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Phobia for planning meets too far in advance.

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By *ilk_Tre OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

Just more chance of getting flaked on.

Or do I worry too much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worry too much probably, although i don't like doing the same thing for other reasons.

I've got someone i wanna meet, and been chatting for a while now, asking me to meet him monday or tuesday but i already told someone else i'm free monday or tuesday and for them to let me know next week which day.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Re-confirming costs nothing

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like planning ahead.

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By *ilk_Tre OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I like planning ahead. "

How far though. I guess I also don't like feeling like just another diary entry!

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Worrying too much.

I had a meet planned a month before it happened and everyone turned up.

If it happens, if not then that's the way the cookie crumbles and move on. They'll be other opportunities in the future.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I like planning ahead.

How far though. I guess I also don't like feeling like just another diary entry! "

About a month or so....I don't mind if I'm a diary entry.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

God, I have to plan in advance. My schedule is all sorts of fucked up. I do make it crystal clear on my profile though so if people don't read it they only have themselves to blame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always had to plan in advance and it's never really been a problem. Obviously unforeseen circumstances sometimes mean cancellations at last minute but in my experience that hasn't been the norm. I would advise chatting and getting to know the person before organising a meet will minimise the chances of them stringing you along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like planning ahead.

How far though. I guess I also don't like feeling like just another diary entry! "

I've planned months ahead before and it's gone smoothly. Sometimes it's the only way to fit it in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being mobile means early planning is a must!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just more chance of getting flaked on.

Or do I worry too much?

"

I have to agree I have found that if you plan a meet for weeks in advance more often than not they cancel

To much time for them to find someone else to meet instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just more chance of getting flaked on.

Or do I worry too much?

"

Don't plan anything. Just log on and send out fancy a fuck messages to all females in your area. Ohh don't forget a cock pic ... Somebody has to say yes

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By *ilk_Tre OP   Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Just more chance of getting flaked on.

Or do I worry too much?

Don't plan anything. Just log on and send out fancy a fuck messages to all females in your area. Ohh don't forget a cock pic ... Somebody has to say yes"

Those pesky meddlin muricans!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to plan in advance otherwise it stands very little chance of happening.

Taking bookings now for Q2 2016

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just more chance of getting flaked on.

Or do I worry too much?

Don't plan anything. Just log on and send out fancy a fuck messages to all females in your area. Ohh don't forget a cock pic ... Somebody has to say yes

Those pesky meddlin muricans! "

It's Yankee to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to plan in advance otherwise it stands very little chance of happening.

Taking bookings now for Q2 2016 "

I was very much like that. ...puts loads off sadly

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Planning far ahead is great for long distance stuff, but for (reasonably) local meets I often find something else crops up or one party flakes on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't plan ahead when meeting as circumstances were likely to change last minute.

I guess it'll suit some but not everyone, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do prefer meets within a week or so...alot can change after that

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Sometimes the anticipation before a meet they're planned weeks before can be great if both parties keep the interest going.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I prefer to arrange 1-3 days ahead. Any longer than that and i'm likely to forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to arrange 1-3 days ahead. Any longer than that and i'm likely to forget "
and you forget your bets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God, I have to plan in advance. My schedule is all sorts of fucked up. I do make it crystal clear on my profile though so if people don't read it they only have themselves to blame."

We've arranged a meet 3 months in advance. Everyone showed up.....and it was hot! Lol

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"I prefer to arrange 1-3 days ahead. Any longer than that and i'm likely to forget and you forget your bets "

No I don't.. wasn't me who decided they were having a break from meeting..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just more chance of getting flaked on.

Or do I worry too much?

I have to agree I have found that if you plan a meet for weeks in advance more often than not they cancel

To much time for them to find someone else to meet instead "

I know that feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just more chance of getting flaked on.

Or do I worry too much?

"

No you hit the nail on the head .

Perfectly summed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just more chance of getting flaked on.

Or do I worry too much?

No you hit the nail on the head .

Perfectly summed up "

Not everyone flakes.

It's worth the odd flutter right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just more chance of getting flaked on.

Or do I worry too much?

No you hit the nail on the head .

Perfectly summed up

Not everyone flakes.

It's worth the odd flutter right? "

As I said on a previous thread - a recent meet has made us realise there are advantages in planning ahead too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just more chance of getting flaked on.

Or do I worry too much?

No you hit the nail on the head .

Perfectly summed up

Not everyone flakes.

It's worth the odd flutter right?

As I said on a previous thread - a recent meet has made us realise there are advantages in planning ahead too "

Would you look at that, I've gone all warm and fluttery

I didn't spot that though...joking aside, that's nice to hear, really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was meeting, I was fairly nervous about it all, so if I had too long to wait between arranging a meet and when we were actually meeting, I would occasionally chicken out or talk myself out of meeting someone.

It's not done to piss anyone off, just gotta be patient with crazies like me who are a tad insecure!

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