you guys are having fun ,i aint about to give up yet

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Like everyone said, it's about effort not luck

Hit the nail on the head.

Be polite, have empathy with others and bloomingwell work at it. It works, I'm living (only just.lol) proof.

well looks like you guys are having fun ,i aint about to give up yet

I think you'd be ideally suited to organised socials and clubs having read your profile

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By *elloyea OP Man
over a year ago

southend

"Like everyone said, it's about effort not luck

Hit the nail on the head.

Be polite, have empathy with others and bloomingwell work at it. It works, I'm living (only just.lol) proof.

well looks like you guys are having fun ,i aint about to give up yet

I think you'd be ideally suited to organised socials and clubs having read your profile

do you think, i think id like to take things slower than that ,not put myself right out there

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck"

Usually the guys that do get lucky don't post in the forums. Too busy getting some I believe lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few single guys who do well on here, however they put the effort in , they attend socials and create friends on fab which then leads to meets.

your profile won't appeal to a lot of people as you only want to watch which isn't what a lot of people want, so you only hit a small % of the site, then scale that down to your location... Then you can't accommodate.. Then you have 2 photos which haven't been done with any effort...

I often say look in your area at other profiles, what can you offer that they can't? What would make people want to meet you instead of them?

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By *elloyea OP Man
over a year ago

southend

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck

Usually the guys that do get lucky don't post in the forums. Too busy getting some I believe lol

fare point lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Like everyone said, it's about effort not luck

Hit the nail on the head.

Be polite, have empathy with others and bloomingwell work at it. It works, I'm living (only just.lol) proof.

well looks like you guys are having fun ,i aint about to give up yet

I think you'd be ideally suited to organised socials and clubs having read your profile

do you think, i think id like to take things slower than that ,not put myself right out there"

Organised socials are just what they say they are, nothing more than people getting together to meet socially. We attended several and they're a really good no pressure way of getting to know people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck"

Tbh you're looking for a small niche as well.

I doubt there's many women here looking to meet up with a guy solely for mutual maturation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do quiet well had two meets in the first week, but ive had 3 of my verifications leave the site and a 4th is leaving as well so erm take that as you will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It totally depends on what you are looking for .

We are very versatile , not adverse to a quick outdoor meet ( had three tonight and all single guys ) or a long meet at a hotel or at your place .

The only thing we won't do is a social. Which is a waste of time in our opinion .

By all means , all you single guys that are struggling , do a wonderful profile and attend all these socials . For some that works . But our advice is to look for couples and single women who are looking to meet and send a face pic with your opening message . Make yourself available , don't beat about the bush and enjoy yourself by meeting and playing .

Get off the forum and get out in the world of fab where people are meeting

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I know a lot of single men on here do much better than I do.

They have the free time and no need of babysitter. They also decline many more than I do.

When my single female friends and I head out we usually enjoy Sex with other single men

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The site works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck"

Ive got this single profile and 2 couples profiles with women ive met off here? FAB works right if you use it right

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It is a question of luck (or probability or circumstance or whatever you want to call it) in my opinion. If it was down to effort the guys who sent hundreds of polite, well crafted messages would be hugely successful and from what I read they aren't. The ones that do well are usually articulate, probably able to communicate well in writing and have a certain confidence socially all in conjunction with happening to contact people who find them attractive. I imagine that if you are slightly shyer or find it difficult to get your thoughts down on paper it is more difficult. That's why I often suggest socials, it gets over some of those things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luck comes into it a lot, being yourself helps as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I feel bad offering single guys profile/message advice because, contrary to popular belief, it isn't all about effort. The numbers are stacked against them.

-Courtney

In my local area, there's maybe two single ladies - including me - six couples & 30+ men. So, in theory I could have a different man every day for a month.

Exactly. Best get started, then

-Courtney

Well, come to Scarborough, warm me up with that lovely purple strap on & I'll consider taking a few for the team

Oi! I missed this last night. I'm on my way.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found being genuine and open and showing and telling what you want helps. Also yes this is a sex site but a lot of blokes seem to think that means they are entitled to fuck anyone they contact. I'm a firm believer swinging is about the sex but people don't fuck people they don't like so you still need to wooo people, from full conversations to a picture and what your looking for it depends on the person and what you want. It's definatly not luck it's basically pulling online but a lot better if you catch sum ones attention as everyone wants a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the famous line says

"You can either let it happen or make it happen".

Probably true of life. Treat Fab as a slice of reality, if we walked into a bar with 20,000 people (big bar, I know), how many would talk to you? How many would have a drink with you? How many would invite you home for coffee?

When you look at Fab that way it helps you manage your expectations, just because it's a bar, doesn't mean everyone wants to drink with you, just because it's a swinging site, doesn't mean everyone wants.... (well as you are a voyeur), to let you watch them "at it"

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Sometimes I feel bad offering single guys profile/message advice because, contrary to popular belief, it isn't all about effort. The numbers are stacked against them.

-Courtney

In my local area, there's maybe two single ladies - including me - six couples & 30+ men. So, in theory I could have a different man every day for a month.

Exactly. Best get started, then

-Courtney

Well, come to Scarborough, warm me up with that lovely purple strap on & I'll consider taking a few for the team

Oi! I missed this last night. I'm on my way.

-Courtney"

Dear Santa.. for Christmas I wanna watch....

And I don't mean a Rolex..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take into account most men can be mongoloids like in real life, or worse you then have a good chunk of men thrown in with them who are otherwise normal and good for meets.

The top percentage of men who meet off here and out in the world don't get lumped in with these types.

Women will always aim for the top regardless of how you perceive yourself.

I remember a few years back it wasn't as cut throat. The surge of guys with bad game is hurting the site.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck"

It's not about luck. The simple fact of this place is that the numbers are stacked against the single men.

Some guys will do ok. These will generally be the good looking fit one's. I guess that's like in real life but maybe a bit more magnified here. I've found us average guy's just have to work a bit harder and longer that is all. If you have an attractive personality you'll do ok eventually, it'll probably just take you a bit more time and effort than the guy with the six pack and big dick. Just hang in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck"

I get better luck on tinder than I do here

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

It's not a numbers game at all. There could be 50 blokes in a room and I don't find one of them attractive enough to get naked with, but I would hazard a guess that most of the 50 blokes would want to fuck me.

As for thinking that all women only want a six pack Adonis, you're wrong.

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

We meet guys at clubs and then stay in touch on here. It's much easier to see who/what you get in terms of personality and appeal which you don't get on the site. We've also been let down loads by single guys on here so we don't bother meeting guys off here now. To many timewasters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck"

I've had my moments

IMHO what worked was being selective in choosing who I contacyed and creative with my messages, not having unrealistic expectations , and just being, for want of a better word, normal

To that extent I've made a few friends, been on some social meets, some of which went further, some of which didn't, and now have a few good friends with whom I can have fun, and in all honesty I rarely browse profiles and more... It's a cliché but it really is quality over quantity and I have enough quality, it can work if you make it work

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"It's not a numbers game at all. There could be 50 blokes in a room and I don't find one of them attractive enough to get naked with, but I would hazard a guess that most of the 50 blokes would want to fuck me.

As for thinking that all women only want a six pack Adonis, you're wrong. "

A lot of it is to do with numbers. Men outnumber women on here by a huge proportion. Statistically that has to make a difference. Not for everyone of course and at the end of the day everyone has difference things they are attracted to.

And I agree, all women certainly aren't looking for an Adonis. There's way more to attraction than that, but the good looking guys are always going to do better than a traditionally average looking guy. Like they would in real life.

Thank God all women aren't after just traditional good looks and a six pack otherwise there would be a lot of lonely men in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck"

You make your own luck,and some of us seem to be very very lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank God all women aren't after just traditional good looks and a six pack otherwise there would be a lot of lonely men in the world."

But what is it a six pack of?

Walnut Whips? I'd totally be all over that.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Thank God all women aren't after just traditional good looks and a six pack otherwise there would be a lot of lonely men in the world.

But what is it a six pack of?

Walnut Whips? I'd totally be all over that. "

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Now I want a walnut whip toooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now I want a walnut whip toooo

Just been informed they only come in singles or 3 packs. So...what is the 6 pack?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the real world, I do alright. In fab, nothing, I must be some kind of ogre lol.

I don't put in enough effort and I have standards so it's taking time for me.

Like others have said, effort + decent looks * good personality = results.

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

I have found that the hardest part is getting a reply, which is understandable if you believe the "I get 500 messages a day ". Once you get that then it is just like the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I treat Fab as a bit of fun. Anything else is a bonus

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

As for thinking that all women only want a six pack Adonis, you're wrong.

Thank God all women aren't after just traditional good looks and a six pack otherwise there would be a lot of lonely men in the world."

It's still not a numbers game, it's about attraction. You could be the only bloke here but if the 10,000 women don't want you, you don't get laid.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

As for thinking that all women only want a six pack Adonis, you're wrong.

Thank God all women aren't after just traditional good looks and a six pack otherwise there would be a lot of lonely men in the world.

It's still not a numbers game, it's about attraction. You could be the only bloke here but if the 10,000 women don't want you, you don't get laid.

Very true. It always comes down to attraction but the odds of finding someone is much higher or lower (depending on whether you're a man or a woman on here) because of the numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck"

I don't meet of the site I have messaged a few lately that I have liked the look of but nothing happens

The choice is mAssive for girls so just leave them to it now

But at a party tomorrow night and a club Saturday I like the social side as much if not more than the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for thinking that all women only want a six pack Adonis, you're wrong.

Thank God all women aren't after just traditional good looks and a six pack otherwise there would be a lot of lonely men in the world.

It's still not a numbers game, it's about attraction. You could be the only bloke here but if the 10,000 women don't want you, you don't get laid.

Over the Internet women can control who they fancy in real life they can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im guessing that depends on the guy and how he comes across to other fab members

i prefer single guys myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give up. Be honest with what you are looking for. My Mrs wants to see guys wanking so there's hope!

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By *aycee70Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Some do, even those that meet us !

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

"Effort in = reward out

I put a lot of effort in. My reward when I do get replies and chatting is last minute cancellations. So fustrating

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

" Over the Internet women can control who they fancy in real life they can't "

I'm going to assume that you wrote those words but meant something else entirely, didn't you?

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck"

Single guys are not a problem.

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By *tterlysluterlyCouple
over a year ago

northampton

We have had 2 meets set up with single guys in the last few weeks. On both occasions the guys stopped communicating a couple of days prior to the meet...obviously never intending to really meet us. It happens so often, that's why someone with lots of good verifications will do well & those without are not looked at seriously IMAO

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

"Singles on here we know do great and fuck greater.

It's in yours hands. "

I'd prefer it to be in a woman's hands but I'm struggling to get another meet.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

" Over the Internet women can control who they fancy in real life they can't

I'm going to assume that you wrote those words but meant something else entirely, didn't you?"

I'm sure he didn't

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"from what I read in the forums single men have very little luck on here. I know that only a fraction of site members use the forums so it might not be representative.

Well some of us do surprisingly well

Yes. Some do surprisingly well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me about it, then people on here ask why no veri and think your fake!! Can't win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have had some success but i do have callouses on my fingertips lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"from what I read in the forums single men have very little luck on here. I know that only a fraction of site members use the forums so it might not be representative.

Well some of us do surprisingly well

no offence i mean us normal looking guys lol.

I'm as normal as they get!!!!

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes we/they do stand a chance.

I've had some great times.

Just don't be a dick-head and you'll be alreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have had 2 meets set up with single guys in the last few weeks. On both occasions the guys stopped communicating a couple of days prior to the meet...obviously never intending to really meet us. It happens so often, that's why someone with lots of good verifications will do well & those without are not looked at seriously IMAO "

Totally agree, and get this happening to me time and time again, so i have a new formula which makes no sense whatsoever: they need a veri, but in a set time frame, if they have been on fab for over a yr and no veri- then thats a no go. If they have 1 veri and been on longer than like 6 mnths, thats a no go, cuz i reckon that theve paid someone 2 verify them. If they write less than about 4/5 lines on their profile, i think it means that they genuinly cant b arsed about it all. If they have been using fab for less than 6 wks, they are most likely to not be on much longer. These are my own guidelines btw!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have found that the hardest part is getting a reply, which is understandable if you believe the "I get 500 messages a day ". Once you get that then it is just like the real world. "

I'm on 468 if I could I'd upload a screen shot to prove were not making it up but admin don't approve screens shots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luck is largely what you make it, maximize your opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Singles get a chance with us....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi do i get a chance ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything in life that's worthwhile takes hard work. Swinging is no different. Roll your sleeves up, don a sense of humour, dust off your camera phone, be prepared to be called a minger, join in the forum fun, be positive, and most of all enjoy it.

When you use the SocialAnimal guide to swinging as a single you'll have some fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way too easy to generalise like that. In my case I was on a year ago but got into a relationship so left it. A year later and single here I am and I have one veri of one friend..

It's hard trying to sell yourself on fab as a singley, with all the weirdos, stalkers, sexually obsessed guys etc.

It's quite the paradox though because on actual dating sites I am the one usually replying "sorry, not my type"!

I have an fwb at the moment so am not putting in that much effort, but that's what it is down to, time in, reward out (kinda like calories).

Socials seem to be the way forward.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck"

I actually believe that if you can start the ball rolling it is possible for single men on here to have probably more fun, with a greater variety of people (single women, couples, groups) and with greater frequency than anyone else. You just have to put in some effort and also be fortunate enough to become one of the relatively small percentage of very popular single guys on here.

I had my 5th meet in 10 days yesterday....and one of the best to date

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

This never makes much sense to me...I have met some lovely people from here and really enjoyed the experiences.

Good luck to all singles, couples and whoever and long may the site be around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck

I had my 5th meet in 10 days yesterday....and one of the best to date

and the others were what ?

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"is it me or do us single males never get much luck

I had my 5th meet in 10 days yesterday....and one of the best to date

and the others were what ?"

Great too!!

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By *eorgy26Man
over a year ago

Sutton

I had my 5th meet in 10 days yesterday....and one of the best to date

This guy...

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I had my 5th meet in 10 days yesterday....and one of the best to date

Put down the shovel.....

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