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By *ickeyandmouse OP Couple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

What do you do as a couple arranging to meet another couple if the other lady expects my hubby to sext her constantly but nothing is coming back from her man to me!

I feel like a spare part at a wedding!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could suggest group chat on skype ?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Don't go ahead as she will want to be the centre of attention at the meet and you may well feel like a spare part then too. I can't stand women for whom its all about them .... but that's just me .... I like to blend into the background as I get enough attention in my normal life.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"What do you do as a couple arranging to meet another couple if the other lady expects my hubby to sext her constantly but nothing is coming back from her man to me!

I feel like a spare part at a wedding!!"

Have you sent him anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a group chat on watsapp ?

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By *ickeyandmouse OP Couple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

Even her hubby said this is her number she likes you to text her! But when I said this is my number he won't text me!

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By *ickeyandmouse OP Couple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

Yes I have texted him a few times! Talked about the weather lol!

He has never instigated a text conversation with me!

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Maybe he's not into you

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By *ickeyandmouse OP Couple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

That is my worry so how will the evening pan out as a foursome ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd expect all four to like each other. Unlikely I guess but that's my ideal.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Honestly, this would be a massive red flag for me.

I'd suggest to them they may feel more at ease with a single man, as you feel like a spare part...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If he can't be bothered to send a few texts I am wondering what effort he'll put in during the meet. Sounds like he's not that bothered.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

More than happy for you to text me! And, I promise to reply.

No available on application

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By *ickeyandmouse OP Couple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

I believe they are more used to mmf!

So if I am not made to feel desirable then it's a no from me!!

Hubby totally supportive!

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Felt the same but the otherway round -mr

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I don't do sexting or dirty messages. I find these people rarely meet in my experience.

But in the past when a woman is constantly mailing my husband on here and ignoring me and getting no messages from her hubby it stopped then and there. It is a 2 way thing or nothing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't go ahead with the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with what ur gut feeling is saying

Honestly think you already know the ans

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By *ickeyandmouse OP Couple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

Thank you guys! You have just validated my feelings!

It's a no from me!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thank you guys! You have just validated my feelings!

It's a no from me!!"

When it comes to swinging don't wait for your feelings to be validated, if it feels wrong say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other couple verified ?

My oh so cynical mind is wondering if it's another guy getting off on ur hubbies texts

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Thank you guys! You have just validated my feelings!

It's a no from me!!

When it comes to swinging don't wait for your feelings to be validated, if it feels wrong say no."

Gut feeling is your best defence on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is my worry so how will the evening pan out as a foursome ?"
sexting isn't for everyone but sex is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you be honest with him and ask how they see the meet going?

We tend to group chat on kik with couples as I (fem) in the past have the male half constantly messaging me and asking for pics etc. With no more than an occasional mention of his wife or my husband! I always end the chatting and say no to meeting when thats the case xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe they are more used to mmf!

So if I am not made to feel desirable then it's a no from me!!

Hubby totally supportive!"

glad hubby is supportive. say no and find fun elsewhere. good luck xx

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"That is my worry so how will the evening pan out as a foursome ?sexting isn't for everyone but sex is

This. I'm shit at sexting, and also like to keep pre-meet contact to just the amount needed to give confidence that I will actually be there. I'd be disappointed if I was then cancelled on for effectively not over-promising!

That said,if they're primarily into mmf, that might be more of an issue.

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