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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok - I have a face picture, it's private but I've been willing to send it, sometimes before getting one from the person I'm chatting to.

Whether I'm ok looking or not really is up to how others see you I guess but when I send a pic on request and the other person clearly doesn't like what they see then would it be too much to say 'No thanks' or 'not my type - sorry' rather than just block you?

Makes me think twice about bothering sending them - then of course the chances of getting a meet reduce even more.

Rant over - for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's sometimes easier to block than say you're not their type because for some weird reason some people want to know why they're not your type

It's not as if they can change anything about themselves so why the need to know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why i won't reply to anyone without a face pic. Cba chatting to guys i don't fancy and it spares that embarrassment of not fancying them when you do see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter. I presume you are chatting because you want to fuck them? If it isn't going to happen you might as well move on and be happy that you're not having to waste time on something that's not going anywhere?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok - I have a face picture, it's private but I've been willing to send it, sometimes before getting one from the person I'm chatting to.

Whether I'm ok looking or not really is up to how others see you I guess but when I send a pic on request and the other person clearly doesn't like what they see then would it be too much to say 'No thanks' or 'not my type - sorry' rather than just block you?

Makes me think twice about bothering sending them - then of course the chances of getting a meet reduce even more.

Rant over - for now "

So what kind of manners is it to whack your cock out as your first visual impression to a person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners go a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I try and say thanks but no thanks, I get all sorts of abuse so now tend to block. It is a shame but you have to grow a thick skin here. Xx

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Ok - I have a face picture, it's private but I've been willing to send it, sometimes before getting one from the person I'm chatting to.

Whether I'm ok looking or not really is up to how others see you I guess but when I send a pic on request and the other person clearly doesn't like what they see then would it be too much to say 'No thanks' or 'not my type - sorry' rather than just block you?

Makes me think twice about bothering sending them - then of course the chances of getting a meet reduce even more.

Rant over - for now "

Isn't this known as cutting your nose to spite your face?

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By *uper GranWoman
over a year ago

Lichfield


"Ok - I have a face picture, it's private but I've been willing to send it, sometimes before getting one from the person I'm chatting to.

Whether I'm ok looking or not really is up to how others see you I guess but when I send a pic on request and the other person clearly doesn't like what they see then would it be too much to say 'No thanks' or 'not my type - sorry' rather than just block you?

Makes me think twice about bothering sending them - then of course the chances of getting a meet reduce even more.

Rant over - for now "

Its your choice don't send lock yourself away in the cellar smash the bulb and enjoy the pitch black surroundings and euphoric silence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, if you're going to block someone, you might as well say a polite no thanks before you do it but no point stressing about it, a block is a no thanks.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Manners wins first time treat others how you would expect to be treated

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Manners wins first time treat others how you would expect to be treated "

It is not so much about manners so much as the anticipation, based on experience, of an unwelcome or abusive reply to the lady's reply.

Manners then yield a poor result..

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

To be fair to the women, they might receive 100 messages a day with face/body pics etc, so replying to them all might take hours...... but I do understand what you're saying OP and agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the ideal reply is

"Sorry you're not for me, if you message again I'll block you but if you don't feel free to keep perving at my pics when you like"

Everyone's a winner lom

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I think it's fair enough for anyone to block someone they don't fancy, especially if the person they don't fancy sent an unsolicited message.

However I do think if you ask someone to do something, such as send you a picture, and they politely comply it's only good manners to say 'thank you'. What you say and do after that is totally up to you.

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"It's sometimes easier to block than say you're not their type because for some weird reason some people want to know why they're not your type

It's not as if they can change anything about themselves so why the need to know?"

This!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Ok - I have a face picture, it's private but I've been willing to send it, sometimes before getting one from the person I'm chatting to.

Whether I'm ok looking or not really is up to how others see you I guess but when I send a pic on request and the other person clearly doesn't like what they see then would it be too much to say 'No thanks' or 'not my type - sorry' rather than just block you?

Makes me think twice about bothering sending them - then of course the chances of getting a meet reduce even more.

Rant over - for now "

I assume some people find it easier to just block than say sorry your not my type, what would hurt your feelings more a block or the latter ...I personally would prefer the block...at least that gives you the opportunity to think "Weirdo's" .....lol

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