FabSwingers.com forum: Is there room on here for a nice guy?

By *unning.linguist OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hi all,

I am a genuine, honest guy, have been told that by a few ladies. However, I am not that lucky on the meeting side of things.

A lot of my messages just get deleted, I barely get any replies.

I will admit that I am a chunky, short guy, and that doesn't float everyones boat.

My question is, what can I do to help improve my chances (other than spend weeks in the gym), and how can I find the ladies who like a nice guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write a decent profile and try adding some decent photos. I would say the one you have now is why many don't reply hun.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"Hi all,

I am a genuine, honest guy, have been told that by a few ladies. However, I am not that lucky on the meeting side of things.

A lot of my messages just get deleted, I barely get any replies.

I will admit that I am a chunky, short guy, and that doesn't float everyones boat.

My question is, what can I do to help improve my chances (other than spend weeks in the gym), and how can I find the ladies who like a nice guy?

Work on your profile, this post is actually longer than what you have written, more photos would help instead of the obligatory cock pic

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

At the moment there is nothing on your profile to either inform or attract anybody.

You are up against thousands of other single guys on the site, so you have really got to make your profile stand out to have any prospect of attracting anyone's attention.

It's got nothing to do with being nice or "genuine"

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By *unning.linguist OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

What sort of things should I add to my profile?

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"What sort of things should I add to my profile?"

Just read the profile above you to see what a well written profile looks like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write a little more about you, why are you here, what are you looking for and what can you offer a potential meet. What sort of things do you like sexually and try to get your personality across. You only photo is really not attractive, most women will not find a flaccid cock with you stood there in your socks attractive, sorry to be brutally honest.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"Write a little more about you, why are you here, what are you looking for and what can you offer a potential meet. What sort of things do you like sexually and try to get your personality across. You only photo is really not attractive, most women will not find a flaccid cock with you stood there in your socks attractive, sorry to be brutally honest."

Glad we haven't asked you to comment on our profile

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you suggesting that the rest of the men on here aren't nice and that women don't like nice guys? I'm sure you aren't but rule number one would be don't suggest that your lack of success is because you're too nice or nicer than the others and rule two is follow the advice given above.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The photo is very off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG, your photo is soooooo sexy, I must meet this guy - said no woman ever! haha, sorry my lovely but others have said, its probably the main reason people are not replying. Try some torso or bum pics, looking nice in a suit or face pic if you are happy to. Good luck

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By *unning.linguist OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

What kind of photo would be better?

I don't really want to reveal my face on my profile, due to work related reasons, but I will happily send it privately.

what would you suggest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What kind of photo would be better?

I don't really want to reveal my face on my profile, due to work related reasons, but I will happily send it privately.

what would you suggest?"

The ones I suggested in my post??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't get too ate up on it all just be normal you will get meets there is someone on here for everyone if not go to a club

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"OMG, your photo is soooooo sexy, I must meet this guy - said no woman ever! haha, sorry my lovely but others have said, its probably the main reason people are not replying. Try some torso or bum pics, looking nice in a suit or face pic if you are happy to. Good luck

Well that should say it all OP, If you cannot even get a woman in a wheelie bin there must be something wrong with your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that should say it all OP, If you cannot even get a woman in a wheelie bin there must be something wrong with your profile

Shhhh don't tell everyone, I'm hiding

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By *unning.linguist OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Ok, updated my profile and changed the pics. How is it looking now?

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By *eekayCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd like to be politely honest.

We decide on a profile in 3-5 seconds. Yours was done in 1 sec.

It's tough out there and there is nothing of interest at all. The photo is terrible I'm sorry to say. Swerve from the cock pics, they really are ten a penny.

Try some pics with smart clothing, suited and booted, tasteful etc.

Inject something in to your profile.

Why should someone message?. Because you are humorous (don't know), intriguing (don't know), sexy (well the pic says no).

Meant as constructive, hope you can take something away from this.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Ok, updated my profile and changed the pics. How is it looking now?"

It is better but I'd be grateful if you removed the bits that you've copied directly from my profile text!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, updated my profile and changed the pics. How is it looking now?

It is better but I'd be grateful if you removed the bits that you've copied directly from my profile text!

Oh good god, seriously OP???!

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By *unning.linguist OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Changed it again. Apologies to Gordon/Steve.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm loathe to give profile advice as it should reflect the person. What happens when everyone makes a suggestion and it's acted on the profile becomes dull and generic...like thousand of others.

Op: you know you...We don't! If you, claiming to be an intelligent man can't string a couple of sentences together to let us know why you're here, what you're looking for, what you can offer and an insight into you with pictures to display you at your best, then sorry, I can't see you getting anywhere.

Good luck though.

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