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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just received a couple of emails from a guy wanting to know if he can send me his wife's email addy and phone number and wanting me to convince her to take a BBC lover as he has a small cock!

The profile has been on the site for over a year with a veri from meeting, which he labelled it a 'disaster' because nothing happened.

Why can't some guys just accept that this lifestyle is not for everyone and if your wife, gf, etc doesn't want this, they don't have to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree hun you should only ever swing if your sure and it's bloody awful when you are faced with the aftermath of a pushy partner. I had had the unfortunate and quite frankly heartbreaking task of comforting ladies pressured or pushed into situations they didn't want and it just makes me think we'll you selfish bastard I hope your proud of yourself for demoralising your lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His poor wife !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel sorry for his wife!!

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By *44bertCouple
over a year ago

Inverness


"I feel sorry for his wife!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the world of a single male. I've had numerous messages from husbands asking me to convince their wives to try black guys.

I always tell them ... It's your wife and she loves you. I'm a stranger, If she tells you no. Then she won't tell me yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was me Cin that got Ginger into swinging, cuckolding and also interracial sex but it wasn't done by being pushy (or at least hope not!) but by letting her develop at her pace and when she was ready we took each new step. Now she enjoys all three because she's in control and because it was turning her on knowing me watching was turning me on so much. We'd have never got where we are by me being pushy and if I hadn't gained her trust.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Poor wife exactly not much of a husband is he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been on here a while and I've always been the one ready to arrange meets with others but I know my wife isn't as comfortable just yet, or least she wasn't until recently. I've not pushed it as I'd be gutted if she put herself in a position she didn't want to be in just to appease my fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was me Cin that got Ginger into swinging, cuckolding and also interracial sex but it wasn't done by being pushy (or at least hope not!) but by letting her develop at her pace and when she was ready we took each new step. Now she enjoys all three because she's in control and because it was turning her on knowing me watching was turning me on so much. We'd have never got where we are by me being pushy and if I hadn't gained her trust.

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Funny cos it was my hubby who suggested it to me but then he left it at that. Never pushed, only chatted until it was me who started wanting to try it. And even then it was all at my pace and I think we were both surprised by how much I enjoyed it.

But never a push, not even a prod!

That's why we both enjoy it!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Honestly, I can't get my head around a man taking ages to persuade his wife to do something like that. How do you honestly know she it is not tearing her up inside. I think the comment from the poster who works in the club is more spot on. I left the man who tried to persuade me to do it .... then I came to it on my own. No way do I do anything to please anyone else in that way and Mr law would not have it any other way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your in it as a couple both have got to want to do it one or other doesn't then time to quit and not be pushy

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I've had guys ask me to take their wives out for an evening and try to persuade them to do something. How weird.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if same person but similar message arrived asking us to convince his wife about cuckolding him and trying black cock. After a read of the profile seems as if she's not ready to try cuckolding or swinging for that matter.

Please tell us it's not just male halves but females too who push their partners into doing something they are either not ready or don't want to do? Thought the first thing to do would be to respect your partner and if that means you don't get to live out your fantasies whatever they may be then tough titty. A lifetime with the person you love (if you actually do?) surely is worth more then fantasy fulfilled and a lifetime of resentment???

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