FabSwingers.com forum: why cant they take no for an answer

By *r n mrs swing OP Couple
over a year ago

pontefract

i know not everyone is like this but over the last few days am finding that people wont take no for an answer i try to be so polite and answer to everyone and am not liking the messages i get back uff should i just be nasty and say get stuffed!!!!

ps its not only from single males they are mainly being quite nice !!! x

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"i know not everyone is like this but over the last few days am finding that people wont take no for an answer i try to be so polite and answer to everyone and am not liking the messages i get back uff should i just be nasty and say get stuffed!!!!

ps its not only from single males they are mainly being quite nice !!! x"

Because we mainly are quite nice.

We sometimes just have difficulty expressing it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell them where to go and block them

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"i try to be so polite and answer to everyone and am not liking the messages i get back uff should i just be nasty and say get stuffed!!!!

ps its not only from single males they are mainly being quite nice !!! x"

and people wonder why not everyone does reply.. cause people can't take a no... they need an explanation and then a chance to further change minds in the feint hope of a shag...

and then they get nasty..

block them, report abuse

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By *r n mrs swing OP Couple
over a year ago

pontefract

"i try to be so polite and answer to everyone and am not liking the messages i get back uff should i just be nasty and say get stuffed!!!!

ps its not only from single males they are mainly being quite nice !!! x

and people wonder why not everyone does reply.. cause people can't take a no... they need an explanation and then a chance to further change minds in the feint hope of a shag...

and then they get nasty..

block them, report abuse

xx"

exactly ive been putting

'thanks for message but your not for us happy swinging'

and been getting some right abuse back

one said can you not just talk dirty to me er no !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I am requested to provide feedback why I have turned down a gent, I give him two options: the nice and polite version just to fob him off, or what I really think of him.

They usually leave me alone after that!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Blimey! I just say a simple "no thanks"

Literally that's it. It doesn't leave much room for a response. If one comes I tend to delete it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stop being petty meet them all and let them have there wicked way with you . well thats what linda does lol

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By *r n mrs swing OP Couple
over a year ago

pontefract

im defo being too nice then !!! wont be again

and meet then all have to have about five day!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish you were down here in the South east then

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By *isub69Man
over a year ago

Epsom

I can't stand people who get arsey when you respond to them.

I always thank people for replying if they say no thanks etc as at least they have taken the time to read your message etc.

unfortunately there are rude and pushy people in all walks of life.

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By *ornyandnymphoCouple
over a year ago

poole

"im defo being too nice then !!! wont be again

and meet then all have to have about five day!!!!

Well the doctor says 5 portions a day is good for you.

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

"Blimey! I just say a simple "no thanks"

Literally that's it. It doesn't leave much room for a response. If one comes I tend to delete it. "

I'm inclined to agree with this.

If I receive a chatty response, I find myself looking for an opportunity to message back.

Guys are generally straightforward. We understand 'no'. Anything more is just confusing.

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