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"Yesterday some random guy messaged me. Wanted to meet after five minutes. Swapped numbers then he pushed for pics and sex chat. When do you ever stop being pushy? " Why did you swap numbers with a "random guy" ?  | |||
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"Yesterday some random guy messaged me. Wanted to meet after five minutes. Swapped numbers then he pushed for pics and sex chat. When do you ever stop being pushy? " Well thank you for the sweeping generalisation. Obviously all single guys are aggressively pushy and none have any respect. Mmmmm. This is almost as good as the 'why can't I get a meet' type threads. | |||
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"Yesterday some random guy messaged me. Wanted to meet after five minutes. Swapped numbers then he pushed for pics and sex chat. When do you ever stop being pushy? Why did you swap numbers with a "random guy" ? "Snap - I was just about to ask the same question. Some might think that as they have something as personal as your phone number, then that's removing all the barriers and giving them a right to ask for whatever. | |||
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Being serious though, sexting really doesn't do a lot with regards to being a turn on, quite the opposite. Raises alarm bells if people want to get straight into "sexting"
He was probably typing with his left and holding his dick with his right. | |||
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"Yesterday some random guy messaged me. Wanted to meet after five minutes. Swapped numbers then he pushed for pics and sex chat. When do you ever stop being pushy? " I would ask for a meet pretty quickly . I probably would not ask for number till we had met . I would not ask for sex chat and won't do it and know I have missed out on some nice girls because of this but that's life and I won't lower my expectations over this I like a quick meet early on as it shows that the girl is looking to meet rather than chat I also like to meet early as when the messaging starts we are in the hot potential zone , the longer we message the further it goes into we are just friends then just email buddies | |||
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"Yesterday some random guy messaged me. Wanted to meet after five minutes. Swapped numbers then he pushed for pics and sex chat. When do you ever stop being pushy? " Never ever been pushy, I'd rather not rush into a meet without a little chat first | |||
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"You moved on the next stage really quickly,he saw that as a green light to meet asap Next time don't be giving your number out so quickly "You've said what I was trying to say so much better! | |||
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"You moved on the next stage really quickly,he saw that as a green light to meet asap Next time don't be giving your number out so quickly "This - not that ht number should be a carte blanche invitation for him to do what he wants, but if his expectations are so high, he may assume quite a lot.
Limit yourself to mail chat on here and sending pictures that give him the chance to decide whether he likes you or not. If he can't be patient, is he worth bothering with?
I would only ask for a number once a meet is arranged, and only so we can be in touch on the day if something goes tits up, like being stuck in traffic. | |||
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"Yesterday some random guy messaged me. Wanted to meet after five minutes. Swapped numbers then he pushed for pics and sex chat. When do you ever stop being pushy? Never ever been pushy, I'd rather not rush into a meet without a little chat first " I can't see how attraction can be built over the net when almost 99.9% of human communication is visual Talking on the net is a waste of time as you don't really know till you meet someone in person if the attraction is there . I feel bad if I text someone for ages and don't fancy them when I meet them even worse if they put in a lot of effort and I have to give a charity shag | |||
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"Let's face it.. If a woman swaps numbers it's a green light to arrange a meet. How that turns into becoming pushy I don't know? Surely Op you can't be that naive? " What she a actualy means is she gave the number to someone anf she changed her mind about him later lol | |||
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"The valiant knights will be here Shortly to reassure you all guys aren't like this
Being serious though, sexting really doesn't do a lot with regards to being a turn on, quite the opposite. Raises alarm bells if people want to get straight into "sexting"
He was probably typing with his left and holding his dick with his right. "Not possible lol we men can't do two things at the same time ! | |||
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"It's incredibly easy to shut down a pushy guy, when they 1st ask to chat I tell them I will only clean chat and if they are looking for wank material then they need to look else where, then after 5 messages they decide that I didn't mean it and try sex talk I ignore them. It is written in the profile I don't swap pics, kik or cam, if they choose not to believe me, well that is their problem not mine." I don't believe you  | |||
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"It's incredibly easy to shut down a pushy guy, when they 1st ask to chat I tell them I will only clean chat and if they are looking for wank material then they need to look else where, then after 5 messages they decide that I didn't mean it and try sex talk I ignore them. It is written in the profile I don't swap pics, kik or cam, if they choose not to believe me, well that is their problem not mine. I don't believe you "Well YOU I ignore just for the fun of it | |||
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"Yesterday some random guy messaged me. Wanted to meet after five minutes. Swapped numbers then he pushed for pics and sex chat. When do you ever stop being pushy? Why did you swap numbers with a "random guy" ?
Snap - I was just about to ask the same question.
Some might think that as they have something as personal as your phone number, then that's removing all the barriers and giving them a right to ask for whatever. "Giving a guy your number, gives the guy carte blanche to ask for whatever?!?  | |||
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"It's incredibly easy to shut down a pushy guy, when they 1st ask to chat I tell them I will only clean chat and if they are looking for wank material then they need to look else where, then after 5 messages they decide that I didn't mean it and try sex talk I ignore them. It is written in the profile I don't swap pics, kik or cam, if they choose not to believe me, well that is their problem not mine." So true Sugar | |||
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