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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't even know if this is thread worthy but we have met someone from this site a few times and had great meets. There has also been some social non swinging related meets, calling on us for favours etc. Now for some bizarre reason there is no response to our messages and they are being read and deleted. We are adults and understand people change their minds, we are totally cool with that but just be honest. I guess we just feel a bit used. Any one else had any similar experiences?

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Don't even know if this is thread worthy but we have met someone from this site a few times and had great meets. There has also been some social non swinging related meets, calling on us for favours etc. Now for some bizarre reason there is no response to our messages and they are being read and deleted. We are adults and understand people change their minds, we are totally cool with that but just be honest. I guess we just feel a bit used. Any one else had any similar experiences? "

Just put down to life and move on as long as you enjoyed your meets with them that is all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't even know if this is thread worthy but we have met someone from this site a few times and had great meets. There has also been some social non swinging related meets, calling on us for favours etc. Now for some bizarre reason there is no response to our messages and they are being read and deleted. We are adults and understand people change their minds, we are totally cool with that but just be honest. I guess we just feel a bit used. Any one else had any similar experiences? "

In all honesty no .

And the reason for that is we see swinging as a lifestyle where there are no expectations and NSA is the way forward .

We have met some of the loveliest people , but in truth give scarcely a thought to them after the meet .

Sounds harsh perhaps , but that's what works for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's how we are moving on from now on I think

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Don't even know if this is thread worthy but we have met someone from this site a few times and had great meets. There has also been some social non swinging related meets, calling on us for favours etc. Now for some bizarre reason there is no response to our messages and they are being read and deleted. We are adults and understand people change their minds, we are totally cool with that but just be honest. I guess we just feel a bit used. Any one else had any similar experiences? "

I think these sort of things are best sorted out between the two parties privately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There is nothing to sort out. We are not in any form of relationship with them and are just chalking it up to another experience. we were just curious as to whether it has happened to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop the favours..

Meet people, move on..

Or whatever works for you. Some people make friends doing this.. Others work the room, so to speak.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"There is nothing to sort out. We are not in any form of relationship with them and are just chalking it up to another experience. we were just curious as to whether it has happened to others "

I see. However should they read the forums they'll know how you feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had similar twice. Met few times socially, had fun, chatted for ages then......nothing. We shrug it off and move on

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