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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

When swinging, after cumming, is it time for the good byes, time for a chat, or time for post orgasm cuddles?

I personally like post orgasm cuddles, but I sometimes wonder if they are a bit too intimate for swinging, I worry if its appropriate or not.

What do you guys think? What is your preference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a thank you and walk away kind of guy. I always feel the couple want their space.Also if there are other guys then the best thing is to get out of the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to cuddle sometimes, but depends on who it is with as if I have met them before I will cuddle but if it is with a new meet I would tend to just chat for a bit, but then if I give them another orgasm then I would probably cuddle, although as you say it may be too intimate for swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tea. Maybe a sandwich. Then do it all again.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Usually a quick chat after it and then a kiss and cuddle until we meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shake hands, say thanks and leave to find my next victim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snooze.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if its a couples meet, then after O's we all stay a bit in the bed and chat about previous meets , etc and if it gets us up again, well and good ...

if it was a single guy, we prefer him to just walk away, since his role is finished ( harsh it may sound, but we dont need him anymore)

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By *ngelsdevilWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside

A cuddle leads to more fun with the right guy but if the connection isn't there best to leave it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When swinging, after cumming, is it time for the good byes, time for a chat, or time for post orgasm cuddles?

I personally like post orgasm cuddles, but I sometimes wonder if they are a bit too intimate for swinging, I worry if its appropriate or not.

What do you guys think? What is your preference? "

When I was on as a single it was goodbye and next as I only Did group play.

Even now though I if we are playing at a club or private I don't want to hang about post orgasm. Will chat a bit but would utterly freak If a meet tried to cuddle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm often out the door but I think I'm a good judge of character and if tea is on the cards I'll stick about for a cuppa.

Never do cuddles though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if its a couples meet, then after O's we all stay a bit in the bed and chat about previous meets , etc and if it gets us up again, well and good ...

if it was a single guy, we prefer him to just walk away, since his role is finished ( harsh it may sound, but we dont need him anymore)"

That's how I see it... Job done... Everyones happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not really much of a cuddler so it's usually a bit of a relaxed chat, some touching but not actual cuddling and then go our separate ways till the next time.

I have been dabbling with the idea of an actual overnight stay which might involve some cuddling though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the situation. Chat or goodbye is fine. Either works. I probably prefer a chat.

Cuddles? No, thanks.

-Courtney

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I think the post coital cuddle is severely underrated.

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By *urlycatMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Cuddle for sure.

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By *hampagneAfterpartyCouple
over a year ago

.

It's time to start the next round of foreplay ! Get the soft bits hard, the dry bits wet and do it all again

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

A drink is usually needed.

A bit of chat.

More kissing.

More sex.

repeat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When swinging, after cumming, is it time for the good byes, time for a chat, or time for post orgasm cuddles?

I personally like post orgasm cuddles, but I sometimes wonder if they are a bit too intimate for swinging, I worry if its appropriate or not.

What do you guys think? What is your preference? "

I tend to bury them under the patio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You stick to your cuddles! Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Snooze."

Obligatory high-5 first though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles, drink, crisps, round 2.

I don't really care if the bloke thinks that's too intimate.

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By *entlemanTonyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes defiantly time to leave if it's with a couple and cuddles if it's a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles, drink, crisps, round 2.

I don't really care if the bloke thinks that's too intimate. "

You're just going to cuddle him anyway?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

A nap or just down time. Then if it's an overnight meet food and drink. Good sex makes me hungry. Then more sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it is, the type of guy I'm with. Sometimes I don't feel comfortable with the cuddly stuff, but chat instead. If it's a club it'd usually be a "cheers thanks for that, see you around" kinda thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles, drink, crisps, round 2.

I don't really care if the bloke thinks that's too intimate.

You're just going to cuddle him anyway?"

Yeah, there's no escaping from my clutches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddling is just for us. If a guy tried snuggling up with Emily afterwards she would either move away or ask him politely to get off of her dont mind a quick chat but prefer a thanks and goodbye with the majority of meets

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By *astard and goodgirlCouple
over a year ago

Near Exeter

When good girl has come...... She comes again.... And then again.... And gets herself off! I wouldn't let her cuddle anyone but me though.... After I've reclaimed my territory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who I'm with

Sometimes i do a runner after they've cum sometimes I have a cuddle and hang about for round two

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"if its a couples meet, then after O's we all stay a bit in the bed and chat about previous meets , etc and if it gets us up again, well and good ...

if it was a single guy, we prefer him to just walk away, since his role is finished ( harsh it may sound, but we dont need him anymore)"

^^^ This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this snuggles/cuddles or hug an old friend in the supermarket cuddles? If it all goes well I'm expecting a hi five hit the rounds and I'll be back for more in a bit

Sorry I'd quoted and it didn't make sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddle and chat, then go again if we are both agreeable.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Crawley Down

Go with what feels right at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not time to go again?!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Is it not time to go again?!"

At my age?! At least a packet of crisps first to keep my energy up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet singles so, cuddle, bit of a chat a laugh TV or Netflix and some food.^_^

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Cuddles and kisses are just lush.

Then maybe more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not time to go again?!

At my age?! At least a packet of crisps first to keep my energy up!"

I'll get the apron on, we can make a day of this.. Haha

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

Have a chat, some water or a cup of tea.... Then go again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles? Fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've been well trained: Cuddles, kisses, snacks, chat then start all over again

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

Best thing ever kisses and cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When swinging, after cumming, is it time for the good byes, time for a chat, or time for post orgasm cuddles?

I personally like post orgasm cuddles, but I sometimes wonder if they are a bit too intimate for swinging, I worry if its appropriate or not.

What do you guys think? What is your preference? "

Cuddles [i]and[/i] chat

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Cuddles are nice followed by cake and coffee. Then perhaps more sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles are nice followed by cake and coffee. Then perhaps more sex "

... Fuck. You mentioned cake.

They are going to be all over this thread now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit, I'm the guy that wants to stay for cuddles if it's just MF, anymore than 2 people and I'm outta there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't stand lack of intimacy myself. Sex is way better with it unless you enjoy fucking objects. My opinion.

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

If the orgasm is that good...im usually in the recovery position and snoozing so not bothe_ed.

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington


"Cuddles are nice followed by cake and coffee. Then perhaps more sex "

Oooh I forgot about food

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Gotta be honest i kinda like to say my goodbyes and get off..

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Is it not time to go again?!

At my age?! At least a packet of crisps first to keep my energy up!

I'll get the apron on, we can make a day of this.. Haha"

Good man!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles are nice followed by cake and coffee. Then perhaps more sex

... Fuck. You mentioned cake.

They are going to be all over this thread now "

My cake senses are tingling. I totally need to _ediscover baking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who brings cake to a meet? Can you nip round to mine later?

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

It's interesting isn't it, we are all happy to fuck, some people don't kiss, and generally get ridiculed, but talk about cuddling post orgasm and most people think its a step to far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not time to go again?!

At my age?! At least a packet of crisps first to keep my energy up!

I'll get the apron on, we can make a day of this.. Haha

Good man!! "

Thanks

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"A cuddle leads to more fun with the right guy but if the connection isn't there best to leave it! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What kind of cake are we talking? This could be the deal breaker.....oh and I'm a girl that adores cuddles, some days even more than sex! Strike me down now for being on a sex site!!! Lol

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By *eauNaturelMan
over a year ago

Malmesbury


"When swinging, after cumming, is it time for the good byes, time for a chat, or time for post orgasm cuddles?

I personally like post orgasm cuddles, but I sometimes wonder if they are a bit too intimate for swinging, I worry if its appropriate or not.

What do you guys think? What is your preference? "

Post-gasm cuddles for me everytime!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"What kind of cake are we talking? This could be the deal breaker.....oh and I'm a girl that adores cuddles, some days even more than sex! Strike me down now for being on a sex site!!! Lol "

More than sex? How do you know...the best cuddles turn into sex and then end it as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wipe my dick on the curtains and go home

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Cuddles & snuggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The idea of someone cuming and going leaves me stone cold

Chill, chat, cuddle then ciao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to cuddle up to anyone but my man after sex . Just too intimate...

Hand me a glass of wine!

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford

A drink followed by a salt & vinegar crisp sandwich then .....

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


"When swinging, after cumming, is it time for the good byes, time for a chat, or time for post orgasm cuddles?

I personally like post orgasm cuddles, but I sometimes wonder if they are a bit too intimate for swinging, I worry if its appropriate or not.

What do you guys think? What is your preference? "

I always and I mean ALWAYS have a post orgasm cuddle. I don't think of it as too intimate at all. I'd be really cross if they just came and immediately got out of bed and left the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When swinging, after cumming, is it time for the good byes, time for a chat, or time for post orgasm cuddles?

I personally like post orgasm cuddles, but I sometimes wonder if they are a bit too intimate for swinging, I worry if its appropriate or not.

What do you guys think? What is your preference? "

Kisses, cuddles, drinks, chats- do it again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if its a couples meet, then after O's we all stay a bit in the bed and chat about previous meets , etc and if it gets us up again, well and good ...

if it was a single guy, we prefer him to just walk away, since his role is finished ( harsh it may sound, but we dont need him anymore)"

Same. Harsh but at least we're honest about it with the guy before hand.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Cumbria and Galloway

I love to hug and cuddle... that enclosing warmth, stillness and peace after the storm is part of the journey.

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"Cuddles are nice followed by cake and coffee. Then perhaps more sex "

Who makes the coffee in this scenario?

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By *ouble_CreamCouple
over a year ago

cheltenham


"What kind of cake are we talking? This could be the deal breaker.....oh and I'm a girl that adores cuddles, some days even more than sex! Strike me down now for being on a sex site!!! Lol "

I'm with you there....love the post sex cuddles, giggles, chat, hanging out, more cuddles, then round 2,3,4,5 ...

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

So there seems to be quite a range of opinions on the subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, at theirs, I normally just wipe my cock off some place, somewhere on the bed normally, quick fart (why wait and trap it in your pants) a quick rattle about the fridge to see what I can eat then off home

At mine I just sleep where I finish, see yourselves out, but stay the fuck outta my fridge!

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By *oeyleicesterMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Depends on the person who im with like how well we get along but always like to cuddle after, then back to more fun again and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drift off to sleep spooning with my still hard dick nestled against their bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So there seems to be quite a range of opinions on the subject"

Damn people and their non conformity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to ask them to write me verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to ask them to write me verification

"

I imagine you still sweating and panting, reaching for the I pad...

'if I could now get you to fill out a customer satisfaction report madam'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What kind of cake are we talking? This could be the deal breaker.....oh and I'm a girl that adores cuddles, some days even more than sex! Strike me down now for being on a sex site!!! Lol "
yes sacre bleu you are the anti Christ of swinging, anyone certainly where most couples are concerned who puts emotion and connection and cuddling into it should be castigated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orgasm cuddle +++

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"What kind of cake are we talking? This could be the deal breaker.....oh and I'm a girl that adores cuddles, some days even more than sex! Strike me down now for being on a sex site!!! Lol

I'm with you there....love the post sex cuddles, giggles, chat, hanging out, more cuddles, then round 2,3,4,5 ... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just slap her arse, wipe my cock on the curtains and ask - kettle on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has to me a lazy cwtch!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely in need of a snuggle after and then hopefully round 2.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Cuddles if the lady wants them, but not everyone does in the swinging world. I do like at least a brief chat after. We're not robots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo cuddles and a chat afterwards or its plain rude tbh, manners always!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to ask them to write me verification

I imagine you still sweating and panting, reaching for the I pad...

'if I could now get you to fill out a customer satisfaction report madam'

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Cuddles, drink, crisps, round 2.

I don't really care if the bloke thinks that's too intimate. "

No crisps. Please.

All the rest - ok.

If that's ok with you just let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swill the bonnet off, quick going over with a chamois and off you go.

I don't know what doggers do though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles, drink, crisps, round 2.

I don't really care if the bloke thinks that's too intimate.

You're just going to cuddle him anyway?

Yeah, there's no escaping from my clutches."

I'm the same! But to be fair I do make it clear in my profile (about line 254) that I'm an affectionate li'l bugger!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Some people like affection while others perhaps think that's not right for swinging.

I likr snuggling after, but I am an affectionate guy anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dogging no...... too wet and cold out to lie around.

One on one 2's 3's and more warm bed yep! Love my cuddles after. I demand them! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When swinging, after cumming, is it time for the good byes, time for a chat, or time for post orgasm cuddles?

I personally like post orgasm cuddles, but I sometimes wonder if they are a bit too intimate for swinging, I worry if its appropriate or not.

What do you guys think? What is your preference? "

You could cuddle me anytime you like before during or after. But I turn into a sexless pumpkin after an orgasm now

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