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By *LLURS OP   Man
over a year ago

waterforx

So met a girl and because I am a gent guy like to make love most nights some times she comes to bed naked and says she is not in the mood or ti_ed / very frustrating for a horny guy / over to ye my sexy friends / what to do as it's very frustrating : she Bly wants to make love once a week / not for me / what to do my friends /

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect her wishes and wank 6 nights out of 7. Dont respect her wishes and get arrested, or find somebody else and move on.

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By *isst123Couple
over a year ago

...

How very dare she??? You should write to your MP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sleep naked all the time and I'm on my own. Don't like wearing anything to bed, like to be free and fold my duvet around me like an envelope.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

That must/be very/frustrating/for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get really good at masturbation techniques or find someone else?

-Courtney

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Talk to her. Help with housework so she isn't shatte_ed. Do some cuddling and massaging. Try and find a compromise. Stop moaning, you are lucky to have a partner....so deal with it if you want to continue the relationship.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Treat em mean keep em keen.. you know the night she wants it..;-).

Tell her NO. . that'll teach her a lesson...give her some of her own medicine, see how she likes it...

#notputtingout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So met a girl and because I am a gent guy like to make love most nights some times she comes to bed naked and says she is not in the mood or ti_ed / very frustrating for a horny guy / over to ye my sexy friends / what to do as it's very frustrating : she Bly wants to make love once a week / not for me / what to do my friends / "

I've heard there's a swingers site called fab, maybe join there as a single guy and try and get extra sex behind her back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So met a girl and because I am a gent guy like to make love most nights some times she comes to bed naked and says she is not in the mood or ti_ed / very frustrating for a horny guy / over to ye my sexy friends / what to do as it's very frustrating : she Bly wants to make love once a week / not for me / what to do my friends / "

I guess you sign up to a swingers site and pretend to be single.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sleep naked all the time and I'm on my own. Don't like wearing anything to bed, like to be free and fold my duvet around me like an envelope. "

you must be gagging for it all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she only wants to shag you once a week became she's getting it somewhere else too

Just a though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So met a girl and because I am a gent guy like to make love most nights some times she comes to bed naked and says she is not in the mood or ti_ed / very frustrating for a horny guy / over to ye my sexy friends / what to do as it's very frustrating : she Bly wants to make love once a week / not for me / what to do my friends /

I've heard there's a swingers site called fab, maybe join there as a single guy and try and get extra sex behind her back "

Good call

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"So met a girl and because I am a gent guy like to make love most nights some times she comes to bed naked and says she is not in the mood or ti_ed / very frustrating for a horny guy / over to ye my sexy friends / what to do as it's very frustrating : she Bly wants to make love once a week / not for me / what to do my friends /

I guess you sign up to a swingers site and pretend to be single....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ate we assuming he is cheating on her? Are we assuming he is in a monogamous relationship with her?

Seriously, I think I'm becoming a forum cynic after a thread last night by a single woman who openly said she was cheating and this thread from a single guy who hasn't even clarified yet. The different reactions are startling.

I really hoped I'd never become a forum cynic, but I really think I have.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe you are just rubbish in bed and she sees it as a chore to be put up with once a week

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So met a girl and because I am a gent guy like to make love most nights some times she comes to bed naked and says she is not in the mood or ti_ed / very frustrating for a horny guy / over to ye my sexy friends / what to do as it's very frustrating : she Bly wants to make love once a week / not for me / what to do my friends / "

You have mismatched sex drives I'm afraid so you need to decide if you want to continue less this or not. It might help if you chat to her about it rather than us because she's more likely to have the answers

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"So met a girl and because I am a gent guy like to make love most nights some times she comes to bed naked and says she is not in the mood or ti_ed / very frustrating for a horny guy / over to ye my sexy friends / what to do as it's very frustrating : she Bly wants to make love once a week / not for me / what to do my friends /

You have mismatched sex drives I'm afraid so you need to decide if you want to continue less this or not. It might help if you chat to her about it rather than us because she's more likely to have the answers "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ate we assuming he is cheating on her? Are we assuming he is in a monogamous relationship with her?

Seriously, I think I'm becoming a forum cynic after a thread last night by a single woman who openly said she was cheating and this thread from a single guy who hasn't even clarified yet. The different reactions are startling.

I really hoped I'd never become a forum cynic, but I really think I have.

-Courtney"

It's the forums its just a bit of fun to pass the time

I don't take anything on here serious because half what is posted is bull shit anyway

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By *LLURS OP   Man
over a year ago

waterforx

Interesting answers my friends / rubbish in bed/ a chore to her / getting it somewhere else / looks like I wil haft to get it some where else / think ye ladies like to in control in the bed / do it to her mane is the best answer / nave a time table I said to her but she does not want to commit to days at my house / think naught nymphos is right she is an undercover swinger like me / what to do my sexy friends / frustrating indeed but the sex is great when you eventually get it / what to do /

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So met a girl and because I am a gent guy like to make love most nights some times she comes to bed naked and says she is not in the mood or ti_ed / very frustrating for a horny guy / over to ye my sexy friends / what to do as it's very frustrating : she Bly wants to make love once a week / not for me / what to do my friends / "

it has to be you as every girl that stays in my bed wants sex with me

Very few get into my bed naked usually they put something Sexy on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting answers my friends / rubbish in bed/ a chore to her / getting it somewhere else / looks like I wil haft to get it some where else / think ye ladies like to in control in the bed / do it to her mane is the best answer / nave a time table I said to her but she does not want to commit to days at my house / think naught nymphos is right she is an undercover swinger like me / what to do my sexy friends / frustrating indeed but the sex is great when you eventually get it / what to do / "

What really

But I'm never right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ate we assuming he is cheating on her? Are we assuming he is in a monogamous relationship with her?

Seriously, I think I'm becoming a forum cynic after a thread last night by a single woman who openly said she was cheating and this thread from a single guy who hasn't even clarified yet. The different reactions are startling.

I really hoped I'd never become a forum cynic, but I really think I have.

-Courtney

It's the forums its just a bit of fun to pass the time

I don't take anything on here serious because half what is posted is bull shit anyway "

True. And I don't take it too seriously either, but some people actually ask for advice so to them a bit of help can be really nice.

-Courtney

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By *LLURS OP   Man
over a year ago

waterforx

Don't think I am rubbish in bed switch girl / mane she getting it some where else like naught nympho says / or she is in in for some cash / not a normal relationship at all / she is not horny enough for me / miss 123 would not do that or Adam or Tina wil haft to look elsewhere to have some fun / to frustrating for me / up to mark and Courtney to solve this one / back to ye my sexy friends Paul x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Don't think I am rubbish in bed switch girl / mane she getting it some where else like naught nympho says / or she is in in for some cash / not a normal relationship at all / she is not horny enough for me / miss 123 would not do that or Adam or Tina wil haft to look elsewhere to have some fun / to frustrating for me / up to mark and Courtney to solve this one / back to ye my sexy friends Paul x "

If I remember correctly your last girlfriend was "in it for some cash". Are you choosing the right kind of woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think I am rubbish in bed switch girl / mane she getting it some where else like naught nympho says / or she is in in for some cash / not a normal relationship at all / she is not horny enough for me / miss 123 would not do that or Adam or Tina wil haft to look elsewhere to have some fun / to frustrating for me / up to mark and Courtney to solve this one / back to ye my sexy friends Paul x "

Right I've got my serious head on

I'm sure this is quite common in a lot of relationship where one has a higher sex drive than the other, don't assum that because a couple is on here their sex is perfer because for some it isn't

You can't really say what women from other couples do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think I am rubbish in bed switch girl / mane she getting it some where else like naught nympho says / or she is in in for some cash / not a normal relationship at all / she is not horny enough for me / miss 123 would not do that or Adam or Tina wil haft to look elsewhere to have some fun / to frustrating for me / up to mark and Courtney to solve this one / back to ye my sexy friends Paul x

Right I've got my serious head on

I'm sure this is quite common in a lot of relationship where one has a higher sex drive than the other, don't assum that because a couple is on here their sex is perfer because for some it isn't

You can't really say what women from other couples do "

You mean your last comment wasn't serious

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Don't get what the connection is between sleeping naked and Sex but miss matched Sex drives is down to individual couples to sort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about you forget the forward slash button and use the coma and full stop ones instead

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Ate we assuming he is cheating on her? Are we assuming he is in a monogamous relationship with her?

Seriously, I think I'm becoming a forum cynic after a thread last night by a single woman who openly said she was cheating and this thread from a single guy who hasn't even clarified yet. The different reactions are startling.

I really hoped I'd never become a forum cynic, but I really think I have.

-Courtney

It's the forums its just a bit of fun to pass the time

I don't take anything on here serious because half what is posted is bull shit anyway "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about you forget the forward slash button and use the coma and full stop ones instead "

This. Oh and a spell checker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sleep naked all the time and I'm on my own. Don't like wearing anything to bed, like to be free and fold my duvet around me like an envelope. "

How has no one made a joke about licking your stamp?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I've slept naked since I was 9.

And it's worth noting that a lady has the right to say "no" at any time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rope gag and an alibi

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

FFS don't lay there at the side of her wanking, go to the bathroom.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"So met a girl and because I am a gent"

Everything you posted after this shows us otherwise.

As for giving one of the reasons she doesn't want to shag you as being 'she's in it for cash', I am aghast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to sleep on the sofa. I know what it's like to be naked in bed with someone who never wants sex.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Rope gag and an alibi "

Even if this is a joke just

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rope gag and an alibi

Even if this is a joke just "

Bit much wernt it really lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sleep naked all the time and I'm on my own. Don't like wearing anything to bed, like to be free and fold my duvet around me like an envelope.

How has no one made a joke about licking your stamp? "

Haha I think most the stuff I say on here is so stupid people just pretend they didn't see it! I'd lick your stamp though!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Rope gag and an alibi

Even if this is a joke just

Bit much wernt it really lol"

Yes a step too far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rope gag and an alibi

Even if this is a joke just

Bit much wernt it really lol

Yes a step too far."

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"So met a girl and because I am a gent guy like to make love most nights some times she comes to bed naked and says she is not in the mood or ti_ed / very frustrating for a horny guy / over to ye my sexy friends / what to do as it's very frustrating : she Bly wants to make love once a week / not for me / what to do my friends / "

That's really strange .. Can't keep her off me when I pop round while you are at work all afternoon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your just not that good & she get's what she needs from her single profile on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I now know why I wear pyjamas, thanks for clarifying that Never knew wearing clothes meant I didn't want sex...silly me!

Also I know how to look for a true gent.. he wants sex every night.

Thanks for helping me out too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every thread by this guy is comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sleep naked all the time and I'm on my own. Don't like wearing anything to bed, like to be free and fold my duvet around me like an envelope. "

Me too like a sausage roll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So shes only in it for the cash? And your going to treat her mean now? Maybe your crap in the bedroom department and shes too nice to say? Plus your on here.. what a lucky woman.. not!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So met a girl and because I am a gent guy like to make love most nights some times she comes to bed naked and says she is not in the mood or ti_ed / very frustrating for a horny guy / over to ye my sexy friends / what to do as it's very frustrating : she Bly wants to make love once a week / not for me / what to do my friends / "

If you text in the same manner you post perhaps she's ti_ed from looking at forward slashes and emojis all day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every thread by this guy is comedy gold"

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

Take your sense of expectation, dress in a towel and parade round in a swingers club stalking people perhaps

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By *izzyRascalWoman
over a year ago

North Hants


"How about you forget the forward slash button and use the coma and full stop ones instead

This. Oh and a spell checker."

I honestly can't even fully understand what the OP has been saying ...

Also another woman who sleeps naked. Doesn't mean I'm asking for sex (though with my drive I usually am haha). If you can't deal with it, stop seeing her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about you forget the forward slash button and use the coma and full stop ones instead "

Oh I am glad it wasn't just me that was twitching!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Just wank and cum in her hair every night, that'll soon learn 'er

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

She will thank you for the saving on hair conditioner the money grabbing non tart that she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op your job is to make her horny... Not fuck her, if she isn't interested you've fucked somethin up x

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Respect her wish. My ex woman was out of sex for 3 years due to work stress level. I stood beside her. Because that is very unusual of her. We seek medical help. Try and communicate with her.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

And some men wonder why they have no verifications.....

A woman coming to bed naked does not entitle you to her body.

A woman may say "yes" then change her mind at any time.

Newsflash: Women are human beings.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I always sleep naked, sometimes we have sex and sometimes we don't. I never realised sleeping naked was code for wanting sex.

If your not sexually compatable then end the relationship instead of whinging she's the big bad wolf for not having the same sex drive as you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"And some men wonder why they have no verifications.....

A woman coming to bed naked does not entitle you to her body.

A woman may say "yes" then change her mind at any time.

Newsflash: Women are human beings.

"

We aren't human beings we are mythical, goddess creatures beyond the ken of men

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I stand corrected

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Rope gag and an alibi

Even if this is a joke just

Bit much wernt it really lol

Yes a step too far."

I thought it quite funny actually

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