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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

Do my current style of public pics put you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes hun, never been a lover of action shots and would rather not see past meets but I'm sure others like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind action pics, but the ones that are mainly some womans pussy put me off. Just don't find pussy attractive at all. Even my own pussy pics aren't that close up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The close up photos of the womans pussy are not at all flattering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not overly keen on action shots either, I don't want to see another woman's pussy as much as I don't really like cock shots either.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets. "

Its strange but I personally find action shots (or any shots for that matter) relating to future meets (at least if I am getting very keen on someone), put me off far more. What ahs gone before me doesn't bother me at all.

Does anyone else feel like this?

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets. "

^^ This. I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

^^ This. I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable... "

She is completely happy with the photos being displayed and gave me express permission this morning.!!

Also, why the double standard - it is fine I suppose for single women to show pictures of themselves with other women or men on there's....

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

^^ This. I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

She is completely happy with the photos being displayed and gave me express permission this morning.!!

Also, why the double standard - it is fine I suppose for single women to show pictures of themselves with other women or men on there's....

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse!"

I don't think she is on her high horse however, I'm on my unicorn, can you help me down??! Not sure anyone has said its wrong to have photos like that on your profile but they do look more like a couples profile photos. I'd prefer to see just the guy whose profile it is and don't like naughty photos but that's just me. Your profile at the end of the day, do what's best for you.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

^^ This. I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

She is completely happy with the photos being displayed and gave me express permission this morning.!!

Also, why the double standard - it is fine I suppose for single women to show pictures of themselves with other women or men on there's....

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse!"

If the woman is happy for you to show them why not xx

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

^^ This. I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

She is completely happy with the photos being displayed and gave me express permission this morning.!!

Also, why the double standard - it is fine I suppose for single women to show pictures of themselves with other women or men on there's....

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse!

I don't think she is on her high horse however, I'm on my unicorn, can you help me down??! Not sure anyone has said its wrong to have photos like that on your profile but they do look more like a couples profile photos. I'd prefer to see just the guy whose profile it is and don't like naughty photos but that's just me. Your profile at the end of the day, do what's best for you. "

Well if you took the time to scroll down through my whole gallery you would see that the vast majority are just me....

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

^^ This. I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

She is completely happy with the photos being displayed and gave me express permission this morning.!!

Also, why the double standard - it is fine I suppose for single women to show pictures of themselves with other women or men on there's....

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse! If the woman is happy for you to show them why not xx"

Thank you ...and she is

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

^^ This. I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

She is completely happy with the photos being displayed and gave me express permission this morning.!!

Also, why the double standard - it is fine I suppose for single women to show pictures of themselves with other women or men on there's....

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse!"

Double standard? I don't have any public profile photos at all never mind any showing anyone else...

You asked in your original post if your current photos put folk off. I responded quoting a previous poster and added my opinion regarding discretion in regard to identify. It's my opinion only. I'm not on any high horse let alone questioning your morals. It's your profile. You're obviously having huge fun and that's great. I only expressed my opinion...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

^^ This. I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

She is completely happy with the photos being displayed and gave me express permission this morning.!!

Also, why the double standard - it is fine I suppose for single women to show pictures of themselves with other women or men on there's....

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse!

I don't think she is on her high horse however, I'm on my unicorn, can you help me down??! Not sure anyone has said its wrong to have photos like that on your profile but they do look more like a couples profile photos. I'd prefer to see just the guy whose profile it is and don't like naughty photos but that's just me. Your profile at the end of the day, do what's best for you.

Well if you took the time to scroll down through my whole gallery you would see that the vast majority are just me...."

I have looked my lovely for the purpose of this thread and they are the ones I prefer however the others are not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word ''Yes''

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

^^ This. I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

She is completely happy with the photos being displayed and gave me express permission this morning.!!

Also, why the double standard - it is fine I suppose for single women to show pictures of themselves with other women or men on there's....

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse!

Double standard? I don't have any public profile photos at all never mind any showing anyone else...

You asked in your original post if your current photos put folk off. I responded quoting a previous poster and added my opinion regarding discretion in regard to identify. It's my opinion only. I'm not on any high horse let alone questioning your morals. It's your profile. You're obviously having huge fun and that's great. I only expressed my opinion..."

Sorry it sounded as if you were criticizing me for daring to put pictures of a woman I have met in joint photos with myself on my profile - as if this were somehow bad form...perhaps I misinterpreted it.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"In a word ''Yes''"

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

^^ This. I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

She is completely happy with the photos being displayed and gave me express permission this morning.!!

Also, why the double standard - it is fine I suppose for single women to show pictures of themselves with other women or men on there's....

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse!

I don't think she is on her high horse however, I'm on my unicorn, can you help me down??! Not sure anyone has said its wrong to have photos like that on your profile but they do look more like a couples profile photos. I'd prefer to see just the guy whose profile it is and don't like naughty photos but that's just me. Your profile at the end of the day, do what's best for you.

Well if you took the time to scroll down through my whole gallery you would see that the vast majority are just me....

I have looked my lovely for the purpose of this thread and they are the ones I prefer however the others are not for me. "

Thank you - I understand and this is precisely the opinion pole I am interested in hearing - rather than the judgemental kind of contributions (not that yours was at all).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see anyone being judgmental, just answering your question but you've been here long enough, you know how many people in the forums judge!!

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I can't see anyone being judgmental, just answering your question but you've been here long enough, you know how many people in the forums judge!!"

there was just one and it has been sorted out by pm already - misunderstanding and misinterpretation mainly - all is cool - thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what your after with your profile, if your after women then it's probably best to have pictures that appeal to that audience.

A lot of women won't want to see pictures of other women.

It may perhaps be an idea to keep those in your friends section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what your after with your profile, if your after women then it's probably best to have pictures that appeal to that audience.

A lot of women won't want to see pictures of other women.

It may perhaps be an idea to keep those in your friends section. "

Exactly this

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By *unlovinguy_68Man
over a year ago

nottingham

The ones where the ladies have opened their tuppense up that we can almost see their tonsils, does nothing for me

A nice relaxed looking tuppense not a problem

But personally I do prefer a pic of the ladies in nice lingerie,stockings etc clevage on show

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Depends what your after with your profile, if your after women then it's probably best to have pictures that appeal to that audience.

A lot of women won't want to see pictures of other women.

It may perhaps be an idea to keep those in your friends section. "

Well, surprisingly the last woman I met contacted me precisely because I made my naughty pics public for the day...so it doesn't seem to put off the kind of women I enjoy meeting - or at least not all of them...but thanks for your input

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Depends what your after with your profile, if your after women then it's probably best to have pictures that appeal to that audience.

A lot of women won't want to see pictures of other women.

It may perhaps be an idea to keep those in your friends section.

Exactly this"

Normally I do this (that's where these will go shortly, along with the others) just interested in gauging reaction first really - call it an experiment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I'd love a feature where you can change the order of pics

I much prefer the pics of you on your own if I'm looking for a man I want to see him not a fanny as soon as I click on the profile,but having said that your profile,your pics and if you're having fun who cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what your after with your profile, if your after women then it's probably best to have pictures that appeal to that audience.

A lot of women won't want to see pictures of other women.

It may perhaps be an idea to keep those in your friends section.

Well, surprisingly the last woman I met contacted me precisely because I made my naughty pics public for the day...so it doesn't seem to put off the kind of women I enjoy meeting - or at least not all of them...but thanks for your input"

All good then. Your profile works for you and you're the only person it has to work for

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"This is why I'd love a feature where you can change the order of pics

I much prefer the pics of you on your own if I'm looking for a man I want to see him not a fanny as soon as I click on the profile,but having said that your profile,your pics and if you're having fun who cares "

I agree - I dearly wish one could order pics without resorting to deleting and re downloading - which is one way of doing it.....

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Depends what your after with your profile, if your after women then it's probably best to have pictures that appeal to that audience.

A lot of women won't want to see pictures of other women.

It may perhaps be an idea to keep those in your friends section.

Well, surprisingly the last woman I met contacted me precisely because I made my naughty pics public for the day...so it doesn't seem to put off the kind of women I enjoy meeting - or at least not all of them...but thanks for your input

All good then. Your profile works for you and you're the only person it has to work for "

Thank you and I agree...still interesting to harvest opinion though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I'd love a feature where you can change the order of pics

I much prefer the pics of you on your own if I'm looking for a man I want to see him not a fanny as soon as I click on the profile,but having said that your profile,your pics and if you're having fun who cares

I agree - I dearly wish one could order pics without resorting to deleting and re downloading - which is one way of doing it....."

You do realise if you do that you get called an attention seeker for re uploading the same pics all the time

You can't win

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"This is why I'd love a feature where you can change the order of pics

I much prefer the pics of you on your own if I'm looking for a man I want to see him not a fanny as soon as I click on the profile,but having said that your profile,your pics and if you're having fun who cares

I agree - I dearly wish one could order pics without resorting to deleting and re downloading - which is one way of doing it.....

You do realise if you do that you get called an attention seeker for re uploading the same pics all the time

You can't win"

Bloody hell it is perfectly obvious to everyone I am an attention seeking, slut of a self publicist of the highest order ...lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's horses for courses. It will appeal to some and not to others. It's your profile and you see fit to show what pics you want. Personally not for me. But in saying that I wouldn't judge anyone because of them and neither would it out me off chattingor meeting someone

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"It's horses for courses. It will appeal to some and not to others. It's your profile and you see fit to show what pics you want. Personally not for me. But in saying that I wouldn't judge anyone because of them and neither would it out me off chattingor meeting someone "

I'm hoping it has less of a detrimental affect on those who don't really like action pics than a gallery full of just my cock would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like very close-up pictures of the pussy where the owner of said pussy, as cute as it may be in its normal at rest state, has literally grabbed each side with both hands and stretched it wide open so it looks like its shouting something at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like very close-up pictures of the pussy where the owner of said pussy, as cute as it may be in its normal at rest state, has literally grabbed each side with both hands and stretched it wide open so it looks like its shouting something at you "

Predator pussy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to our world with your pic selection op !

The whole points as you eluded to earlier , is that you will attract the type of people you want to meet with the selection and style of pics you display .

That's how ur works for us , and despite the vast majority of the forum disliking the type of pics , you will no doubt get more if the type of meets you desire with your current choice .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't put me off or offend me. I tend to look at pics like that as art. However not keen on pussy shots it's more the bdsm shots I like. Very arty . And if people are put off them don't look at them!!!!

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester

Couple of things in a pic put me off they are:-

1) very dirty / untidy house - if that's dirty guess you don't look after yourself or belongings

2) picking your nose

3) fake photos or manipulated ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find them particularly attractive. I like pics of two people that are erotic. On a single man's profile,one I may or may not meet,I don't want to see open vaginas or close up penetration shots. I like hot body,erotic scenes with two people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I'd love a feature where you can change the order of pics

I much prefer the pics of you on your own if I'm looking for a man I want to see him not a fanny as soon as I click on the profile,but having said that your profile,your pics and if you're having fun who cares "

I'd agree with the order of pics comment!

I'd love to put my pics in order of favourites first rather than date order!

Re Polarfox's profile pics - been there, done that - not bovvered now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to our world with your pic selection op !

The whole points as you eluded to earlier , is that you will attract the type of people you want to meet with the selection and style of pics you display .

That's how ur works for us , and despite the vast majority of the forum disliking the type of pics , you will no doubt get more if the type of meets you desire with your current choice .

"

Avreed!! If I was just into vanilla I'd definitely be put off! As I'm a kinky biatch I don't mind them at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couple of things in a pic put me off they are:-

1) very dirty / untidy house - if that's dirty guess you don't look after yourself or belongings

2) picking your nose

3) fake photos or manipulated ones

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There is pics of people picking their nose on here?

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"I don't find them particularly attractive. I like pics of two people that are erotic. On a single man's profile,one I may or may not meet,I don't want to see open vaginas or close up penetration shots. I like hot body,erotic scenes with two people. "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't travel lodge rooms improved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I'd love a feature where you can change the order of pics

I much prefer the pics of you on your own if I'm looking for a man I want to see him not a fanny as soon as I click on the profile,but having said that your profile,your pics and if you're having fun who cares

I'd agree with the order of pics comment!

I'd love to put my pics in order of favourites first rather than date order!

Re Polarfox's profile pics - been there, done that - not bovvered now!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I'd love a feature where you can change the order of pics

I much prefer the pics of you on your own if I'm looking for a man I want to see him not a fanny as soon as I click on the profile,but having said that your profile,your pics and if you're having fun who cares

I'd agree with the order of pics comment!

I'd love to put my pics in order of favourites first rather than date order!

Re Polarfox's profile pics - been there, done that - not bovvered now!!

"

Sorry that was a joke - and just meant for polar fox!

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"I don't find them particularly attractive. I like pics of two people that are erotic. On a single man's profile,one I may or may not meet,I don't want to see open vaginas or close up penetration shots. I like hot body,erotic scenes with two people. "

Spot on.. Seems weird on a mans profile to see more of a woman's genitalia? Don't get it. When I'm looking at a mans profile, I'm seeing if I want to meet HIM, not the last person he shagged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I'd love a feature where you can change the order of pics

I much prefer the pics of you on your own if I'm looking for a man I want to see him not a fanny as soon as I click on the profile,but having said that your profile,your pics and if you're having fun who cares

I'd agree with the order of pics comment!

I'd love to put my pics in order of favourites first rather than date order!

Re Polarfox's profile pics - been there, done that - not bovvered now!!

Sorry that was a joke - and just meant for polar fox! "

Ah! I was thinking WTF

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By *rvoyuerMan
over a year ago

Luton


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

^^ This. I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

She is completely happy with the photos being displayed and gave me express permission this morning.!!

Also, why the double standard - it is fine I suppose for single women to show pictures of themselves with other women or men on there's....

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse!"

Oh dear!!! Someone asking a question then not liking the answer!!.....what to do??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I'm not a fan of action shots, in amongst a good selection then fine, I can ignore them. The only thing that really puts me off on a man's profile is a bareback shot.

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester


"Haven't travel lodge rooms improved "

They sure have as now even have a TVs in the room LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'm sure that doesn't come as a big surprise tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst I'm not a fan of action shots, in amongst a good selection then fine, I can ignore them. The only thing that really puts me off on a man's profile is a bareback shot. "

Agreed but they can be very illuminating!

Saw a guy with a bareback pick once (I don't have a problem if I can see they have a regular FB they bareback with!)

Checked the date on his pics against his veris and saw it was with a woman who likes bareback gangbangs! Meet duly cancelled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

Its strange but I personally find action shots (or any shots for that matter) relating to future meets (at least if I am getting very keen on someone), put me off far more. What ahs gone before me doesn't bother me at all.

Does anyone else feel like this?"

I was gonna say the same. I'm not keen on action shoots. Its not the, what's gone before or proving you do it.It the "if I wanted to see them them I'd have been there" kinda thing. What happens between 2, 3 or more should stay between them. Not broad cast, if you know what I mean. If I want porn, I'd look it up.

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?"

Wtf !! What's that metal thing in her ass ???

Or am I just naive lol X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?

Wtf !! What's that metal thing in her ass ???

Or am I just naive lol X "

Looks like a giant fishing hook!! She's in the stocks too, I wonder if the OP threw rotten tomatoes at her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?

Wtf !! What's that metal thing in her ass ???

Or am I just naive lol X "

Looks like an anal hook

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


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Spot on.. Seems weird on a mans profile to see more of a woman's genitalia? Don't get it. When I'm looking at a mans profile, I'm seeing if I want to meet HIM, not the last person he shagged. "

I wanted to say thank you to you for something but I couldn't PM message you..

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By *eally Filthy CoupleCouple
over a year ago

bristol


"Welcome to our world with your pic selection op !

The whole points as you eluded to earlier , is that you will attract the type of people you want to meet with the selection and style of pics you display .

That's how ur works for us , and despite the vast majority of the forum disliking the type of pics , you will no doubt get more if the type of meets you desire with your current choice .

Avreed!! If I was just into vanilla I'd definitely be put off! As I'm a kinky biatch I don't mind them at all! "

Agreed , based on your profile and what your looking for the pics reflect that . Take no notice of the "Unicorn seekers" on the forums . My FB on here has the most filthy action pics on his profile and he does very nicely xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to our world with your pic selection op !

The whole points as you eluded to earlier , is that you will attract the type of people you want to meet with the selection and style of pics you display .

That's how ur works for us , and despite the vast majority of the forum disliking the type of pics , you will no doubt get more if the type of meets you desire with your current choice .

Avreed!! If I was just into vanilla I'd definitely be put off! As I'm a kinky biatch I don't mind them at all!

Agreed , based on your profile and what your looking for the pics reflect that . Take no notice of the "Unicorn seekers" on the forums . My FB on here has the most filthy action pics on his profile and he does very nicely xxxx "

I've got no action pics on my profile and it reads like it's been written by an andrex puppy with a gsoh - but I do very nicely too!!

I think it's coz I have a vagina!

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

And your photos are Peach Perfect too.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I have to be honest I found a couple of your new pics a bit full on but I like the more subtle ones

You dirty bugger!!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I think it depends on who your target audience is.....if it is mainly 'women' what I don't want to see is action shots with a previous meet.

Or as a lot of guys do, is show mainly the female face sucking them and all there is of him is the tip of his cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?"

The photos of yourself are great it's nice not to see the usual cock shots. But the others aren't that tasteful. Maybe if they had been taken professionally at different angles different lighting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an aside, you're avatar always makes me think you're trying to dry your underarm deodorant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*your

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"As an aside, you're avatar always makes me think you're trying to dry your underarm deodorant."

Actually that is exactly what I was trying to do...whilst dancing naked in the living room

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"You dirty bugger!!! "

..Of that there is no doubt!!

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?

Wtf !! What's that metal thing in her ass ???

Or am I just naive lol X

Looks like a giant fishing hook!! She's in the stocks too, I wonder if the OP threw rotten tomatoes at her? "

No, but she did get rather a large load of something sticky all over her face and hair at the end

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Personally if I look at a male profile I want to see pics of a man.

Not close ups of a woman's bits. But that's just my opnion.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Re Polarfox's profile pics - been there, done that - not bovvered now!! "

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Personally if I look at a male profile I want to see pics of a man.

Not close ups of a woman's bits. But that's just my opnion."

Scroll through and you will find plenty of 'the man'

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Your pics will attract the type of people who like your pics. If they are the sort of people you want to meet, bonus.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I don't find them particularly attractive. I like pics of two people that are erotic. On a single man's profile,one I may or may not meet,I don't want to see open vaginas or close up penetration shots. I like hot body,erotic scenes with two people.

Spot on.. Seems weird on a mans profile to see more of a woman's genitalia? Don't get it. When I'm looking at a mans profile, I'm seeing if I want to meet HIM, not the last person he shagged. "

Sorry, but if you want to show a cock inside a vagina or an arse(which some of us do indeed like), then how do you do so without in fact showing the female's genitalia???

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Welcome to our world with your pic selection op !

The whole points as you eluded to earlier , is that you will attract the type of people you want to meet with the selection and style of pics you display .

That's how ur works for us , and despite the vast majority of the forum disliking the type of pics , you will no doubt get more if the type of meets you desire with your current choice .

Avreed!! If I was just into vanilla I'd definitely be put off! As I'm a kinky biatch I don't mind them at all!

Agreed , based on your profile and what your looking for the pics reflect that . Take no notice of the "Unicorn seekers" on the forums . My FB on here has the most filthy action pics on his profile and he does very nicely xxxx "

^^^^

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Personally if I look at a male profile I want to see pics of a man.

Not close ups of a woman's bits. But that's just my opnion.

Scroll through and you will find plenty of 'the man'"

I wouldn't scroll, I'm put off already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of action shots myself but each to their own I like your other pics though so is say you've got a good mix that'll appeal to a greater audience so to speak x

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Personally if I look at a male profile I want to see pics of a man.

Not close ups of a woman's bits. But that's just my opnion.

Scroll through and you will find plenty of 'the man'

I wouldn't scroll, I'm put off already."

Ah well, the filter is working then

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I'm not a fan of action shots myself but each to their own I like your other pics though so is say you've got a good mix that'll appeal to a greater audience so to speak x"

Thank you

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Personally if I look at a male profile I want to see pics of a man.

Not close ups of a woman's bits. But that's just my opnion.

Scroll through and you will find plenty of 'the man'

I wouldn't scroll, I'm put off already.

Ah well, the filter is working then "

No need to be unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally if I look at a male profile I want to see pics of a man.

Not close ups of a woman's bits. But that's just my opnion.

Scroll through and you will find plenty of 'the man'

I wouldn't scroll, I'm put off already.

Ah well, the filter is working then

No need to be unpleasant. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As an aside, you're avatar always makes me think you're trying to dry your underarm deodorant."

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"

I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse!"

You did ask for feedback and opinion though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find them particularly attractive. I like pics of two people that are erotic. On a single man's profile,one I may or may not meet,I don't want to see open vaginas or close up penetration shots. I like hot body,erotic scenes with two people.

Spot on.. Seems weird on a mans profile to see more of a woman's genitalia? Don't get it. When I'm looking at a mans profile, I'm seeing if I want to meet HIM, not the last person he shagged.

Sorry, but if you want to show a cock inside a vagina or an arse(which some of us do indeed like), then how do you do so without in fact showing the female's genitalia???"

You* could try and show more of your cock? If a pic is 80% pussy and 20% cock then obviously it looks more like a pussy pic.

*You in general.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"

I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse!

You did ask for feedback and opinion though "

Thank you for your (as ever) useful contribution to a thread of mine. The misunderstanding has long been sorted out between myself and this forum poster...I interpreted her comment as a suggestion that I had chosen to use pics without the express prior permission of the lady depicted with me....at least do me the courtesy of reading the entire thread and not just picking up 'fag ends' of the conversation

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I don't find them particularly attractive. I like pics of two people that are erotic. On a single man's profile,one I may or may not meet,I don't want to see open vaginas or close up penetration shots. I like hot body,erotic scenes with two people.

Spot on.. Seems weird on a mans profile to see more of a woman's genitalia? Don't get it. When I'm looking at a mans profile, I'm seeing if I want to meet HIM, not the last person he shagged.

Sorry, but if you want to show a cock inside a vagina or an arse(which some of us do indeed like), then how do you do so without in fact showing the female's genitalia???

You* could try and show more of your cock? If a pic is 80% pussy and 20% cock then obviously it looks more like a pussy pic.

*You in general."

How the hell do you show more of the cock if you want to show the cock inserted by more than 20% inside said pussy? ...ffs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find them particularly attractive. I like pics of two people that are erotic. On a single man's profile,one I may or may not meet,I don't want to see open vaginas or close up penetration shots. I like hot body,erotic scenes with two people.

Spot on.. Seems weird on a mans profile to see more of a woman's genitalia? Don't get it. When I'm looking at a mans profile, I'm seeing if I want to meet HIM, not the last person he shagged.

Sorry, but if you want to show a cock inside a vagina or an arse(which some of us do indeed like), then how do you do so without in fact showing the female's genitalia???"

You do it however you want. You asked specifically if your pics put us off. Those of us who don't like close up penetration shots said yes. No one said don't show them. It's up to you what you have on your profile. It seems to me that you just want everyone to look at your new pics and make nice remarks about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?"

I like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"You do it however you want. You asked specifically if your pics put us off. Those of us who don't like close up penetration shots said yes. No one said don't show them. It's up to you what you have on your profile. It seems to me that you just want everyone to look at your new pics and make nice remarks about them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find them particularly attractive. I like pics of two people that are erotic. On a single man's profile,one I may or may not meet,I don't want to see open vaginas or close up penetration shots. I like hot body,erotic scenes with two people.

Spot on.. Seems weird on a mans profile to see more of a woman's genitalia? Don't get it. When I'm looking at a mans profile, I'm seeing if I want to meet HIM, not the last person he shagged.

Sorry, but if you want to show a cock inside a vagina or an arse(which some of us do indeed like), then how do you do so without in fact showing the female's genitalia???

You* could try and show more of your cock? If a pic is 80% pussy and 20% cock then obviously it looks more like a pussy pic.

*You in general.

How the hell do you show more of the cock if you want to show the cock inserted by more than 20% inside said pussy? ...ffs..."

Just saying it looks more like a pussy pic if most of the picture is pussy. I know what i just said is obvious and you wanna show all the pussy but that is what it looks like when you do that.

It's basically a pussy shot with a tiny bit of penis in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where did they go ?

Just out of interest did they get many fabs ?

That would be a good yardstick to use , rather than the forum opinion

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Where did they go ?

Just out of interest did they get many fabs ?

That would be a good yardstick to use , rather than the forum opinion "

Fucking loads...and the close ups of anal showing all the 'female genitalia' got the most...lol

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Where did they go ?

Just out of interest did they get many fabs ?

That would be a good yardstick to use , rather than the forum opinion "

It was always my intention to put them in my private gallery (which you still have access to ) after a brief display for comment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the consensus is that folk don't like them...Will you take them down into private?

It's your account, let it represent you, not the watered down safe middle ground

I can't see any particularly rude pics though, so guessing they have been moved already?

Dunno man...make it your very own shop window

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the pics of you on your profile, fabed a few too J

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I missed them. Bugger. I like a rude picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?"

The one of you winning the Tour de France is pretty good.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"

Get of your moral high horse!

You did ask for feedback and opinion though

Thank you for your (as ever) useful contribution to a thread of mine. The misunderstanding has long been sorted out between myself and this forum poster...at least do me the courtesy of reading the entire thread and not just picking up 'fag ends' of the conversation "

I did.

However, my comment was for the benefit of those that might not read the entire thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The close up, more graphic pics didn't do it for me! None of us can please everyone though and you do have a good cross section of pictures ! Your shop window X Dress it as you please X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I missed them. Bugger. I like a rude picture. "

Step right this way....

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

In some ways it would be a turn on but mostly it wouldnt. Im checking out the guy and will find out preferences through chatting and skills hopefully through experience.

I put the occasional action shot on and get referred to as a couple though Im quite clearly a single woman. I tend to keep any to friends these days but I barely have any.

Im aiming for guys to meet me and some are put off by the guys cock size or appearance of him. So it doesnt really suit my purposes.

I would like more for my own personal use however

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?

The one of you winning the Tour de France is pretty good."

LMAO...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do women post pics of their panties stuffed inside their pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Action shots generally aren't my thing so I'd find a profile chock full of them a turn off. But if they're attracting the kind of people you want to attract, keep them up there. If they're putting off the people you want to meet, hide them. S'easy!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I missed them. Bugger. I like a rude picture.

Step right this way.... "

I have been enjoying yours and glos swingers

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cock and pussy pics as profile pics - dont mind one or two to show whats on offer in friends tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do women post pics of their panties stuffed inside their pussy "

Could be because some of us think that's really horny ?

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I missed them. Bugger. I like a rude picture.

Step right this way....

I have been enjoying yours and glos swingers

V x"

Fuck it I'm putting them back up ...only all of them and not just last night's this time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I missed them. Bugger. I like a rude picture.

Step right this way....

I have been enjoying yours and glos swingers

V x"

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I missed them. Bugger. I like a rude picture.

Step right this way....

I have been enjoying yours and glos swingers

V x

Fuck it I'm putting them back up ...only all of them and not just last night's this time..."

Yay. Fabbing finger at the ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I missed them. Bugger. I like a rude picture.

Step right this way....

I have been enjoying yours and glos swingers

V x

Fuck it I'm putting them back up ...only all of them and not just last night's this time..."

Good man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cock and pussy pics as profile pics - dont mind one or two to show whats on offer in friends tho "

Cock and pussy together as a profile pic ok ?

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I missed them. Bugger. I like a rude picture.

Step right this way....

I have been enjoying yours and glos swingers

V x

Fuck it I'm putting them back up ...only all of them and not just last night's this time...

Yay. Fabbing finger at the ready.

"

took me a while - there are a lot to click... up again now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do women post pics of their panties stuffed inside their pussy

Could be because some of us think that's really horny ?

"

I've seen a lot of pics like this on the top fabed pics

I'd say that indicates a lot of people find it horny

I may try it out

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"In some ways it would be a turn on but mostly it wouldnt. Im checking out the guy and will find out preferences through chatting and skills hopefully through experience.

I put the occasional action shot on and get referred to as a couple though Im quite clearly a single woman. I tend to keep any to friends these days but I barely have any.

Im aiming for guys to meet me and some are put off by the guys cock size or appearance of him. So it doesnt really suit my purposes.

I would like more for my own personal use however "

what if they don't do nude pictures like at all? is that off putting for some I assume?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In some ways it would be a turn on but mostly it wouldnt. Im checking out the guy and will find out preferences through chatting and skills hopefully through experience.

I put the occasional action shot on and get referred to as a couple though Im quite clearly a single woman. I tend to keep any to friends these days but I barely have any.

Im aiming for guys to meet me and some are put off by the guys cock size or appearance of him. So it doesnt really suit my purposes.

I would like more for my own personal use however

what if they don't do nude pictures like at all? is that off putting for some I assume? "

Do you really need to see somebody nude to know you want to meet them?

I never send nide pics out and I still get meets, probably because I don't send nude pics out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I missed them. Bugger. I like a rude picture.

Step right this way....

I have been enjoying yours and glos swingers

V x

Fuck it I'm putting them back up ...only all of them and not just last night's this time..."

Fabbed a couple

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"

Do you really need to see somebody nude to know you want to meet them?

I never send nide pics out and I still get meets, probably because I don't send nude pics out "

not really as it more or less comes down to how you get on with them first at say a social then take things further if all works out...

i've just never done nudes myself so was just eager to ask for some odd reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I missed them. Bugger. I like a rude picture.

Step right this way....

I have been enjoying yours and glos swingers

V x

Fuck it I'm putting them back up ...only all of them and not just last night's this time..."

Your profile is there to sell you

If your pics put people off they are obviously not looking for the same as you so do you really care if people you don't want to meet anyway are put off?

That makes sence in my head

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I missed them. Bugger. I like a rude picture.

Step right this way....

I have been enjoying yours and glos swingers

V x

Fuck it I'm putting them back up ...only all of them and not just last night's this time...

Your profile is there to sell you

If your pics put people off they are obviously not looking for the same as you so do you really care if people you don't want to meet anyway are put off?

That makes sence in my head "

It does kind of make sense, only I have had a few very good meets with women or couples who I know do not particularly like graphic 'action' pics...so, yes, it might put of some of the kinds of people I would still be keen to connect with

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

They are not for me, I prefer to see the person I am meeting not their cock rammed up some other womans arse/pussy/mouth.

But then my pictures on here are very prudish by the site average I guess... but it works for me.

However, its a filter, if you are meeting the people you want to, and its working, then great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I missed them. Bugger. I like a rude picture.

Step right this way....

I have been enjoying yours and glos swingers

V x

Fuck it I'm putting them back up ...only all of them and not just last night's this time...

Your profile is there to sell you

If your pics put people off they are obviously not looking for the same as you so do you really care if people you don't want to meet anyway are put off?

That makes sence in my head

It does kind of make sense, only I have had a few very good meets with women or couples who I know do not particularly like graphic 'action' pics...so, yes, it might put of some of the kinds of people I would still be keen to connect with"

Surely people who have already met you wouldnt be put off by your pics? What kind of childish people are you meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i like them! My preference isnt for the real close ups but i do like a good action shot. Definitely perks my imagination and interest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i like them! My preference isnt for the real close ups but i do like a good action shot. Definitely perks my imagination and interest xx"

Well I trust you fabbed a few young lady ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i like them! My preference isnt for the real close ups but i do like a good action shot. Definitely perks my imagination and interest xx

Well I trust you fabbed a few young lady ? "

I fabbed everywhere! :p haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?"

The action pics put me off. Mainly because they are pics of unprotected sex. Not something that floats my boat. But each to their own I guess. & if you like them then that's all that matters really. Well unless they stop you from getting meets.

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over a year ago


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

^^ This. I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

She is completely happy with the photos being displayed and gave me express permission this morning.!!

Also, why the double standard - it is fine I suppose for single women to show pictures of themselves with other women or men on there's....

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse!

I don't think she is on her high horse however, I'm on my unicorn, can you help me down??! Not sure anyone has said its wrong to have photos like that on your profile but they do look more like a couples profile photos. I'd prefer to see just the guy whose profile it is and don't like naughty photos but that's just me. Your profile at the end of the day, do what's best for you. "

Personally, I get as tired as everybody else does with the 'determined single man' but what annoys me more are guys who are 'single' but then turn out to have a regular and much adored fun buddy. Might just as well be a couple! As for the pics. Hmm. I'm not bothered by one or two action shots, but any more than that would be off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, it's not the 1st time you've asked this kind of question after posting 'action' pics ~ which makes me think you either have some self doubt or you're try to edge your bets to see what appeals more to the wider audience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

each to their own you can't please everyone some people hate some love so be it just roll with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?

The action pics put me off. Mainly because they are pics of unprotected sex. Not something that floats my boat. But each to their own I guess. & if you like them then that's all that matters really. Well unless they stop you from getting meets. "

He has a condom on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?

The action pics put me off. Mainly because they are pics of unprotected sex. Not something that floats my boat. But each to their own I guess. & if you like them then that's all that matters really. Well unless they stop you from getting meets. "

Having seen every pic on the ops profile I can categorically say that there isn't one pic showing unprotected sex !

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

Not that I am interested - Those sort of images I like, they are action shots in a tidy environment.

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?

The action pics put me off. Mainly because they are pics of unprotected sex. Not something that floats my boat. But each to their own I guess. & if you like them then that's all that matters really. Well unless they stop you from getting meets.

Having seen every pic on the ops profile I can categorically say that there isn't one pic showing unprotected sex !

"

Maybe she expects bj with protection??? I don't see it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?

The action pics put me off. Mainly because they are pics of unprotected sex. Not something that floats my boat. But each to their own I guess. & if you like them then that's all that matters really. Well unless they stop you from getting meets.

He has a condom on "

I didn't see a condom on the pic I saw.. Maybe he has changed his pics around since I looked. As I had a 2nd look after commenting & they had all dissapeared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?

The action pics put me off. Mainly because they are pics of unprotected sex. Not something that floats my boat. But each to their own I guess. & if you like them then that's all that matters really. Well unless they stop you from getting meets.

Having seen every pic on the ops profile I can categorically say that there isn't one pic showing unprotected sex !

Maybe she expects bj with protection??? I don't see it either. "

Sorry but I don't "expect" anything! Thanks.

I was only saying what I saw.

& actually you are supposed to wear protection for oral sex as you can still catch std's...

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"I don't find them particularly attractive. I like pics of two people that are erotic. On a single man's profile,one I may or may not meet,I don't want to see open vaginas or close up penetration shots. I like hot body,erotic scenes with two people.

Spot on.. Seems weird on a mans profile to see more of a woman's genitalia? Don't get it. When I'm looking at a mans profile, I'm seeing if I want to meet HIM, not the last person he shagged.

Sorry, but if you want to show a cock inside a vagina or an arse(which some of us do indeed like), then how do you do so without in fact showing the female's genitalia???"

Firstly, why would you "want to show a cock inside a vagina"? I think we are all adult enough to work out what sex is thank you- no need for the diagram! Secondly. Since you have now removed the photos from your public display, you must have decided that a gallery of the last person you fucked, wasn't as much of a good idea as you initially thought. Despite your aggressive assertation that it was. Ah well.

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

@missnaughty30 he has removed loads of pics since he started the thread, so those joining later haven't got a clue what we are on about x

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

^^ This. I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

She is completely happy with the photos being displayed and gave me express permission this morning.!!

Also, why the double standard - it is fine I suppose for single women to show pictures of themselves with other women or men on there's....

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse!

I don't think she is on her high horse however, I'm on my unicorn, can you help me down??! Not sure anyone has said its wrong to have photos like that on your profile but they do look more like a couples profile photos. I'd prefer to see just the guy whose profile it is and don't like naughty photos but that's just me. Your profile at the end of the day, do what's best for you.

Personally, I get as tired as everybody else does with the 'determined single man' but what annoys me more are guys who are 'single' but then turn out to have a regular and much adored fun buddy. Might just as well be a couple! As for the pics. Hmm. I'm not bothered by one or two action shots, but any more than that would be off putting "

Yes I'd rather it was clear they had a fb this turns out to be the case often!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes hun, never been a lover of action shots and would rather not see past meets but I'm sure others like them "

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?

The action pics put me off. Mainly because they are pics of unprotected sex. Not something that floats my boat. But each to their own I guess. & if you like them then that's all that matters really. Well unless they stop you from getting meets.

He has a condom on

I didn't see a condom on the pic I saw.. Maybe he has changed his pics around since I looked. As I had a 2nd look after commenting & they had all dissapeared. "

Most of my 'action pics' are now back in my gallery. This person is correct. I have some pics taken a few years ago with my then partner (her face is disguised) where we are indeed having unprotected sex. This is not something I ever indulge in nor do I condone when having casual sex.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I don't find them particularly attractive. I like pics of two people that are erotic. On a single man's profile,one I may or may not meet,I don't want to see open vaginas or close up penetration shots. I like hot body,erotic scenes with two people.

Spot on.. Seems weird on a mans profile to see more of a woman's genitalia? Don't get it. When I'm looking at a mans profile, I'm seeing if I want to meet HIM, not the last person he shagged.

Sorry, but if you want to show a cock inside a vagina or an arse(which some of us do indeed like), then how do you do so without in fact showing the female's genitalia???

Firstly, why would you "want to show a cock inside a vagina"? I think we are all adult enough to work out what sex is thank you- no need for the diagram! Secondly. Since you have now removed the photos from your public display, you must have decided that a gallery of the last person you fucked, wasn't as much of a good idea as you initially thought. Despite your aggressive assertation that it was. Ah well. "

Interestingly she is now displaying many of the pics on her own profile. Myself, I took on board the comments and have left some of the pics and returned others to my private gallery which is where friends can see most of my naughtier stuff. the whole point of starting the thread was to canvass opinion. I did so and made a decision based on what I learned - why the hell are you knocking that?

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over a year ago


"I don't find them particularly attractive. I like pics of two people that are erotic. On a single man's profile,one I may or may not meet,I don't want to see open vaginas or close up penetration shots. I like hot body,erotic scenes with two people.

Spot on.. Seems weird on a mans profile to see more of a woman's genitalia? Don't get it. When I'm looking at a mans profile, I'm seeing if I want to meet HIM, not the last person he shagged.

Sorry, but if you want to show a cock inside a vagina or an arse(which some of us do indeed like), then how do you do so without in fact showing the female's genitalia???

Firstly, why would you "want to show a cock inside a vagina"? I think we are all adult enough to work out what sex is thank you- no need for the diagram! Secondly. Since you have now removed the photos from your public display, you must have decided that a gallery of the last person you fucked, wasn't as much of a good idea as you initially thought. Despite your aggressive assertation that it was. Ah well.

Interestingly she is now displaying many of the pics on her own profile. Myself, I took on board the comments and have left some of the pics and returned others to my private gallery which is where friends can see most of my naughtier stuff. the whole point of starting the thread was to canvass opinion. I did so and made a decision based on what I learned - why the hell are you knocking that? "

Its your profile, just put what pics you like on there and sod what everyone else thinks, you'll never please everyone so don't even try.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I like nice photos of full body either dressed in a nice sexy dress r bikini there a much better turn on for me hate pusssy shots r ones with cum on them r cocks shot in pussy there disgusting

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I don't find them particularly attractive. I like pics of two people that are erotic. On a single man's profile,one I may or may not meet,I don't want to see open vaginas or close up penetration shots. I like hot body,erotic scenes with two people.

Spot on.. Seems weird on a mans profile to see more of a woman's genitalia? Don't get it. When I'm looking at a mans profile, I'm seeing if I want to meet HIM, not the last person he shagged.

Sorry, but if you want to show a cock inside a vagina or an arse(which some of us do indeed like), then how do you do so without in fact showing the female's genitalia???

Firstly, why would you "want to show a cock inside a vagina"? I think we are all adult enough to work out what sex is thank you- no need for the diagram! Secondly. Since you have now removed the photos from your public display, you must have decided that a gallery of the last person you fucked, wasn't as much of a good idea as you initially thought. Despite your aggressive assertation that it was. Ah well.

Interestingly she is now displaying many of the pics on her own profile. Myself, I took on board the comments and have left some of the pics and returned others to my private gallery which is where friends can see most of my naughtier stuff. the whole point of starting the thread was to canvass opinion. I did so and made a decision based on what I learned - why the hell are you knocking that?

Its your profile, just put what pics you like on there and sod what everyone else thinks, you'll never please everyone so don't even try. "

Thank you, I realize that, however, it was an interesting exercise and I know feel I strike a better balance with the mixture of pics I display publically. I do think it makes sense to keep some of the much more graphic pics private...

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I missed them. Bugger. I like a rude picture.

Step right this way....

I have been enjoying yours and glos swingers

V x

Fuck it I'm putting them back up ...only all of them and not just last night's this time...

Your profile is there to sell you

If your pics put people off they are obviously not looking for the same as you so do you really care if people you don't want to meet anyway are put off?

That makes sence in my head

It does kind of make sense, only I have had a few very good meets with women or couples who I know do not particularly like graphic 'action' pics...so, yes, it might put of some of the kinds of people I would still be keen to connect with

Surely people who have already met you wouldnt be put off by your pics? What kind of childish people are you meeting "

It has nothing whatsoever to do with people being childish,when I met the op I don't recall he had the type of photos he has now on his profile. If he had then I may not have met him,due to me not really being into anal hooks or being restrained,that doesn't turn me on. I did have a good meet with him though and he is a great guy face to face,although I don't agree with some of what he says on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well - as 'look at me' threads goes this ones been a bit lively!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?"

To answer your question, yes they would put me off. I don't particularly like action pics on any single profile, but if it works for you, go for it!!

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I missed them. Bugger. I like a rude picture.

Step right this way....

I have been enjoying yours and glos swingers

V x

Fuck it I'm putting them back up ...only all of them and not just last night's this time...

Your profile is there to sell you

If your pics put people off they are obviously not looking for the same as you so do you really care if people you don't want to meet anyway are put off?

That makes sence in my head

It does kind of make sense, only I have had a few very good meets with women or couples who I know do not particularly like graphic 'action' pics...so, yes, it might put of some of the kinds of people I would still be keen to connect with

Surely people who have already met you wouldnt be put off by your pics? What kind of childish people are you meeting

It has nothing whatsoever to do with people being childish,when I met the op I don't recall he had the type of photos he has now on his profile. If he had then I may not have met him,due to me not really being into anal hooks or being restrained,that doesn't turn me on. I did have a good meet with him though and he is a great guy face to face,although I don't agree with some of what he says on the forums "

Thanks D

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?"

Whilst I'm not generally a fan of women on male profiles, I like yours. I think it's because you're visible. Usually it's mainly the woman with the man's knob disappering into her orifaces.

Nice selection of pictures...nice bod too!

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Do my current style of public pics put you off?

Whilst I'm not generally a fan of women on male profiles, I like yours. I think it's because you're visible. Usually it's mainly the woman with the man's knob disappering into her orifaces.

Nice selection of pictures...nice bod too! "

Thank you, but you are being overly generous as yesterday when I started the thread there were indeed plenty of 'knob disappearing into orifice' pics....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

^^ This. I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

She is completely happy with the photos being displayed and gave me express permission this morning.!!

Also, why the double standard - it is fine I suppose for single women to show pictures of themselves with other women or men on there's....

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse!"

So YOU start a thread asking if your pictures put people off, then get arsey when someone says it does...right...gotcha!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I thought it was a couples profile ....

But now I see its a look at me profile ....

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"If I were interested in the person yes the pictures would put me off. Mainly due to the amount of them there are on your profile and I don't really want to see action shots of past meets.

^^ This. I would only expect to see photos of a single man on a single mans profile or at least keep the female unrecognisable...

She is completely happy with the photos being displayed and gave me express permission this morning.!!

Also, why the double standard - it is fine I suppose for single women to show pictures of themselves with other women or men on there's....

None of the pics clearly show her face.

Get of your moral high horse!

So YOU start a thread asking if your pictures put people off, then get arsey when someone says it does...right...gotcha! "

Err, Nope...asked opinions - took on board, reflected and then made changes - only objected when people were getting personal, jumping to conclusions and being judgemental...

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I thought it was a couples profile ....

But now I see its a look at me profile .... "

Oh, here we go again - where do you lot get off - FFS

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Yes they would put me off, I find play pics an instant turn off and wether permission is given or not (and the person can only take your word on that) I personally find it indiscreet and distrespectful to previous lover, its why I don't and will never display them on my profile.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"(and the person can only take your word on that)

"

Err...no....if you took the time to read the whole thread you would see that the very lady in the pics has even contributed herself and confirms that she has fabbed all of the pics...I am seriously getting a bit bored of all of this

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Yes they would put me off, I find play pics an instant turn off and wether permission is given or not (and the person can only take your word on that) I personally find it indiscreet and distrespectful to previous lover, its why I don't and will never display them on my profile.

"

What is more she has many of the very same pics proudly displayed on her own profile now...so go shove your 'disrespectful to a previous lover' where the sun don't shine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite new here and can't see why some people need to get so het up about things, isn't this supposed to be fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(and the person can only take your word on that)

Err...no....if you took the time to read the whole thread you would see that the very lady in the pics has even contributed herself and confirms that she has fabbed all of the pics...I am seriously getting a bit bored of all of this "

You don't have to reply to anyone and you don't need to justify your pics to anyone.

You only asked for advice and people left it, you can take notice of it and adjust your profile if you want to, or not.

Don't stress about the advice, it's just advice and doesn't have to be taken.

You don't need to reply to this either, won't bother me if you don't.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I'm quite new here and can't see why some people need to get so het up about things, isn't this supposed to be fun?"

Indeed it is...and I couldn't agree more...sadly some people in the forum have nothing better to do than to get 'het up'

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"(and the person can only take your word on that)

Err...no....if you took the time to read the whole thread you would see that the very lady in the pics has even contributed herself and confirms that she has fabbed all of the pics...I am seriously getting a bit bored of all of this

You don't have to reply to anyone and you don't need to justify your pics to anyone.

You only asked for advice and people left it, you can take notice of it and adjust your profile if you want to, or not.

Don't stress about the advice, it's just advice and doesn't have to be taken.

You don't need to reply to this either, won't bother me if you don't."

What bothers me are the personal attacks and judgements based on unfounded allegations and assumptions...but honestly I only reply because I like to make it clear that some pople talk a load of bollocks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm quite new here and can't see why some people need to get so het up about things, isn't this supposed to be fun?

Indeed it is...and I couldn't agree more...sadly some people in the forum have nothing better to do than to get 'het up' "

Indeed but some of your responses have been a little heated, I can't see the point personally, its just words on a screen.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I'm quite new here and can't see why some people need to get so het up about things, isn't this supposed to be fun?

Indeed it is...and I couldn't agree more...sadly some people in the forum have nothing better to do than to get 'het up'

Indeed but some of your responses have been a little heated, I can't see the point personally, its just words on a screen. "

Well call it amusing if you like - personally I enjoy retort...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"(and the person can only take your word on that)

Err...no....if you took the time to read the whole thread you would see that the very lady in the pics has even contributed herself and confirms that she has fabbed all of the pics...I am seriously getting a bit bored of all of this "

Ivw now just re-read the whole damn thing and can't find the post you're referring to.

Only found one where a lady said she met you but probably would have been put off if you had action shots displayed at the time of first contacting her.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"(and the person can only take your word on that)

Err...no....if you took the time to read the whole thread you would see that the very lady in the pics has even contributed herself and confirms that she has fabbed all of the pics...I am seriously getting a bit bored of all of this

Ivw now just re-read the whole damn thing and can't find the post you're referring to.

Only found one where a lady said she met you but probably would have been put off if you had action shots displayed at the time of first contacting her. "

Well, if you are concerned enough you will just have to read it again - but believe you me, I have absolutely no reason to lie....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm quite new here and can't see why some people need to get so het up about things, isn't this supposed to be fun?

Indeed it is...and I couldn't agree more...sadly some people in the forum have nothing better to do than to get 'het up'

Indeed but some of your responses have been a little heated, I can't see the point personally, its just words on a screen.

Well call it amusing if you like - personally I enjoy retort..."

Well like you say, some people do have nothing better to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(and the person can only take your word on that)

Err...no....if you took the time to read the whole thread you would see that the very lady in the pics has even contributed herself and confirms that she has fabbed all of the pics...I am seriously getting a bit bored of all of this

You don't have to reply to anyone and you don't need to justify your pics to anyone.

You only asked for advice and people left it, you can take notice of it and adjust your profile if you want to, or not.

Don't stress about the advice, it's just advice and doesn't have to be taken.

You don't need to reply to this either, won't bother me if you don't.

What bothers me are the personal attacks and judgements based on unfounded allegations and assumptions...but honestly I only reply because I like to make it clear that some pople talk a load of bollocks..."

Or you can do that as well.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Yes they would put me off, I find play pics an instant turn off and wether permission is given or not (and the person can only take your word on that) I personally find it indiscreet and distrespectful to previous lover, its why I don't and will never display them on my profile.

What is more she has many of the very same pics proudly displayed on her own profile now...so go shove your 'disrespectful to a previous lover' where the sun don't shine!"

No need to that's my opinion it can stay out proudly in the sunshine, if your precious ego can't handle brutal negative honesty don't ask for people's opinions on the first place bexcuse not everyone's going to tell you you're as great as you think you are

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"(and the person can only take your word on that)

Err...no....if you took the time to read the whole thread you would see that the very lady in the pics has even contributed herself and confirms that she has fabbed all of the pics...I am seriously getting a bit bored of all of this

You don't have to reply to anyone and you don't need to justify your pics to anyone.

You only asked for advice and people left it, you can take notice of it and adjust your profile if you want to, or not.

Don't stress about the advice, it's just advice and doesn't have to be taken.

You don't need to reply to this either, won't bother me if you don't.

What bothers me are the personal attacks and judgements based on unfounded allegations and assumptions...but honestly I only reply because I like to make it clear that some pople talk a load of bollocks...

Or you can do that as well. "

Indeed I am well known for doing just that - most of the time

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Yes they would put me off, I find play pics an instant turn off and wether permission is given or not (and the person can only take your word on that) I personally find it indiscreet and distrespectful to previous lover, its why I don't and will never display them on my profile.

What is more she has many of the very same pics proudly displayed on her own profile now...so go shove your 'disrespectful to a previous lover' where the sun don't shine!

No need to that's my opinion it can stay out proudly in the sunshine, if your precious ego can't handle brutal negative honesty don't ask for people's opinions on the first place bexcuse not everyone's going to tell you you're as great as you think you are "

There you go with your personal attacks again...as I said before - where do you get off? LMAO

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

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"(and the person can only take your word on that)

Err...no....if you took the time to read the whole thread you would see that the very lady in the pics has even contributed herself and confirms that she has fabbed all of the pics...I am seriously getting a bit bored of all of this "

Ivw now just re-read the whole damn thing and can't find the post you're referring to.

Only found one where a lady said she met you but probably would have been put off if you had action shots displayed at the time of first contacting her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(and the person can only take your word on that)

Err...no....if you took the time to read the whole thread you would see that the very lady in the pics has even contributed herself and confirms that she has fabbed all of the pics...I am seriously getting a bit bored of all of this

You don't have to reply to anyone and you don't need to justify your pics to anyone.

You only asked for advice and people left it, you can take notice of it and adjust your profile if you want to, or not.

Don't stress about the advice, it's just advice and doesn't have to be taken.

You don't need to reply to this either, won't bother me if you don't.

What bothers me are the personal attacks and judgements based on unfounded allegations and assumptions...but honestly I only reply because I like to make it clear that some pople talk a load of bollocks..."

I can't see any personal attacks or judgements unless by PM or have been removed. The first person to get a little ruffled was you when you thought someone was judging you when they weren't. People judge, its human nature and when you post a thread on here, you are in the spotlight.

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