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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I picked up on a thread yesterday.

What is it that you find attractive?

Is it a mutual attractive mind. Is the mind the sexiest or do you go for looks only?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face first and then their persona. Then how they treat other people and finally their body.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Could be anything: their face, their bum, what they say, that naughty glint in their eye.

I know it when I see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

physical attraction usually first - but need a bit more to get along - not in it just for the sex act -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there has to be something physically attractive to get you interested but then mentally they have to be on a level otherwise the spark dies very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be anything: their face, their bum, what they say, that naughty glint in their eye.

I know it when I see it."

I'm with you on this, it's just a "spark" when you meet that's either there or its not

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good face, fun, deep, nice body, interesting, vulnerable. Looks are subjective to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I picked up on a thread yesterday.

What is it that you find attractive?

Is it a mutual attractive mind. Is the mind the sexiest or do you go for looks only?

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Looks to begin with , then mutual interests

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Initially it'll be in the eyes, the face. Hips and arse are a big draw for me. I don't have a particular 'type', I just know it when I see it.

After that, the real clincher as to whether I really like them or not will be in their personality. I like self-confident women who know what they want. I'm not attracted to women who are selfish and up their own arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instantly it will be a physical attraction

Anything that requires longevity needs to have a bit more substance that just looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their voice

I don't like really loud full on people who sweat ever other word, as daft as it may sound to some they could be the best looking guy with the best body if they are loud and roudy that puts me off

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By *eddABCMan
over a year ago

Stretham Hill Greater London


"physical attraction usually first - but need a bit more to get along - not in it just for the sex act - "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone whos name ends in hunnybutt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be anything: their face, their bum, what they say, that naughty glint in their eye.

I know it when I see it.

I'm with you on this, it's just a "spark" when you meet that's either there or its not

Jane x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be anything: their face, their bum, what they say, that naughty glint in their eye.

I know it when I see it.

I'm with you on this, it's just a "spark" when you meet that's either there or its not

Jane x"

Could not agree more....just a connection. Mental as well as physical. Wrote a true post on here in stories section called where a wink can lead too....

It was the stare over the coffee up....great forum post this...beats the usual cock size posts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here when I'm looking for meets I don't get to know the mind if i don't find the physical attractive.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I can never pin down what I find attractive in people, for some people, I just think 'yes' because there is something about them.

I know more about what I don't find attractive in people, so if this is evident, then its a No from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here?

Body first, cuz that's what most people show.

Face next, which is make it or break it. The most important aspect.

Then personality, because if someone is rude or arrogant I usually don't find them sexy.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money, what car they drive, do they take it up the pooper

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Here?

Body first, cuz that's what most people show.

Face next, which is make it or break it. The most important aspect.

Then personality, because if someone is rude or arrogant I usually don't find them sexy.

-Courtney"

Same here. That's why I find it strange when people obsess over the first message, or profile text. No matter how good it is, if we dont fancy you, we wont play with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body and dress sense for me! A lady dressed for sex and who clearly enjoys dressing sex is very appealing to me.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If trying to arrange a meet on here it has to be based on body as 90% of profiles only show torsos.

With regards to actually playing there has to be more than looks involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the face that has to grab me first, everything else follows

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"If trying to arrange a meet on here it has to be based on body as 90% of profiles only show torsos.

With regards to actually playing there has to be more than looks involved."

So profiles dont even have that. With some profiles you would struggle to identify the species of mammal the camera was pointed at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be anything: their face, their bum, what they say, that naughty glint in their eye.

I know it when I see it."

I'm similar. Often it's not a look more a way they present themselves but attraction for me is rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there has to be something physically attractive to get you interested but then mentally they have to be on a level otherwise the spark dies very quickly"

Agree. No need to be a supermodel type but physical attraction is not everything.

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I picked up on a thread yesterday.

What is it that you find attractive?

Is it a mutual attractive mind. Is the mind the sexiest or do you go for looks only?

"

Deffo personality. Looks are slightly important but there's people that I normaly wouldn't give a second look but then after a chat would Deffo go for xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here?

Body first, cuz that's what most people show.

Face next, which is make it or break it. The most important aspect.

Then personality, because if someone is rude or arrogant I usually don't find them sexy.

-Courtney"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a combination of all the things above, it's never the same with different people and there's no hard and fast rules. It's what make it a rush as it's a new adventure every time!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Here?

Body first, cuz that's what most people show.

Face next, which is make it or break it. The most important aspect.

Then personality, because if someone is rude or arrogant I usually don't find them sexy.

-Courtney"

^^^This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I receive a message I don't even look at the photos unless something about the message attracted me enough to read the profile, and then I'd look for a spark of interest in the photos too. All cock shots and I'm out. I don't search for anything in particular, just something that makes me want to get to know that person better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a certain something that makes a person attractive & it differs from person to person.

On here, it's looks that initially attract me & personality that keeps me interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Money, what car they drive, do they take it up the pooper

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Really.. No money no car not take anal.. So we not an attraction

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely not your prized possessions do I find attractive.

Has to be how we connect with the mind. Everything else is a sex tool.

Our minds are the object of desire. If you cant connect with the mind body means reject. Thats even if he looks like david beckham lol. X

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