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life begins at 40....but not on fab?

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By *reasyontheeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

out in the sticks

Browsing the profiles as usual and it seems always the same limits on age...I'm not moaning as I've met (and continue to meet) some fabulous people on here.

So come on sexy people don't forget us not quite over the hill billys!

Happy days!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't notice that the age limits are always the same when browsing because unless I'm looking due to a forum post I choose only to look at those that include my age which is a lot older than you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Oh and by the way your age preference excludes me.......I'm not moaning either but i do accept that almost everybody will have an upper age limit.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Life began well into my fifties when I joined Fab, and haven't found it to be a barrier or burden ever since.

No moaning from me here either...!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

But life ends at 56 according to your age preferences...

Everyone has the right to choose what works for them.

Happy fabbing!

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By *reasyontheeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

out in the sticks


"I don't notice that the age limits are always the same when browsing because unless I'm looking due to a forum post I choose only to look at those that include my age which is a lot older than you "

If i do a local search it brings up a list(i don't include those that block single guys) so i look through the listand click on someone, but it they have a limit it is can be 40, not 41 or 43 a nice round 40.

Like you said everyone has their age limit, but for me its a guide not a given.

Maybe i should do as some do and lie about my age?

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By *reasyontheeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

out in the sticks


"But life ends at 56 according to your age preferences...

Everyone has the right to choose what works for them.

Happy fabbing!"

Should i round it to 55?

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

OP like the paddle pic..but you don't list spanking on your profile, so i take its a prop. ??..connie x

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"But life ends at 56 according to your age preferences...

Everyone has the right to choose what works for them.

Happy fabbing!

Should i round it to 55? "

You should do whatever suits you, and allow others the freedom to do the same - and if that means they select by age/height/hair colour/penis size/bra size/dress size whatever... then respect their choices.

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By *ockman3858Man
over a year ago

didcot

i have my age limit at 70

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

life starts at 33 in my limits. Although I'm thinking of upping that! I like me gilfs..... my 3 fuck buddies are above most fems limits. Not that I complain. More for me!!!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't notice that the age limits are always the same when browsing because unless I'm looking due to a forum post I choose only to look at those that include my age which is a lot older than you

If i do a local search it brings up a list(i don't include those that block single guys) so i look through the listand click on someone, but it they have a limit it is can be 40, not 41 or 43 a nice round 40.

Like you said everyone has their age limit, but for me its a guide not a given.

Maybe i should do as some do and lie about my age? "

When we do a search we tick the box that say "I match their age requirements" no looking at champagne with only brown ale money .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree that life begins at 40...

... which is why I prefer not to meet anyone younger than that...!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I don't notice that the age limits are always the same when browsing because unless I'm looking due to a forum post I choose only to look at those that include my age which is a lot older than you

If i do a local search it brings up a list(i don't include those that block single guys) so i look through the listand click on someone, but it they have a limit it is can be 40, not 41 or 43 a nice round 40.

Like you said everyone has their age limit, but for me its a guide not a given.

Maybe i should do as some do and lie about my age? "

No, you should click the button that says that you meet their age preferences too. That way you will only see people who are looking to meet people your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's that common on here to have age limits ending at 40. Lots of other guys come on and have posts about how they are too young for fab.

And if you lie about your age then it will be evident from your pics and in person anyway. We've experienced this. Would you really want it to come to that?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I better make the most of my last 2 years then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our age preferences aren't set in stone... if we bumped into a 52 yr old who we both really liked then we'd pursue them.

We really wouldn't go much lower that 22 though - I'd feel like a cradle snatcher lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Fifty guess it's time to shoot myself then .....bye all xx click bang !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm Fifty guess it's time to shoot myself then .....bye all xx click bang ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm Fifty guess it's time to shoot myself then .....bye all xx click bang !

"

No persons were harmed in last post it was for dramatic enhancement only ( cert 15)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I'm 61 ...... Got another bullet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread has taken an interesting turn

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I'm 61 ...... Got another bullet ? "

61 ???? How dare you be alive ! X X X lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread has taken an interesting turn

-Courtney"

Apologies warped English sense of humour lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If life starts at 40 they must had a boring life lol. My age range is from 18 to 97

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WE ONLY ACCEPT OVER AGED 40

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By *rvoyuerMan
over a year ago

Luton


"life starts at 33 in my limits. Although I'm thinking of upping that! I like me gilfs..... my 3 fuck buddies are above most fems limits. Not that I complain. More for me!!!!! "

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By *rvoyuerMan
over a year ago

Luton


"WE ONLY ACCEPT OVER AGED 40 "

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I don't notice that the age limits are always the same when browsing because unless I'm looking due to a forum post I choose only to look at those that include my age which is a lot older than you

If i do a local search it brings up a list(i don't include those that block single guys) so i look through the listand click on someone, but it they have a limit it is can be 40, not 41 or 43 a nice round 40.

Like you said everyone has their age limit, but for me its a guide not a given.

Maybe i should do as some do and lie about my age?

When we do a search we tick the box that say "I match their age requirements" no looking at champagne with only brown ale money .

"

This is a wise move that should put a halt to the OP's fretting about age restrictions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm the same age as you and loving it here right now. Loads of people out there that will engage with us middle aged duffers!

Keep positive, target your search and you'll be fine! Good luck fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and by the way your age preference excludes me.......I'm not moaning either but i do accept that almost everybody will have an upper age limit. "
we just had a look at your profile, those who have you excluded are really missing out...... amazing figure.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Browsing the profiles as usual and it seems always the same limits on age...I'm not moaning as I've met (and continue to meet) some fabulous people on here.

So come on sexy people don't forget us not quite over the hill billys!

Happy days! "

he who hath "age preference" of his own is in no position to be doing the old "glass houses" thing about other people's......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer guys over 40

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By *reasyontheeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

out in the sticks

But it is a range around my age. And not set at 40 like a range of 30 somethings set.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oh and by the way your age preference excludes me.......I'm not moaning either but i do accept that almost everybody will have an upper age limit. we just had a look at your profile, those who have you excluded are really missing out...... amazing figure."

thank you. Plenty include us so it's no problem .

Ps you look pretty good too x

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"But life ends at 56 according to your age preferences...

Everyone has the right to choose what works for them.

Happy fabbing!

Should i round it to 55? "

Then I'm excluded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to set mine 5 years either side of my age and see if I find anyone who interests me. It's usually a lot lower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exceptions are normally made for when people prefer to do the looking. Wouldn't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and by the way your age preference excludes me.......I'm not moaning either but i do accept that almost everybody will have an upper age limit. "
well we think you are hot hot hot

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oh and by the way your age preference excludes me.......I'm not moaning either but i do accept that almost everybody will have an upper age limit. well we think you are hot hot hot"

Ooo do you, thank you. We think you look great too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I didn't join fab till I was 46

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I didn't join fab till I was 46 "

I was 56 ........ The older they get the worse they get lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and by the way your age preference excludes me.......I'm not moaning either but i do accept that almost everybody will have an upper age limit. "
nicecouple sexiest painter and decorator I've seen x

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I'm Fifty guess it's time to shoot myself then .....bye all xx click bang ! "

Just shoot your load instead mate and if you have a camera take a pic and post it to that one on the heavy cummers thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone has an age limit its their right to say who they like to talk to but once you hit 49 then it hard but i say that life thorwing you a curveball which its a hit or miss in lifes fun.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

55 and doing fine hear thanks.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I have age limits for appearances sake really.

Every profile is taken on merit. I have more of an age lower limit, (although have dated 21 yr old before) because I don't want to appear a predator. I am fully aware that people mature at different speeds and would be happy to meet most age groups on here.

As for upper age...did anyone see Raquel Welch this week. Or Joan Collins for that matter.

But, just as a guideline, my age limits are set. But that is all they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U'm going to expand my upper limit as I think I've even missing out recently!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm gonna up my age limit, it's sitting at 41 right now but I'm loving the older man atm. It's fun seeing the difference in ages and what happens on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were informed yesterday out of the blue by someone who we'd never contacted before saying and I quote " Don't you think you're too old to be swinging " !!! Gobsmacked

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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We noticed when we had both hit 40 the amount of action our profile got did drop off quite a bit but don't really expect to meet here anyway, we do well in the clubs with younger couples, on here your age is just a number and we are all just 2 dimensional, it's the real world that matters and we don't do too bad despite all the things about us that seem to put people on here off x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We were informed yesterday out of the blue by someone who we'd never contacted before saying and I quote " Don't you think you're too old to be swinging " !!! Gobsmacked "

people do make me laugh.

At a bit of a tangent I know but I was at my me breast feeding my six month old daughter when one of her friend said "isn't she a bit old for that!?" I've never understood why people imagine their opinion on what I'm doing is of any interest to me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

That should say I was at my mums. Like should also have said "unsolicited opinions"

I'm clearly too old to be typing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its been said many times, age is but a number - in cases here, I think the OP does have a point that age can be a barrier - but I would equally say to the OP, just ignore it and carry o as you are, you be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't start this untill I was 59. Age is just a number, we have had dozens of younger people message us, and every meet we've had are from younger people than me. Must be just a hot swinging granny lol

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