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By *unDee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

'Classy' on your profile but you're a swinger! Is this an oxymoron? Discuss...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Classy' on your profile but you're a swinger! Is this an oxymoron? Discuss..."

Is swinging dirty and something to be ashamed of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss. "

Yes it does

No more to discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss. "

I'm sure there are less aggressive ways of making your point.

OP, it depends on your interpretation of what swinging involves.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss. "

Hehe... That's my laugh for the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well. That's us told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what defines "class"?

Is class being well dressed, well spoken or even if you are from a blue blood line? It's all relative in my view and I would say most people have expectations of behaviour whatever it is you are doing in life!

Now does anyone want a shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss. "

Irony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

I'm sure there are less aggressive ways of making your point.

OP, it depends on your interpretation of what swinging involves. "

What it involves is not particularly subjective, therefore not requiring interpretation. The subjectivity that exists is irrelevant to class and therefore the ruling of 'cunt' stands.

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over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"'Classy' on your profile but you're a swinger! Is this an oxymoron? Discuss..."

No it isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Classy' on your profile but you're a swinger! Is this an oxymoron? Discuss...

No it isn't."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No more so than a swinging couple that doesn't meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing classy about meeting strangers and fucking them.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss. "

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By *omeotherguyMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss. "

What the....??

I think the offense is more found than given with the OP's question.

Whereas your statement is quite clearly rude and obnoxious.

It's a valid question in that many people consider it "filthy" and "naughty" and like to think part of the sexiness is how certain people would consider them classy in the normal world and not realise what they do behind closed doors.

Everybodies definition of class is their own and they have a right to discuss it without trying to be closed down by ignorant and offensive remarks.

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By *omeotherguyMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

Irony."

Indeed.

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Shouldn't swinging be classless.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's nothing classy about meeting strangers and fucking them. "

My sentiments exactly. We can put ourselves in classier environments,act classy during the pre-sex socialising and meet with people who we have become friends with,but once the clothes come off all class gets thrown out of the window. Everyone is equal,once naked and rubbing genitals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Classy' on your profile but you're a swinger! Is this an oxymoron? Discuss..."
I believe it could be , maybe slutty or tarty would be more appropriate in a nice way

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By *omeotherguyMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Shouldn't swinging be classless.?"

I'd say there's a lot of people that need classes! ;p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends whether you think class has anything to do with sex. To suggest no one can call themselves "classy" because they're using this site to meet people for sex implies that your understanding of classy is sex related.

Which to me is just as distasteful a view as those elsewhere who would judge someone (usually women) for their number of sexual partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's nothing classy about meeting strangers and fucking them. "

There goes 90% of male royalty in history and around the world then! Not sure who is going to be left with this new definition of classy, other than nuns...

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By *omeotherguyMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"There's nothing classy about meeting strangers and fucking them.

There goes 90% of male royalty in history and around the world then! Not sure who is going to be left with this new definition of classy, other than nuns... "

Haha indeed!

It's strange that on this site, one of the few places where people can be open about sexual desire, where having a sex drive and fulfilling it can be considered natural, that so many people might judge the act of sex and the person having sex.

I wonder if the same opinions apply to men as women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's nothing classy about meeting strangers and fucking them.

There goes 90% of male royalty in history and around the world then! Not sure who is going to be left with this new definition of classy, other than nuns... "

Henry the 8th killed his wives because he wanted to fuck someone else...

OP classy is a just a word that people use to represent something not real - which is a persons image.

User names don't even have to represent sex on a sex site either. People aren't just their sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yawns what a load of bull regardless if you meet random strangers for sex you can still be classy and every1 has the right to class themselves in which ever way they choose too

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"yawns what a load of bull regardless if you meet random strangers for sex you can still be classy and every1 has the right to class themselves in which ever way they choose too"

Hooray!

What surprises me the most is how many people think that having sex with loads of people precludes you from describing yourself a certain way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yawns what a load of bull regardless if you meet random strangers for sex you can still be classy and every1 has the right to class themselves in which ever way they choose too

Hooray!

What surprises me the most is how many people think that having sex with loads of people precludes you from describing yourself a certain way."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yawns what a load of bull regardless if you meet random strangers for sex you can still be classy and every1 has the right to class themselves in which ever way they choose too

Hooray!

What surprises me the most is how many people think that having sex with loads of people precludes you from describing yourself a certain way."

exactly my sentiments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

What the....??

I think the offense is more found than given with the OP's question.

Whereas your statement is quite clearly rude and obnoxious.

It's a valid question in that many people consider it "filthy" and "naughty" and like to think part of the sexiness is how certain people would consider them classy in the normal world and not realise what they do behind closed doors.

Everybodies definition of class is their own and they have a right to discuss it without trying to be closed down by ignorant and offensive remarks."

Absolutely agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Classy suggests to me someone who conducts themselves in the public eye in a way that suggests they take a pride in their image and lifestyle and care how others perceive them, being a swinger isn't classy in my opinion ,I don't have a problem with being swingers just saying its not something I relate to classy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Classy suggests to me someone who conducts themselves in the public eye in a way that suggests they take a pride in their image and lifestyle and care how others perceive them, being a swinger isn't classy in my opinion ,I don't have a problem with being swingers just saying its not something I relate to classy xx "

I don't see how they are even really related, hence the royal families example. I'm not saying I'm classy because I'm a swinger, I'm saying I'm classy because I fly EasyJet not Ryanair, I always address the judge as 'your honour' and I say "excuse me" after I fart at the dinner table.

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By *omeotherguyMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Classy suggests to me someone who conducts themselves in the public eye in a way that suggests they take a pride in their image and lifestyle and care how others perceive them, being a swinger isn't classy in my opinion ,I don't have a problem with being swingers just saying its not something I relate to classy xx

I don't see how they are even really related, hence the royal families example. I'm not saying I'm classy because I'm a swinger, I'm saying I'm classy because I fly EasyJet not Ryanair, I always address the judge as 'your honour' and I say "excuse me" after I fart at the dinner table. "

For me class is how you treat other people, not whether you enjoy sex in a particular way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know some very classy swingers. Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question from the op was " classy on your profile is this an oxymoron "my take on this was can you relate classy and swinging together ,the op I would suggest doesn't for probably the same reasons I sited

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By *omeotherguyMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"The question from the op was " classy on your profile is this an oxymoron "my take on this was can you relate classy and swinging together ,the op I would suggest doesn't for probably the same reasons I sited "

The OP may well feel that way, or they just have wanted to create a thread, as I think is the reason many threads are made.

So at this point I'd say you're making an assumption

Anyway, it's been a good discussion and fun, and it's not important to me what one person things. I lack class sometimes but it has nothing to do with sex. But I accept that. For me, somebodies opinion on class is no different to how people feel strongly or not about interracial sex. It is what it is so live and let live. And possibly try to sleep with them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's nothing classy about meeting strangers and fucking them.

My sentiments exactly. We can put ourselves in classier environments,act classy during the pre-sex socialising and meet with people who we have become friends with,but once the clothes come off all class gets thrown out of the window. Everyone is equal,once naked and rubbing genitals. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss. "

Couldn't have put it better myself!

Op - if you feel the women on the site are not worthy of your respect then perhaps you should leave it?

I've met some amazing, classy ladies (and men) whilst swinging - and hope to meet many more!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Making the assumption that liking sex denotes that you may be less 'classy' is a small step towards slut shaming. Classy people must have sex. Otherwise who would inherit hereditary titles (the bastards they have with common ladies might not though)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

I'm sure there are less aggressive ways of making your point.

OP, it depends on your interpretation of what swinging involves. "
Er having nsa sex with people other than your partner or with different people if you are single. This always causes an issue. Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

Couldn't have put it better myself!

Op - if you feel the women on the site are not worthy of your respect then perhaps you should leave it?

I've met some amazing, classy ladies (and men) whilst swinging - and hope to meet many more! "
Some of the women have suggested this though. I'm with you but some others have a strange attitude. Anyone can relate to this lifestyle. Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's nothing classy about meeting strangers and fucking them. "

There is if you wear a top hat while you're going it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's nothing classy about meeting strangers and fucking them.

There is if you wear a top hat while you're going it "

And a pearl necklace.

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By *amantha8383TV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss. "

Great replay. Wish you could replay to all the half arsed or abusive messages I get. Keep up the good work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

Couldn't have put it better myself!

Op - if you feel the women on the site are not worthy of your respect then perhaps you should leave it?

I've met some amazing, classy ladies (and men) whilst swinging - and hope to meet many more! Some of the women have suggested this though. I'm with you but some others have a strange attitude. Anyone can relate to this lifestyle. Mr W "

It's not a lifestyle. It's just people shagging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

Couldn't have put it better myself!

Op - if you feel the women on the site are not worthy of your respect then perhaps you should leave it?

I've met some amazing, classy ladies (and men) whilst swinging - and hope to meet many more! Some of the women have suggested this though. I'm with you but some others have a strange attitude. Anyone can relate to this lifestyle. Mr W

It's not a lifestyle. It's just people shagging."

So why does shagging and enjoying shagging mean you can't ever be described as classy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

Couldn't have put it better myself!

Op - if you feel the women on the site are not worthy of your respect then perhaps you should leave it?

I've met some amazing, classy ladies (and men) whilst swinging - and hope to meet many more! Some of the women have suggested this though. I'm with you but some others have a strange attitude. Anyone can relate to this lifestyle. Mr W "

If that's true lovely then it's sad that a woman who swings herself feels that a woman who swings can't possibly be 'classy'!

Classy to me has nothing to do with how many sexual partners you have or what you do with them.

To me it's about how you conduct yourself in public, the respect you show to those who serve you/wait on you, manners, civility, consideration kindness, good taste etc etc etc.

I do believe you shouldn't refer to yourself as classy though - it's for others to decide whether you fit the bill! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment". Fair point well made. Mr W

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

Couldn't have put it better myself!

Op - if you feel the women on the site are not worthy of your respect then perhaps you should leave it?

I've met some amazing, classy ladies (and men) whilst swinging - and hope to meet many more! Some of the women have suggested this though. I'm with you but some others have a strange attitude. Anyone can relate to this lifestyle. Mr W

If that's true lovely then it's sad that a woman who swings herself feels that a woman who swings can't possibly be 'classy'!

Classy to me has nothing to do with how many sexual partners you have or what you do with them.

To me it's about how you conduct yourself in public, the respect you show to those who serve you/wait on you, manners, civility, consideration kindness, good taste etc etc etc.

I do believe you shouldn't refer to yourself as classy though - it's for others to decide whether you fit the bill! Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment". Taxi! Mr W

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

Couldn't have put it better myself!

Op - if you feel the women on the site are not worthy of your respect then perhaps you should leave it?

I've met some amazing, classy ladies (and men) whilst swinging - and hope to meet many more! Some of the women have suggested this though. I'm with you but some others have a strange attitude. Anyone can relate to this lifestyle. Mr W

It's not a lifestyle. It's just people shagging."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

Couldn't have put it better myself!

Op - if you feel the women on the site are not worthy of your respect then perhaps you should leave it?

I've met some amazing, classy ladies (and men) whilst swinging - and hope to meet many more! Some of the women have suggested this though. I'm with you but some others have a strange attitude. Anyone can relate to this lifestyle. Mr W

It's not a lifestyle. It's just people shagging."
Game set and match. Mr W

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

Couldn't have put it better myself!

Op - if you feel the women on the site are not worthy of your respect then perhaps you should leave it?

I've met some amazing, classy ladies (and men) whilst swinging - and hope to meet many more! Some of the women have suggested this though. I'm with you but some others have a strange attitude. Anyone can relate to this lifestyle. Mr W

It's not a lifestyle. It's just people shagging.

So why does shagging and enjoying shagging mean you can't ever be described as classy?"

Tsk, it's sex, therefore it's nasty, bad and just plain wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Classy' on your profile but you're a swinger! Is this an oxymoron? Discuss..."

Still not seen the OP come back and put his views.

Was there a point you want to make, or just leaving the statement which implies that you believe that swingers can't be classy people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Classy' on your profile but you're a swinger! Is this an oxymoron? Discuss...

Still not seen the OP come back and put his views.

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They are probably off teaching an evening class on how to make friends and influence people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the OP doing here in the first place? Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the OP doing here in the first place? Mr W "

Don't understand why OP is on here as a couple, as profile clearly states wifey not on board... !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

Couldn't have put it better myself!

Op - if you feel the women on the site are not worthy of your respect then perhaps you should leave it?

I've met some amazing, classy ladies (and men) whilst swinging - and hope to meet many more! Some of the women have suggested this though. I'm with you but some others have a strange attitude. Anyone can relate to this lifestyle. Mr W

It's not a lifestyle. It's just people shagging.

So why does shagging and enjoying shagging mean you can't ever be described as classy?"

I didn't say that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

Couldn't have put it better myself!

Op - if you feel the women on the site are not worthy of your respect then perhaps you should leave it?

I've met some amazing, classy ladies (and men) whilst swinging - and hope to meet many more! Some of the women have suggested this though. I'm with you but some others have a strange attitude. Anyone can relate to this lifestyle. Mr W

If that's true lovely then it's sad that a woman who swings herself feels that a woman who swings can't possibly be 'classy'!

Classy to me has nothing to do with how many sexual partners you have or what you do with them.

To me it's about how you conduct yourself in public, the respect you show to those who serve you/wait on you, manners, civility, consideration kindness, good taste etc etc etc.

I do believe you shouldn't refer to yourself as classy though - it's for others to decide whether you fit the bill! Xx"

I can't find the post where a woman said that women- or men- who swing can't be classy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

Couldn't have put it better myself!

Op - if you feel the women on the site are not worthy of your respect then perhaps you should leave it?

I've met some amazing, classy ladies (and men) whilst swinging - and hope to meet many more! Some of the women have suggested this though. I'm with you but some others have a strange attitude. Anyone can relate to this lifestyle. Mr W

It's not a lifestyle. It's just people shagging.

So why does shagging and enjoying shagging mean you can't ever be described as classy?

I didn't say that. "

Ok, in that case I misread the implication in every one of your posts on this thread then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not !!!!

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I looked I got classy on my profile. In repect of my dressing classic classy or classy with a twist.Which in my world means stylish and sophisticated.Classy with a twist just means stockings, heels and a little trampy black dress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making a potentially offensive statement without having the balls to back it up, trying to get other people to continue and expand on your point, either to cause an argument or because you are just a twat. Then later backtracking saying it's not what you think and calling it a "social experiment".

Does this make you look like a cunt?

Discuss.

Couldn't have put it better myself!

Op - if you feel the women on the site are not worthy of your respect then perhaps you should leave it?

I've met some amazing, classy ladies (and men) whilst swinging - and hope to meet many more! Some of the women have suggested this though. I'm with you but some others have a strange attitude. Anyone can relate to this lifestyle. Mr W

It's not a lifestyle. It's just people shagging.

So why does shagging and enjoying shagging mean you can't ever be described as classy?

I didn't say that.

Ok, in that case I misread the implication in every one of your posts on this thread then. "

Apology accepted.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Why people have to judge how people do things on here is beyond me, plenty like to troll and you know who you are! Some are even on this thread....

If you just learn who and what to ignore and get on with your life it would be much happier!

If you get your kicks by putting others down? Well knock your sock off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends whether you think class has anything to do with sex. To suggest no one can call themselves "classy" because they're using this site to meet people for sex implies that your understanding of classy is sex related.

Which to me is just as distasteful a view as those elsewhere who would judge someone (usually women) for their number of sexual partners. "
my understanding of classy doesn't involve sex at all and a classy person wouldn't discuss their sex life certainly not brag about it ,classy isn't aristocratic its the way a person holds themselves in society ,I would describe George Clooney as classy and I imagine ,I don't know but imagine he loves sex but you don't hear him talking about his exploits and like someone else said its not a thing you call yourself others may see you as classy ,I'm not in anyway criticising men or women who have sex with many partners but I don't see us as classy

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I think classy can be more the way you dress, conduct yourself in company and respect others, rather than your status in society. It really has nothing to do with sex, we all have sex, whatever class we are, it's just that some talk about it more than others, we are on a sex site after all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen some 'reet proper posh/classy types on here!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"'Classy' on your profile but you're a swi

nger! Is this an oxymoron? Discuss...

Still not seen the OP come back and put his views.

Was there a point you want to make, or just leaving the statement which implies that you believe that swingers can't be classy people? "

I wish the OP has pics though.

I want to see how trolls in fabs look like.

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