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Maintaining standards

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By *ondonexplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

Ascot

This is aimed primarily at singles (and married-and-playing folks):

Have you ever lowered your standards, in terms of facial looks and/or size & weight, for a swinging meet, compared with your standards for dating someone?

Or would you?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I look for completely different things from a meet on here to a date, so it's hard to discuss my standards.

I don't believe that I can lower my standards about anything because that's how I feel so Im not capable of feeling any different about what appeals to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have far higher standards for dating than fucking. I have to spend my life with a person I'm in a relationship with, whereas a fuck is just that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a relationship with anyone at the moment so I have no standard for comparison. I doubt I would date any of the men I meet for sex,they are usually a lot younger than me. Visually/physically I'd date and fuck a range of looks. I wouldn't fuck or date anyone who resembled Catweazle or Jabba the Hutt. I do have some standards.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

There has to be a physical and intellectual attraction for me ... or else I wont engage in any type of sexual play ...

I have to enjoy what im doing ... not thinking omg when can I get away ....

I like to social meet first ... if theres no attraction ....I will be honest and say ....

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah

But more often than not I think we play with people way above our league , but we stopped worrying about all that nonsense a long time ago .

If it looks like a fun meet we will go for it and 99% of the time it is

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

There's been a few people we've met that are lovely people and we enjoy meets with, but I wouldn't date them.

Never say never though. I did go on a date with a guy we met at the club in Aberdeen once, so who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that contact me and want to play with me are way above my league if we were out 'normally'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had relationships with both attractive guys and not as attractive guys.

Looks don't come into it for a relationship to me, i didn't even fancy my last boyfriend when i met him but eventually he became the best looking guy in the world. Since we split he is fugly again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For looks, no. I have to be attracted to someone.

For personality/mind, yes. The type of person I have dated and indeed married in the past is not what I look for on a meet. Most of the qualities I find important in a partner are not important for someone I just enjoy having sex with.

Don't get me wrong, personality is still important, just in a different way.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I'm glad men lower their standards and meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i click with someone on here i will not consider looks as much. Guess i would 'drop my standards'.

Eg. some guys i haven't found attractive when they first messaged me, or the occasional times after that, but i got to know them in cam chat or something else and i liked them then and found them sexy coz of what we talked about. Then when they get really filthy...

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