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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We've been toying with the idea of arranging a 'gang bang' for us in the near future.

Just looking for some pointers from people who've arranged them successfully, what to avoid etc?!

Thanks in advance

A&D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be incredibly difficult to arrange! Expect a high amount of people to drop out when it comes to it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have been reading a few others who say the same, sounds like it could just be a washout!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have been reading a few others who say the same, sounds like it could just be a washout! "

With a bit of help organising with someone who has a reliable group it can be a lot of fun

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"We've been toying with the idea of arranging a 'gang bang' for us in the near future.

Just looking for some pointers from people who've arranged them successfully, what to avoid etc?!

Thanks in advance

A&D. "

I would suggest that it is probably best to spend some time connecting with the right kind of guys and building up a bit of a relationship /trust and confidence that they are not time wasters...better a group of fellas that you have got to know a bit and know to be genuine than a whole host of random blokes, where you just hope a few will actually show up....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have tried to arrange one 4 or 5 times. In every case we were inundated with offers from all over the planet. Literally!

In every case the dropout/no show rate is astonishing. Invite 10 and count yourself lucky if one shows up.

The most reliable way is to go to a club. You will no doubt get the numbers but you have little influence about the type of guys who will be there and who will want to get involved.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends where you are planning on having it. we have found hotel ones more hassle to sort than at a house.

If you have a few guys you have met before and have an interest in group fun then I'd suggest asking them. look for established groups as some can work out so Much easier.

Have a realistic view of how many guys you want and what you want from it x

And remember it's fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends where you are planning on having it. we have found hotel ones more hassle to sort than at a house.

If you have a few guys you have met before and have an interest in group fun then I'd suggest asking them. look for established groups as some can work out so Much easier.

Have a realistic view of how many guys you want and what you want from it x

And remember it's fun

Thanks

We were hoping it would be a hotel meet. Have experienced a couples party already which was very enjoyable, but now we want to try something a little different.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Depends where you are planning on having it. we have found hotel ones more hassle to sort than at a house.

If you have a few guys you have met before and have an interest in group fun then I'd suggest asking them. look for established groups as some can work out so Much easier.

Have a realistic view of how many guys you want and what you want from it x

And remember it's fun

Thanks

We were hoping it would be a hotel meet. Have experienced a couples party already which was very enjoyable, but now we want to try something a little different. "

Well maybe you should canvas for candidates on this thread - I for one would certainly be keen to apply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly. Maybe arrange to go for a drink a week before the event. The timewasters won't show up so you know how many reliable men you have...

I don't think you'll struggle for offers though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best pointer is to make sure you invite me

Its harder than it sounds to get several genuine guys together at one time

Goos luck and hope it works for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hard to arrange,

we wanted 6 or 7 men

3 turned up

but nikki got fucked good

will be arranging another one next month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had some friends who asked an organised group. Quality was a little out of their control and they were very dissapointed. Put us off that route.

Now holding auditions as got to be perfect.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"We had some friends who asked an organised group. Quality was a little out of their control and they were very dissapointed. Put us off that route.

Now holding auditions as got to be perfect. "

Oh to be one of the lucky chosen few...

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Organised groups certainly look the easiest option, but we encountered a fake one (travelling building trades guys apparently) who didn't show I suppose well-verified ticks a lot of boxes in this area

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

As someone said in another thread gettin guys to turn up is like herding cats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was in your position, I would have some meets over a couple of months and then ask the ones you liked would they be interested in a gangbang, There is no guarantee they will turn up but at least you know they turned up for a meet and are not complete time wasters,

For some people meeting a couple for the first time can be intimidating never mind getting naked in front of load of other Men they have never met as well, You could even let them all know who is going so they can have a look at their profiles and maybe have a little chat before they turned up

That's just some advise from a single Man who has never had a gangbang

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies all, sounds like it may be too much hassle for too little reward to try and arrange it through here.

Maybe we will try and sort something in the future though.

We don't feel inclined to meet single men, maybe a couples party will be the closest to what we want at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies all, sounds like it may be too much hassle for too little reward to try and arrange it through here.

Maybe we will try and sort something in the future though.

We don't feel inclined to meet single men, maybe a couples party will be the closest to what we want at the moment. "

Good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might increase your chances if you allowed men to message you.

Tried sending a message but your filter said No

Peter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not as hard as some may think. Just give yourself a 2 week window and use the 10 to 1 ratio. If you want 5 guys to definitely show up , invite 50. It not easy but you have to invest a lot of time into.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You might increase your chances if you allowed men to message you.

Tried sending a message but your filter said No

Peter x"

We're not looking to meet single guys, hence the filter.

I guess if we decide to plan this, we will change that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not as hard as some may think. Just give yourself a 2 week window and use the 10 to 1 ratio. If you want 5 guys to definitely show up , invite 50. It not easy but you have to invest a lot of time into."

This, we have found in the past that it is a nightmare to arrange, so many guys reply with "count me in" and as the day gets closer so the contact becomes less. Just so many time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I make a suggestion have a look at our profile and you'll see a party we go to. You'll be able to get a small gangbang there or try donkeydicks he arranges them and is reliable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt suggest meeting a gang bang group, there seems to be a few on here

I did that once, didn't think it through properly was a bad mistake

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

I've been to a few gangbangs here on fab. It's been the same with guys dropping out and no shows at every one of them. First one was a hotel meet and the couple invited 5 guys, only me and one other guy turned up. 2nd one was a hotel meet again different couple, they invited 10 guys, me and 2 others turned up. The next one was a couple holding a gangbang party at their house, me and 2 others turned up. So the thing to do is invite more guys than needed because you will always get the timewasters, dreamers and no shows. Good fun when it happens though and you get a few guys show up, lots of attention for the lady.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"We had some friends who asked an organised group. Quality was a little out of their control and they were very dissapointed. Put us off that route.

Now holding auditions as got to be perfect. "

I'd like an audition please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want one. .I want one !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kent guy who'd be true to his word of showing up and be happy to participate if you decide to hold one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi guys

I organised one before for a lady

Quiet a bit of work in it

Venue is very very important...if choosing a hotel it's worth it to check out the hotel beforehand, need to make sure its easy to get by reception and that the guys dont need a card to get in the lift!

Message me anytime if you need help

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By *entcockslutCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

We had a gangbang yesterday and we invited 20 guys and only 3 turned up, a real waste of time, we had the place to ourselves and 9nly wanted fuck and go but they still couldn't do that, very disappointed

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

hi, arranging a meet of any kind can be very hit or miss, our last meet we invited five couples and four single men, on the day all the couples arrived and one men..which was ok in the end..Connie x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We had a gangbang yesterday and we invited 20 guys and only 3 turned up, a real waste of time, we had the place to ourselves and 9nly wanted fuck and go but they still couldn't do that, very disappointed "

This is why we're not too sure about it now!

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

This is why we're not too sure about it now! "

Just had a quick look at your profile most of your meets are with couples and one with a woman no guys that will put guys off, and don't forget you cant pick and choose at a gangbang if 8 guys turn up they will all expect to play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is why we're not too sure about it now!

This is why we're apprehensive of initiating one in a club, we don't want to forego quality for quantity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you organise another I'd like to be considered .... will actually turn up too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strongly agree there needs to be some kind of respect end of the day you need to know what you are dealing with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been said already, invite plenty more guys/or girls than desired. Naturally a good idea to have a vetted shortlist plus reserves beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why we're not too sure about it now!

This is why we're apprehensive of initiating one in a club, we don't want to forego quality for quantity. "

The best way forward is to test the water. If you have a list of guys you are attracted to, that you either get on with or have a good rapour with. Message them and ask the question?

See what kind of response you get. Depending on what happens will determine whether you organise a gangbang or not?

I guess you won't just want any Tom, Dick or Harry turning up from an open invite.

Seek out the guys, make your list, send out potential invites and see your response.

Hope that helps. Not speaking from experience but that's how I would tackle the situation before binning the idea.

Peter xx

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