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By *uvstolick68 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I wonder what people's are opinions of swingers etiquette. My close friend and swing partner has been going to clubs alone and not telling me. Then on one occasion a fun partner used her phone to text me to gloat. I was angry, upset and annoyed by this. But she just says I do what I want when I want.

Do people think that acceptable as to me it breeches rules and people get hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think she's being exceptionally rude and treating you like shit

There is never any need to treat people like that on here or the real world

I'd tell her to fuck off

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

She sounds like a twat...bin her and move on, unless you like being treated like a mug fella

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By *uvstolick68 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

You're not the only one to say that.

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By *uvstolick68 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Thank you for that, I think it's unacceptable too...she really does just say oh I can do what I want when I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for that, I think it's unacceptable too...she really does just say oh I can do what I want when I want."

If her behaviour upsets you then walk away with dignity and let her carry on without you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I wonder what people's are opinions of swingers etiquette. My close friend and swing partner has been going to clubs alone and not telling me. Then on one occasion a fun partner used her phone to text me to gloat. I was angry, upset and annoyed by this. But she just says I do what I want when I want.

Do people think that acceptable as to me it breeches rules and people get hurt."

It's nothing to do with swingers etiquette and everything to do with what you find acceptable and any rules you both have in place. People will continue to treat you badly for as long as you allow them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder what people's are opinions of swingers etiquette. My close friend and swing partner has been going to clubs alone and not telling me. Then on one occasion a fun partner used her phone to text me to gloat. I was angry, upset and annoyed by this. But she just says I do what I want when I want.

Do people think that acceptable as to me it breeches rules and people get hurt."

Depends what your arrangement with her is, the only thing I find unacceptable is her allowing her fun partner to text you. If you're both single she can do what she wants, as can you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with all things in life, don't put up with things that make you unhappy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder what people's are opinions of swingers etiquette. My close friend and swing partner has been going to clubs alone and not telling me. Then on one occasion a fun partner used her phone to text me to gloat. I was angry, upset and annoyed by this. But she just says I do what I want when I want.

Do people think that acceptable as to me it breeches rules and people get hurt.

Depends what your arrangement with her is, the only thing I find unacceptable is her allowing her fun partner to text you. If you're both single she can do what she wants, as can you"

Yes , this is how we see it too

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I wonder what people's are opinions of swingers etiquette. My close friend and swing partner has been going to clubs alone and not telling me. Then on one occasion a fun partner used her phone to text me to gloat. I was angry, upset and annoyed by this. But she just says I do what I want when I want.

Do people think that acceptable as to me it breeches rules and people get hurt.

Depends what your arrangement with her is, the only thing I find unacceptable is her allowing her fun partner to text you. If you're both single she can do what she wants, as can you

Yes , this is how we see it too "

Me 3

If you both are free to do as you like then what's the problem? Maybe you should discuss boundaries and if they are not acceptable by both then go your own ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder what people's are opinions of swingers etiquette. My close friend and swing partner has been going to clubs alone and not telling me. Then on one occasion a fun partner used her phone to text me to gloat. I was angry, upset and annoyed by this. But she just says I do what I want when I want.

Do people think that acceptable as to me it breeches rules and people get hurt.

Depends what your arrangement with her is, the only thing I find unacceptable is her allowing her fun partner to text you. If you're both single she can do what she wants, as can you

Yes , this is how we see it too "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder what people's are opinions of swingers etiquette. My close friend and swing partner has been going to clubs alone and not telling me. Then on one occasion a fun partner used her phone to text me to gloat. I was angry, upset and annoyed by this. But she just says I do what I want when I want.

Do people think that acceptable as to me it breeches rules and people get hurt."

Fair enough her meeting alone but give your number to another guy is weird.

Block and move on who needs that drama

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World


"I wonder what people's are opinions of swingers etiquette. My close friend and swing partner has been going to clubs alone and not telling me. Then on one occasion a fun partner used her phone to text me to gloat. I was angry, upset and annoyed by this. But she just says I do what I want when I want.

Do people think that acceptable as to me it breeches rules and people get hurt.

Depends what your arrangement with her is, the only thing I find unacceptable is her allowing her fun partner to text you. If you're both single she can do what she wants, as can you"

I think the text bit is out of order if you hadn't agreed to it.

It does depend on your relationship and what the arrangement was when you started. Did you both agree you could play alone, did you have to inform the other?

If it was never mentioned then in my opinion there is no reason why she can't meet alone, or you for that matter. But if you agreed to inform each other than she is in the wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder what people's are opinions of swingers etiquette. My close friend and swing partner has been going to clubs alone and not telling me. Then on one occasion a fun partner used her phone to text me to gloat. I was angry, upset and annoyed by this. But she just says I do what I want when I want.

Do people think that acceptable as to me it breeches rules and people get hurt.

It's nothing to do with swingers etiquette and everything to do with what you find acceptable and any rules you both have in place. People will continue to treat you badly for as long as you allow them. "

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"I wonder what people's are opinions of swingers etiquette. My close friend and swing partner has been going to clubs alone and not telling me. Then on one occasion a fun partner used her phone to text me to gloat. I was angry, upset and annoyed by this. But she just says I do what I want when I want.

Do people think that acceptable as to me it breeches rules and people get hurt."

That she chooses to go to clubs alone.... her choice.

That she allowed 'someone else access to her phone' unacceptable.

Had she given your number to someone else, bang out of order. However you're both single and if you benefitted from access to couples only nights or a discount couple entry.....

If you are not happy with the arrangement end it.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I wonder what people's are opinions of swingers etiquette. My close friend and swing partner has been going to clubs alone and not telling me. Then on one occasion a fun partner used her phone to text me to gloat. I was angry, upset and annoyed by this. But she just says I do what I want when I want.

Do people think that acceptable as to me it breeches rules and people get hurt."

I don't see anywhere on your profile that says you like cuckolding. Time to move on I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She can do what she wants when she wants. As can anyone.

Don't like it then tell her to do one or lay down some ground rules.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's rude and you should tell her so. If she does it again, you will know she has no respect. Do you want to shag a woman who has no respect for you or manners or a modicum of social skills? I'd tell her to fuck off as well and hang my manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not nice when people get hurt -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It appears to me as if she's just a fuck buddy. You have your own profile and I guess she does too.

I am surprised it upsets you. Perhaps you are better doing this solo.

I apologise if your relationship is closer than I have just described.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's plenty of people that will want to make you happy .

You may think that what you have now is th best you can get .

Next time she messages you tell her to fuck off and in about 1 hour later text her again and tell her she can fuck of there as well .

You will feel a lot better and then if your strong enough you will find someone that appreciates you and treats you the way you want to be treated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fb, who loves me to tell him when Ive been with other men. But I don't enjoy him telling my his conquests.

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