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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We had a meeting on Sunday with a chap who asked C to be bare legged because he preferred to see unadorned legs. C duly complied and had false tan professionally applied the day before. Now't like putting in the effort. Imagine our disappointment when about 15 mins into our meet the chap told us he wasn't happy with the meeting because C wasn't wearing stockings like in our pics and he did not care for her bare tanned legs. He flounced off and left us a bit surprised. Anyone else on here had that happen. we thought it might be a set up.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

He sounds like an idiot and acted like an idiot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He sounds like an idiot and acted like an idiot. "

Dunno what to say really. up to about 15 / 20 mins everything was just fine and we were getting on really well then out of the blue. It was a bit embarrassing because he shouted it quite loud and loads of people looked across and stared at us. Really off putting.

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By *reddy96Man
over a year ago

scunthorpe

Sounds like a idiot to me. I would been happy ether way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have told him at the beginning,I dress to please me not you. Anyone who doesn't like how I look can bugger off.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"He sounds like an idiot and acted like an idiot.

Dunno what to say really. up to about 15 / 20 mins everything was just fine and we were getting on really well then out of the blue. It was a bit embarrassing because he shouted it quite loud and loads of people looked across and stared at us. Really off putting. "

How odd .

If it was a set up, what was the motive? I'm flummoxed by the whole thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have told him at the beginning,I dress to please me not you. Anyone who doesn't like how I look can bugger off. "

Exactly this. I cannot stand men asking me to wear certain things. If I'm asked to wear stockings, I'll say fine as long as you wear a Norwich top for me.

That soon shuts them up

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I would have told him at the beginning,I dress to please me not you. Anyone who doesn't like how I look can bugger off. "

Sometimes dressing to please another person is what pleases me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have told him at the beginning,I dress to please me not you. Anyone who doesn't like how I look can bugger off.

Sometimes dressing to please another person is what pleases me."

Not someone I haven't met before. I do it for my regular friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds to me like he's bottled it and made up an excuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He sounds like an idiot and acted like an idiot.

Dunno what to say really. up to about 15 / 20 mins everything was just fine and we were getting on really well then out of the blue. It was a bit embarrassing because he shouted it quite loud and loads of people looked across and stared at us. Really off putting. "

You were in public too, that's even worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a meeting on Sunday with a chap who asked C to be bare legged because he preferred to see unadorned legs. C duly complied and had false tan professionally applied the day before. Now't like putting in the effort. Imagine our disappointment when about 15 mins into our meet the chap told us he wasn't happy with the meeting because C wasn't wearing stockings like in our pics and he did not care for her bare tanned legs. He flounced off and left us a bit surprised. Anyone else on here had that happen. we thought it might be a set up. "

OMG !!!!!!! what an absolute arse he was - what on earth was he thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a meeting on Sunday with a chap who asked C to be bare legged because he preferred to see unadorned legs. C duly complied and had false tan professionally applied the day before. Now't like putting in the effort. Imagine our disappointment when about 15 mins into our meet the chap told us he wasn't happy with the meeting because C wasn't wearing stockings like in our pics and he did not care for her bare tanned legs. He flounced off and left us a bit surprised. Anyone else on here had that happen. we thought it might be a set up. "

Wow guy just have had some issues carnt see why he would leave

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well C usually pleases herself what she wears etc and we haven't generally had any problems. However, this is the third such meeting. We said after the last that we'd take a rest for now, then start to use clubs after the new year. However, this chap seemed really genuine and positive in his approach to swinging we thought we'd give him a try. Our bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well C usually pleases herself what she wears etc and we haven't generally had any problems. However, this is the third such meeting. We said after the last that we'd take a rest for now, then start to use clubs after the new year. However, this chap seemed really genuine and positive in his approach to swinging we thought we'd give him a try. Our bad "

The third such meeting? What happened on the others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a tosser , his loss Mrs c is lovely

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By *reddy96Man
over a year ago

scunthorpe


"Well C usually pleases herself what she wears etc and we haven't generally had any problems. However, this is the third such meeting. We said after the last that we'd take a rest for now, then start to use clubs after the new year. However, this chap seemed really genuine and positive in his approach to swinging we thought we'd give him a try. Our bad "
just a stupid boy not a man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't really want to put too much on here, but two disasterous and quite nasty social meets in a pub. So glad it happened on the social and not in a hotel room.

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By *reddy96Man
over a year ago

scunthorpe


"[Removed by poster at 25/11/15 10:16:52]"
wot they thinkin she looks lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't really want to put too much on here, but two disasterous and quite nasty social meets in a pub. So glad it happened on the social and not in a hotel room. "

You have been unlucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I certainly wouldn't run away from mrs c he must be blind xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well C usually pleases herself what she wears etc and we haven't generally had any problems. However, this is the third such meeting. We said after the last that we'd take a rest for now, then start to use clubs after the new year. However, this chap seemed really genuine and positive in his approach to swinging we thought we'd give him a try. Our bad "

Buzzard story, but on the positive side, wouldn't it be worse if C had slept with him and he acted like this afterwards?

Sounds like you dodged a bullet

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"He sounds like an idiot and acted like an idiot.

Dunno what to say really. up to about 15 / 20 mins everything was just fine and we were getting on really well then out of the blue. It was a bit embarrassing because he shouted it quite loud and loads of people looked across and stared at us. Really off putting.

How odd .

If it was a set up, what was the motive? I'm flummoxed by the whole thing. "

I hope his mates weren't videoing it!

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

We are into swinging for our fun and enjoyment. Personally I will only dress to please, (a)-myself and (b)- to please hubby. I would never dress to please another guys desires. What you see in our pics and read in our profile is exactly what you gonna get, if you want more then move on to the next person.

Was this meet in a club?? You say others were there, Or was it dogging ?? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There truly are some strange people in the world.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"He sounds like an idiot and acted like an idiot. "

My initial reaction was a little stronger!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are into swinging for our fun and enjoyment. Personally I will only dress to please, (a)-myself and (b)- to please hubby. I would never dress to please another guys desires. What you see in our pics and read in our profile is exactly what you gonna get, if you want more then move on to the next person.

No it was a social meet at a local -ish airport bar safe and lots of people. Gorrit wrong that time eh? We don't do the dogging stuff anymore. Had it - the social - panned out then would've sorted hotel out.

Was this meet in a club?? You say others were there, Or was it dogging ?? Xx"

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

How very very strange.

We have never had anyone request we wore a certain item of clothing.

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By *angzMan
over a year ago

Manchester, London & sometimes Newcastle

Sounds like an Arse hole.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"Don't really want to put too much on here, but two disasterous and quite nasty social meets in a pub. So glad it happened on the social and not in a hotel room. "

Stick to clubs. Safer environment. 3 bad meets, we would have learnt our lesson after 1 xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't really want to put too much on here, but two disasterous and quite nasty social meets in a pub. So glad it happened on the social and not in a hotel room. "

Well put re social -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are going more down the club route now, far less frustrating.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Sounds to me like he's bottled it and made up an excuse.

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I agree the knobhead! x

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"We had a meeting on Sunday with a chap who asked C to be bare legged because he preferred to see unadorned legs. C duly complied and had false tan professionally applied the day before. Now't like putting in the effort. Imagine our disappointment when about 15 mins into our meet the chap told us he wasn't happy with the meeting because C wasn't wearing stockings like in our pics and he did not care for her bare tanned legs. He flounced off and left us a bit surprised. Anyone else on here had that happen. we thought it might be a set up. "

All sounds mighty bizarre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are always wary of meeting guys who are just a bit too specific about their own fantasies.

If I feel it necessary to point out that the aim of the meet is about us all having fun, not just him, then it is not someone we should realistically be meeting.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Sounds to me like he's bottled it and made up an excuse.

I agree the knobhead! x"

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