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Being honest, or being not so honest??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are in a little bit of a dilemma, and wondered if we could ask you guys for a bit of honest feedback??

You may want to have a look at the profile first, and if you do, you will see that we are honest, and I'm a decent bloke. The profile was set up when I was single, but I am now here with the full knowledge of my other half.

Maybe our problem is that fab isn't what we need, and if anyone has any ideas, they'll be welcomed, but we only seek one or two friends.

Our question is, are we right in being honest?

A lot of people will not entertain my situation, and I appreciate that, but we all know this site is full of less truthful people, that do have more joy, so is it time to tweak the profile, and be less honest, or will honesty pay?

All thoughts and feedback will be welcomed, and appreciated.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Too many words, in question and on profile.

Say what you want, not what you don;t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't half go round the houses mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is always the best policy chap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my day off today , but even so I couldn't be bothered to read it all .... And that sums it up really ....

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"We are in a little bit of a dilemma, and wondered if we could ask you guys for a bit of honest feedback??

You may want to have a look at the profile first, and if you do, you will see that we are honest, and I'm a decent bloke. The profile was set up when I was single, but I am now here with the full knowledge of my other half.

Maybe our problem is that fab isn't what we need, and if anyone has any ideas, they'll be welcomed, but we only seek one or two friends.

Our question is, are we right in being honest?

A lot of people will not entertain my situation, and I appreciate that, but we all know this site is full of less truthful people, that do have more joy, so is it time to tweak the profile, and be less honest, or will honesty pay?

All thoughts and feedback will be welcomed, and appreciated.

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You lost me at "We"

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"We are in a little bit of a dilemma, and wondered if we could ask you guys for a bit of honest feedback??

You may want to have a look at the profile first, and if you do, you will see that we are honest, and I'm a decent bloke. The profile was set up when I was single, but I am now here with the full knowledge of my other half.

Maybe our problem is that fab isn't what we need, and if anyone has any ideas, they'll be welcomed, but we only seek one or two friends.

Our question is, are we right in being honest?

A lot of people will not entertain my situation, and I appreciate that, but we all know this site is full of less truthful people, that do have more joy, so is it time to tweak the profile, and be less honest, or will honesty pay?

All thoughts and feedback will be welcomed, and appreciated.

"

Yes, you are right in being honest. But you should re-write the profile, it's too wordy and you go round in circles. Make a list first, then you won't repeat yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi - firstly I think your profile whilst comes across honest enough, is a tad long and full of "I want -I am" etc - before you criticise me, I would agree undoubtlably mine is longer than most, but think it get the balance near middle ground - Also might I add if your wife is full agreement and supports you, you need a meet verification which confirms that, the reason being that comment is pretty old hat here and sadly in lots of cases (not saying yours) is unbelievable

That's just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your messages and advice, a tweak is what is needed!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have. Pic of your Mrs holding up a banner saying "I don't mind" then people know you're not full of BS.... But you make it clear that you're not bothered if people don't like your situation.... Confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You switch between we and I far to much.

Just stick at the top of your profile "playing with permission wife can confirm this with fem to fem phonechat"

Done

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Always be upfront then people have a choice ,it will put some off but certainly not all.Good luck.

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