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"100% open and honest . We go every six weeks and often say we have had 20 or more meets since last visit . We say we enjoy rimming so get throat swabs every time . Got free hep a and hep b jabs . And a free bag full of condoms every time ![]() Yeah, I always get the free condoms and lube! ![]() | |||
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"How many people are open about their swinging lifestyle when they go for a check up? I always feel like a naughty school kid and keep quiet (lie) when they ask about my activities! ![]() I always tell them everything so that they can decide on the right tests to do. Not much point in going otherwise. | |||
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" There is no point being embarrassed or lying as they can't give you the right checks otherwise x " I tell them all of the relevant information. Just don't mention swinging. | |||
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" There is no point being embarrassed or lying as they can't give you the right checks otherwise x I tell them all of the relevant information. Just don't mention swinging." I do the same. Doesn't matter if I say I fucked 1 or 100 guys, they will give me the same tests. | |||
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" There is no point being embarrassed or lying as they can't give you the right checks otherwise x I tell them all of the relevant information. Just don't mention swinging. I do the same. Doesn't matter if I say I fucked 1 or 100 guys, they will give me the same tests. " Mine give me more condoms if I'm honest and will give me a full check as opposed to a quick one.. | |||
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"How many people are open about their swinging lifestyle when they go for a check up? I always feel like a naughty school kid and keep quiet (lie) when they ask about my activities! ![]() Love their face when you tell them you've played with others and your partner at the same time ![]() | |||
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"I'm delighted people have such a positive experience x I have to say I've felt very humiated on one check up x Was basically told off for playing with boys and girls x Had a battery of tests - all in front of a group of Health students ..... And no free condoms !" Did you agree to the students being there? | |||
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" There is no point being embarrassed or lying as they can't give you the right checks otherwise x I tell them all of the relevant information. Just don't mention swinging. I do the same. Doesn't matter if I say I fucked 1 or 100 guys, they will give me the same tests. " I only got offered the hep B test once I fessed up to being a swinger. | |||
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" There is no point being embarrassed or lying as they can't give you the right checks otherwise x I tell them all of the relevant information. Just don't mention swinging. I do the same. Doesn't matter if I say I fucked 1 or 100 guys, they will give me the same tests. I only got offered the hep B test once I fessed up to being a swinger." Is that because you visit clubs? I can't see how saying you're a swinger or saying you meet lots of men regularly is different? | |||
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"We are completely honest and open with them, they never judge, seem curious but remain completely professional. " ![]() | |||
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"Once when I went I gave them a figure, but told them to check my website (no longer active) if they wanted an exact amount.... ![]() Lol ! On her second visit some years ago Sabrina did this , showed them on her phone ![]() | |||
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"How many people are open about their swinging lifestyle when they go for a check up? I always feel like a naughty school kid and keep quiet (lie) when they ask about my activities! ![]() There are 2 people in your life you never lie too...... Your lawyer and your doctor ![]() | |||
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"I go every 3/4 months, and always honest otherwise what's the point? No need for embarrassment, they've heard it all! ![]() +2 ![]() ![]() | |||
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" There is no point being embarrassed or lying as they can't give you the right checks otherwise x I tell them all of the relevant information. Just don't mention swinging. I do the same. Doesn't matter if I say I fucked 1 or 100 guys, they will give me the same tests. I only got offered the hep B test once I fessed up to being a swinger. Is that because you visit clubs? I can't see how saying you're a swinger or saying you meet lots of men regularly is different? " They don't ask you to list them if you say you're a swinger. I got bored of lying and now just say 'loads' when they ask me how many guys I've had sex with in the previous 3 months. | |||
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"As others have said, much better to be honest and get the right tests done. Mind you, when I was asked the ages of my recent partners (25, 27, 30) I got a look of disbelief then she said "go girl" and we both burst out laughing! lol Was given extra condoms and lube on the strength of that ![]() One of the doctors who tested me asked about the local clubs. They know more than we give them credit for. ![]() | |||
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"How many people are open about their swinging lifestyle when they go for a check up? I always feel like a naughty school kid and keep quiet (lie) when they ask about my activities! ![]() I tell all (discreetly) unlike the noisy bloody university students all high fiving each other and grinning. I was the oldest there ![]() | |||
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" There is no point being embarrassed or lying as they can't give you the right checks otherwise x I tell them all of the relevant information. Just don't mention swinging. I do the same. Doesn't matter if I say I fucked 1 or 100 guys, they will give me the same tests. I only got offered the hep B test once I fessed up to being a swinger. Is that because you visit clubs? I can't see how saying you're a swinger or saying you meet lots of men regularly is different? " I was offered it because I sleep with bisexual men. Which is why it's important to give the sexuality of your partners (and why it's important for people to be honest about their sexualities). | |||
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"I'm delighted people have such a positive experience x I have to say I've felt very humiated on one check up x Was basically told off for playing with boys and girls x Had a battery of tests - all in front of a group of Health students ..... And no free condoms ! It's was strange - one moment I was speaking to the nurse / doctor - next it was like we have these students on placement- lets get you tested ! X Did you agree to the students being there? " | |||
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" There is no point being embarrassed or lying as they can't give you the right checks otherwise x I tell them all of the relevant information. Just don't mention swinging." Likewise ![]() | |||
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"We tell them everything that is relevant ,they aren't judgemental in anyway give us full screening had the hep b vaccination and plenty of condoms given every time " Did you get the rowdy undergraduates too?! ![]() | |||
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"I'm delighted people have such a positive experience x I have to say I've felt very humiated on one check up x Was basically told off for playing with boys and girls x Had a battery of tests - all in front of a group of Health students ..... And no free condoms !" Thats humiated for ya ... ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"How many people are open about their swinging lifestyle when they go for a check up? I always feel like a naughty school kid and keep quiet (lie) when they ask about my activities! ![]() ![]() .both of course can and are legally obligated to disclose your secrets if they will harm others though | |||
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"We are totally honest, was a bit sheepish the first time but the nurse started quizzing me on different clubs and said it all sounds fun! " I think they use/employ a lot of people who have been sexually promiscuous ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We are totally honest, was a bit sheepish the first time but the nurse started quizzing me on different clubs and said it all sounds fun! I think they use/employ a lot of people who have been sexually promiscuous ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Note to self hand in notice and start working at gum clinic | |||
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"We are totally honest, was a bit sheepish the first time but the nurse started quizzing me on different clubs and said it all sounds fun! I think they use/employ a lot of people who have been sexually promiscuous ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() mmmm can I have your first appointment ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I go every 3/4 months, and always honest otherwise what's the point? No need for embarrassment, they've heard it all! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We tell them everything that is relevant ,they aren't judgemental in anyway give us full screening had the hep b vaccination and plenty of condoms given every time Did you get the rowdy undergraduates too?! ![]() No Steve they save them for you ![]() | |||
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"I think hubby got treated better than me so we tend to go together now.....although I got sent for bloods last time like he wouldn't tell them the truth in front of me....all a bit surreal in my opinion. I guess it depends which nurse you see " Medical staff are permanently on the watch for you being coerced into having certain things done. It's generally easier for them and you if you go on your own. | |||
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"I was a bit hazy with the truth the first few times I went after I started swinging. Then I had a particularly busy time and they asked who I had slept with since the last time and I had to come clean ![]() I jot dates down and names ![]() | |||
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"I was a bit hazy with the truth the first few times I went after I started swinging. Then I had a particularly busy time and they asked who I had slept with since the last time and I had to come clean ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I was a bit hazy with the truth the first few times I went after I started swinging. Then I had a particularly busy time and they asked who I had slept with since the last time and I had to come clean ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I want a little pink book ![]() | |||
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"As others have said, much better to be honest and get the right tests done. Mind you, when I was asked the ages of my recent partners (25, 27, 30) I got a look of disbelief then she said "go girl" and we both burst out laughing! lol Was given extra condoms and lube on the strength of that ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I was a bit hazy with the truth the first few times I went after I started swinging. Then I had a particularly busy time and they asked who I had slept with since the last time and I had to come clean ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh I have a list and dates but I always forget to consult it before I go ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I tell them all of the relevant information. Just don't mention swinging." Me too. I break it down how many weeks since last time, what kind of protection I used or not, and what type of physical and sexual contact I had, and so on. But reading what someone posted above I'm almost jealous I have never been offered a throat swab or given a Hep B jab! Perhaps I should change what i tell them? | |||
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" But reading what someone posted above I'm almost jealous I have never been offered a throat swab or given a Hep B jab! Perhaps I should change what i tell them?" I was thinking the same thing! Why the throat swab and Hep B jabs peeps? | |||
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" But reading what someone posted above I'm almost jealous I have never been offered a throat swab or given a Hep B jab! Perhaps I should change what i tell them? I was thinking the same thing! Why the throat swab and Hep B jabs peeps?" Tends to be more for bi/gay...I believe...I may be wrong I told them I'd been with guys since I was last tested and they couldn't wait to get that first jab in me. Gotta go three more times now too | |||
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" But reading what someone posted above I'm almost jealous I have never been offered a throat swab or given a Hep B jab! Perhaps I should change what i tell them? I was thinking the same thing! Why the throat swab and Hep B jabs peeps?" Hep B, just in case. Throat swab because you can get chlamydia in your throat. | |||
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"I was a bit hazy with the truth the first few times I went after I started swinging. Then I had a particularly busy time and they asked who I had slept with since the last time and I had to come clean ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I have a spreadsheet, and before I go to the clinic I check in with my regular partners to see if they have had anyone high risk since their last 'all clear'. They keep their own spreadsheets too. ![]() | |||
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" But reading what someone posted above I'm almost jealous I have never been offered a throat swab or given a Hep B jab! Perhaps I should change what i tell them? I was thinking the same thing! Why the throat swab and Hep B jabs peeps?" Oral sex, and sleeping with men who have sex with men. | |||
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"The clinic I go to is awful, they seperate men & women in different waiting rooms, they have female Indian doctors who all seem very shocked about a swinging lifestyle and the one I've seen a few times can't even say the words vaginal or anal, skirts round it & then chooses other words, it's laughable really but far from making you feel comfortable about going!! " Hugs!! you defo get my sympathy for that, sounds extremely unlucky indeed! You'd think the clinic would be able to a little bit better than that. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"The clinic I go to is awful, they seperate men & women in different waiting rooms, they have female Indian doctors who all seem very shocked about a swinging lifestyle and the one I've seen a few times can't even say the words vaginal or anal, skirts round it & then chooses other words, it's laughable really but far from making you feel comfortable about going!! " Is that at the Paget? | |||
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"Ive had some fun in these clinics, ive told them the truth throughout and been given advice and offered jabs, blood tests, swabs the lot. I love watching the medical students faces when i explain what i get up to! And ive also spoken to a nurse, who asked if i go to one of the clubs up birmingham cuz she thinks she saw me there lol. Even they get up to it!!" Always tell everything but the GUM clinic nurse I know very well and I've slept with him a few times. Only thing I don't like is that you can hear what's being said in the next door room. | |||
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"Honesty is the best policy for most things I think. This included ![]() liar ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"The clinic I go to is awful, they seperate men & women in different waiting rooms, they have female Indian doctors who all seem very shocked about a swinging lifestyle and the one I've seen a few times can't even say the words vaginal or anal, skirts round it & then chooses other words, it's laughable really but far from making you feel comfortable about going!! Is that at the Paget?" Yes | |||
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