FabSwingers.com forum: mens obsession with anal!!??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so long time reader of the forums, only started posting after rejoining.

Alot of threads have been about anal the last few days, so my question to the men, WHAT IS THE OBSESSION??

Now I am a fan of anal..but when I man asks do I like it in the ass I reply, do u??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so long time reader of the forums, only started posting after rejoining.

Alot of threads have been about anal the last few days, so my question to the men, WHAT IS THE OBSESSION??

Now I am a fan of anal..but when I man asks do I like it in the ass I reply, do u??

It's about variety and another hole we can use.... If we could stick it in your ear we probably would!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol you noticed too hun

Personally I am not a fan of bum fun coz it can be bloody painful n not in a nice way if done wrong

I get the whole ohhhh it's tighter thing and the it's a different orgasm thing it's just the it's ouchy and in essence a sewage outlet pipe that grims me out

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

LOL I'm glad you return the question.

What do they reply when you ask if they take it up the ass?

Why do you think TV/S do so well on this site? he he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, I think it makes men feel more in control!

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By *eally Filthy CoupleCouple
over a year ago

bristol

"Ok so long time reader of the forums, only started posting after rejoining.

Alot of threads have been about anal the last few days, so my question to the men, WHAT IS THE OBSESSION??

Now I am a fan of anal..but when I man asks do I like it in the ass I reply, do u??

Done properly it provides different sensations and enjoyment for both man and women. It's adds variety and a bit of filthy nastiness into our repitoir which is exciting . Don't want to do it ? Then don't do it . Sex is for pleasure not unhappiness !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly, I think it makes men feel more in control!

Pretty much this but for me it's even greater when the female is really into it and orgasms from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've dated a girl who could only cum from anal so it's not just us guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lol you noticed too hun

Personally I am not a fan of bum fun coz it can be bloody painful n not in a nice way if done wrong

I get the whole ohhhh it's tighter thing and the it's a different orgasm thing it's just the it's ouchy and in essence a sewage outlet pipe that grims me out

now I wouldn't let an anaconda up there

And yes I get every hole is a goal..

But its one of the 1st questions I get asked..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"LOL I'm glad you return the question.

What do they reply when you ask if they take it up the ass?

Why do you think TV/S do so well on this site? he he"

Straight out no haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fb Ruby has orgasm through anal, I think it depends how it's done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My fb Ruby has orgasm through anal, I think it depends how it's done. "

Oh I'm one of those women who find it hard to orgasm ..but id definitely love to experience an anal one..

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We given it a try a few time,s i wanted to try it more than Paul to be honest every time it did not do a lot for me i just felt very full down there and in need of a good poo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is more psychological than physical, Anus in the past was like a forbidden place that no entry allow but we all want to try something that is not permitted........that extra kinky and taboo feeling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We given it a try a few time,s i wanted to try it more than Paul to be honest every time it did not do a lot for me i just felt very full down there and in need of a good poo"

Think that's every woman's worst nightmare and 1st thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is more psychological than physical, Anus in the past was like a forbidden place that no entry allow but we all want to try something that is not permitted........that extra kinky and taboo feeling "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women and for that matter men that I have had anal sex with (I'm bisexual), all say they seem to climax easier

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Like you say Hotspice it,s more a man thing think for us girls its something you try when your at your hornest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to think that it all began as a way of girls keeping their virginity intact before marriage! Not sure about the guys though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can take it or leave it here, Anal is fun but i wont be dissapointed if i never have it again...

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By *atcher80Man
over a year ago

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surprisingly ive never actually done it....but do like finger/thumb/tongueing a cute little bum.... but it doesnt all have to be about full penetration. Perhaps its the taboo, or perhaps the knwoledge that the lady you are with, is allowing you into her most intimate spot, hence you are hugely valued.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

If you don't like anal would you tell somone: "I can't be arsed?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so long time reader of the forums, only started posting after rejoining.

Alot of threads have been about anal the last few days, so my question to the men, WHAT IS THE OBSESSION??

Now I am a fan of anal..but when I man asks do I like it in the ass I reply, do u??

NOT a fan myself

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Lol you noticed too hun

Personally I am not a fan of bum fun coz it can be bloody painful n not in a nice way if done wrong

I get the whole ohhhh it's tighter thing and the it's a different orgasm thing it's just the it's ouchy and in essence a sewage outlet pipe that grims me out

Sewage outlet pipe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To which i would answer yes i do like to recieve anal.

For me though it is about the whole different sensation when giving anal x

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By *lascumMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Ok so long time reader of the forums, only started posting after rejoining.

Alot of threads have been about anal the last few days, so my question to the men, WHAT IS THE OBSESSION??

Now I am a fan of anal..but when I man asks do I like it in the ass I reply, do u??

Yep love it but love giving it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've certainly noticed a strong predominance of anal in online porn, these days.

Can't see the attraction, myself. Gimme a good, old-fashioned fanny-fuck, any day of the week. Warm, wet, slippery and delicious. Why bother with the alternative? - tight, dry, smelly...

I'd happily lick my fingers after being inside a wet pussy - not after being up an arsehole though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've certainly noticed a strong predominance of anal in online porn, these days.

Can't see the attraction, myself. Gimme a good, old-fashioned fanny-fuck, any day of the week. Warm, wet, slippery and delicious. Why bother with the alternative? - tight, dry, smelly...

I'd happily lick my fingers after being inside a wet pussy - not after being up an arsehole though."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so long time reader of the forums, only started posting after rejoining.

Alot of threads have been about anal the last few days, so my question to the men, WHAT IS THE OBSESSION??

Now I am a fan of anal..but when I man asks do I like it in the ass I reply, do u??

It's about variety and another hole we can use.... If we could stick it in your ear we probably would!

True that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pretty awesome so that's probably why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy anal immensely, both giving and receiving (real cock, toys etc), plus I live to rim a gorgeous female derrière. Anal can be immensely pleasurable, but like all activities, care and respect are paramount. If one is a respectful and considerate partner, then the female recipient can have a wonderful experience, go at it like a bull in a china shop and that's a whole different thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy anal immensely, both giving and receiving (real cock, toys etc), plus I live to rim a gorgeous female derrière. Anal can be immensely pleasurable, but like all activities, care and respect are paramount. If one is a respectful and considerate partner, then the female recipient can have a wonderful experience, go at it like a bull in a china shop and that's a whole different thing!"

Well said all about the build up. We both enjoy that as much as the act of fucking/pegging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been into anal and I like the tightness of it, it is like a virgin pussey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it up the arse, Mrs loves it up the arse...

A couple that butt-fuck together stays together, that's what i say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it up the arse, Mrs loves it up the arse...

A couple that butt-fuck together stays together, that's what i say! "

hell yeah.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Tightness and taboo aspect. It feels a little bit naughtier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well said all about the build up. We both enjoy that as much as the act of fucking/pegging. "

Ok excuse my ignorance but what is pegging ??

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

not a fan

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

Quite enjoy it myself. ..... if done correctly

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By *rvoyuerMan
over a year ago

Luton

I think its the taboo element of it that heightens excitement.

Definitely more mainstream these days.

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By *rvoyuerMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Quite enjoy it myself. ..... if done correctly

And what a spectacular bottom to do it with, if I may say so??

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By *oyeurs DelightCouple
over a year ago

london

Well said all about the build up. We both enjoy that as much as the act of fucking/pegging.

Ok excuse my ignorance but what is pegging ??

I had to google it a few weeks back after reading it on a profile. Its anal penetrative play - dildos strap ons etc -for both male and female to enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm in the mood I LOVE it - hard!!!!

It has to be initiated by me though or I'm not relaxed enough and it hurts!!

Poppers helps too! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said all about the build up. We both enjoy that as much as the act of fucking/pegging. "

Couldn't agree more

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

Can be fun if done right, AND I'm prepared to let the girl play with my ass too!

But I agree it is something you should only consider if your relaxed and horny!

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Spot on imho. Feels naughtier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuinely...no offence aimed...BUT...If a man puts his cock up a womans anus...then i'm sorry but it's more of a homosexual act than straight.

And why men want to do it is quite beyond me...99% of the time is because the little boy in them think its 'naughty'..

Its a place that shite and bad smells comes out of!!!...

Not for me ta

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

"Genuinely...no offence aimed...BUT...If a man puts his cock up a womans anus...then i'm sorry but it's more of a homosexual act than straight.

And why men want to do it is quite beyond me...99% of the time is because the little boy in them think its 'naughty'..

Its a place that shite and bad smells comes out of!!!...

Not for me ta"

What an utterly ridiculous statement. Firstly, Not all Gay men practice anal. Most however I'm led to believe enjoy oral sex. Guessing you like your cock sucked, Does that make you gay?

It is just a sexual act like any other. Some enjoy it and some don't.

"Its a place that shite and bad smells comes out of!!!..."

That could describe a great many mouths too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so long time reader of the forums, only started posting after rejoining.

Alot of threads have been about anal the last few days, so my question to the men, WHAT IS THE OBSESSION??

Now I am a fan of anal..but when I man asks do I like it in the ass I reply, do u??

Yes to both lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Genuinely...no offence aimed...BUT...If a man puts his cock up a womans anus...then i'm sorry but it's more of a homosexual act than straight.

And why men want to do it is quite beyond me...99% of the time is because the little boy in them think its 'naughty'..

Its a place that shite and bad smells comes out of!!!...

Not for me ta

What an utterly ridiculous statement. Firstly, Not all Gay men practice anal. Most however I'm led to believe enjoy oral sex. Guessing you like your cock sucked, Does that make you gay?

It is just a sexual act like any other. Some enjoy it and some don't.

Its a place that shite and bad smells comes out of!!!...

That could describe a great many mouths too!

Each to their own...sticking it up someone's shitter is not my idea of hot sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooh im buggered if I know

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Nothing compare. As for me Anal is sweet compared to fanny.The tenderness and friction is pure heaven .A female need to earn your trust before she can loose herself to you anally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal is only amazing if the women loves it. If she is apprehensive or uncomfortable then it just isn't the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the attraction was and is taboo.

Admittedly to begin with I didn't see the appeal and I can understand people's reservations regarding hygiene and pain but as long as there is trust, respect, and a good amount of lube it's great naughty fun.

You can't go in there like an express train, takes preparation.

I say this having given and received.

I also bloody love rimming a lady's bottom and she's into it and anal it is extremely sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really what an ass of a post.

Most guys just want to penetrate your glory hole. Give us a break.

Watching programme few years back. He was gay and had anal sex. He died shortly after. The other guy fucking his hole passed on cancer. I was shocked... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really what an ass of a post.

Most guys just want to penetrate your glory hole. Give us a break.

Watching programme few years back. He was gay and had anal sex. He died shortly after. The other guy fucking his hole passed on cancer. I was shocked... X"

Speechless

I'm not sure whether this is a troll or a lack of understanding but you do realise cancer is not a contagious disease or an STD?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dare you be rude and judge me. Not a troll. Programme is true. Go google HPV.. Wake up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes he got by anal sex.. Suggest you google HPV and had ill mannered people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm aware of HPV but as far as I knew the only cancer it could cause was cervical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh but am a troll according to your ugly mouth. Go and find out I am true not a troll. Haha..

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ok can you just have the debate without the name calling please. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no interest in bumsex at all. Just the thought of pushing my cock up someones arse makes me heave.

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By *icolehertsCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Honestly, I think it makes men feel more in control!

I had never thought about that angle before !

I think u may be on to something !

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By *icolehertsCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I have no interest in bumsex at all. Just the thought of pushing my cock up someones arse makes me heave."

Ye Right

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By *rish BeastMan
over a year ago

Ellesmere port

Variety, control (as mentioned above) and it is a nice feeling when giving!

Not everyones cup of tea but with some lasses the thought of it puts them off so much they would never enjoy. Each to their own of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most the guys ive know aint obsessed its just I don't have a fanny,,so,,,,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trouble is if your man has as big a girth as mine has, you just don't go there because he can't get there lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trouble is if your man has as big a girth as mine has, you just don't go there because he can't get there lol x

that's not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gay sex without the guilt

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Ok so long time reader of the forums, only started posting after rejoining.

Alot of threads have been about anal the last few days, so my question to the men, WHAT IS THE OBSESSION??

Now I am a fan of anal..but when I man asks do I like it in the ass I reply, do u??

Try asking them if THEY like it up the ass!

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By *izzyRascalWoman
over a year ago

North Hants

I personally enjoy anal but it shocks me how many guys think they can just slam it in without any lube or warming up! Dipping your cock in a juicy pussy first does not in my experience count as lube. It all disappears too quickly lol. Need real lube and to build up to a full cock with fingers first, then just the head. If you do it properly it can be amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I'm in the mood I LOVE it - hard!!!!

It has to be initiated by me though or I'm not relaxed enough and it hurts!!

Poppers helps too! X"

What are poppers?

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

It's because..

The taboo element still exists, this thread is evidence of that. And, because it's unlikely that the girl will have had anal sex with everyone they've been to bed with. Again this thread is the evidence, there are men that aren't keen.

But.. It is probably the act most requiring of trust and therefore the greatest intimacy. Personally the second when a girl realises that she is going to come from anal penetration and tells me is one of the horniesr things you can hear..

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I only tend to do it in a dp situation - I don't tend to to anal normally tho if the women asked I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just so kinky! Love it!

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

Because I have a small willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I'm in the mood I LOVE it - hard!!!!

It has to be initiated by me though or I'm not relaxed enough and it hurts!!

Poppers helps too! X

What are poppers?"

Used to be amyl nitrate but now contain other substances. They help relax you for anal. They can make you giggly too! Used to be known as a gay drug for obvious reasons.

Available in many clubs but understandably frowned on by some though they're legal. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never tried it..

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