FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys have no chance

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been on this site for a week now one couple wanted to meet me then changed there mine and one couple called said we will not heard nothing from nor address if them I think if your a single on here you have no chance unless you have verications on here but with anyone meeting that won't happen or all they want is a black cock

What do.you think

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think apples should be shaped like bananas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think give it time or paint your cock black

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Give it a bit longer. Many guys wait months for their first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and welcome to the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give it a bit longer. Many guys wait months for their first meet."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Honestly, OP: a week isn't a very long time, is it? Patience is a virtue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK thank you

Andy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think apples should be shaped like bananas. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think give it time or paint your cock black

If he wraps a rubber band around it he could kill two birds with one stone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not after black cock, not my thing at all but having my filters set so that no one can message me so I can search its obvious how many single guys on here make absolutely no effort in their profiles at all. In fact, there are very few well written profiles with decent pics (most seem to be just cock pics which turn me off instantly) that I can find that make me want to message people but they don't half stand out when I eventually find them.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

It's a great site for single guys that make an effort to sell themselves in the best possible way. Do you really consider yourself to be doing that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it time, perhaps you could try not complaining on your profile.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a white cock, and I do just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that my rudolph socks were put on a fortnight early.

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By *hatMan69Man
over a year ago

Denver

I have no trouble getting attention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, it isn't impossible for a single guy. Take some time, get used to the site. You aren't going to be having sex every night from this site. But if you have an informative profile, good pics, and your message is decent, I think a single guy does stand a chance.

It isn't easy, though, you have to put some effort in. You should know that before you move forward.

Good luck!

-Courtney

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I'm overwhelmed with offers, maybe I can pimp you out instead or clogging up my inbox and kik?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I have been on this site for a week now one couple wanted to meet me then changed there mine and one couple called said we will not heard nothing from nor address if them I think if your a single on here you have no chance unless you have verications on here but with anyone meeting that won't happen or all they want is a black cock

What do.you think "

1) lots of bitterness in there.....

2) 1 week doesn't really scream "patience"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do.you think "

Like people said give it a chance you have been on here a week. You need to your profile to stand out from the 100's of other profiles on here. Personally lots of cock shots are a put off. Plus slating people for not meeting in your profile is not a good start. Try and get yourself to an organised social to get verified. Swinging isn't all about sex there is a social aspect as well.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Bit of generalising going on there eh Op

Stick with it and the gens will come along.

From the cpls I know they say lots of males are 'looking for a fuck' as opposed to 'swinging'. There is a difference.

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By *dventureslayerMan
over a year ago

London

If you want to get laid with no effort go pay a hooker. Yes this is a swingers site, but what is swinging, "adult dating". There maybe instances where you meet and have sex immediately, but all my meets started with a chat and then a few drinks. Oh and no black cock here hahahaha.

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Your profile makes no sense, the last paragraph particularly!

You have come across as moany and impatient... If you want instant sex, book an escort... If you want to join this lifestyle, it takes more than just signing up to fabswingers.

Become freindly and chatty, don't post 46 pics of your cock from slightly different angles, join in conversation on the forums, let people get to know your personality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh! And the status you have isn't gunna do you any favors.

Try a funny status instead

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple question, have you found the right people you'd like to meet based on your preferences, their preferences and both your availabilities? Have you had the opening chats and struck up a rapport and when going to the next time step.... Oh, you aren't verified.

Signed up, logged in, fancy a fuck messages sent to everyone logged into the local area, no responses, blamed the site for being shit and impossible for single men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh! And the status you have isn't gunna do you any favors.

Try a funny status instead

-Courtney"

Beat me to it. Moaning is never attractive. Negativity is off putting.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

A whole week!!! I can't believe women aren't throwing themselves at you

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Don't forget that every single guy on here was new and had no veri's at one point OP!

Which means that if what you say is true no one would ever of met. There are plenty of successful white guys on here.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I think give it time or paint your cock black

I'd give you time and you can paint mine Felicity.

Not black though, maybe with chocolate.

You can then spend some of that time sucking the chocolate off.

Most pleasurable methinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh! And the status you have isn't gunna do you any favors.

Try a funny status instead

-Courtney

Beat me to it. Moaning is never attractive. Negativity is off putting."

Totally agree with this, I would instantly be put off a profile with a negative status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly a man in a hurry. You go get 'em tiger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do.you think "

There are many single males on here who have met many times so what you are saying is, "I deserve a meet." Why do you think so? And what do you do to get one? They are not going to come running for your cock.

Verifications are no great deal. Concentrate on making the most of you in a positive fashion rather than blaming the world for your lack of success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do.you think "

Not everyone wants a black cock, and if they do...so what!....move on, go to a social. Allow people to get to know the cheery, happy go lucky, with a positive attitude kind of guy you really are....xx

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Oh! And the status you have isn't gunna do you any favors.

I agree.

The negative status is never going to help. (keep it up though, better for the rest of lonely old fuck's)

Whinging cant!

help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do.you think "

I think I'm a single guy and I don't whine get yourself know join in some of the games! Enjoy the chat don't just look for an easy fuck because you won't find it here! You're better off down the local bar/pub/club if that's what u want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One week?????

Really give it time like

Last week 4 days and no one replied or even viewed me

Then 2 days of over 20 views each day and some good replies

Nice chat but intelligent messages help

Want to ride this,or I want to f*** you gets you blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do.you think "
every pic but 1 is of your cock . Your profile is not good. You would meet anyone up too 99 years old. And you are moaning cause after a week you have not had a shag. ? You have a lot to learn on here mate. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think give it time or paint your cock black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good job with taking down the status OP. Don't take the negative comments too much to heart. Like I said, work on your profile, give it some time, then decide if this is the right site for you.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give it a bit longer. Many guys wait months for their first meet."

Or a year

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

"I think give it time or paint your cock black

Or try poetry.

Roses are red

Violets are blue

I have cake and some haribo too

So darling you are in luck

Fancy a fuck

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I can still remember being new on here and at first it's like being a kid in a sweet shop with things you like the look of everywhere. And you think 'well, I'm a normal fairly attractive person so it won't take long to start chatting and then meet up with someone I get on with'. And then it doesn't happen. At which point you can start blaming yourself, start blaming the site or stop expecting anything to happen immediately until you've found your feet and decided what you want from here and how best to portray that and who you genuinely are through your pics, profile and general online persona and have your first meet months later. That's what I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Er patience. Or spend time posting poor single guy threads. Mr W

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By *larayCouple
over a year ago

bolton

Some single guys have no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys with bad attitudes have no chance...

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

aint you been a member before ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some single guys have no chance "

it's funny to see, if I was a women and I viewed his profile I'd block him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wank at some of the hot pictures on here and see of you are still up for a meet.

I won't charge for this advice

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

A WHOLE week?

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By *dventureslayerMan
over a year ago

London

I'm going to bedazzle my cock, soon all the ladies will be asking for that.. #trendsetter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wank at some of the hot pictures on here and see of you are still up for a meet.

I won't charge for this advice

Works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wank at some of the hot pictures on here and see of you are still up for a meet.

I won't charge for this advice

Solid advice mate

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yup...a week is no time a all. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some single guys have no chance

it's funny to see, if I was a women and I viewed his profile I'd block him

Bingo!

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Abolishing the myth……

I got a meet in my first week of joining a few years ago…

I don't have a black cock….

I have had plenty of messages deleted with no reply…

I have still had plenty of meets….

I put in the effort when I want to meet…

I dont moan….

Verdict: Site works for me when I want it to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think give it time or paint your cock black

Or try poetry.

Roses are red

Violets are blue

I have cake and some haribo too

So darling you are in luck

Fancy a fuck"

Well that won me over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think give it time or paint your cock black

Or try poetry.

Roses are red

Violets are blue

I have cake and some haribo too

So darling you are in luck

Fancy a fuck"

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

cry me a river

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can still remember being new on here and at first it's like being a kid in a sweet shop with things you like the look of everywhere. And you think 'well, I'm a normal fairly attractive person so it won't take long to start chatting and then meet up with someone I get on with'. And then it doesn't happen. At which point you can start blaming yourself, start blaming the site or stop expecting anything to happen immediately until you've found your feet and decided what you want from here and how best to portray that and who you genuinely are through your pics, profile and general online persona and have your first meet months later. That's what I did. "

Great post

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined back in the time of the old gods, when the land was plentiful. But we watched, helpless as raiders came front across the sea to take what was rightfully ours by the new Gods will! Still it ment nothing... Season followed season, winter to spring yet still they came and lady luck did not call, now i stand before you, like my kinsmen, grey of beard, frail of flesh, and our prize still alluding us. We pray to God, but he ignores our sinful calls. The shame is our own..leave now, for this land is cursed, stained with the blood of young men such as yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined back in the time of the old gods, when the land was plentiful. But we watched, helpless as raiders came front across the sea to take what was rightfully ours by the new Gods will! Still it ment nothing... Season followed season, winter to spring yet still they came and lady luck did not call, now i stand before you, like my kinsmen, grey of beard, frail of flesh, and our prize still alluding us. We pray to God, but he ignores our sinful calls. The shame is our own..leave now, for this land is cursed, stained with the blood of young men such as yourself.

Great post

-Lib

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think give it time or paint your cock black

Or try poetry.

Roses are red

Violets are blue

I have cake and some haribo too

So darling you are in luck

Fancy a fuck

Yes babe x

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

If I could ever bring myself to lol a post, this would be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl Clem

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By *inger SiMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

What do.you think "

Patience is a virtue mate only 1 week and you are moaning. Desperation scares people off.

Best way to meet people is clubs and parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet single guys so they do get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poppycock! 2 naughty meets and one social this month. So there.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

cripes 1 week and no meets, that's terrible...clearly no it's not, as many have said patience is a virtue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think apples should be shaped like bananas. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A whole week!!! I can't believe women aren't throwing themselves at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put Bi on your profile. That will double your chances.

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