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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do a lot of men assume they're messaging the female of the couple lol

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Why do a lot of men assume they're messaging the female of the couple lol "

Is it because not many men are called Louise?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Err in a couples profile don't think so lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Because that's who most of the pics are of,

that's who the text tends to focus on,

and there's a 50/50 chance at the end of the day....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some guys use the words both or yous lol but most just assume it's the Mrs and there is pictures of both agreed more of the Mrs so I'm not having that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because your profile promotes the female over the man. Does she never answer messages or do you only come online together? If you are the one controlling the profile you could mention that on your profile (may not get read,or ignored),but it's heavily swayed towards a female profile so men will act accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try making your username less gender specific.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We both answer messages nobody has control over the profile lol I suppose the clue is in the couples profile lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could try making your username less gender specific."
yes I agree on that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting. Most of the messages we get assume they are talking to Marc, not me. Even when I sign off with my name

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've only had a few like that Courtney perhaps it's the name like the lady said lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've only had a few like that Courtney perhaps it's the name like the lady said lol"

It can't be our name.....because our username literally has both of our names in it

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this convo with a couple last night! It's usually the "xx" that gives it away as the female half!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've only had a few like that Courtney perhaps it's the name like the lady said lol

It can't be our name.....because our username literally has both of our names in it

-Courtney"
lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol that's true xx

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Maybe because your profile is all about the female including the user name

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"We've only had a few like that Courtney perhaps it's the name like the lady said lol

It can't be our name.....because our username literally has both of our names in it

-Courtney"

maybe some guys think it's a first and last name

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha its not even her name lol and it's still a couples profile with pics of us both agreed more of her to many of me would be offensive lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe because your profile is all about the female including the user name "
anyway we have 16 pics and I'm in 8 so I'm not having that lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I'm starting to get the sense that we (all) have failed to catch the intended mood here, as OP continues to defend the very criteria that may be *contributing* to *some* of the problem.

Should we have been lumping on the bashing of the unthinking males?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try changing your name to Me and her. See if that makes a difference and have your profile pic a pic of your cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oohhhhhh nasty lol no if I was a single male on here and if I messaged couples I would address it to both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've only had a few like that Courtney perhaps it's the name like the lady said lol

It can't be our name.....because our username literally has both of our names in it

-Courtney

maybe some guys think it's a first and last name "

I agree....men probably stop reading after Marc.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm just asking why ??

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Maybe because your profile is all about the female including the user name anyway we have 16 pics and I'm in 8 so I'm not having that lol"

She's in 14. You're only alone in 2.

I'm an idiot for re-arguing this point. And I haven't pressed "Post Message" yet.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Maybe because your profile is all about the female including the user name anyway we have 16 pics and I'm in 8 so I'm not having that lol"

lol 8 yes but only 2 you can be seen properly in 1 your behind the missus covering your face and 5 are of your belly/cock/missus

you can argue or take on an outsiders view upto you no skin off my noise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works both ways.

When I get a message from a couples profile, they very rarely put if it's the male or female whose sent it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha I didn't say alone did I , I said I was in 8 I take it you just message the fem of the couple then lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It works both ways.

When I get a message from a couples profile, they very rarely put if it's the male or female whose sent it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just asking why ??"

And you've had possible reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It works both ways.

When I get a message from a couples profile, they very rarely put if it's the male or female whose sent it."
there's a point something we don't do perhaps we should

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm just asking why ??

And you've had possible reasons. "
about 80% of messages we get do this I was just wondering why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe because your profile is all about the female including the user name anyway we have 16 pics and I'm in 8 so I'm not having that lol

lol 8 yes but only 2 you can be seen properly in 1 your behind the missus covering your face and 5 are of your belly/cock/missus

you can argue or take on an outsiders view upto you no skin off my noise "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've only had a few like that Courtney perhaps it's the name like the lady said lol

It can't be our name.....because our username literally has both of our names in it

-Courtney

maybe some guys think it's a first and last name

I agree....men probably stop reading after Marc..... "

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

I do some times but the man always tells me its him and we go from there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe because your profile is all about the female including the user name anyway we have 16 pics and I'm in 8 so I'm not having that lol

lol 8 yes but only 2 you can be seen properly in 1 your behind the missus covering your face and 5 are of your belly/cock/missus

you can argue or take on an outsiders view upto you no skin off my noise "
lol not arguing just wondering like I said if I was single I'd address it to both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do some times but the man always tells me its him and we go from there"
I do that or say ill tell the Mrs but a lot of times they don't message back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both answer messages nobody has control over the profile lol I suppose the clue is in the couples profile lol"
well as you are a couple it might be a thought when you answer the would be potential meet that its the male replying

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"there's a point something we don't do perhaps we should "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We both answer messages nobody has control over the profile lol I suppose the clue is in the couples profile lolwell as you are a couple it might be a thought when you answer the would be potential meet that its the male replying "
If it's me answering I do lol

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Maybe because your profile is all about the female including the user name anyway we have 16 pics and I'm in 8 so I'm not having that lol

lol 8 yes but only 2 you can be seen properly in 1 your behind the missus covering your face and 5 are of your belly/cock/missus

you can argue or take on an outsiders view upto you no skin off my noise lol not arguing just wondering like I said if I was single I'd address it to both "

And you have been told several reasons why that maybe the case

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe because your profile is all about the female including the user name anyway we have 16 pics and I'm in 8 so I'm not having that lol

lol 8 yes but only 2 you can be seen properly in 1 your behind the missus covering your face and 5 are of your belly/cock/missus

you can argue or take on an outsiders view upto you no skin off my noise lol not arguing just wondering like I said if I was single I'd address it to both

And you have been told several reasons why that maybe the case"
And some have been taken on board lol

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Maybe because your profile is all about the female including the user name anyway we have 16 pics and I'm in 8 so I'm not having that lol

lol 8 yes but only 2 you can be seen properly in 1 your behind the missus covering your face and 5 are of your belly/cock/missus

you can argue or take on an outsiders view upto you no skin off my noise lol not arguing just wondering like I said if I was single I'd address it to both

And you have been told several reasons why that maybe the caseAnd some have been taken on board lol "

ok cool just out of curiosity who has been posting on this thread the male, female or both?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe because your profile is all about the female including the user name anyway we have 16 pics and I'm in 8 so I'm not having that lol

lol 8 yes but only 2 you can be seen properly in 1 your behind the missus covering your face and 5 are of your belly/cock/missus

you can argue or take on an outsiders view upto you no skin off my noise lol not arguing just wondering like I said if I was single I'd address it to both

And you have been told several reasons why that maybe the caseAnd some have been taken on board lol

ok cool just out of curiosity who has been posting on this thread the male, female or both?"
ffs who do you think lol we've even been talking about how many pics I have hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I cannot read, especially with a raging hardon. I mean, what can I possibly do with learning

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Maybe because your profile is all about the female including the user name anyway we have 16 pics and I'm in 8 so I'm not having that lol

lol 8 yes but only 2 you can be seen properly in 1 your behind the missus covering your face and 5 are of your belly/cock/missus

you can argue or take on an outsiders view upto you no skin off my noise lol not arguing just wondering like I said if I was single I'd address it to both

And you have been told several reasons why that maybe the caseAnd some have been taken on board lol

ok cool just out of curiosity who has been posting on this thread the male, female or both?ffs who do you think lol we've even been talking about how many pics I have hahaha "

Ok chill was just asking if the missus had any input into this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because I cannot read, especially with a raging hardon. I mean, what can I possibly do with learning "
now that's a fair enough point lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not responding till the female answers this post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not responding till the female answers this post. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and please dont ask me why I only fabbed the female pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and please dont ask me why I only fabbed the female pics "
And now I'm hurt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and please dont ask me why I only fabbed the female pics And now I'm hurt lol"

lol when louise and I meet up..we'll make it up to ya by sending pics n vids

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and please dont ask me why I only fabbed the female pics And now I'm hurt lol

lol when louise and I meet up..we'll make it up to ya by sending pics n vids"
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile states the male answers messages and if you ignore him you will be ignored. Delete button gets used a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our profile states the male answers messages and if you ignore him you will be ignored. Delete button gets used a lot "
now that's a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both answer messages nobody has control over the profile lol I suppose the clue is in the couples profile lolwell as you are a couple it might be a thought when you answer the would be potential meet that its the male replying If it's me answering I do lol"
yes but who's me ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But obviously still not fool proof if the delete button gets used a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because couples always hide the man and more pics of the woman too lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We both answer messages nobody has control over the profile lol I suppose the clue is in the couples profile lolwell as you are a couple it might be a thought when you answer the would be potential meet that its the male replying If it's me answering I do lolyes but who's me ? "
not again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both answer messages nobody has control over the profile lol I suppose the clue is in the couples profile lol"
it's nothing to do with the name... We get it all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder what women assume when messaging couples? lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because couples always hide the man and more pics of the woman too lol."
lol they're still a couple though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We both answer messages nobody has control over the profile lol I suppose the clue is in the couples profile lolit's nothing to do with the name... We get it all the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wonder what women assume when messaging couples? lol."
Good question and I did say most not all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because couples always hide the man and more pics of the woman too lol.lol they're still a couple though "
Yes. I guess they want the female more? lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder what women assume when messaging couples? lol.Good question and I did say most not all lol "
You are right, you did as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because couples always hide the man and more pics of the woman too lol.lol they're still a couple though Yes. I guess they want the female more? lol."
definitely I can totally understand that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't get a reply I assume it's the fella, if I do I assume it's the woman!

Also, depends if there's an X in the reply or not.

Even then I address whoever it is as a couple, ie you guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I don't get a reply I assume it's the fella, if I do I assume it's the woman!

Also, depends if there's an X in the reply or not.

Even then I address whoever it is as a couple, ie you guys."
nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But obviously still not fool proof if the delete button gets used a lot "

It works as a filter because it eliminates those who

A) Didnt read the profile.

B) Are likely to disrespect the male on a meet.

No matter what you do people will still do it but its up to you how you respond. You can either waste time telling them, or do as we do and dont waste anytime on them.

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"I wonder what women assume when messaging couples? lol."

I always address as both if I'm responding to a message from a couples profile, I think it shows I am happy talking to both. I do get odd messages though claiming to be the female half sometimes, even had a lady try and 'catch me out' by impersonating her other half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We delete without reading any messages that just target Charlotte.

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By *aidback pairCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I think most men address the female of the couple as it usually is about engaging the female.

I know for us its all about what My wife wants and it's my job to keep her happy. We get some who address us both but to be honest if it's a guy messaging My wife it really doesn't bother me because he has to stimulate her mind before getting any fun and addressing messages to me would only prelong things. I will from time to time join the convo but I usually start the message with "This is the Mr here". Or if we're both on the convo we usually say we're both messaging. At the end of the day for us its about the female half and moving at her pace.x

Horny Hubby xx

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"We delete without reading any messages that just target Charlotte."

how do you know there targeting Charlotte without reading them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But obviously still not fool proof if the delete button gets used a lot

It works as a filter because it eliminates those who

A) Didnt read the profile.

B) Are likely to disrespect the male on a meet.

No matter what you do people will still do it but its up to you how you respond. You can either waste time telling them, or do as we do and dont waste anytime on them. "
Good point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wonder what women assume when messaging couples? lol.

I always address as both if I'm responding to a message from a couples profile, I think it shows I am happy talking to both. I do get odd messages though claiming to be the female half sometimes, even had a lady try and 'catch me out' by impersonating her other half. "

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World


"I wonder what women assume when messaging couples? lol."

I don't make any assumption until a few unsigned messages have been sent, I send messages to both, but it is very easy to tell who answeres as women talk to other women very differently to men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We delete without reading any messages that just target Charlotte."
I'm to nosey and cheeky lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think most men address the female of the couple as it usually is about engaging the female.

I know for us its all about what My wife wants and it's my job to keep her happy. We get some who address us both but to be honest if it's a guy messaging My wife it really doesn't bother me because he has to stimulate her mind before getting any fun and addressing messages to me would only prelong things. I will from time to time join the convo but I usually start the message with "This is the Mr here". Or if we're both on the convo we usually say we're both messaging. At the end of the day for us its about the female half and moving at her pace.x

Horny Hubby xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wonder what women assume when messaging couples? lol.

I don't make any assumption until a few unsigned messages have been sent, I send messages to both, but it is very easy to tell who answeres as women talk to other women very differently to men "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We delete without reading any messages that just target Charlotte.

how do you know there targeting Charlotte without reading them?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could possibly be that they don't want to fuck you and as they only want to fuck the wife they want to talk to her. Will you be letting the man fuck you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It could possibly be that they don't want to fuck you and as they only want to fuck the wife they want to talk to her. Will you be letting the man fuck you? "
oh dear hahaha

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"It could possibly be that they don't want to fuck you and as they only want to fuck the wife they want to talk to her. Will you be letting the man fuck you? "

lol

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I don't mind people knowing its me, Mrs, who responds to the message son our couple profile. Mr is usually sitting next to me on his single profile at the time anyway. I decide who we meet together and alone, where we go and what we do. He is much more chatty than I am, and I just say it how it is. For meeting both of us, they would have to engage with both of us in some way on the meet anyway ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't mind people knowing its me, Mrs, who responds to the message son our couple profile. Mr is usually sitting next to me on his single profile at the time anyway. I decide who we meet together and alone, where we go and what we do. He is much more chatty than I am, and I just say it how it is. For meeting both of us, they would have to engage with both of us in some way on the meet anyway ..."
I don't mind at all was just wondering why lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It could possibly be that they don't want to fuck you and as they only want to fuck the wife they want to talk to her. Will you be letting the man fuck you?

lol "
I thought you would like that one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We delete without reading any messages that just target Charlotte.

how do you know there targeting Charlotte without reading them?"

I'd imagine the title and first line gives it away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We delete without reading any messages that just target Charlotte.

how do you know there targeting Charlotte without reading them?

I'd imagine the title and first line gives it away. "
It usually does

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"Why do a lot of men assume they're messaging the female of the couple lol "

I think it's mostly wishful thinking.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of men assume they're messaging the female of the couple lol

I think it's mostly wishful thinking....."
lol

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I share a couples profile. We state in our profile text that it's mostly me messaging yet still get the occasional one addressed to him alone, which is the total opposite of what you're getting. I would assume from your profile name though that the female would be the one online most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of men assume they're messaging the female of the couple lol "

Perhaps because they are only really interested in the female and not the male, thinking they may tempt her to meet without him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I share a couples profile. We state in our profile text that it's mostly me messaging yet still get the occasional one addressed to him alone, which is the total opposite of what you're getting. I would assume from your profile name though that the female would be the one online most of the time."
Perhaps a name change is in order lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of men assume they're messaging the female of the couple lol

Perhaps because they are only really interested in the female and not the male, thinking they may tempt her to meet without him"
perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet a lot of guys don't even realise it's a couples profile

See the name and whoosh there goes another copy & paste message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I bet a lot of guys don't even realise it's a couples profile

See the name and whoosh there goes another copy & paste message "
haha your probably right

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I bet a lot of guys don't even realise it's a couples profile

See the name and whoosh there goes another copy & paste message "

To be honest, I did a double take when I read it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I bet a lot of guys don't even realise it's a couples profile

See the name and whoosh there goes another copy & paste message

To be honest, I did a double take when I read it."
lol a name change it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this environment I assume nothing and also take nothing for granted.

The reason is that for the most part a message to anyone unknown respondent is a leap of faith. So be open honest and genuine and if your message is well received then that's great if not then it was not meant to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In this environment I assume nothing and also take nothing for granted.

The reason is that for the most part a message to anyone unknown respondent is a leap of faith. So be open honest and genuine and if your message is well received then that's great if not then it was not meant to be."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We delete without reading any messages that just target Charlotte.

how do you know there targeting Charlotte without reading them?"

They usually start with 'hi sexy' etc or have female related titles

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