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Couples - how did you get into it?

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By *inkyKellyCD OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

Like the title says! A question for the couples here, how did you go from a "normal" couple to "I'd love to see you playing with other people"?

Must be an interesting conversation, heh! Just wondered as I'm sure you've had relationships in the past where you might've brought it up and they've not been into it.

It's still weird (not in a bad way, just amusingly unusual) for me seeing couples, and the guy's actively suggesting I go down on his girlfriend/wife, haha! What a strange bunch we are, eh.

So yus, tell me your stories! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had been married a long time, both have high sex drives and had worked through a list of places to have sex etc.

We were discussing fantasies and one of us brought up swinging.

One of our better decisions it turns out.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It was the progression from a fantasy. Took us a long time to actually make the steps to reality mind you

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Started with reading girly magazines in bed the stories and letters turned us both on. Our first time was on Holiday with a young German lad that was 35 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 years old, fucked in every place we could think of, only one way forward and that was to add other people! Never looked back! X

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We were both single swingers. Mr has been swinging and on the fetish scene on and off for thirty years and I had been meeting one to one for four years. On our first meet, we met on fabs, we talked about having done so much, where else was there to go. So we went deeper, together ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

known each other for 5 years after meeting up on here - 3 years ago decided to add some others - simple as really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just thought why not been married ages give it a go love it

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I'm hoping for stories like "it was a dark an stormy night and our car broke down, we saw lights in the distance and headed in that direction. When we got there is was a swingers club and we didn't want to be rude so we joined in"

Or

"My friend didn't know what to get us for Christmas so got us an introduction to swinging event day from Red Letter Days, you know the kind of gift you would never buy for yourself, we went along, kinda nervous and not knowing what to expect but the instructor was really friendly and knowledgeable, and had us fucking other people in the first 30 minutes!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pillow talk for us, we chatted about how hot it would be to be watched. Then we progressed to being watched on cam before we decided to take the plunge and met a couple. we then decided it would be fun to meet a single guy for a mmf. We love it now but its only a small part of our sex life we‘re still very much into each other and never stop f***ing lol x katie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met on here so was natural for us to involve others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems we are like a few other couples on here.

Talked about it for ages at least a couple of years as a fantasy then took the plunge and found out that reality is much better than fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had been together 9 years, got chatting about unfulfilled fantasies, watched some porn, read some erotic stories and talked some more.After spicing up our sex life with erotic pillow talk and toys/role play.

We saw a programme about swinging lifestyles and we were curious. Ian was keen to give it a go, I wasn't. We looked at fabs and other websites and looked at swingers club websites and kept talking about it. Then one day I thought - why not give it a try? So we went to a social evening at a club. Although I had been very unsure at the beginning within two club visits it was me that was very enthusiastic and my hubby that was more cautious! How ironic!

Now we have been swinging for nearly a year and we both find it stimulating, sexy and very pleasurable. It has broughtmany added elements to our relationship. We have learnt alot about each other's and our own sexual natures.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first wife and I had been on swinging scene for long time and we came about after meeting a couple at naturist weekend we went on as a trial - and although she stopped swinging well before we separated/divorced, we enjoyed it immensely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had spoken about other people joining us in the bedroom.

One of the girls at my work place many years ago was interested in me, we had a play around at work one night, i then invited her over for drinks at our house we had a few sessions in the bedroom over the next couple of months mr would either watch or join in depending on how we were all feeling

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