FabSwingers.com forum: People claiming they've met me?

By *rettyLittleThing OP Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

Just a bit of a whinge really as I don't get it..

I am finding it a little bit weird that I get the occasional message where guys claim we've talked previously or via text (I am incredibly careful who I give my number out to and have a fairly good memory with these things).

Or that I've met them and they're quite insistent on this (Had one go as far to give me a "late" verification claiming our pics came out well when it was another guy I'd met) but still, why?!

All it gets them is a block maybe 5 minutes of attention, plus ruining anything that might happen cause they can't believe it would work surely? Am I the only one ?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

It was great that time that we met you though, in the hot air balloon in Mexico, remember that?

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By *rettyLittleThing OP Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

"It was great that time that we met you though, in the hot air balloon in Mexico, remember that? "

Lol made me chuckle.. Unfortunately that night in Mexico has escaped me (damn tequila

).. but I wish I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forget guys who i've met, but lets ignore that a minute, lol.

I do get guys acting like they've chatted with e but i know for a fact they haven't so i ignore those guys, let them talk to themselves. I think it's a scam to lure you into chatting with them.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"It was great that time that we met you though, in the hot air balloon in Mexico, remember that?

Lol made me chuckle.. Unfortunately that night in Mexico has escaped me (damn tequila

).. but I wish I did

You told us that you would remember it forever

Maybe we'll have to visit you in Cardiff to refresh your memory?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope we've had this including today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was great that time that we met you though, in the hot air balloon in Mexico, remember that?

Lol made me chuckle.. Unfortunately that night in Mexico has escaped me (damn tequila

).. but I wish I did

You told us that you would remember it forever

Maybe we'll have to visit you in Cardiff to refresh your memory?

Your memory is worse than mine. I was in that balloon in mexico, not you.

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By *rettyLittleThing OP Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

"I forget guys who i've met, but lets ignore that a minute, lol.

I do get guys acting like they've chatted with e but i know for a fact they haven't so i ignore those guys, let them talk to themselves. I think it's a scam to lure you into chatting with them."

The memorable ones are worth remembering ahem...

Yes it's what you've said, it's almost just to get you talking and some sort of attention I guess.

It just gets a little bit weird when they try claiming things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had this a couple of times; asked one guy why and he said 'it's just an icebreaker'..no, it really isn't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I forget guys who i've met, but lets ignore that a minute, lol.

I do get guys acting like they've chatted with e but i know for a fact they haven't so i ignore those guys, let them talk to themselves. I think it's a scam to lure you into chatting with them.

The memorable ones are worth remembering ahem...

Yes it's what you've said, it's almost just to get you talking and some sort of attention I guess.

It just gets a little bit weird when they try claiming things"

Some people will say anything if they think it'll get them a fuck.

That's why i ignore them, i'm not as stupid as what they think i am.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"ive had this a couple of times; asked one guy why and he said 'it's just an icebreaker'..no, it really isn't!"

about as successful as the Titanic?

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By *rettyLittleThing OP Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

"It was great that time that we met you though, in the hot air balloon in Mexico, remember that?

Lol made me chuckle.. Unfortunately that night in Mexico has escaped me (damn tequila

).. but I wish I did

You told us that you would remember it forever

Maybe we'll have to visit you in Cardiff to refresh your memory?

Your memory is worse than mine. I was in that balloon in mexico, not you.

When in doubt I blame tequila.. maybe they pushed me out and took on a new passenger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was great that time that we met you though, in the hot air balloon in Mexico, remember that?

Lol made me chuckle.. Unfortunately that night in Mexico has escaped me (damn tequila

).. but I wish I did

You told us that you would remember it forever

Maybe we'll have to visit you in Cardiff to refresh your memory?

Your memory is worse than mine. I was in that balloon in mexico, not you.

When in doubt I blame tequila.. maybe they pushed me out and took on a new passenger

Lol. Dunno, my memory is fading.

Hope no guys PM me to say we've chatted previously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol,,yea I had one guy insisting im an escort n he'd met me before.

fucking nutter

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By *rettyLittleThing OP Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

"lol,,yea I had one guy insisting im an escort n he'd met me before.

fucking nutter"

See that's not nice especially if you don't actually do that.

I've had that quite recently actually, and then they start getting really rude asking what's the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had multiple people 'forget' my Skype

impressive considering I've never used it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Twattish men who deserve a block.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Just a bit of a whinge really as I don't get it..

Very odd behaviour - I have not encountered this myself.

Or that I've met them and they're quite insistent on this (Had one go as far to give me a "late" verification claiming our pics came out well when it was another guy I'd met) but still, why?!

All it gets them is a block maybe 5 minutes of attention, plus ruining anything that might happen cause they can't believe it would work surely? Am I the only one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a bit of a whinge really as I don't get it..

Or that I've met them and they're quite insistent on this (Had one go as far to give me a "late" verification claiming our pics came out well when it was another guy I'd met) but still, why?!

All it gets them is a block maybe 5 minutes of attention, plus ruining anything that might happen cause they can't believe it would work surely? Am I the only one ?

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very strange not came across that before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes OP, those messages crop up a lot and are both perplexing and annoying.

It's when I'm in a chat room and someone starts saying either that we've met or have some sort of meet agreed that I get particularly weirded out. Usually politely suggest they must have me confused with someone else and, if they persist, clearly call them on being deluded or an outright liar.

Nowt so queer as folks.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

Nowt so queer as folks.

Particularly amongst the population on Fab ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my email account is full of 'hi, it's me again' messages from Russian dating sites. Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was great that time that we met you though, in the hot air balloon in Mexico, remember that?

Lol made me chuckle.. Unfortunately that night in Mexico has escaped me (damn tequila

).. but I wish I did

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you should remember it well. I was flying the ballion and you were all having a good time. But it was champagne not tequila

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a game of chance, you know the old saying, ask 100 girls for a shag, you'll probably get 99 slaps in the face and 1 good time.

They do it for the same reason you get emails from the son of a Nigerian Prime Minister with $100,000,000 and no bank account to hide it in.

There must be mugs out there who occasionally fall for it, otherwise they wouldn't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a game of chance, you know the old saying, ask 100 girls for a shag, you'll probably get 99 slaps in the face and 1 good time.

They do it for the same reason you get emails from the son of a Nigerian Prime Minister with $100,000,000 and no bank account to hide it in.

There must be mugs out there who occasionally fall for it, otherwise they wouldn't do it.

Exactly. It's why people do blatant 'look at me' threads. Most people generally mock them and take the piss BUT if only one hot date comes out of it - job done surely?

As you say, it's all a numbers game!

Any advertising campaign expects a very small uptake - it's all about getting the awareness and attention out there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this a lot but unfortunately they always get abusive when you say they are mistaken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well my email account is full of 'hi, it's me again' messages from Russian dating sites. Does that count?"

Haha I get loads about penis enlargement! I've had to block my mums emails now! Lol

Joking before anyone says I'm sick and twisted!

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By *rettyLittleThing OP Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

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By *rettyLittleThing OP Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

"It's a game of chance, you know the old saying, ask 100 girls for a shag, you'll probably get 99 slaps in the face and 1 good time.

They do it for the same reason you get emails from the son of a Nigerian Prime Minister with $100,000,000 and no bank account to hide it in.

There must be mugs out there who occasionally fall for it, otherwise they wouldn't do it.

I get that but I still can't believe someone would fall for it, as soon as you see a face picture you'd know surely?

Unless on the off chance it's someone who goes to clubs/greedy girls nights and meets quite regularly and the person is aware of this, I really don't know how you could ever be fooled by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well my email account is full of 'hi, it's me again' messages from Russian dating sites. Does that count?"

Mine too, strange as they all want me as their husband..hmm bit difficult that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I get this too. And get asked to very them, when I know I've not met them.

They give days and times, that I know I would not have met them. I have to arrange baby sitters ect, so I know when I have played ect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a game of chance, you know the old saying, ask 100 girls for a shag, you'll probably get 99 slaps in the face and 1 good time.

They do it for the same reason you get emails from the son of a Nigerian Prime Minister with $100,000,000 and no bank account to hide it in.

There must be mugs out there who occasionally fall for it, otherwise they wouldn't do it.

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you're probably right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What gets me is when we have exchange 2 or 3 messages then they message 2 months later and expect to remember anything about them. Sorry lads! They would have to be very unique messages...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol,,yea I had one guy insisting im an escort n he'd met me before.

fucking nutter

See that's not nice especially if you don't actually do that.

I've had that quite recently actually, and then they start getting really rude asking what's the difference."

yea unreal innit,block,block,block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get this a lot , and we say we have no recollection of meeting them .

It's a bit embarrassing when they point out the date we met , as there are mutual veri's exchanged for the said meet ....

Oh well , being the sluts we are it's bound to happen now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had this, where a guy insisted I was his brothers ex and then went on to tell me very personal details about her in order to prove he knew who I was.. Dangerous game to play with strangers people need to be more careful..

Anyyywaaaay, serious face off, I've had a couple of others pretend that we've spoken before in a bid to get my phone number etc, do they really think people are that gullible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What gets me is when we have exchange 2 or 3 messages then they message 2 months later and expect to remember anything about them. Sorry lads! They would have to be very unique messages..."

This always makes me laugh I purposefully point out that I dont remember them

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have such a bad memory.

I write notes in everyone's profile I've spoken to so that when they message me pulling a fast one I know exactly what's been said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What gets me is when we have exchange 2 or 3 messages then they message 2 months later and expect to remember anything about them. Sorry lads! They would have to be very unique messages...

This always makes me laugh I purposefully point out that I dont remember them

It stresses me out they are never pleased when I said I don't remember you. You can immediately hear flying toys

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

We have had people claim they know us or have met, every time it's been bullshit to try and engage in conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a club recently and met 2 female friends there. When they arrived 3 single males rushed to their car, claiming one had recommended the club to them and that they couldn't get in as there were too many single males in, so wanted to go in with them. She told them she had never spoken with them and would not go in with them, they protested with her and didn't leave her be until she was at the club entrance!

I was used to it through messages, but outside a club!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awk. It's just you women folk forgetting things. I took KimiKarcher out for a day tobogganing and she has no clue... and the fondue was lovely as well!

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By *rant4Man
over a year ago

South Wales & London

Remember me ?? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a memory like a sieve but I remember who I've met....most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What gets me is when we have exchange 2 or 3 messages then they message 2 months later and expect to remember anything about them. Sorry lads! They would have to be very unique messages...

This always makes me laugh I purposefully point out that I dont remember them

It stresses me out they are never pleased when I said I don't remember you. You can immediately hear flying toys

well if they're going to play childish games they better be prepared to meet a better player, if they continue to bother me I block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awk. It's just you women folk forgetting things. I took KimiKarcher out for a day tobogganing and she has no clue... and the fondue was lovely as well!

I went tubing in April, I remember that. Guess I must have sniffed the fabric that you had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awk. It's just you women folk forgetting things. I took KimiKarcher out for a day tobogganing and she has no clue... and the fondue was lovely as well!

I remember the fondue set caught fire and we had to throw it over a cliff to stop the toboggan catching fire.

Seems your memory isn't as good as you'd like to think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I forget guys who i've met, but lets ignore that a minute, lol.

I do get guys acting like they've chatted with e but i know for a fact they haven't so i ignore those guys, let them talk to themselves. I think it's a scam to lure you into chatting with them.

The memorable ones are worth remembering ahem...

Yes it's what you've said, it's almost just to get you talking and some sort of attention I guess.

It just gets a little bit weird when they try claiming things

Some people will say anything if they think it'll get them a fuck.

That's why i ignore them, i'm not as stupid as what they think i am."

Really? I just thought you had to say.. "Yes of course I love you" ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I forget guys who i've met, but lets ignore that a minute, lol.

I do get guys acting like they've chatted with me but i know for a fact they haven't so i ignore those guys, let them talk to themselves. I think it's a scam to lure you into chatting with them.

The memorable ones are worth remembering ahem...

Yes it's what you've said, it's almost just to get you talking and some sort of attention I guess.

It just gets a little bit weird when they try claiming things

Some people will say anything if they think it'll get them a fuck.

That's why i ignore them, i'm not as stupid as what they think i am.

Really? I just thought you had to say.. "Yes of course I love you" ..."

I know you do, yes i will marry you thanks.

So sex it is then?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Yes it's just a line....even had the same guy message the same thing twice a few weeks apart, that he knew me outside of fab, really not sure why they think this would anything other than plain weird.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It happens. Along with the whole 'we spoke a while back' line. I suppose it's an attempt to intrigue into a conversation but I find it slightly creepy even though I understand the reasoning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a bit of a whinge really as I don't get it..

Or that I've met them and they're quite insistent on this (Had one go as far to give me a "late" verification claiming our pics came out well when it was another guy I'd met) but still, why?!

All it gets them is a block maybe 5 minutes of attention, plus ruining anything that might happen cause they can't believe it would work surely? Am I the only one ?

I can honestly say I've never met you! I've not spoken, text, morse coded? (If that's what it's called) or conversed in any other way. Hope that clears that up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met all he hot ladies in this thread...mostly in their dreams..

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Guess I didnt make much of an impression...

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