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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm into watching men want in front of me and the thought of them cumin on me that makes me feel sexy. But doing a meet with random strangers all lined up and cuming over (without touching) does that make me a slut or not? Or would you feel like one? Thoughts please .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for me lovely - but then I'm a huge penetration fan so anything that doesn't involve a shag is a no for me!!

Re the slut thing though - this is fab my love - and I would hope judgements are left at the door!

If you really feel that you'll love doing this - and the guys in question want it too - then who the hell are you hurting?

I have one philosophy in life and only one! Live your life as happily as possible, hurting others as little as possible along the way!!

Gosh we'd be so happy if everyone did the same!!!

Honey - you do it if you want to!!

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By *KMaxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Bee enjoys this. Does it make her a 'slut'? Well she enjoys being called that in the moment, but try it in everyday life and you may get a rather different reaction!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm into watching men want in front of me and the thought of them cumin on me that makes me feel sexy. But doing a meet with random strangers all lined up and cuming over (without touching) does that make me a slut or not? Or would you feel like one? Thoughts please ....."

I do this regularly , but then again I am selective with who I will suck . Those who don't appeal are welcome to wank and cum on me ... and I am proud to call myself a cum slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is being or acting the slut a bad thing? Personally I love this kind of woman

Just enjoy yourself and don't worry about what anyone else thinks or says.

It's you're life, live it the way you want! It's all good

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"I'm into watching men want in front of me and the thought of them cumin on me that makes me feel sexy. But doing a meet with random strangers all lined up and cuming over (without touching) does that make me a slut or not? Or would you feel like one? Thoughts please ....."
Yes you are a Slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never was one for believing in 'tagging' people with labels...

Each to their own as fas as im concerned.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"It's not for me lovely - but then I'm a huge penetration fan so anything that doesn't involve a shag is a no for me!!

Re the slut thing though - this is fab my love - and I would hope judgements are left at the door!

If you really feel that you'll love doing this - and the guys in question want it too - then who the hell are you hurting?

I have one philosophy in life and only one! Live your life as happily as possible, hurting others as little as possible along the way!!

Gosh we'd be so happy if everyone did the same!!!

Honey - you do it if you want to!! "

I think there is an assumption that slut is a negative term here. It is increasingly the case that Slut is used as a positive. This is good.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's called bukkake. It's a recognised fetish and would be easy enough to arrange at.a club either on spec or with the help of the club staff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your nice message x

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

What is it you are wondering about, what you like to do, or being called (by yourself) a slut for doing it?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm into watching men want in front of me and the thought of them cumin on me that makes me feel sexy. But doing a meet with random strangers all lined up and cuming over (without touching) does that make me a slut or not? Or would you feel like one? Thoughts please ....."

Not really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry for using the word slut. I love the name calling so I tend to just name myself that lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think people thinking I am one even if that is bad for doing it with different type of men and amount of men

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Sorry for using the word slut. I love the name calling so I tend to just name myself that lol. "

Us too (and lots of others here as well), there is nothing wrong with that at all.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Thank you for your nice message x"

The thing is that by some people's judgement any women who are on a swingers site are clearly sluts. And some of those people are also on here!

There is a difference between people who use the word slut as part of their sex play and those that mean it offensively and demeaningly.

Time to stop joining up with the one's who want to shame women for embracing and enjoying their sexuality and simply accept your preferences and find like minded non judgemental people to explore them with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well said. My partner calls me all sorts but that's in a good way. Never in a bad way

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Time to stop joining up with the one's who want to shame women for embracing and enjoying their sexuality and simply accept your preferences and find like minded non judgemental people to explore them with."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Time to stop joining up with the one's who want to shame women for embracing and enjoying their sexuality and simply accept your preferences and find like minded non judgemental people to explore them with.

"

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A subtle slut ??

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"Sorry for using the word slut. I love the name calling so I tend to just name myself that lol. "

I think most people reading the original post wouldn't think you were having a pop at them.

The great thing is, this world is big enough to cater for most tastes. A lot of fellas would love to help you out and, putting it bluntly, the ones who are respectful don't become any less so just because they've dumped their cum all over a playmate.

The ones who use slut in a demeaning way would still see you as one however you dressed and whatever you did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being bi i have had groups ranging from four to nine guys wank over me and i LOVE it, so i guess i could be called a male slut. I also think the word slut is a positive and sexy sounding name

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By *aster YorkshireproMan
over a year ago

various! moves around

If you wish to be a slut for a while then why not? It to me suggests a woman who enjoys her sexuality and you won't find many men complaining at that.

We all do things in our lives that others don't like or understand but their reaction shouldn't be why we do or don't do things.

B46784 diesel 6000 series 2 carriages.

Sorry about the line above but I needed to write that down as I've waited all morning on this bridge!

Get my point???

Master K

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"If you wish to be a slut for a while then why not? It to me suggests a woman who enjoys her sexuality and you won't find many men complaining at that.

We all do things in our lives that others don't like or understand but their reaction shouldn't be why we do or don't do things.

B46784 diesel 6000 series 2 carriages.

Sorry about the line above but I needed to write that down as I've waited all morning on this bridge!

Get my point???

Master K"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many different things that turn me on and I guess what your describing is ne ; ie your the centre of attraction there for people to look but not touch and enjoy the end result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill happilly stand for attention in line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all sluts in here. Lol

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Time to stop joining up with the one's who want to shame women for embracing and enjoying their sexuality and simply accept your preferences and find like minded non judgemental people to explore them with.

"

Not sure how many people really have a go at people here for being sexually promiscuous.

Outside the swingersphere, I think promiscuity is looked on with suspicion no matter what the gender of the promiscuous person. It is just quite common that there is always a perception that any criticism of women is worse/more prevalent than of men. It simply isn't true. It is just perception.

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By *un_jlMan
over a year ago

stevenage

il stand in line if ur going ahead with it x

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