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How do you find a female for first time threesome? Advice?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

HI

Were a couple looking to fulfil a fantasy and have a threesome with a female,but we are finding it difficult to find a like minded person, any advice? Thanks

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"HI

Were a couple looking to fulfil a fantasy and have a threesome with a female,but we are finding it difficult to find a like minded person, any advice? Thanks"

Yes, never going to happen. Not like minded, you just want to use and abuse the girl. Just rent an essort like everyone else xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Keep looking and maybe attend socials and clubs. Don't give up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Kinkyminx, just looking for like minded people open to explore sex, not wanting to use and abuse at all like one comment... x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I could see that, pay no heed

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"Thanks Kinkyminx, just looking for like minded people open to explore sex, not wanting to use and abuse at all like one comment... x"

No you are, your profile doesn't match

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Approach ladies as humans, not pieces of meat to fulfill your fantasy.

I'm sure you're lovely but right now, your profile sounds quite selfish.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I didn't look at the profile till now. I can't see anything wrong with it but I don't often look at couple profiles.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"Approach ladies as humans, not pieces of meat to fulfill your fantasy.

I'm sure you're lovely but right now, your profile sounds quite selfish."

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Were just looking for a female that would like to fulfil their fantasy too, might aswell be honest and upfront in your profile

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Go to clubs is the best advice. Can't comment on the profile unless asked to.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"Were just looking for a female that would like to fulfil their fantasy too, might aswell be honest and upfront in your profile "

Yeah and that's no one. Your not their fantasy, just trying to help xx

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"HI

Were a couple looking to fulfil a fantasy and have a threesome with a female,but we are finding it difficult to find a like minded person, any advice? Thanks

Yes, never going to happen. Not like minded, you just want to use and abuse the girl. Just rent an essort like everyone else xx"

You can ignore this person, OP.

Your profile says you want to fulfil a fantasy. That they conclude that means you want to abuse someone says far more about them than it does about you.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Were just looking for a female that would like to fulfil their fantasy too, might aswell be honest and upfront in your profile "

Most single ladies on here get bombarded with messages every day. Harsh but we can take our pick.

How are you going to stand out from other couples who want a girl as a play thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hellllllo....

Well when i was a cpl, we found it much easier to connect with single ladies when in a club situation.

People are much more approachable, and friendly, so i wish you well in your quest.

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By *aidForSharingWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Use and abuse? They ask for a LADY and say she'll be 'pleasured'. They're also 'looking for the right one' so are fairly discriminating. I've seen far worse shout-outs than this!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

The say they are keen to please so could both be sub? As a single I meet other singles though because any reference to 'our pleasure' would make me feel excluded. I have referenced your profile op as your post asked for advice. Pepper.

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By *irtyandfilthy2014Couple
over a year ago

under the apple tree

It's what we are looking for too, although we aren't really looking. We go to clubs and parties, and if it happens, it happens. If not, we just play together.

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By *eekayCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We put ourselves in "the ladies position". It must be quite daunting meeting a couple for the first time.

K will typically meet the lady on her own and take it from there.

I simply don't have anything to do with it unless both people are happy. Only K messages single ladies.

Over planning and thinking will yield nothing. A chance club meet is the best bet me thinks.

Cx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patient, if it happens it happens

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Get yourselves a large net, and a pith helmet each. I would also recommend employing the services of alan quartermain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of time and patience. X when we stopped looking she found us x

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"We put ourselves in "the ladies position". It must be quite daunting meeting a couple for the first time.

K will typically meet the lady on her own and take it from there.

I simply don't have anything to do with it unless both people are happy. Only K messages single ladies.

Over planning and thinking will yield nothing. A chance club meet is the best bet me thinks.

Cx"

I've met with a couple only once about 3 weeks ago. They completely put me at ease before anything happened & I was the focus of their attention all evening. I was treated with complete respect. It was a wonderful experience for my 1st time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see you live in wides, I suggest you go to townhouse, plenty of single fems go there often. Maybe on a couples & single fems night only but your best chance is to go to a club then you can build a rapport with one.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HI

Were a couple looking to fulfil a fantasy and have a threesome with a female,but we are finding it difficult to find a like minded person, any advice? Thanks"
its the most difficult thing to do on here ,a lot of couples are assumed to be just the man or at least driven by the man and some women who want to meet another woman don't want that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HI

Were a couple looking to fulfil a fantasy and have a threesome with a female,but we are finding it difficult to find a like minded person, any advice? Thanks"

Go to a club. Smile at couples. Ask nicely if their fella and your fella would let the two ladies give first one man then the other man a fantastic blow job, two mouths, four hands! Lovely!

It's all about being polite, offering to take turns, eye-contact and mutual attraction between the two ladies.

We have done fmf a few times now and have absolutely loved it. So have the fellas!

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