FabSwingers.com forum: how come its getting so hard to meet

By *ice guy 44 OP Man
over a year ago

wrexham

been on site a few years and met lots of nice single and Cpl but been back now 6 months and nothing is it me or the site

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's impossible to tell. The fact that you were successful before suggests it's the site unless you've changed your approach. What differences have you noticed in the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by myself and people I know personally, going to clubs is preferred rather than arranging a meet. This seems to be due to people backing out last minute, not turning up, being different in person and many other factors. I have little time to myself and have been let down on several occasions and I know nor everyone is the same, but it's not something I really have time for, so at least by going to a club I know there will be other people there.

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"been on site a few years and met lots of nice single and Cpl but been back now 6 months and nothing is it me or the site"

just be happy at least you got some meets prior to the 6 months of radio silence and zero meets OP as it can always be worser..

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"been on site a few years and met lots of nice single and Cpl but been back now 6 months and nothing is it me or the site"

I don't know.

Are those the only possibilities?

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

There is so much competition on here due the number of single guys. I think that some women just get fatigued by the amount of messages they receive especially if they are either samey or crude.

Got to find a way to stand out from all the others- well written profile, decent pics and good first message. Oh and lots of luck. Or bribery with cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"been on site a few years and met lots of nice single and Cpl but been back now 6 months and nothing is it me or the site"

It's the site we are looking constantly for couple or hot single lad yet none pop up that meet our requirements...

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I'm doing my best to get round every one. But its a balance of time. I need to work to pay for the Champers, and and not seeing to many that I get a name for myself!

(Fem half of couple)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"been on site a few years and met lots of nice single and Cpl but been back now 6 months and nothing is it me or the site"

Try re writing your profile, it starts with bragging about how many meets you've had then contradicts that by saying you're looking for regular meets and prefer quality to quantity in meets.

It might just be me but when I read an over written profile like yours I look at things like that.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"been on site a few years and met lots of nice single and Cpl but been back now 6 months and nothing is it me or the site"

The site has changed a huge amount insofar as there is now a bisexual chat room, a blue dot to show you're online and some other minor tweaks like being able to choose couples where both are bi - none of these have been along for long although mr forgetful here has a sinking feeling some changes are more than 6 months old and if that's the case, then it's you, matey-boi

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By *ice guy 44 OP Man
over a year ago

wrexham

arrange meets and they don't turn up but I will do what I did before visit the clubs

that way get to no people

I have found that some women want meet you if you no verifications and others want if you have loads

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By *ice guy 44 OP Man
over a year ago

wrexham

when I started going to clubs felt uncoftable been a single guy

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By *ice guy 44 OP Man
over a year ago

wrexham

how is that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had more luck on pof than on here. Lots of competition and you need to be an Adonis or you're scewed.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I had more luck on pof than on here. Lots of competition and you need to be an Adonis or you're scewed."

Thank you

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We can't tell if someone is less or more appealing to the current crowd than they were etc. Maybe other people today have got more successful tactics that just work better? Or the op is seeking a dwindling type of partner, who is also in greater demand.

Online sites are facing ever greater competition, as the massive user base of people with smartphones have many more apps to use to get to meet others. Some of these are very well known. Whilst there are more fab users, these people have a selection of apps and sites that they may be using simultaneously.

Swingers are also more experienced in choosing to meet at clubs as well as via the net and using both.

But overall it's increasingly tough for men, as more are looking and competing with each other for sex. They need to evolve and outpace the others, or risk appearing stale. A mans looks or appeal can also diminish over time, so he may need to invest in his appearance, as there will be others who are fitter, perceived by others as better looking etc.

And finally consider your marketing plan. Even classic cars need the right promotion etc.

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