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Spontaneous or planned?

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

Most of my meets are planned somewhat in advance and I love the build up of tension and nervous excitement. However, on Monday night I had a very spontaneous meet which was arranged only a few hours earlier that same day. It turned out to be one of my very best ever encounters and somehow the fact that we had only connected on here and chatted a few times an hour or two before made it seem even more naughty.....especially given what we then got up to.

What do you prefer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous! grabbing the building moment and acting on it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous ever time !!!!!! stranger sex rocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all the meets I have had have been spontaneous, unless I meet the same person again. This is probably due to my circumstances, as I can only meet at certain times, so I see who can meet and go for it. Never have I planned a meet more than a week in advance, many of my first experiences have been in clubs though, but unless there's an event going on at them, I tend to decide that last minute, apart from this week as I've decided to go to a club this weekend, I did decide this today though, so still not planned well in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned

I don't always have the time nor the inclination to be spontaneous. ....I'm a lazy swinger

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Both have worked out well....but obv if they are quite a distance away...then planned it has to be..

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

We both love spontaneous planning can take out the buzz of a meet and be a little clinical sometimes. Love the craziness we get out of spontaneous sessions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both seems to have worked for us.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to prefer spontaneous, the sex is definitely better for me. But after today, and recent events in my life, i'm gonna stick with getting to know guys a bit better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous have usually been the best although there's a few where the build up and finally getting it on have also been pretty awesome... Club meets are great as you never know who or what might happen...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Planned

I don't always have the time nor the inclination to be spontaneous. ....I'm a lazy swinger "

This !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of our meets have been spontaneous , and we love the thrill and excitement of that .

However we have hada recent meet which was planned in advance , and that was great . Equally as good as any of the previous spontaneous meets.

So we will stay on the fence on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned for one to one meets. All spontaneous meets I've had where were the man thought I was just there to service his needs

But club meets are spontaneous because I get the chance to chat to them first before fucking them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneity is and has been fabulous. But the excitement of and build up to a planned meet is also exciting (as long as they turn up!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although it's often fun when you get more than you expected spontaneously x

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By *antileveredCouple
over a year ago

North London

Planned only for us.

A multitude of reasons; primarily because we're risk averse but also because we relish the sense of anticipation and enjoy teasing out the taboo of being really naughty with people we know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer planned as I'm I need a connection of some sort in order to really enjoy sex. My few spontaneous meets have not been good as we hadn't has time to gauge whether we were actually into the same stuff or not (we weren't really). I love the build up of a planned meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has to be planned for us too

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Both have worked out well....but obv if they are quite a distance away...then planned it has to be.."

Interestingly I drove all the way to Norwich for my spontaneous meet on Monday - but oh my giddy aunt was it worth it!!

We met for a drink (a get out clause is always good), booked a Travelodge while having the drink and were getting down to it half an hour later - fantastic!!

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Spontaneous for me

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