FabSwingers.com forum: meet got canceled

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

meet got cancelled as soon as i got to my destination oh well it was a nice drive

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens I hear

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell us more of this drive.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes but never mind

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

it was about 2 hours

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

whats to tell

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said it was nice. Provide us with an imaginary experience. All I've learned is the duration. Be more vivid.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

it was refreshing driving along the seafront then the country lanes with a nice cold breeze against the face

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

your welcome

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this

xxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *izzyRascalWoman
over a year ago

North Hants

How frustrating! Did they give you any reason why?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

its ok xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

nope no reason at all

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

A nice drive by the coast then .... be thankfull you live in such a nice place ... you could have been driving around DUDLEY ....in the black country .... now that would have been terrible

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol it was quite nice have to admit :D oh dear its not that bad lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phone the police?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Be glad you aren't in Stoke. I couldn't drive all the way home due to skidding in the snow !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Oh no .... I dont like snow ... except on a Christmas card ...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oh dear sounds very dangerous

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

"You said it was nice. Provide us with an imaginary experience. All I've learned is the duration. Be more vivid. "

Are you a dominant lady?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Driving 2 hours for a meet?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Driving 2 hours for a meet? "

If they're worth it, more.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

That's happened to me twice, but only half hour drives each time.

The scenery on the way to both was fair to middling..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How ignorant of them, waiting until you got there to tell you, really rude. Did they give an excuse for not informing you about the cancellation in good time?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

It's normal: half the people on this site are fakes, or wannabes, and have no intention of meeting.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it was about 2 hours"

2 hours each way or a 2 hour round trip? Either way, very rude of him/her/them (*delete as appropriate) without giving you a reason. Yes, things come up at the last minute but to give no reason is just rude. Report, block and move on, you're cute, you'll get plenty more offers I predict.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree very rude. Report and block x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you let the person know that you were leaving?

Seems very last minute to cancel on you and a bit unfair as they must have known you were driving a long way

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Am ruthless... name and shame

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So another upside to swinging,the opportunity for unlimited travel.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Driving 2 hours for a meet? "

I don't drive I use the train and I'll go more than 2 hours

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"meet got cancelled as soon as i got to my destination oh well it was a nice drive

lucky you don't cycle to meets

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also to OP turn who's near on have a little look around might not be a wasted journey! lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"meet got cancelled as soon as i got to my destination oh well it was a nice drive

"
hey I've had situations where I've booked hotel and travelled a long way its just part of this place loads of timewasters but you get used to it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep we've had that quite a few times. Not nice!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not nice to be put in a position like that. Into consideration the excuse also could be genuine which in that case one can't really to anything but to accept. On the other hand is difficult to think that there are people that create profiles and everything and at the last minute cancel because of ignorance of other people time. I had similar situation in the past and it was a nice ride by bus

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

2 hours is a long drive for sex.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are worth making the effort for

Clearly not the one the OP was meant to meet though

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are worth making the effort for

Clearly not the one the OP was meant to meet though

"
exactly this if they are worth it travel and book a hotel spoil them ,the reality is in the meet

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lkmazabukaMan
over a year ago

bristol

Had this done to me once, a couple cancelled the meet soon after i arrived at the hotel. Was told to park right outside the room, which was on the ground floor facing the car park, was even asked to quickly peek through the window as they'd be in action. Did as i was told only to get a txt saying she'd changed her mind

. Was disappointed, but it was only in cardiff so wasn't too long a drive. We're still friends though and still chat.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had this done to me once, a couple cancelled the meet soon after i arrived at the hotel. Was told to park right outside the room, which was on the ground floor facing the car park, was even asked to quickly peek through the window as they'd be in action. Did as i was told only to get a txt saying she'd changed her mind

. Was disappointed, but it was only in cardiff so wasn't too long a drive. We're still friends though and still chat."

You are a gracious man for remaining friends with them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you had a chance of a meeting never get one

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Driving 2 hours for a meet?

If they're worth it, more. "
2 hours....to us thats south of Leeds..no ones worth that

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least you had a chance of a meeting never get one "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 hour round trip?!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

"2 hours is a long drive for sex. "

Oh i dont know ,,,,, im just about to be dragged out to do the shopping and then drop her of to the footy and then go and pick her up later and then cook dinner ,,,,,,,, and then tonight there may or may not be a 3 % chance of some action

Some of you single men want to try and be married

Im only joking of course because im a very lucky man but there would be many relationships on here which would resemble what i portrayed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it was refreshing driving along the seafront then the country lanes with a nice cold breeze against the face"

Even worse is the constant cold breeze. Was your car window stuck down?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Driving 2 hours for a meet?

If they're worth it, more. "

Or getting a train and a taxi even

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lkmazabukaMan
over a year ago

bristol

. Was disappointed, but it was only in cardiff so wasn't too long a drive. We're still friends though and still chat.

You are a gracious man for remaining friends with them"

Well thank you. Xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Driving 2 hours for a meet?

If they're worth it, more.

Or getting a train and a taxi even

Three trains...

it ain't the train I remember though funnily

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only driven 2 hours for a meet once and I was 100% sure it wouldn't be cancelled. Home address of someone I'd known for a while, still wasn't worth it in the end.

Should have asked someone else to join me for a spa weekend

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Only driven 2 hours for a meet once and I was 100% sure it wouldn't be cancelled. Home address of someone I'd known for a while, still wasn't worth it in the end.

Should have asked someone else to join me for a spa weekend

Ouch!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"2 hours is a long drive for sex. "

It's even longer for no sex

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that happened OP, I guess its the chance you take sometimes. I only ever meet locally and meet for a social first usually in costa on my break when I'd be there anyway so its not a problem if people decide to no show or cancel. The only person I allow to waste my time is me!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are worth making the effort for

Clearly not the one the OP was meant to meet though

50 miles is no effort.

Just sayin.......

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've travelled as far as Leeds for a meet. Thankfully it was worth it. It's best to try and build up a rapport and get to know someone first before travelling so far.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it was refreshing driving along the seafront then the country lanes with a nice cold breeze against the face"

Has your windscreen fallen out?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Sorry to hear that happened OP, I guess its the chance you take sometimes. I only ever meet locally and meet for a social first usually in costa on my break when I'd be there anyway so its not a problem if people decide to no show or cancel. The only person I allow to waste my time is me!!"

Exactly what I do: works for me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its ok I am not really fussed ??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its ok I am not really fussed ?? "
Awwwww damn all that effort wasted ,gutted

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had more cancelled meets in the last 2 weeks than I have since being on fabs.

I better get some on my starting tomorrow 2 day fuck fest. Or my slaves balls will pay!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had more cancelled meets in the last 2 weeks than I have since being on fabs.

I better get some on my starting tomorrow 2 day fuck fest. Or my slaves balls will pay!"

That's not good lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes life just gets in the way of swinging!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

If you think Dudley is bad try driving round Redditch!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"If you think Dudley is bad try driving round Redditch!

I drove to redditch for a meet years ago, it was very good, I even went back

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Driving 2 hours for a meet? "

Lots of guys do it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Driving 2 hours for a meet?

If they're worth it, more. 2 hours....to us thats south of Leeds..no ones worth that

I agree. To me if a person travels far just for sex, that shows how desperate they are. Surely they have women in their home home. Or save the enormous petrol cost and hire a hooker. Probably a lot cheaper Lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"meet got cancelled as soon as i got to my destination oh well it was a nice drive

That's a shame Hun!

Just put it down to experience!

You look pretty cute on your pics so I'd imagine you won't have too much trouble getting another!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

[Removed by poster at 22/11/15 20:16:35]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

I knew a single lady who flew to another country and the single guy didn't turn up.

Still she enjoyed Venice

Not hitting on SG's

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"If you think Dudley is bad try driving round Redditch!

Driving isn't the problem, parking is.

Gotta love sat-nav

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it happen to me when I 1st joined arranged to meet a couple in Burnley was halfway there when got a message saying not meeting single guys anymore yet mailed them when I was leaving and they told me they were looking forward to meeting

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Sorry this happened to you x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks just to confirm it wasn't a meet for sex it was to go to a club for the first time

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"Had it happen to me when I 1st joined arranged to meet a couple in Burnley was halfway there when got a message saying not meeting single guys anymore yet mailed them when I was leaving and they told me they were looking forward to meeting"

Very common: happened to me twice in early days, until I realized that before meeting anyone, you must have spoken to them, and seen them on cam, ( especially the female) and never allow the old trick of " go to xx place, and then we'll give you directions".

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had this once off this site

it's a heart warming story though

went to meet a guy in Birmingham I got the train and waiting at the agreed meeting place, waited about 10 mins then got a text message saying

change of plan i can no longer meet you, I've had an offer from a woman I've been talking to and tonight's the only night she's free so I'm meeting her instead are you free tomorrow (yes he really did say that)

got to give him 10 out of 10 for his honesty he could have said his nans cat has died

so I got the train home

been in the house about 20 mins when he text me asking if I was free to meet still as she hadn't turned up then called her a time waster

I'm not going to lie I got a weird smug sense of satisfaction from that

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bet you laughed alot after that

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hope you had chips by the sea front - has to be done

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i actually did lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i actually did lol"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

what you should do is arrange meet at club that way if they don't turn up least your there to meet other people

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Did you let the person know that you were leaving?

Seems very last minute to cancel on you and a bit unfair as they must have known you were driving a long way

Has happened me a few times,waiting at meeting point still in communication then nothing,I do feel that most cancelled meets are probably cold feet rather than a deliberate piss off.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"it was refreshing driving along the seafront then the country lanes with a nice cold breeze against the face"

I wish all our cancelled meets where like that ......

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"it was refreshing driving along the seafront then the country lanes with a nice cold breeze against the face

I wish all our cancelled meets where like that ......

Haha should try it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pen 2 offersMan
over a year ago

Irchester

"meet got cancelled as soon as i got to my destination oh well it was a nice drive

Had this happen to me with a couple, drove to near their house, parked up and called as agreed. No answer followed by a text saying that the female half of the couple had got cold feet due to her dad dying the day before (Would have thought that might have been mentioned in the numerous texts and emails we'd exchanged prior)!

They looked and sounded like a great couple as well, verified, experienced, etc. Later that day unlos.....as the saying goes, if it sounds too good to be true it normally is!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread