FabSwingers.com forum: Fake Couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

seems to us that there seems to be more fake couples on here the other night my GF was asked if she was a single girl and thats what prompted me to write to see if anyone else has been having these sort of comments, My gf goes on most nights and i go on during the day when im off work, I would like it if the fakes could be led out please

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Do you mean the people who asked your G/F was she a single lady are fakes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, well, why didn't you say before??

Come on, you heard the man - all the fakes should leave. Now.

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By *adDutchCouple
over a year ago

hastings

This problem is very easily solved. Our profile says;

"Our events are invitation only, for couples & single ladies, and single men but only if you have a female partner who swings; and you will have to prove it by verification on the telephone."

and later in our introduction;

"To ensure compatibility with our group, we will need to be convinced, by phone or cam, that both of you are, or want to become swingers. * Our parties are good because we invite genuine and friendly people, and no one else.

So, please establish contact here, and then phone us. We will not waste time mailing you before our women talk on the phone. If you have wasted your time with sad single men pretending to be couples, you will agree that early woman to woman phone contact is essential."

MadDutch

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Our events are invitation only, for couples & single ladies, and single men but only if you have a female partner who swings"

Odd definition of single men.

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By *adDutchCouple
over a year ago

hastings

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By *adDutchCouple
over a year ago

hastings

This Forum thread is about fake couples. My reply offers an answer to the question and it solves the problem.

If you don't understand, please tell us what your problem is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say 90% of the women here r fake. been here now 2 months no emails, so fake.

We single guys wont have a chance here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say 90% of the women here r fake. been here now 2 months no emails, so fake.

We single guys wont have a chance here."

Just because people won't meet you, doesn't make them "fake". It's more likely to be that you're not what they're looking for. There are a large number of single guys on this site (compared to couples/women), so this means you have to be patient, and make sure that you 'stand out from the crowd'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks and also time is an vertue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say 90% of the women here r fake. been here now 2 months no emails, so fake.

We single guys wont have a chance here."

No offence but what kind of effort have you put in? I know of plenty of guys who get on very well because they socialise and know that the best meets start with a little platonic chatting before it gets hot and heavy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say 90% of the women here r fake. been here now 2 months no emails, so fake.

We single guys wont have a chance here."

Define fake?

My definition of a fake single fem profile would be one set up by a male to deliberately deceive people for some reason.... And in many peoples experience they are set up by males. So, maybe if some of the males left then some of the 'fake' females would 'leave' with them

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

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"I would say 90% of the women here r fake. been here now 2 months no emails, so fake.

We single guys wont have a chance here."

I wouldnt say they are fake, but what i would say is, there are some single women who confuse this site with a dating site.

Example i had one who sent me a message saying i like your profile etc, so i replied can you tell me a bit more about you etc as he profile was a bit bare(no feedback and 1 photo).I then got a message back saying i can't be a gentleman because i didnt put x on the end of the message. I dont normally put x at the end of any message i send unless i know that person or have chatted to them for a while.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I would say 90% of the women here r fake. been here now 2 months no emails, so fake.

We single guys wont have a chance here."

Thank you, sir, this post entertained me greatly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say 90% of the women here r fake. been here now 2 months no emails, so fake.

We single guys wont have a chance here.

I wouldnt say they are fake, but what i would say is, there are some single women who confuse this site with a dating site.

Oh God. Run while she still doesn't have your address...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say 90% of the women here r fake. been here now 2 months no emails, so fake.

We single guys wont have a chance here.

Thank you, sir, this post entertained me greatly."

Well you already know I'm fake SDM!

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"I would say 90% of the women here r fake. been here now 2 months no emails, so fake.

We single guys wont have a chance here.

I wouldnt say they are fake, but what i would say is, there are some single women who confuse this site with a dating site.

Oh God. Run while she still doesn't have your address..."

Could you give me a female prespective, and tell me would a woman get that arsey about not putting a x on the end of a message?. Or is she just being way over the top?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say 90% of the women here r fake. been here now 2 months no emails, so fake.

We single guys wont have a chance here.

I wouldnt say they are fake, but what i would say is, there are some single women who confuse this site with a dating site.

Oh God. Run while she still doesn't have your address...

Could you give me a female prespective, and tell me would a woman get that arsey about not putting a x on the end of a message?. Or is she just being way over the top?"

It's one of 2 things I reckon - she's either so far up her own arse, believing the hype of the site (you're the most beautiful woman on here etc) that she thinks all men should be falling in love with her and her ego can't stand it. Or you're right, she's after a relationship.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Well you already know I'm fake SDM!"

I salute my imagination for it's high standards...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IS it just me or any other peeps here that either dont get any replyes or emails?

ANd yes ido send out messages.lol:P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"IS it just me or any other peeps here that either dont get any replyes or emails?

ANd yes ido send out messages.lol:P"

I can't stand it. Really, I can't. I want to get off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"IS it just me or any other peeps here that either dont get any replyes or emails?

ANd yes ido send out messages.lol:P"

Could maybe try changing your avatar to one of your face pics instead of your cock.

Only speaking for myself mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm the male half of a couple and although the missus and I have had a few experiences over the years, we've not been on the site long and have had plenty of interest. Quite often though and because our time is quite precious, we may not reply or correspond as much as we'd like. Added to that, there are times (how can I put this politely?) that the missus us even less interested than normal. There are the odd occasions that we like to have sex without anyone else involved. Doesn't happen that often but it's nice when it does!

The other thing to consider with couples is that on a site like this, there will inevitably be more singles guys than couples and single women. Combine that lot together and well, you don't need me to explain.

We've only been on this site a month and we've had one meet and have a few potential candidates already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could maybe try changing your avatar to one of your face pics instead of your cock.

Only speaking for myself mind

You're speaking for me, as well. Cock-pic avatar, and two-line profile. Doesn't do it for me.

But if you're having a new avatar, I would suggest you get a NEW face pic - one of you smiling. Good luck.

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

Totally agree, with that profile you will be struggling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i send messages, i receive messages. but i receive less than i send.

the way i see it is if someone is interested, they'll contact me.

life is too short to fret about not receiving messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, all teh women have pics of their tits or pussie, I have seen only one or 2 woman with face pics on here, it goes for them as well not just us guys. :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, all teh women have pics of their tits or pussie, I have seen only one or 2 woman with face pics on here, it goes for them as well not just us guys. :P"

Well if a close up pic of your cock has everyone rushing to meet you then why worry what others say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol as I said, as I dont get any messages, at least I get some replyes here on the forums and its working.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its true a pic of an attractive sexy lady will get more responses and then you sometimes get the female half is not here but---

i am a single male responses i get are limited but i will keep honest

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville

Have you not realised that in generally woman are different to men! Men are turned on like tit shots etc. Women like to see body shots, especially the eyes etc. What works for a man doesn't always work for a women. Come on that's basics.

Your profile doesn't work for me comes across as abit raw no humour just matter of fact. You have a face pic which is good but not expression and doesn't look friendly to me so I wouldn't want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

diamond if u where talking to me i agree all tips gratefully acccepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U r totally wrong there, my pic works fine on other sex dating sites, this is a swinger site much of a difference there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"U r totally wrong there, my pic works fine on other sex dating sites, this is a swinger site much of a difference there.

I agree with _iamondlady,us women do prefere to see bodys/faces,we all know what a cock looks like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why when the couples r online its only the men that r there? I never got that.lol

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Why when the couples r online its only the men that r there? I never got that.lol"

when we're on it's me (pink) VERY occasionally i'm joined on cam by hubby - but 99% of the time it's me... he's the 'missing' party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol :P

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Why when the couples r online its only the men that r there? I never got that.lol

when we're on it's me (pink) VERY occasionally i'm joined on cam by hubby - but 99% of the time it's me... he's the 'missing' party

same here although im never on cam or in chat......tooo fooking scary in there

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Why when the couples r online its only the men that r there? I never got that.lol"

Not always

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Why when the couples r online its only the men that r there? I never got that.lol

when we're on it's me (pink) VERY occasionally i'm joined on cam by hubby - but 99% of the time it's me... he's the 'missing' party

same here although im never on cam or in chat......tooo fooking scary in there

lol! the first time i went in i hadn't a clue what it was all about and had pms open to all and tried to keep up with everything and reply to everyone - now I don;t bother, I just have a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good 4 u,,,,,, I never got a pm in live chat oh wait i did get 1 pm 2 months ago.lol

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"U r totally wrong there, my pic works fine on other sex dating sites, this is a swinger site much of a difference there.

There you have your own answer! Go back to the "Dating site" that you have had so much success on! This is a swinger site, not just a site set up so you single guys can walk in and get a shag. Swinger ladies are not easy lays, they are a discerning bunch who know what they like and will go get it.

You would have more luck down the pub on a Saturday night!

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

when people say they they never get replies to messages it does make me wonder what on earth it is that they must be sending.

even back in my early days on here when I would just mass message loads of people with a copied-and-pasted message (albeit what I considered to be a good c&p message) I got a few replies - maybe 1 in 20.

These days that I am a bit wiser and much more selective, I seem to get some form of reply to about 3 out of very 5 I send.

Its easy to blame other people for a lack of success, but the real culprit is usually much closer to home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day, there are dozens of single guys to every couple or single fem. Fairness does not come into it. I'm afraid you need to try much much more, simple supply and demand. Its not, actually, that single swinger women are more discerning, more that they have huge choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when people say they they never get replies to messages it does make me wonder what on earth it is that they must be sending.

These days that I am a bit wiser and much more selective, I seem to get some form of reply to about 3 out of very 5 I send.

Its easy to blame other people for a lack of success, but the real culprit is usually much closer to home"

You've written what I've always believed. Far easier to blame others than take responsibility!

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"Could maybe try changing your avatar to one of your face pics instead of your cock.

Only speaking for myself mind

You're speaking for me, as well. Cock-pic avatar, and two-line profile. Doesn't do it for me.

But if you're having a new avatar, I would suggest you get a NEW face pic - one of you smiling. Good luck."

Almost as bad as avatars of pussy or breasts! ..or the excuse I have a high profile job so cant put a pic up! well sorry but that boat has sailed as he's now serving 3 years for perjury!

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"There you have your own answer! Go back to the "Dating site" that you have had so much success on! This is a swinger site, not just a site set up so you single guys can walk in and get a shag. Swinger ladies are not easy lays, they are a discerning bunch who know what they like and will go get it.

You would have more luck down the pub on a Saturday night!

I think you may need to add "are not ALL easy lays" unless you have the authority of the sister hood to speak on their behalf and know them all personally..

I have witnessed both single ladies and married take on all cummers! tis true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, all teh women have pics of their tits or pussie, I have seen only one or 2 woman with face pics on here, it goes for them as well not just us guys. :P

Well if a close up pic of your cock has everyone rushing to meet you then why worry what others say?"

And a bad pic at that! I didn't even know what it was

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol

"This Forum thread is about fake couples. My reply offers an answer to the question and it solves the problem.

If you don't understand, please tell us what your problem is. "

surely a single bloke with a swinging partner is a couple????...if you dont understand, please tell me what your problem is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of profiles are fake I agree. If this was a pay site then a lot of the wasters would move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lots of profiles are fake I agree. If this was a pay site then a lot of the wasters would move on."

Well just meet the ones who do pay then

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol

"lots of profiles are fake I agree. If this was a pay site then a lot of the wasters would move on.

Well just meet the ones who do pay then

Dogging is different and not so selective...there are plenty of free dogging sites for the folk that want that kind of entertainment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, dating sites that u pay a member ship for will get u emails and replyes unlike free ones.lol :P Or its easier to pay a hooker down the street.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you see bud, thats where your attitude is all wrong , a hooker will blindly meet a punter and do what he he wants for MONEY , there is no comparison with swinging , which is based on selictiveness , and swingers are the fussiest folk to get a ride off ....lol me thinks your on the wrong site . By the way , what makes you think a close up shot of your cock is enough to pull here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you see bud, thats where your attitude is all wrong , a hooker will blindly meet a punter and do what he he wants for MONEY , there is no comparison with swinging , which is based on selictiveness , and swingers are the fussiest folk to get a ride off ....lol me thinks your on the wrong site . By the way , what makes you think a close up shot of your cock is enough to pull here? "
i agree foxy its free and thats how it should be

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Fakes? Very easy to spot, great sport to let them think you think they're real! Don't get too worked up there are plenty of real couples too! Z

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"lots of profiles are fake I agree. If this was a pay site then a lot of the wasters would move on.

Well just meet the ones who do pay then

Dogging is different and not so selective...there are plenty of free dogging sites for the folk that want that kind of entertainment."

Speak for yourself!

I am very selective when out dogging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

THe reason I have a cock shot is coz I had a face pic before since I didnt get replys then I thought wot the heck let use wot the rest got only cock shots or tit pics.lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"THe reason I have a cock shot is coz I had a face pic before since I didnt get replys then I thought wot the heck let use wot the rest got only cock shots or tit pics.lol"

lol - so your face put 'em off - don't show your 'ripped biceps' put up a really shit cock shot - thats gotta work! like your attitude and don't be surprised that you aren't awfully succesful! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol no it didnt zoe, I just wanna try to see if I got more luck with a cock pic.lol

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