FabSwingers.com forum: comments on photos

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering if others wish they could comment on other people's photos rather than just fab them....

I fab photos but it doesnt always mean that I want to meet that person or bother them with messages...but to comment and leave fefeedback on photos, might be enjoyed by the poster too.

any thoughts on this ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice idea! Like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can always message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can always message them. "

If you're blocked, they wouldn't have wanted the feedback anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were thinking the same thing the other day. Woukd be far better than collecting counts (fabs).

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By *anfiona2Couple
over a year ago

ramsgate

That's a great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were thinking the same thing the other day. Woukd be far better than collecting counts (fabs). "

Same here. I'd comment on your first pic - shot of your gorgeous bum - Teasing and suggestive without being too graphic. Leaves something to my vivid imagination!

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By *otty69Couple
over a year ago

bedford

Would certainly be intresting but can see the problems of people leaving abusive messages and being negative.. so dont think its a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will Fab pics I like but that doesn't mean I want to meet that person but I'll often then get messages from guys whose pics I've fabbed which can get awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love that option but fear that trolls would use it as a tool to upset peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice idea in principal until rejection butt hurt arises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would want it to have an option to allow comments so I can turn it off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like a nice complement on our photo's every now and then. We also appreciate the Fabs we get.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

When you consider how offended people on Fab are simply by others blocking them or deleting their messages, the idea that people should be given the chance to comment on others' photos seems like a disaster waiting to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh no.

People would be horrible!

The messages I get are bad enough. I wouldn't want all the nasty fat tranny comments on my pics for everyone to see!

(Ref. Above: I am actually a WOMAN.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would want it to have an option to allow comments so I can turn it off. "

They had a similar photo photo appreciation 'thing' on another site. seemed to work very well... instigated contact if wanted, but shut people down if needed... nothing complicated or negative about a system like this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would want it to have an option to allow comments so I can turn it off.

That sounds reasonable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohh no.

People would be horrible!

The messages I get are bad enough. I wouldn't want all the nasty fat tranny comments on my pics for everyone to see!

(Ref. Above: I am actually a WOMAN.)"

Really ? You get messages that bad ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohh no.

People would be horrible!

The messages I get are bad enough. I wouldn't want all the nasty fat tranny comments on my pics for everyone to see!

(Ref. Above: I am actually a WOMAN.)"

I wouldn't want tons of Stunning! Wow,so gorgeous etc like on another site I was on. I only had face pics up on there,God knows what they would have said if I had my boobs out

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Its been suggested before but nothing came of it. Open to abuse I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care what people think of my pics. I don't put them up to please others. It sounds a bit facebook-like imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohh no.

People would be horrible!

The messages I get are bad enough. I wouldn't want all the nasty fat tranny comments on my pics for everyone to see!

(Ref. Above: I am actually a WOMAN.)"

Guessing from people you've turned down?

Don't know see people can and do message if they like a pic but then again might help keeping inbox down if people were commenting on pics with things like "Nice pussy fancy a fuck?"

Probably unnecessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, pro's and Con's. Not really fussed either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohh no.

People would be horrible!

The messages I get are bad enough. I wouldn't want all the nasty fat tranny comments on my pics for everyone to see!

(Ref. Above: I am actually a WOMAN.)

Really ? You get messages that bad ?

You wouldn't BELIEVE the messages I get.

I'm thinking of compiling them and making a stocking filler book for toilet reading.

Xxxx

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By *ittle miss me.Woman
over a year ago

hampshire

I think its a great idea x

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By *ittle miss me.Woman
over a year ago

hampshire

What if you had the option to remove comments? Or pre_iew them before they went on your pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too open to abuse I think. Either plain old rude or unwantedly sexually explicit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why is it whenever you fab a pic you know within next mins you re gonna get a message ' you want to meet ?' lol. I like to fab pics to show appreciation for sharing a nice pic but doesn't mean I want to meet !

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"why is it whenever you fab a pic you know within next mins you re gonna get a message ' you want to meet ?' lol. I like to fab pics to show appreciation for sharing a nice pic but doesn't mean I want to meet !"

I fab loads but never get asked to meet - just fab'd yours... I'm waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had this. I've had a couple of guys in the past have thanked me. That's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will Fab pics I like but that doesn't mean I want to meet that person but I'll often then get messages from guys whose pics I've fabbed which can get awkward

Me too, so I'm fabbing loads more since I've blocked messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will Fab pics I like but that doesn't mean I want to meet that person but I'll often then get messages from guys whose pics I've fabbed which can get awkward

What a lady that fabs a guys pictures. Thats a 1st lol

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

If it was something you could sign up for and not given as standard, then those people would understand that they're open for both good and bad feedback, that might work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were thinking the same thing the other day. Woukd be far better than collecting counts (fabs). "
think its a good idea ,and here is a start it I think your photos are very sensual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd hate that

Too many horrible people that would add spiteful comments

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

in an adult world, it would work.

sadly, this isn't one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will Fab pics I like but that doesn't mean I want to meet that person but I'll often then get messages from guys whose pics I've fabbed which can get awkward

That's when u just say I liked your pic if I liked u I'd wink/message lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will Fab pics I like but that doesn't mean I want to meet that person but I'll often then get messages from guys whose pics I've fabbed which can get awkward

What a lady that fabs a guys pictures. Thats a 1st lol"

Yes, I often fab men's pics on here and on couples profiles especially I'll fab pics of the man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it was something you could sign up for and not given as standard, then those people would understand that they're open for both good and bad feedback, that might work"

In all honesty I've never understood why people seek approval from strangers re photos.

Heck, I don't even seek it from family/friends

hence our 'fabbing' facility disabled.

Trolls would love such a feature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohh no.

People would be horrible!

The messages I get are bad enough. I wouldn't want all the nasty fat tranny comments on my pics for everyone to see!

(Ref. Above: I am actually a WOMAN.)"

how weird ,why the hell they callin you fat,,eh and a tranny?

very odd,,,ignore the fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd just get a load of "stunning" "wow" comments on the 'hot' women's photos and probably cunty snidey ones on the men's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You'd just get a load of "stunning" "wow" comments on the 'hot' women's photos and probably cunty snidey ones on the men's. "

And the not so hot women...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You'd just get a load of "stunning" "wow" comments on the 'hot' women's photos and probably cunty snidey ones on the men's. "

why just the women,, you'd be surprised how many "stunning" n "wow" comments us t'girls get.

and why put lol cunty n snisey comments on mens,,,poor guys get enough crap on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You'd just get a load of "stunning" "wow" comments on the 'hot' women's photos and probably cunty snidey ones on the men's.

why just the women,, you'd be surprised how many "stunning" n "wow" comments us t'girls get.

and why put lol cunty n snisey comments on mens,,,poor guys get enough crap on here"

Yes very true. And I agree men get a load of crap on here, that's why I think it's got the potential for nasty comments.

Basically people are knobheads and can't be trusted with the ability to comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You'd just get a load of "stunning" "wow" comments on the 'hot' women's photos and probably cunty snidey ones on the men's.

why just the women,, you'd be surprised how many "stunning" n "wow" comments us t'girls get.

and why put lol cunty n snisey comments on mens,,,poor guys get enough crap on here

Yes very true. And I agree men get a load of crap on here, that's why I think it's got the potential for nasty comments.

Basically people are knobheads and can't be trusted with the ability to comment

pathetic innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohh no.

People would be horrible!

The messages I get are bad enough. I wouldn't want all the nasty fat tranny comments on my pics for everyone to see!

(Ref. Above: I am actually a WOMAN.)"

People obviously need to go to spec savers if they say that to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This word cunty that you're all banding around.....is such a brilliant word,love it

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

"This word cunty that you're all banding around.....is such a brilliant word,love it

Don't forget munt, man cunt!

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

"If it was something you could sign up for and not given as standard, then those people would understand that they're open for both good and bad feedback, that might work

In all honesty I've never understood why people seek approval from strangers re photos.

Heck, I don't even seek it from family/friends

hence our 'fabbing' facility disabled.

Trolls would love such a feature.

I get ya but personally I'd sign up for it, not to get validation but because I'd be coming at things in the Erotic Photography frame of mind.

I've put thought and effort into my pics and I'd like to hear others _iews and opinions, I've got 1000's of (normal) photos on my hard drive that no one sees or can comment on, it kind of begs the question, why bother taking the pics if no one discusses them?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"If it was something you could sign up for and not given as standard, then those people would understand that they're open for both good and bad feedback, that might work

In all honesty I've never understood why people seek approval from strangers re photos.

Heck, I don't even seek it from family/friends

hence our 'fabbing' facility disabled.

Trolls would love such a feature.

I get ya but personally I'd sign up for it, not to get validation but because I'd be coming at things in the Erotic Photography frame of mind.

Stick them on Flickr if you want them seen and commented...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it works well on the Flickr Photosharing website, would work well here.

You rarely if ever get adverse comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it was something you could sign up for and not given as standard, then those people would understand that they're open for both good and bad feedback, that might work

In all honesty I've never understood why people seek approval from strangers re photos.

Heck, I don't even seek it from family/friends

hence our 'fabbing' facility disabled.

Trolls would love such a feature.

I get ya but personally I'd sign up for it, not to get validation but because I'd be coming at things in the Erotic Photography frame of mind.

Maybe some don't display pics for an artistic _iewpoint....they might want to use them to show people what they look like....you know, in case someone fancies having naughties with them?....just a thought.

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

"You can always message them. "

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like the idea

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

"If it was something you could sign up for and not given as standard, then those people would understand that they're open for both good and bad feedback, that might work

In all honesty I've never understood why people seek approval from strangers re photos.

Heck, I don't even seek it from family/friends

hence our 'fabbing' facility disabled.

Trolls would love such a feature.

I get ya but personally I'd sign up for it, not to get validation but because I'd be coming at things in the Erotic Photography frame of mind.

Yeah maybe, then again maybe others want to, also just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it was something you could sign up for and not given as standard, then those people would understand that they're open for both good and bad feedback, that might work

In all honesty I've never understood why people seek approval from strangers re photos.

Heck, I don't even seek it from family/friends

hence our 'fabbing' facility disabled.

Trolls would love such a feature.

I get ya but personally I'd sign up for it, not to get validation but because I'd be coming at things in the Erotic Photography frame of mind.

Yeah maybe, then again maybe others want to, also just a thought."

But your question was why bother taking pics if you didn't want people to comment. I was just answering that for you.

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

"If it was something you could sign up for and not given as standard, then those people would understand that they're open for both good and bad feedback, that might work

In all honesty I've never understood why people seek approval from strangers re photos.

Heck, I don't even seek it from family/friends

hence our 'fabbing' facility disabled.

Trolls would love such a feature.

I get ya but personally I'd sign up for it, not to get validation but because I'd be coming at things in the Erotic Photography frame of mind.

Yeah maybe, then again maybe others want to, also just a thought.

But your question was why bother taking pics if you didn't want people to comment. I was just answering that for you."

I get ya, I do, but I'm coming from a photographers point of _iew so pics are meant to be seen, provoke thoughts and discussions, ask questions of the _iewer and should speak to you on some level (yeah it's a bit hippy!)

But yes I understand this is fab, it's about meets, but I truly believe there's room for other stuff too if given a chance

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I understand that you want the artistry of your pics appreciating, but in common with others above, I don't think that would be the reality.

Pictures of women would have 3000 "omg, hottest pic on fab" comments.

Pictures of men would have "timewasting twat" added occasionally.

I don't think enabling that would really add much value.

If your pics are of a quality that deserves commentary, you'll get complimentary messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it was something you could sign up for and not given as standard, then those people would understand that they're open for both good and bad feedback, that might work

In all honesty I've never understood why people seek approval from strangers re photos.

Heck, I don't even seek it from family/friends

hence our 'fabbing' facility disabled.

Trolls would love such a feature.

I get ya but personally I'd sign up for it, not to get validation but because I'd be coming at things in the Erotic Photography frame of mind.

Yeah maybe, then again maybe others want to, also just a thought.

But your question was why bother taking pics if you didn't want people to comment. I was just answering that for you.

But yes I understand this is fab, it's about meets, but I truly believe there's room for other stuff too if given a chance"

Yes i understand that. There is. Just don't be surprised that your use of pics isn't going to be what the majority use their pics for hence why i thought it a strange question to ask on a site such as this. That's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it was something you could sign up for and not given as standard, then those people would understand that they're open for both good and bad feedback, that might work

In all honesty I've never understood why people seek approval from strangers re photos.

Heck, I don't even seek it from family/friends

hence our 'fabbing' facility disabled.

Trolls would love such a feature.

I get ya but personally I'd sign up for it, not to get validation but because I'd be coming at things in the Erotic Photography frame of mind.

I know where you're coming from with this. I like to take and upload photos on here and if it's with people who I might potentially want to have sex with (as opposed to randoms all around the world on Flickr or something) then even better. I'm still it convinced a comments function would work that well though, anyone with a thought out or useful comment will probably get drowned out in a sea of dross.

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

In fairness, you all do make valid points, it probably wouldn't work which is a shame cause I've have great conversions in message about pics, stupid trolls always wrecking everything

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