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How do i ask partner to try a strap on on me do women like doing it ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi wondering how to ask my partner to use a strap on on me ,is it something women generally like to do ??

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Open your mouth and move your lips

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By *lovesJCouple
over a year ago

Spalding

If you watch port together put on Dom female clip and see watch she thinks to that and drop comments about it "looks amazing" or "would you ever do that" etc

We love it and we both get such a buzz out of it. It really is something special and connects you both totally (literally lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up in Newcastle you would ask it like this:

"Haway man pet, how's about dee-ing me aaass with a strap-on like pet? It'd be proper lush like man pet."

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By *ason.Man
over a year ago

west yorkshire


"Up in Newcastle you would ask it like this:

"Haway man pet, how's about dee-ing me aaass with a strap-on like pet? It'd be proper lush like man pet.""

Ha ha

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By *ason.Man
over a year ago

west yorkshire

Go to a sex shop together have browse at the toys and just mention you would like to try a strap on and see what she says easy.

If she likes the idea game on get one purchased

Worked for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi wondering how to ask my partner to use a strap on on me ,is it something women generally like to do ??"

Do you already include anal play in your sex life? A finger, rimming or other toys? Strap on play is another step along the way of that kind of play and not such a leap for someone who perhaps doesn't feel massively confident about it or it hasn't crossed their mind previously...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi wondering how to ask my partner to use a strap on on me ,is it something women generally like to do ??"

Only you know the best way to approach her but you could bring it up while you were talking about fantasies or during foreplay and see what her reaction is.

Women don't generally like the same thing because all humans are individuals and even if the majority like something lots won't and there's no way of telling unless you ask. Good luck.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I'd start off by trying out some anal toys on yourself first to see if you like it (if you haven't already). Then slowly include them in your couple play, perhaps putting it up your bum yourself before sex/oral. Then see if she wants to try and put it in. Then go from there really

Slowly, slowly, peggy monkey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always try the tactic my ex used "I want you to fuck my arse" - he wasn't big on ambiguity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Only you know the best way to approach her "

I'd suggest the best way to approach her is pants down bottom first

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


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Only you know the best way to approach her

I'd suggest the best way to approach her is pants down bottom first"

followed swiftly by pants up head first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id always worry that if you split up with your partner, they'd tell everyone. I know my mates and colleagues would never let me live it down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I have no idea how we ended up getting into it. One day I simply got a picture message of her wearing the strap on and being told what was going to happen when I got through the door.

Who was I to argue?

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Sit down in Costa's with her and just ask her, 'will you do me up them bum with a strap on'

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